Where Did Everybody Go?: Why We're Lonely but Not Alone

by Don Martin

In the bestselling tradition of Mary Roach and A.J. Jacobs comes a fresh and powerful deep dive on loneliness, illuminating the complexity of this misunderstood social phenomenon and why people need people.

According to a report by the US Surgeon General in 2023, one out of every two American adults are lonely. Author and podcaster Don Martin was one of them: in 2020, as the COVID pandemic raged and Don’s once-vibrant social life was reduced to Zoom calls and Animal Crossing, he realized that lockdown did not create these feelings—they just amplified them until they could not be ignored. He how did we get here? What exactly is loneliness, anyway? How is it measured, and how is it useful to us as a species?

Blending thorough research with humor and personal insight from his own experience, Don takes listeners on a loneliness deep dive, all the way from the conception of the term itself in the 1800s through the death of the American mall and rise of social media, which is too often blamed as the root cause of a centuries-old problem. Along the way, he talks to everyone from prominent researchers in the space to historians, city planners, and other writers and creatives working through this ever-evolving topic from unique angles. You’ll learn about how loneliness affects different age groups and communities, the history and future of third places, the ways loneliness can deteriorate your physical health, and how everything from capitalism to the placement of garages in modern home construction ultimately impact our social bonds. Don leaves listeners with an action plan, sharing insights on how we can build a more connected future for ourselves and our neighbors.

Fascinating, witty, and ultimately hopeful, Where Did Everybody Go? is perfect for fans of Mary Roach and Jennie Allen.

Genres: Audiobook

Audible Audio

Published November 4, 2025

Reviews

[Jan Agaton · Rating 4 out of 5]

I could listen to Don Martin read audiobooks all day every day

[Lottie Smalley · Rating 4 out of 5]

an engaging deep dive into loneliness 💭 equal parts research & reflection. and such a wonderful narrator/author! so animated, genuine, and lively 🎧 I loved how he wove in humor & personal anecdotes. it made the material feel surprisingly connective (which feels so fitting for a book about loneliness)!

it’s well researched but still totally approachable. a lot of the insights were things I kinda already knew on some level, but I appreciated the way he reframed them and reminded me of their importance. it never dragged or felt too heavy, and I came away with a renewed sense of how much community & connection matter 🤍

thank you to libro fm for the early access copy of the audiobook!

[heather | booksbyheath · Rating 3 out of 5]

Mid, nothing i didn’t already know

[Carolyn · Rating 5 out of 5]

This was the first nonfiction book I have listened to. I wasn't sure if I would enjoy it as I'm not much of a nonfiction reader, but I was pleasantly surprised by this book! It explored every aspect of loneliness: why it occurs, what is worsening it, and how to listen to it and reach out for connection.

I also liked how I didn't walk away from my listening sessions feeling lonely or depressed. Instead, I felt hopeful and interested to find out more. There was also humor woven into every chapter, which I really appreciated as the author and I share a VERY similar sense of humor. The last chapter was a call to action that actually felt plausible to follow.

The cherry on top was the fact that the narrator (who is also the author) did a PHENOMENAL job! His inflections made it such an enjoyable audiobook, I don't think I would have enjoyed it as much if I had read it. Like seriously.... Don Martin, if you're reading this: please narrate more books!

Thank you NetGalley, Simon & Schuster Audio, and Don Martin for the eARC to honestly review.

[Lisa Lajmo · Rating 5 out of 5]

⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

In a world more connected than ever, why do we feel so alone? This is the question the author tries to answer in this essay.

The first part of this essay talks about COVID-19 and basically how we have become further apart from people replacing “water cooler talk” with online chats, texts, dm, sending memes or tik tok videos. He describes this as “Distant closeness” and I think it really hits home for most people. He goes on to say that, “We cannot even agree on what is actually happening in the world due to our fractured-state. We have turned into algorithm driven islands.” Although, loneliness is not due to the pandemic or social media as many people would claim, but this isn’t true.

Young people have always been lonely- researcher have shown that one reason why this has been increasing is that people are getting married later in life. Loneliness is not greater in men, it’s just that women respond differently to loneliness and treated differently in regard to talking about being lonely.

This also has a large section of “third places.” For xennials (like me) our third place would be the mall! We could be there and just hang out. We didn’t have to buy something to be there. The elimination of third places could be partially guilty for increased loneliness. Organic, voluntary places where there is no hierarchy within. The main function is communication.

One of the most important things I think the author discusses in this book is that while social media and the internet might have a (small) part to play in why there has been an increase in reported loneliness, it is important to remember that every “new technology” has been blamed for this same thing in the past: cars- instead of staying home with neighbors, people would drive away from our communities; television- everyone is inside watching tv instead of with neighbors; telegraph and telephone- instead of going to see our loved ones, we would simply pick up the phone; air conditioning and central heat- when the weather wasn’t ideal, people would stay indoors instead of commune in third places like stoops or porches or parks.

This book goes on for chapters, but these are the two I appreciated the most. I will definitely purchase a copy of this when it becomes available so I can annotate it. Overall, a wonderfully written concise, thought provoking essay on maybe we are not as lonely as we thought or maybe loneliness is a good thing- a pause in our lives to help us transition to our next “era.”

Thank you to NetGalley and Simon & Schuster Audio for allowing me to listen to an advanced reader copy to share my humble thoughts and opinions.

[Lauren D'Souza · Rating 4 out of 5]

3.5 rounded up. I really enjoyed this book - it felt like a fun, abridged, updated, Reader's Digest version of Bowling Alone: The Collapse and Revival of American Community, told by a smart and educated gay podcast host who's good at making complex research and emotional topics accessible.

He covers the topics you'd think of when it comes to the modern loneliness epidemic: third spaces, social media, COVID, toxic masculinity, etc., but also brings in other fascinating issues: the unique problem of loneliness for marginalized communities like Black men and LGBTQ groups and how barbershops and clubs have historically been safe spaces for those communities; how redlining, xenophobia, and geographical segregation has contributed to the decline of third spaces; how social media isn't as much of a driver of loneliness as the media would have you believe; and the physiological impacts of isolation on your brain and body.

The tone of the book was friendly, funny, and engaging all the way through - he didn't dive deeply into any one topic, but presented enough information to get you thinking, start conversations, and give you resources to learn more if you're so interested. He also concluded the book with a handy set of tools on what to do about the problem of loneliness, which I always love! He covers macro solutions like voting for zoning board members who support multi-use zoning or advocating for better data and solutions for community spaces serving marginalized groups to micro-solutions like sitting on your porch and befriending your neighbors or bringing up loneliness in your regular physicals with your doctor. Overall, an easy, fast, and compelling read on a topic we've certainly all thought about!

[Kathryn S (Metaphors and Miscellanea) · Rating 4 out of 5]

More like a 3.5/5, but rounded up because it's an important topic and Don's narration is lively and genuine. (Some might find it cheesy/overdone, but I thought it was endearing.) As far as substance, it was an interesting survey of research, but still seemed to focus on specific types of areas (especially suburbs) and types of people and was quite US-centric (I would have loved some comparisons to other countries for further perspectives!). I think it also could have afforded to dig in deeper to some of the other underpinnings of loneliness--while it did a good job teasing apart causation from correlation (for instance, screens aren't necessarily a cause of loneliness, and can actually combat it in some ways), it only looked at a few potential causes, with an emphasis on things like third places.

Basically, this would have been better if it was a little longer, but for a book so bite-sized, it did a decent job covering an important and under-analyzed topic.

Thanks to Libro.fm for the ALC!

[Cassie C · Rating 5 out of 5]

A quick and easy read to get a better understanding of what loneliness is, what’s driving the rise of loneliness, and how to help make things better. Don Martin does a great job at making this an approachable and fun read. It’s short, it’s concise, it’s got funny little asides, and his narration of the audiobook is incredibly engaging. A lot of the material covered here is pretty intuitive, but I do appreciate how he addresses some of the common myths and misconceptions that people still have around loneliness. Having just listening to Bowling Alone, I was familiar with a decent amount of what Don Martin includes here, but this was much more engaging and a lot easier and faster to get through. I especially appreciated the quick action steps that are included to try to mitigate some of the very serious effects of loneliness.
Many thanks to NetGalley and Don Martin for the opportunity to listen to this audiobook ahead of time. I’m happy to leave this honest review.

[booksonthefloor · Rating 5 out of 5]

I have a really vivid memory of last year. I was reading the Brightfalls series by Ashley Herring Blake (one of my favorite book series of all time). In every book, there was a great love story, but there was also always a third act break up. And in that third act, which is a trope I normally roll my eyes at, something really special happened: the friends flooded in. Not just one friend who had a meaningful heart-to-heart, but a group of friends who dropped everything and INVADED the FMC's house to make whatever had gone on... right. They poured over job listings, brought over pizza and watched a movie on the FMC's bed, painted the FMC's apartment... they planned the grand romantic gesture to get the love-interest, they went out to a bar... They. Showed. UP.

It was in reading these books, that I realized how badly I wanted that. How I had had that in college and never since and how badly I missed it. And after (an admittedly tearful conversation) with my mother, I actively set out to get it. I have spent 2025 actively, at times obnoxiously, telling my people I love them. Making sure they know that I would show up with pizza and a movie for them and asking of them the same. It has been the best friendship year of my life.

One overarching theme in my year has been the number of people who have shared with me that they are also lonely. These smart, funny, kind women who I am so unbelievably lucky to call my friends have confided in me their own feelings of isolation, of insecurity, of not feeling they have people. It was not just a "me" problem; it IS an US problem (and I mean that... societally).

All this to say that Don Martin's new audiobook hit incredibly close to home and is so worth the read. I got this as a Netgalley ALC, but halfway through, just bought it outright. I will listen to it again and again to get ideas, to hear the research, and to remind myself how important connection is.

[Sharada Mohan · Rating 4 out of 5]

💚Hearty narration coupled with deep research makes this audiobook an enjoyable yet informative listen.

Thanks @simon.audio via @librofm for the access to this ALC!

💙 The world is better connected than ever before. Yet, research shows loneliness is at its highest, especially in the post Covid times.

💚 Where Did Everybody Go? sheds light on the loneliness epidemic that seems to be gripping our ever shrinking world with a focus on the difference between “being alone” & “feeling lonely” .

💙 Narrated by Don Martin himself, who brings warmth, humor, and heart to every line. I loved hearing his reflections on what inspired the book & the motivation behind diving so deeply into the subject of loneliness.

💚 Though the topic involves plenty of facts, figures, and research, Don keeps it engaging throughout, blending insights with witty jokes & casual banter that make you chuckle and nod in recognition.

💙 The book explores loneliness across all ages, races, and backgrounds — reflecting on how social media, the loss of “third spaces,” and recent global events have weakened our social connections.

💚 It unpacks the fine line between solitude and loneliness — showing how choosing to be alone for “me time” differs from feeling lonely.

💙 It also offers simple yet powerful ways to build meaningful connections, have deeper conversations with those who matter, and overcome the fear of reaching out to new people to expand your social circle.

💚 I particularly appreciated the idea of “in-people” & “out-people” in our lives & how loneliness can affect introverts & extroverts alike.

💙 What’s more — every idea the book emphasizes is backed by solid research and proven to help ease the physical and psychological effects of loneliness.

💚 Insightful, research-backed, and deeply human, this audiobook might just change how you think about loneliness. It reminds us that connection is a choice we can keep making, one conversation at a time.

[JessQueen · Rating 5 out of 5]

Where Did Everybody Go? By Don Martin

Thanks to the ALC program by @librofm I had the amazing opportunity to connect with Martin’s writing and enjoy tremendous work. It had a deep impact on me and I truly appreciate his wit and wisdom.

Where Did Everybody Go is not only a book that deals with loneliness but also with the multiple root causes for this epidemic to take place.

Every chapter, a gem that will lead you to go over your way of connecting with others, the places you visit and what are your main motivations to have meaningful relationships.

It is impossible not to go back in time and try to spot when and why people started feeling lonely. It is impossible not to try to make sense to the fragile relationships we hold on to nowadays. Do we still have the same needs? What went wrong?

The notion of third places disappearing from our lives creates even a greater sense of isolation, as this were chosen places. Safe places. A place to go and stay and share where you could be exactly who you were.

However, I must admit that Martin’s notion of the internet or active online presence may actually be our new third place. As no one questions our identity, our preferences or lifestyles.

Take it to the bookish community. We have all created a safe space to share what we read, connect with other readers and authors and share quality time interacting in chat groups, book clubs or even zoom meetings.

If there’s is something I’ll keep from this book is that it got me thinking and sharing with colleagues and friends different theories and ideas about how we experience loneliness, friendship and what we call true connection.

Favorite Funny Quote!
✍🏼”I now have obligation, responsibility and back pain”

I loved it! ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️/5

[KatieinBavaria · Rating 5 out of 5]

⭐️: 4.5

Thank you to NetGalley, Don Martin and Simon & Schuster Audio for gifting me an ALC!

First, Don Martin is an auto-buy author for me. I’ve been following him on social media for years and always find his content intriguing, entertaining and educational. So when I heard he was writing a book about the loneliness epidemic, I was incredibly curious as to what he would find. (As a note, I am not talking about the fictional “male loneliness epidemic” that is purely made up due to men not taking the time to be decent human beings and rising to meet the already incredibly low bar…but I digress.)

The book is laid out similar to a research paper which itched a part of my brain in a very nice way. It starts with a thesis statement, followed by existing research & data, calls to action and then a well tied up conclusion. While that may sound like it could be dry to consume, Don sprinkles magic in through out with his witty commentary and easy to follow connections.

I would highly suggest doing this as an immersive read because the audio book is lovely (Don narrates it himself and his inflections/tone really makes the information more engaging) but I would have liked to see the facts/figures in front of me to fully retain then information. But I’m a visual learner so that’s just my experience.

The book is well researched and pulls from a variety of historical to modern sources. I loved his exploration of third places, what defines them according to previous researchers and how they have evolved (or disappeared completely) over time.

All in all, this is an informative, engaging, pretty quick read with lots of calls to action that I highly recommend.

[Sharon Corner · Rating 3 out of 5]

Before COVID shut down our world, people went out, had big weekend plans, parties, meeting up after work, big weddings, bigger birthday parties...and then suddenly, we weren't able to leave our home, everything was cancelled. And once the world was open, it was still with caution, and 5 years later, we still aren't back to the way we were.
Don Martin realized that during COVID, he was lonely, and that even before COVID, he was lonely. So he explores the cause and what one needs to do not to be lonely. Kids used to meet in the mall, hang out with friends, laugh, and eat at the food court. Kids played outside and in the school yard. But malls closed, computer games ruled, and social media was blamed for people becoming loners. He explored how loneliness affected different age groups, how it affects physical health and personal growth.
Don then goes on to talk about having a 'third place,' a safe place to go where people know who you are, and you can go and relax. Sort of like the TV show "Cheers," where everyone knows your name. He challenges people to sit on the porch and wave to neighbors, and talk to the barista at the local coffee shop. In the end, you are left with an action plan for your future.
I listened to the audiobook, which was read by the author, and he did a good job. It is a little dry; it's just him talking, no action, no drama, more like a college lecture on how to improve your life. I could actually see this as a must-read in a college course.

[Edge · Rating 5 out of 5]

Thank you to NetGalley, Don Martin and Simon & Schuster Audio for gifting me an ALC!

I’ve been following him on social media for years and his content is always smart and funny and relatable so when I saw his book available on NetGalley I had to try to be selected as a listener. That approval email made my day. Don's social media content is always a combination of entertaining and educational and I had no doubt that a book about the loneliness epidemic, written by him, would be a mixture of both and I was not disappointed.

When I say this I mean it as a compliment -- Listening to this book was like listening to my grad school friends give presentations on their thesis topics. It was well researched and full of data but presented in an approachable way, especially listening to it as it is read by the author himself and he's a delight to listen to.

Don doesn't just state facts but each chapter has relatable stories and calls to action that readers (listeners) can do in their own lives. It's also not a long, cumbersome listen full of complex terminology. Sure, there is data presented but it's explained in a way everyone can understand and may enjoy.

I highly recommend this book, especially listening to this book, even if you don't feel like you're lonely or that you can't relate. It may open your eyes to a few things you hadn't even thought about.

[Jenna · Rating 4 out of 5]

Am I lonely?.. not really but I guess maybe sometimes...
That's where my head was when I dove into this book. I came away with a deeper understanding of what loneliness means to me and a new outlook on what building a broader community might look like for me.

Don shares a fresh perspective on what loneliness, community, third spaces, and social connection mean in 2025. I really enjoyed the way he presented significant data/studies (with accessible language and a dash of humor) and that he shared practical tips for the reader to grow personally and within their greater community. I think that this book is a great tool to help people both understand and lean back into authentic connections with others.

Overall, I found this non-fiction read to be insightful and engaging. It got me thinking about how to put myself out there and forge new connections. While I can honestly answer that I'm not often lonely, Don touched on an area of connection that I didn't recognize as something I craved (missed?) until he spoke on it (for me, that's the concept of a third space). This is an excellent book from a brilliant mind, and I definitely recommend it!

Big thanks to the publisher Simon & Schuster Audio, Don Martin, and Netgalley for the ALC of this audiobook! 💖

[Mackenzie W · Rating 4 out of 5]

If someone had asked me about the growing problem of isolation, I would have confidently pointed to the pandemic and social media as the main culprits. This audiobook completely challenged and reframed that assumption. The book convincingly argues that the "loneliness epidemic" is not a sudden affliction but a deep, long-term systemic issue with far more contributing factors than just our recent digital lives.

The author takes a deep dive into the shifting definitions of loneliness, the vital role of community structures and third spaces, and the impact of systemic barriers like discrimination and economic disadvantage on personal connection. I particularly appreciated that the author doesn't just present the problem; the final chapters offer actionable next steps for engaging more deeply within our existing spaces and consciously rebuilding stronger connections.

Don Martin elevates the audio experience with his fantastic narration (Don, can you please narrarate more audiobooks??). His engaging tone, inflection, and well-timed humorous asides and personal anecdotes make the material both relatable and memorable.

Thank you to Simon & Schuster for providing an ALC for review. All opinions are my own.

[Becky • bookmarked by becky · Rating 5 out of 5]

“According to a report by the US Surgeon General in 2023, one out of every two American adults are lonely.”

We tend to think loneliness is a new issue caused by the pandemic or social media — but as Martin explains, the rise in loneliness started long before the internet.

He explores loneliness from every angle: how it shows up, why it happens, and what we can actually do about it.

One section I especially loved was his deep dive into third places — those community hubs outside home and work. Examples of a Third Place: If you’re “old” like me, think Cheers (“where everybody knows your name”), or if you were a 90s teen, the mall. My daughter studies community development and design, so I knew some of this already, but Martin does an excellent job explaining the history, importance, and evolution of third places.

He concludes with a thoughtful call to action, offering practical suggestions for both big and small ways we can combat loneliness in our own lives and communities. I really appreciated this part — so many books explain the problem without offering solutions.

🎧Narration Note: Incredible!
Don Martin narrates his own book, making the science approachable, engaging, and even funny. His personal stories make it feel like he’s simply chatting with you.

Final Verdict: 👍 Informative. Funny. Thought-provoking. A personal call to action. Great food for thought — and a perfect conversation starter.

[laurie · Rating 4 out of 5]

Loneliness and the attendant need for community -- for every reason from it gets jobs done faster to you're honestly statistically way less likely to get terminally ill or kill yourself if you're not constantly alone inside or out -- is a really important topic, and I'm glad he tackled it with some research and stories from real life to back it up. Don is insightful, funny, reflective and smart, and I think he did a great job discussing what are, essentially, the origins of "modern loneliness" at a time when it's at a critical mass -- and elucidating that it's a feature of late capitalism. As a non-academic touchpoint book that gently and humorously informs the reader that "no, you're not crazy, burn those bootstraps, baby, you really do need community, like it or not" it serves a very important purpose in this 2025 hellscape. I hope he continues to delve into the topic -- you could literally talk about it forever (and not just to yourself in the mirror.)

[kylie · Rating 4 out of 5]

I didn't realize I knew of this author prior to downloading until I heard his voice. One Google search later and I was gleeful at having found someone I already consider interesting and engaging. The audiobook is read like slam poetry lite, which felt soothing and warm. (He also kind of sounds like Veneer - ya know, the Betty spaghetti looking doll from Trolls - so much of the time I was picturing a Veneer's TedTalk.)

I listened to the whole thing over the course of an afternoon/evening, and never once was it dry or boring. Martin's commentary is engaging and often funny, and I greatly appreciate the near constant references to completed studies and research. At only 3 1/2 hours, I could've done with even more. 👏

One note: the cover is a bit young looking. I had to double check that I wasn't requesting a book for kids/teens. Would love to see a more mature cover that still holds a bit of the whimsy.

**I received my copy from Netgalley.

[Ashley Gordon · Rating 3 out of 5]

At the beginning of the year I replaced 99% of my podcast listening hours with (mostly fiction) audiobooks, so I was excited to receive this ALC in the same vein as some of my formerly favorite human interest podcast series. There are sociological aspects that are really fascinating, primarily the concept of a “third place,” the informal gathering places outside of work and home where humans interact with one another - like malls, churches, and coffee shops. And then there’s the obvious political/ideological leaning pervasive throughout the entire book that you wouldn’t anticipate by simply reading the Goodreads blurb. I’m not implying that there isn’t merit to studying loneliness through the lens of race, religion, sexual orientation, etc., but it felt like every institution on the left side of the spectrum was romanticized and all on the right were demonized.

Thanks to NetGalley and Simon Audio for the ALC

[Kelly {SpaceOnTheBookcase] · Rating 5 out of 5]

What is loneliness and where does it come from? Those are questions Don Martin attempts to answer in his new release, Where Did Everybody Go? From third places to the dawn of social media, Don takes a practical and personal look into the data and what it shows. The truth? There seems to be an agreement on what loneliness is, but less so on where it comes from. As humans we are speaking less and online more, but does the research show a correlation? Not really. An easy to listen to audiobook that comes in at less than 5 hours, I appreciated that he gave enough information to make you think, but not feel so bogged down that it felt lecture-like. He also made references that inspired me to look deeper---that PA documentary, yay I'm totally watching that today.

Thank you Simon Audio for the gifted ALC.

[Alice · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book was a 5 star for me as an audiobook trying to give us some data behind the loneliness that so many suffer from in our world. The real star is the author who reads the book. He reads it like he is talking to us. I enjoyed that the most. This is also a short book, so I didn't tire of the topic. I definitely heard information that was helpful--as in how important social interaction is. As someone who lives alone and am temporarily not working, this made me more mindful that I make sure I talk to people and have healthy conversations and interactions IRL.
Thank you to #netgalley and #Simon&SchusterAudio for an arc of this audiobook

[Melissa (So Behind) · Rating 4 out of 5]

I was impressed by this non-fiction analysis of loneliness, its potential causes and solutions. Really made me think about my preconceived notions and also to think about ways I do connect with others and might reach out to do so in the future.

I listened to the audiobook narrated by the author, and it's clear that he has done a great deal of research into the studies done about loneliness and what leads to it. I had heard about third spaces/places before, but this book made me think about ways these have disappeared and how even the ones that I have in my life have slowly been pushed aside for other more "urgent" priorities, and how I really need to make space for more community.

I found it so interesting to learn about the history of technology and how ever since the advent of the telegraph, people have been bemoaning about how it will lead to more disconnection. This book led to many discussions in my life about how connection with others has changed even in the very few years it has been since my children were smaller. And those discussions will hopefully lead to more connection. This is a really fascinating read.

I voluntarily reviewed a complimentary copy of this book, all opinions are my own.

[Stephanie · Rating 4 out of 5]

Wouldn’t it be ironic if I listened to this audiobook in one afternoon while hoping my coworkers would leave me alone so I could listen? Well, dear reader, that’s exactly what happened.

This book was funny and informative and very hopeful. I appreciate that it included everything from academic studies to the author’s own experiences.

I listened to the audiobook, which is read by the author, Don Martin, and it was excellent! It felt like he was talking directly to me and he was so funny!

Thank you to NetGalley and to Simon & Schuster Audio for an ALC of this audiobook! This is my honest review.

[Therearenobadbooks · Rating 5 out of 5]

Just finished this book and took 4 full pages of notes. I can't stop recommending it. It will release as an audio on November 4th and feels like an uplifting, inspiring, and educational symposium on LONELINESS, how it affects us, generate, and how to stop seeing it as a villain but start listening to ot to take positive action.

Very well presented, with socially and historically conscious, diverse concerts and inclusiveness. As a Chicago resident, this book helps me rethink my 3rd places.
Don't miss this one, not only inspires us to connect more, to do it right, to build trust and safe places, but also to stop apologizing for things that are healthier to us as individuals, but also as a community too.

Thank you simon audio for the early access to this amazing read/audio

[Esosa · Rating 3 out of 5]

A look at why humans are feeling lonelier than ever, even though we live in a time where we can stay connected with anyone.

Martin pushes back on the myth that technology is the sole reason for this and highlights so many other factors at play. There were definitely a few “hmmm” and nodding moments for me lol, but overall I can’t say I learned anything brand new.

My main takeaway though? Don Martin is hilarious, and I reallyyy enjoy listening to him talk.

[Alee · Rating 5 out of 5]

I really loved this and hope that it will be mandatory reading for counselors/therapists going forward. The writing is engaging, the information presented empathetically and accessibly. Thank you to the publisher, author and Netgalley for the chance to read this one!

[Lil · Rating 5 out of 5]

Genuinely laughed out loud a few times while listening and I'm walking away learning so much

[Jessica Turner · Rating 5 out of 5]

I think this is an important listen. Everyone is impacted by loneliness.

[Ruth · Rating 5 out of 5]

Great book