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Choreplay: The Marriage-Saving Magic of Getting Your Head Out of Your Ass
A hilarious and helpful account of what it really takes, as a straight man, to keep your marriage going strong.
Choreplay is a laugh‑out‑loud, gamified guide to recognize what you've got before you lose it all. It's about putting in the effort in small ways that yield big results, like bringing your wife her morning coffee in bed, learning the names of your children's doctors and what medicines they take, exercising, protecting your gains, doing what you want, and going the f*ck to bed! This manual is part advice, part memoir, and a lot of comedy. Most of all, it's a testament to love conquering all the petty, banal strife and turning those day‑to‑day moments into the very thing that saves a marriage. Guaranteed sex for life, but also self‑worth.
Many men give plenty, but it's wiser to give well‑‑to our partners, our families, and ourselves. Jordan Carlos has mastered the art of choreplay, and you, my dude, can f*ck with it too.
Choreplay is a laugh‑out‑loud, gamified guide to recognize what you've got before you lose it all. It's about putting in the effort in small ways that yield big results, like bringing your wife her morning coffee in bed, learning the names of your children's doctors and what medicines they take, exercising, protecting your gains, doing what you want, and going the f*ck to bed! This manual is part advice, part memoir, and a lot of comedy. Most of all, it's a testament to love conquering all the petty, banal strife and turning those day‑to‑day moments into the very thing that saves a marriage. Guaranteed sex for life, but also self‑worth.
Many men give plenty, but it's wiser to give well‑‑to our partners, our families, and ourselves. Jordan Carlos has mastered the art of choreplay, and you, my dude, can f*ck with it too.
288 pages, Hardcover
Published February 10, 2026
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December 8, 2025
This was surprising in a number of ways. I didn't know what to expect in a self-help book from a comedian, but there were some really solid lessons in here. Man-to-man, it drove some needed points home.
The author uses a lot of profanity, though, and sometimes it just seems excessive. Likewise, sometimes the humor is effortless (and genuinely funny) and sometimes it feels forced and doesn't land. Writing a book or blogging is a bit of a different art form than podcasting or performing stand-up. The comedy is a bit different too. Sometimes I found myself skimming through some stuff to get to the meat of the message.
3.5 stars rounded up. Thanks to NetGalley for the ARC.
The author uses a lot of profanity, though, and sometimes it just seems excessive. Likewise, sometimes the humor is effortless (and genuinely funny) and sometimes it feels forced and doesn't land. Writing a book or blogging is a bit of a different art form than podcasting or performing stand-up. The comedy is a bit different too. Sometimes I found myself skimming through some stuff to get to the meat of the message.
3.5 stars rounded up. Thanks to NetGalley for the ARC.
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