Good Woman: A Reckoning

by Savala Nolan

A Most Anticipated Book of 2026 by Ms. Magazine

A raw and lyrical exploration of the confining expectations of womanhood and, if we dare, what lies beyond those limitations—from a writer Roxane Gay calls “vibrant and thoughtful.”

Gorgeous, badass, and practically waiting to pounce, Good A Reckoning is acclaimed essayist Savala Nolan’s follow-up to her “standout collection” (New York Times Book Review) Don't Let It Get You Down.

A lifetime of playing by the rules of female social conditioning is not what it’s cracked up to be for Nolan. The years of making herself smaller (literally and metaphorically); the sexual advances that led to more than she wanted; the bad marriage she fought like hell to keep; all the ways others questioned her identity or choices and she let it slide to keep the peace; her silence when requested; her body when desired—none of it worked. None of it protected her the way it was advertised to.

Nolan noticed the same was true for the women around her and the women in history she read about. Across time and location, they were raised to be agreeable and “good.” Hyper-visible as sexual objects but invisible as full people. Living in a physical world created by men for men. Taking on the ultimate role of birth-giver and caretaker, yet seeing it remain an unsung act, even as it’s a God-like endeavor. Only in midlife did Nolan begin to realize she was capable of living outside these cages of conditioning so slyly insidious that they’re nearly invisible.

Good Woman elegantly probes the knotty conditions themselves, the costs of adhering to them, and what happens when one refuses to comply. The twelve stunning and unforgettable essays blend memoir, reportage, and history to create a collection that is alternately bold, brash, and explosive ... and ravishingly tender, sensual, and joyous. Nolan takes aim at big and old ideas, and she does not miss. Hers is a testimony to witness and to savor.

Genres: Nonfiction, Essays, Feminism, Womens, Short Stories, Contemporary, History

234 pages, Kindle Edition

First published March 3, 2026

Reviews

[Elizabeth K · Rating 5 out of 5]

I’m not quite halfway through this book yet, and I normally don’t review #NetGalley ARCs until I finish the book. But I already know that I will be rating this book very highly. I requested this advance copy because I so enjoyed Savala Nolan’s first book, but this one is better. Don't Let It Get You Down was a memoir; Good Woman is a manifesto. The writing is stronger and more powerful. Professor Nolan has clearly entered her “gives zero f*cks” era, as they say on the peri/menopause Internet, and I am here for it.

[Cassie Smith · Rating 5 out of 5]

Thank you to NetGalley, the author and Mariner Books for allowing me to read this eArc. Nolan has written a very powerful series of essays about growing up black and female in America. She writes about how hard it is to be female in a man’s world. I don’t want to give too much away, but this book was excellent.

[Abby Reyes · Rating 5 out of 5]

I savored these gorgeous essays, dog-earring and revisiting several, several times. Nolan lets the reader into the tender reaches of her experience with humor, smarts, and cutting critique, re/weaving ancestors and descendants into the web of life through story and history. In so doing, she invites us into our own relationships to what it means, and what it costs, to stay in the smallness of our society’s notion of what makes a good woman. I grew from reading this collection; I got three copies for my goddaughters.

[J · Rating 5 out of 5]

Do yourself a favor and buy this book. It is SO dang good. 👏👏👏

[Courtney · Rating 4 out of 5]

Good Woman: A Reckoning is a powerful essay collection by Savala Nolan that interrogates the burdens of societal expectations placed on women and imagines life beyond them. Nolan weaves memoir, reportage, history, philosophy, and legal insight across twelve essays that are at once intimate and sweeping in scope.

The collection explores Nolan’s journey from compliance and silence to resistance and clarity: “a lifetime of playing by the rules of female social conditioning,” and how none of it delivered protection or fulfillment the way it promised. Through lyrical, raw prose, Nolan dissects her experiences from unwanted conformity, a troubled marriage, and societal demands placed on identity and body in order to uncover what unfolds when one refuses the script written for them.

[Michelle · Rating 4 out of 5]

Great group of essays centered on various aspects of womanhood. Felt very authentic, unfiltered, raw, honest, and relatable.

[⟢ mirela ⟢ · Rating 4 out of 5]

Thank you NetGalley for allowing me to read this eARC in exchange for an honest review!

I enjoyed reading this book. The author’s writing style is smooth, engaging, & direct. Her perspective felt raw & honest & I found myself relating more than I initially thought I would. I appreciated how she gave voice to experiences that are often difficult to articulate.

[Em · Rating 4 out of 5]

(4.5) Good Woman: A Reckoning by Savala Nolan is a searing, clear reflection on what it has cost so many women to be called “good.”

Nolan writes with a rage that feels earned and exquisitely controlled. She traces a lifetime of trying not to rock the boat, of shrinking herself, accommodating harm, staying silent to keep the peace and then grieves that obedience for what it truly was: a waste of her "talent, juice, seeds, and time"- I love the way she writes. The clarity of her voice is breathtaking as she names how thoroughly patriarchy fails to protect women, even when they do everything they were told would keep them safe.

Her essays on motherhood are my favorite. As the granddaughter of a minister and a mother herself, Nolan questions why God is imagined as male and what a divinity rooted in motherhood might actually require. Her refusal of praise and submission as virtues lands with force, especially when she writes about how much motherhood takes from women and how casually that sacrifice is normalized.

Nolan is also unflinching in her reflections on sexual assault, the joy of marriage, and the quiet devastation of divorce. Her writing about the loneliness women carry inside unhappy marriages is tender and devastating. And threaded through it all is a fierce love for her daughter: a commitment to raising a girl who knows their power, voice, and agency even if that means becoming “bad” in a world that punishes women for their refusal.

This essay collection is grieving, joyful, and deeply liberating. It doesn’t just ask what it means to stop being good. It shows us what becomes possible when a woman finally chooses herself.

[Kenda · Rating 5 out of 5]

The scope of this book is incredible in both the breadth of topics it tackles and in how it somehow unites them all in one coherent whole. It changed how I think about womanhood, beauty, creativity, and what it means to be truly free. Not to mention how its searingly gorgeous prose makes even the most challenging subject matter feel like a garden of wonders to admire and explore.
My favorite essay, Mothers Superior, should be required reading for anyone considering becoming a mother (or honestly, anyone who has a mother or knows a mother). It's the first time I've ever seen motherhood captured in print both accurately and entirely. Another essay, Which Men, has been rattling around my brain since I read it, reorganizing my internal framework for thinking about sexual assault and the behaviors and systems that protect it. And the wrenching words of Lest We Die of Hunger brilliantly weave together threads of race, art history, pop culture, and the question of who is entitled to create. Every essay is an exquisite gem, refracting the light in unique and unexpected ways. This book is worth your time to read, and then read again.

[Eirinie Carson · Rating 5 out of 5]

When Nolan says “I’m not grinding an ax, I am sharpening a blade. There’s a difference”, believe her. This is a blade of a book, and it is ours to feel the power of, to wield. The first chapter of GOOD WOMAN left my jaw agape- it is a pistol whip of an opening, and what follows is just as potent. At a time when being a woman, particularly a Black woman, feels like being a living target, I am grateful for Nolan’s sharp, clear eyed, vulnerable look at what we have decided womanhood is, who it serves, and how we move through it. The perfect companion book to DON’T LET IT GET YOU DOWN, GOOD WOMAN is everything we have come to expect from Nolan– blisteringly intelligent, well honed, sharp arguments laid next to the softest and most tender parts of herself, bared to us, encouraging us to do the same.
Having this book in my corner feels like armour, it feels like a shield, it feels, not like being in the woods with a man or a bear, but rather, an army of your very own. With Nolan at our side, the past, present and future are visible all at once, and all at once it is an arresting, sobering, electrifying work.

[Helen · Rating 4 out of 5]

Thank you Mariner Books for the free ARC of Good Woman a Reckoning.

This is an essay collection blended memoir about being a woman, being a girl, wanting something the patriarch told you to want but wouldn’t be considered a proper “feminist” to want it, and so much more. This book is raw in a way I have not read feminist literature before, I am new in this genre but how Savala Nolan delivered each essay with personal experiences, social commentary and history was immersive.

Some essays were harder to connect with regarding motherhood and marriage as I am neither a mother nor married, but even within those essays there is something to be taken away regarding the emotional distance and lack of communications men are taught which snowballs into women taking the emotional brunt of a relationship sometimes.

I really enjoyed reading the authors passion in each essay in looking at past and present within their own life and seeing what they could add to the issues to teach and maybe spark something in someone to continue the change.

[Maricruz Ramirez · Rating 5 out of 5]

My gratitude to NetGalley and Mariner Books for the ARC.

In this powerful collection of essays, Savala Nolan offers a poignant reflection on what it means to live as a Black woman in the modern United States. Across twelve essays, she weaves together memoir, philosophy, and history to create a deeply personal yet widely resonant narrative.

Nolan’s voice is raw, honest, and unapologetic, while her writing style remains clear and direct. She moves thoughtfully between the personal and the political, examining identity, marriage, motherhood, grief, and belonging with striking vulnerability.

While some essays speak most directly to the specific experiences of Black womanhood, the emotional core of Nolan’s writing (love, loss, joy, and resilience) feels widely relatable. Her reflections on navigating both private and public expectations make this collection both intimate and thought-provoking.

Good Woman: A Reckoning is a powerful and timely work that invites readers to sit with difficult truths while also celebrating the complexity of identity and self-understanding.

[lisa · Rating 3 out of 5]

This was ok, in particular the essays about Sally Hemmings, and the essay where she goes to visit the land that once housed her family's plantation. (These might have been the same essay; everything in this book kind of blurs together.) I was extremely bored by her thoughts about her marriage, and although I do admire the ferocity she has in the first part of the book when talking about her daughter at some point it starts to feel very performative, and I started skimming every time I realized she about to go on a tangent on how she wants her daughter to be free and brave and blah blah blah.

This read like a very earnest version of certain books of essays. It didn't have much humor though.

[Tonia · Rating 3 out of 5]

Was not much of my cup of tea but it was still a good write. I wish author would not have harbored on certain moments for as long as she did. For example, the issue with the ex-husband (which it took a while to know he was not ex-husband from fiancé at the time). One event turns into a whole dissertation about his not poking out his chest to be superman in the moment and just assumptions of his feelings, reasons and views on the event without ever asking him. If you are going to write so in-depth about a situation and create various reasons and scenarios, please have a conversation with the person about it at least once. There are still poignant points in the books especially when dealing with the issues of black women and the need to be strong and viewed as strong.

[Abbie · Rating 5 out of 5]

I absolutely loved this book. It's is a sharp, raw, intimate collection of essays about the suffocating script of being a “good woman.” Nolan examines the expectations placed on women—be agreeable, be small, be grateful—and asks what it might look like to step outside of them.

Her writing is both intellectually precise and deeply personal, weaving together stories about race, appetite, motherhood, ambition, and the body. What I loved most is how she allows contradictions to exist without trying to tidy them up.

This book feels like a reckoning in the truest sense—honest, thoughtful, and quietly liberating for anyone who has ever felt trapped by the performance of being “good.” Read it!

[Charlie - disableddaydreamer | itsbarbieparis (looking for mutuals) · Rating 4 out of 5]

Thank you to NetGalley, Mariner books and the author themselves, Savala Nolan for this 4 star read. While the book was given to me via an epub, my reviews and feelings remain my own.

This felt like an honest read with a lot of heart. It almost was a lot to digest in a single book, and did take me some time to read and come back to things. Though overall I appreciated the authors perspective and storytelling. The story telling and flow is absolutely fantastic but this is packed, which is good and bad. Overall I really appreciated this book and would read it again.

The essays are engaging, relevant and not all recycled fluff. Recommend picking up.

[Gemma Hartley · Rating 5 out of 5]

This is one of those books I will be thinking about and recommending to my friends for years to come. Savala Nolan writes some of the most beautiful and incisive prose I have ever encountered in an essay collection. She moves between the soft messiness of her humanity and the sharp critiques of the systems that harm in ways that will give you whiplash (in the best sort of way), and God does she know how to do a mic drop. I cannot recommend this book highly enough.

[Codi · Rating 3 out of 5]

I appreciated the concept of this book and the authors thoughts on certain things. I felt I didn’t relate to a majority of essays because I haven’t been married and don’t have kids so that was honestly boring to me. I did appreciate her essays on women, women’s bodies, and being a black woman in our society. I think I just wasn’t the right audience for most of the book!

Thank you to NetGalley and Mariner for the Arc in exchange for an honest review.

[Chelsea Long · Rating 5 out of 5]

I thoroughly enjoyed this read. So much of it was relatable and made me laugh or smile despite myself. Every essay gave me rich food for thought and caused me to reflect on my own life and experiences, even if I couldn't directly relate to the experiences of the author. I love the generosity of feminist writers to put to paper experiences in life that I previously felt like we weren't allowed to talk about out loud. Thank you, Savala, for your bravery on every page.

[Courtney Martin · Rating 5 out of 5]

Good Woman knocked me out with its fresh, wide-ranging insights, intellectual heft, emotional courage, and humor. I devoured it, which is fitting because it's all about women's desires and how powerful they can be in this deeply broken world. The intersectional feminist analysis is spot on, but not "academic" or preachy. I just loved it. I will read everything Savala Nolan writes from here on out. She did such justice to the essay form.

[Raven · Rating 4 out of 5]

((4.5 stars))

Really enjoyed this collection of essays. Thoughtful and engaging writing. I actually read one chapter a day, sometimes rereading entire sections because I wasn’t ready for it to end. Womanhood, in all its glory, captured brilliantly by Nolan’s sharp commentary.

Thank you to Mariner Books and NetGalley for this ARC. Expected release is March 3, 2026.

[Erica Lane · Rating 5 out of 5]

Nolan is a truly incredible writer. The way she weaves together her personal experiences with historical context and commentary on race and gender is masterful. I had my mom read the chapter on motherhood, and she said it was the first time she's seen someone put into words what it's like to be a mom. Beautiful, beautiful, beautiful essay collection - pick this one up!

[Audrey · Rating 4 out of 5]

This essay collection was sharp and smart. While not always comfortable to read, it's definitely thought provoking and thoughtful. This is a book as if Roxanne Gay and Andrea Long Chu had collaborated so you know this collection will be a winner.

I received an arc from the publisher but all opinions are my own.

[Tracy Clark-Flory · Rating 5 out of 5]

Damn. What a beauty of a book. GOOD WOMAN is a must-read for any woman who is tired of being "good" and ready to reclaim her life. Savala Nolan shows us how it’s done—with humor, heart, and blazing smarts. Somehow, this book is at once poetic, fierce, tender, sexy, and scholarly. It's equal parts moving memoir, intellectual romp, and rallying cry. I'll return to it again and again.

[Kaylee Dunlap · Rating 4 out of 5]

i received this book in a goodreads give away. thank you to the author and publisher! i really enjoyed some of the essays and discussions the author included. i appreciated her voice throughout. i would read more by her!

[Irais Amaro · Rating 1 out of 5]

Horrible book! Hate hate hate. All about women empowerment but with no point. I was definitely not the target audience. Author seems so bitter & like they need to learn about self worth & focus on their external locus of identity

[Stefanie O’Connell · Rating 5 out of 5]

Women are too familiar with the price of being seen as 'difficult', but in this book Nolan shows us the even higher price of being 'good' — and the liberation that can come from refusing to comply. A book and a message for this moment.

[Viviana]

I received a NetGalley ARC from Kasey Feather Assistant Director, Marketing at William Morrow.

[JXR · Rating 4 out of 5]

interesting and thoughtful set of essays that works well and keeps everything going effectively. 4 stars. tysm for the arc.

[Megan Browne · Rating 4 out of 5]

This collection of essays was a hard one to rate as some points were so beautiful and poignant and fierce and others were performative or dull but I still think it's worth a read