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39 & Holding
My name is Greer Walker. Mom of two. Friend. Daughter. Dance instructor. And, let’s not forget—a woman scorned.
For the twenty years my husband and I were together, I gave him my soul, my life, my everything. What did I get in return? Heart break, crows feet, stretch marks, and a slew of insecurities.
You see, my douchebag ex-husband of fourteen years dumped me for a twenty-five year-old, real-life Barbie Doll with a large repertoire of medical enhancements. He crushed my heart. His affair destroyed me. There were signs—lots of them—but I didn't see what was right in front of me. Or maybe, I didn’t want to.
Somewhere along the line, things changed. With my eyes wide open, I vowed to never go through that kind of heartache again. I don’t need someone to make me feel special or beautiful, or sexually charged. Hell, I can take care of that part on my own if you know what I mean. It’s been twenty years since I last dated. I have resigned myself to the fact that I’ll be alone.
But…There’s always a but. And with age comes wisdom.
Like I said, I had come to grips with the fact that I’d always be alone…until gorgeous, dominant, and sexy Nick Costa walked into my life—or rather drove right into it—and made me feel all sorts of things that this woman right here has no business feeling.
He has me asking myself questions that I never thought I’d hear myself ask.
Can I allow someone into my life again? Can I risk being hurt? Can Nick deal with all the insecurities the fallout of my marriage produced?
I am thirty-nine, for crying out loud. Can I start all over again? Can I let go of the past and possibly move on with my future? Could Nick Costa be my future?
You might want to stick around to discover the answers.
For now, I'll be 39 & holding.
For the twenty years my husband and I were together, I gave him my soul, my life, my everything. What did I get in return? Heart break, crows feet, stretch marks, and a slew of insecurities.
You see, my douchebag ex-husband of fourteen years dumped me for a twenty-five year-old, real-life Barbie Doll with a large repertoire of medical enhancements. He crushed my heart. His affair destroyed me. There were signs—lots of them—but I didn't see what was right in front of me. Or maybe, I didn’t want to.
Somewhere along the line, things changed. With my eyes wide open, I vowed to never go through that kind of heartache again. I don’t need someone to make me feel special or beautiful, or sexually charged. Hell, I can take care of that part on my own if you know what I mean. It’s been twenty years since I last dated. I have resigned myself to the fact that I’ll be alone.
But…There’s always a but. And with age comes wisdom.
Like I said, I had come to grips with the fact that I’d always be alone…until gorgeous, dominant, and sexy Nick Costa walked into my life—or rather drove right into it—and made me feel all sorts of things that this woman right here has no business feeling.
He has me asking myself questions that I never thought I’d hear myself ask.
Can I allow someone into my life again? Can I risk being hurt? Can Nick deal with all the insecurities the fallout of my marriage produced?
I am thirty-nine, for crying out loud. Can I start all over again? Can I let go of the past and possibly move on with my future? Could Nick Costa be my future?
You might want to stick around to discover the answers.
For now, I'll be 39 & holding.
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M.R. Joseph
12 books285 followersM.R. Joseph is a bestselling author of contemporary romance, new adult, and rom-com novels. A self-proclaimed book nerd turned writer, she crafts heartfelt, funny, and romantic stories that readers can’t get enough of. Hailing from the City of Brotherly Love, she draws inspiration from the world around her, including music and moments shared with her husband, kids, friends, and her dog, Scarlet. When she’s not writing, you’ll find her unwinding in her magical backyard or soaking up the sun on a East Coast beach, surrounded by family and music. A lover of books, laughter, and life’s little joys, she pours all of that magic into every story she tells.
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February 3, 2015
This is the kinda book Id have liked to have read a few years ago when I had my heart broke & thought there was no hope for me. As I've just turned forty I found this story and characters very relatable.
This is a really good laugh out loud story. There are also some heart warming parts in it too. This story touched me on so many levels. When your put down so much it's hard to have any values of your self worth. You need someone strong to banish them worries. M.R. Joseph has written a really great story with real characters. I felt as if I could be friends with these characters.
Really enjoyable read that I found so easy to get lost into.
This is a really good laugh out loud story. There are also some heart warming parts in it too. This story touched me on so many levels. When your put down so much it's hard to have any values of your self worth. You need someone strong to banish them worries. M.R. Joseph has written a really great story with real characters. I felt as if I could be friends with these characters.
Really enjoyable read that I found so easy to get lost into.
January 13, 2015
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5 Mr. Doughnut Loving Stars
This story gives me hope...the kind of hope that burns bright on the dark "who the fuck did I marry?" kind of nights, where you dream of living in blessed solitude with nothing but a kindle to keep you warm. Having visions that my husband finds himself in a tall, long legged, gorgeous young hotties vagina and dives in head first, I still might have a chance to meet a hot ass doc that treats me like gold! Yeah that kind!
I LOVED this story, I fell head over heels for Nick from the first goofy ass cameo he made, and continued to swoon over every other moment they shared. From the minute countdown texts, pebbles at the window, and the demanding hot talking man he could be when needed. This story was more than a love story, it was a reminder that even when the world as you know it drops out from under you, there is more waiting for you if you open your heart to it. Finding the ability to move past the hurt and faults that paved the way to demise and start enjoying the road that you are now traveling on with out all the baggage. Truly living in the moment and basking in real love...
Greer was funny, real and I completely connected with her character. Feeling her loss as her fault, by not being a good enough wife and mother may have lead to the decisions made by her douche-bag ex? Feeling at fault is a natural response to a family crumbling, I think even more so for a mother. The way in which her ex went about his life and the complete disregard for his wife, friend and mother of his children was hard to swallow. Worst fear recognized.
I laughed, swooned, clenched my thighs and felt the nerves from starting over as my own...Ms. Joseph really touched on the feeling that turning 40 can evoke, insecurity, humor and overall life moments for everyone in this story!
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5 Mr. Doughnut Loving Stars
This story gives me hope...the kind of hope that burns bright on the dark "who the fuck did I marry?" kind of nights, where you dream of living in blessed solitude with nothing but a kindle to keep you warm. Having visions that my husband finds himself in a tall, long legged, gorgeous young hotties vagina and dives in head first, I still might have a chance to meet a hot ass doc that treats me like gold! Yeah that kind!
I LOVED this story, I fell head over heels for Nick from the first goofy ass cameo he made, and continued to swoon over every other moment they shared. From the minute countdown texts, pebbles at the window, and the demanding hot talking man he could be when needed. This story was more than a love story, it was a reminder that even when the world as you know it drops out from under you, there is more waiting for you if you open your heart to it. Finding the ability to move past the hurt and faults that paved the way to demise and start enjoying the road that you are now traveling on with out all the baggage. Truly living in the moment and basking in real love...
Greer was funny, real and I completely connected with her character. Feeling her loss as her fault, by not being a good enough wife and mother may have lead to the decisions made by her douche-bag ex? Feeling at fault is a natural response to a family crumbling, I think even more so for a mother. The way in which her ex went about his life and the complete disregard for his wife, friend and mother of his children was hard to swallow. Worst fear recognized.
I laughed, swooned, clenched my thighs and felt the nerves from starting over as my own...Ms. Joseph really touched on the feeling that turning 40 can evoke, insecurity, humor and overall life moments for everyone in this story!
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February 21, 2015
I loved this book. It was funny, sexy, and witty. Greer is 39, divorced, single. She meets Nick who is 29. She fights their relationship with her insecurities of being almost 40 and ten years older. Maybe I loved it so much because my "day of doom" is around the corner. I completely understood everything Greer felt and questioned. Yes, there were some grammar/misspelling errors but it did not bother me at all.
February 9, 2015
Overall rating: 3.5 "Doc" stars
Why 3.5 stars? Well, I liked it but didn't love it. It had nothing to do with the storyline or anything like that. It didn't even hit on any of my triggers, but something just didn't feel complete for me. I felt like something was missing and I would have liked a longer epilogue. But I will say, I didn't like
Triggers:
Cheating:
Love triangle:
Sex with om/ow:
HEA:
My review:
Greer, beautiful mother of two, is now divorced at 39 years old after her husband cheated on her and left her for another woman. She is trying to move on with her life, but definitely wants nothing to do with another man. Her ex husband gave her a bit of low self esteem, not only with leaving her for a younger model, but also how he treated her when they WERE married. See? Total jerk! She owns her own dance studio and is a fantastic mom. One chance encounter during traffic has her starting to feel alive again even if she will never see this stranger again. As fate would have it, he keeps ending up in her path and he knows just what he wants. I like Nick a lot. I thought he was really patient with her and kind. I liked how every time they had a fight, he would be the one to come running after her or they would meet each other halfway.
I thought overall this was a cute and sweet romance and this author is off to a pretty good start. I would say, some editing is definitely needed.
Things I didn't like:
Anyway, I would recommend this to anyone who is looking for something light and sweet with very little drama. Maybe I just wasn't in the mood for it? Please don't go completely based on my review, but I actually did like this story. Just didn't love it.
Why 3.5 stars? Well, I liked it but didn't love it. It had nothing to do with the storyline or anything like that. It didn't even hit on any of my triggers, but something just didn't feel complete for me. I felt like something was missing and I would have liked a longer epilogue. But I will say, I didn't like
Triggers:
Cheating:
Love triangle:
Sex with om/ow:
HEA:
My review:
Greer, beautiful mother of two, is now divorced at 39 years old after her husband cheated on her and left her for another woman. She is trying to move on with her life, but definitely wants nothing to do with another man. Her ex husband gave her a bit of low self esteem, not only with leaving her for a younger model, but also how he treated her when they WERE married. See? Total jerk! She owns her own dance studio and is a fantastic mom. One chance encounter during traffic has her starting to feel alive again even if she will never see this stranger again. As fate would have it, he keeps ending up in her path and he knows just what he wants. I like Nick a lot. I thought he was really patient with her and kind. I liked how every time they had a fight, he would be the one to come running after her or they would meet each other halfway.
I thought overall this was a cute and sweet romance and this author is off to a pretty good start. I would say, some editing is definitely needed.
Things I didn't like:
Anyway, I would recommend this to anyone who is looking for something light and sweet with very little drama. Maybe I just wasn't in the mood for it? Please don't go completely based on my review, but I actually did like this story. Just didn't love it.
January 27, 2015
What an amazing and hilarious read! One minute your heart hurts, then the next your laughing your ass off. Such a great storyteller you are, M.R. Joseph. I just got lost in the story and couldn't put this book down. Very truthful and emotional feelings were told in this story. I highly recommend this book to any woman over the age of 35, you'll just "get it". My favorite lines are: "A small pageant wave out the door is all I can handle. I'm becoming better at it. I should watch some old footage on YouTube of some Miss America so I can really get it down pat." Greer, the main female character trying to be sociable to her ex husband's 25year old girlfriend..... The next one is: "My eyes travel and lock on his. Bravery comes to those who finally accept the fear and face the ones head on that take over your mind, body, and soul."---Greer gaining the courage to finally confront her ex husband for his infidelity and his part in ruining their marriage. I love the relationships of everyone in this book. And heck, you know you have friends for life when they help nickname your ex husband's 25 year old "girlfriend". Silicone Valley=epic!
February 6, 2017
4.5 funny, sweet, heartwarming ☆s It's so true if you haven't been in someone else's shoes, you just don't know. I've been in Greer's shoes, and the author hit the nail on the head with this one! I truly loved all the characters (not Ryan, he's an a**hole) Looking forward to reading more books by Ms. Joseph!
February 2, 2015
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ARC received for an honest review
M.R Joseph is a new to me author, but I can tell you now, I won't be a stranger to her work any more!
39 and holding is a gem of a book. I hit that big 40 last year, so some of the things our leading lady Greer goes through hit right at home - not the cheating husband deal, but some of her thoughts and feelings - absolutely spot on to what I have felt!
We meet Greer as her marriage is falling apart, and she is going through all the emotional stuff - hitting middle age, being a mother, shutting her heart to ever finding love ever again.
A chance, brief encounter with a sexy, chocolate doughnut eating hottie in traffic one day brings those feelings back to life.
Dr Nick Costa - aka - Mr Doughnut has her feeling things she hasn't felt in a long time but they were just strangers passing in the traffic... or were they?
I really enjoyed the banter between Nick and Greer. It is fun, witty, full of sexual innuendos. And when their lives are thrown together, those innuendos become a thing of the past.
There is so many emotions in 39 and Holding. One minute you are laughing, the next your heart is hurting for either Greer or Nick as they tread the path of love and relationships.
I could completely relate to Greer. She has body image concerns, relationship concerns, worries about her children. I loved that she wasn't some perfect woman with the perfect life. Oh and I love how she and Nick tease each other about her "cougar" issues.
Nick is just swoon worthy. I loved him from the minute he ate that first doughnut. I love how he pursues Greer, how he feels about her, how he makes her feel. I love how he loves her kids. I love how he gets angry for her over what happened. I love how he doesn't give up when she tries to pull away.
So, can Greer and Nick make a go of things? Or will Greer's worries be too much for them/
Nuh uh - for that you are going to have to read for yourself.
There is a great cast of secondardy characters. Greer's gay-husband Sean and his partner, her best friend Jules. They are hilarious!
If you looking for a smart, funny, sexy romance with a lot of heart, 39 and Holding is the book for you.
ARC received for an honest review
M.R Joseph is a new to me author, but I can tell you now, I won't be a stranger to her work any more!
39 and holding is a gem of a book. I hit that big 40 last year, so some of the things our leading lady Greer goes through hit right at home - not the cheating husband deal, but some of her thoughts and feelings - absolutely spot on to what I have felt!
We meet Greer as her marriage is falling apart, and she is going through all the emotional stuff - hitting middle age, being a mother, shutting her heart to ever finding love ever again.
A chance, brief encounter with a sexy, chocolate doughnut eating hottie in traffic one day brings those feelings back to life.
Dr Nick Costa - aka - Mr Doughnut has her feeling things she hasn't felt in a long time but they were just strangers passing in the traffic... or were they?
I really enjoyed the banter between Nick and Greer. It is fun, witty, full of sexual innuendos. And when their lives are thrown together, those innuendos become a thing of the past.
There is so many emotions in 39 and Holding. One minute you are laughing, the next your heart is hurting for either Greer or Nick as they tread the path of love and relationships.
I could completely relate to Greer. She has body image concerns, relationship concerns, worries about her children. I loved that she wasn't some perfect woman with the perfect life. Oh and I love how she and Nick tease each other about her "cougar" issues.
Nick is just swoon worthy. I loved him from the minute he ate that first doughnut. I love how he pursues Greer, how he feels about her, how he makes her feel. I love how he loves her kids. I love how he gets angry for her over what happened. I love how he doesn't give up when she tries to pull away.
So, can Greer and Nick make a go of things? Or will Greer's worries be too much for them/
Nuh uh - for that you are going to have to read for yourself.
There is a great cast of secondardy characters. Greer's gay-husband Sean and his partner, her best friend Jules. They are hilarious!
If you looking for a smart, funny, sexy romance with a lot of heart, 39 and Holding is the book for you.
February 1, 2015
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39 & Holding is a light, funny, sexy, romantic read! If you are looking for a book to lighten your mood & make you laugh then this is the book you should most definitely read!
Greer Walker is a mum of two, dance instructor & she's experienced the ultimate betrayal. Her Husband has left her broken & distrusting of the Male species. Leaving you for a young, blonde, tight in all the right areas, 20 something bimbo must leave your confidence a little knocked! She has to keep her spirits high for the sake of her kids, she doesn't want them to know how much she is hurting! She
can't forgive her Ex Husband for the way he made be feel and the things he said to her, and she is comparing all men to him.
All that changes one day in the most unlikely place. Traffic. Sitting in traffic singing away too herself, in her own little world. She meets a very witty guy eating chocolate donuts. Not only is he friendly and funny but he is VERY easy on the eye, she cant help but 'squirm' when he looks in her direction.
Greer being the tough women she is, ignores his advances and just continues on her way. Will she come to regret her decision of not getting the strangers number? Why shouldn't she be happy? Why shouldn'tt she move on?
Nick Costa can't stop thinking about the women from the car who caught his eye. Shame he didn't get a name, which makes it pretty damn impossible to find her again.
Fate is on side when unfortunately for her, Sophie, Greer's daughter breaks her arm and ends up in the hospital! and who happens to be the Dr? None other than Mr Hot Donut man!!
Is this a sign from up above that Greer needs to forgive the male species and move on from her ex husband? I believe it is. Fate doesn't throw two complete strangers together TWICE unless it was on purpose...
Will Dr Nick be the one to help mend Greer & and her Broken heart or will Greer let the insecurities her ex husband has left her with ruin what could potentially be something beautiful!
I'm a huge fan of M.R Joseph's work and she did not disappoint with 39 & Holding, if anything she exceeded my expectations! This book has it all. Comedy, romance, tears and tantrums! I fell I love with all the characters in this book even the douchebag ex. This author has a way of making you love
all her characters... even the douchy ones.
"Remember, my dear. No matter what the year, the season, or the reason, love comes to you when it's the most unexpected thing. The unexpected things are the gifts we should cherish the most."
If I'm completely honest, which I have been known for. Greer Walker is my favourite lead female by far in the recent books i've read. She's strong and feisty on the outside, and she has a no shit attitude but on the inside she is just as broken and torn up as anyone else would be. She has the bestest friends any girl could ask for and two beautiful children and she hides it all perfectly from them!
Will she finally let go and give into her second chance?
Will she finally let go of the hurt she has kept and finally accept everything happens for a reason?
Another well deserved 5 star review for M.R. Joseph!
39 & Holding is a light, funny, sexy, romantic read! If you are looking for a book to lighten your mood & make you laugh then this is the book you should most definitely read!
Greer Walker is a mum of two, dance instructor & she's experienced the ultimate betrayal. Her Husband has left her broken & distrusting of the Male species. Leaving you for a young, blonde, tight in all the right areas, 20 something bimbo must leave your confidence a little knocked! She has to keep her spirits high for the sake of her kids, she doesn't want them to know how much she is hurting! She
can't forgive her Ex Husband for the way he made be feel and the things he said to her, and she is comparing all men to him.
All that changes one day in the most unlikely place. Traffic. Sitting in traffic singing away too herself, in her own little world. She meets a very witty guy eating chocolate donuts. Not only is he friendly and funny but he is VERY easy on the eye, she cant help but 'squirm' when he looks in her direction.
Greer being the tough women she is, ignores his advances and just continues on her way. Will she come to regret her decision of not getting the strangers number? Why shouldn't she be happy? Why shouldn'tt she move on?
Nick Costa can't stop thinking about the women from the car who caught his eye. Shame he didn't get a name, which makes it pretty damn impossible to find her again.
Fate is on side when unfortunately for her, Sophie, Greer's daughter breaks her arm and ends up in the hospital! and who happens to be the Dr? None other than Mr Hot Donut man!!
Is this a sign from up above that Greer needs to forgive the male species and move on from her ex husband? I believe it is. Fate doesn't throw two complete strangers together TWICE unless it was on purpose...
Will Dr Nick be the one to help mend Greer & and her Broken heart or will Greer let the insecurities her ex husband has left her with ruin what could potentially be something beautiful!
I'm a huge fan of M.R Joseph's work and she did not disappoint with 39 & Holding, if anything she exceeded my expectations! This book has it all. Comedy, romance, tears and tantrums! I fell I love with all the characters in this book even the douchebag ex. This author has a way of making you love
all her characters... even the douchy ones.
"Remember, my dear. No matter what the year, the season, or the reason, love comes to you when it's the most unexpected thing. The unexpected things are the gifts we should cherish the most."
If I'm completely honest, which I have been known for. Greer Walker is my favourite lead female by far in the recent books i've read. She's strong and feisty on the outside, and she has a no shit attitude but on the inside she is just as broken and torn up as anyone else would be. She has the bestest friends any girl could ask for and two beautiful children and she hides it all perfectly from them!
Will she finally let go and give into her second chance?
Will she finally let go of the hurt she has kept and finally accept everything happens for a reason?
Another well deserved 5 star review for M.R. Joseph!
February 1, 2015
It felt like a girl’s night out! Laughing, crying, talking about men, boobs, and even puking in a purse! M.R. Joseph just gets it, and you can tell when you’re reading any of her books but especially 39& Holding! The characters feel like your best friends and by the end you’re laughing and crying right along with them.
I can say that out of the thousands of books I have read, 39&holding, is one of my absolute favorites. Between the tears I was shedding, and the laughter, it made me take a hard look at my own insecurities whether they’re body image, career, or age issues, and Just like Greer I was able to realize that in order to be happy in any relationship I need to love me before anyone else can. Through her writing, and through Greer and her hilarious group of friends Author M.R. Joseph was able to remind me that imperfect is beautiful! Laughing with your friends is amazing, and finding a love that will see your flaws and love you anyway, well that’s priceless!
Even if you’re not 39, divorced or a single parent, this book will have you laughing your butt off, crying your eyes out, and frantically turning the pages while yelling at the characters! Although it’s a fictional story with fictional characters you can’t help but get sucked into their lives and find yourself, loving each and every one of the characters, even Silicone Valley, lol.
Watching the impact of Greer and her now Ex-husband Ryan’s marriage fall apart and the resulting damage to not just them but everyone around them, kids, friends, and to each of them I found myself inspecting my own marriage. I took a good look at how we communicate, how we love each other, and how we fight.
Greer and Ryan got to a point of indifference, not Hate. The difference being, hate comes from a place of passion, where indifference is just a black hole, void of any kind of emotion. Not a good place to be in any relationship, but definitely not where you want to be if you want your marriage to work.
Dr. Nick Costa aka Dr. Doughnut is the sweetest fictional book boyfriend. He’s not without his own demons though. Nick is not one to be intimidated by the fact that Greer has kids, or that she is divorced. All he wants is a shot, a chance to prove to her that not all men are slime balls, and not all love is destined to fail!
Not once while reading this book did I feel like an outsider looking in. I felt like one of the girls, cheering Greer on, giving her a shoulder to cry on, or even wanting to be the one to give her a swift kick in the ass when she obviously needed it.
I can’t stress how much I fell in love with this book, or how badly I want for each and every one of you to go read it.
Bravo M.R. Joseph on yet another wonderful book! I can’t wait to see what you come up with next!!!
I can say that out of the thousands of books I have read, 39&holding, is one of my absolute favorites. Between the tears I was shedding, and the laughter, it made me take a hard look at my own insecurities whether they’re body image, career, or age issues, and Just like Greer I was able to realize that in order to be happy in any relationship I need to love me before anyone else can. Through her writing, and through Greer and her hilarious group of friends Author M.R. Joseph was able to remind me that imperfect is beautiful! Laughing with your friends is amazing, and finding a love that will see your flaws and love you anyway, well that’s priceless!
Even if you’re not 39, divorced or a single parent, this book will have you laughing your butt off, crying your eyes out, and frantically turning the pages while yelling at the characters! Although it’s a fictional story with fictional characters you can’t help but get sucked into their lives and find yourself, loving each and every one of the characters, even Silicone Valley, lol.
Watching the impact of Greer and her now Ex-husband Ryan’s marriage fall apart and the resulting damage to not just them but everyone around them, kids, friends, and to each of them I found myself inspecting my own marriage. I took a good look at how we communicate, how we love each other, and how we fight.
Greer and Ryan got to a point of indifference, not Hate. The difference being, hate comes from a place of passion, where indifference is just a black hole, void of any kind of emotion. Not a good place to be in any relationship, but definitely not where you want to be if you want your marriage to work.
Dr. Nick Costa aka Dr. Doughnut is the sweetest fictional book boyfriend. He’s not without his own demons though. Nick is not one to be intimidated by the fact that Greer has kids, or that she is divorced. All he wants is a shot, a chance to prove to her that not all men are slime balls, and not all love is destined to fail!
Not once while reading this book did I feel like an outsider looking in. I felt like one of the girls, cheering Greer on, giving her a shoulder to cry on, or even wanting to be the one to give her a swift kick in the ass when she obviously needed it.
I can’t stress how much I fell in love with this book, or how badly I want for each and every one of you to go read it.
Bravo M.R. Joseph on yet another wonderful book! I can’t wait to see what you come up with next!!!
January 21, 2015
Most stories end with the happily ever after, but what happens when you thought you already had yours, life is perfect, you've done the big white dress, the white picket fence, had kids, settled down into a life of happy normalcy, and everything is coasting along...until it isn't. Maybe the life you had wasn't so perfect after all.
For Greer Walker, her world collapsed when she discovered her husband Ryan's infidelity. There was no denial, no grovelling, no remorse, it was just over, packing up and leaving his family for his new younger lady. Hindsight is 20/20 though, as Greer deals with the emotional wreckage of her marriage she is forced to see her seemingly perfect world in a whole new light.
For me reading 39 & Holding brought to the surface so many fears and doubts, I have always believed the opposite of love was hate, but wading through the collapse of Greer's marriage with her, I realised something so incredibly enlightening, the opposite of love is indifference, because at least hate comes from a passionate place, but indifference with its shroud of nothingness is so much worse. While Ryan had always been a "good husband", a loving father, somewhere along the lines Ryan stopped seeing Greer as his lover, and Greer stopped feeling desired and wanted.
Enter Nick Costa, young and sexy doctor, after a chance meeting, sparks fly and Greer finds herself attracted to someone other than her ex husband for the first time in years, testing the dating waters M.R. Joseph takes us the reader on journey of self discovery, facing ones fears, and finding love and joy in yourself as an individual, as a woman, instead of just as a wife and mother.
Nick Costa is quite the hero in this story, his ability to support and nurture Greer, to show her desire and lust in ways that have become foreign to her, his innate ability to show Greer how beautiful, talented and special she is, only adds to his charm. When so many books focus on the alpha male and the timid shy naïve heroine, 39 & Holding dares to focus on a successful, smart, mother of two nearing her forties and a young focused professional doctor who's looking to settle down instead of bed hopping.
Heartbreakingly beautiful and so incredibly poignant at times, 39 & Holding had me laughing one moment and crying the next, what I adored so much about M.R. Joseph's latest book is how deeply I understood Greer and her self doubts, her fears and in turn her journey, my reaction was a visceral one, Joseph's words had me looking more deeply at my own marriage, focusing time back into it, reminding me that we are more than just husbands and wives, or mothers and fathers.
39 & Holding started out as a funny, light, sexy read and it turned into something so much more.
For Greer Walker, her world collapsed when she discovered her husband Ryan's infidelity. There was no denial, no grovelling, no remorse, it was just over, packing up and leaving his family for his new younger lady. Hindsight is 20/20 though, as Greer deals with the emotional wreckage of her marriage she is forced to see her seemingly perfect world in a whole new light.
For me reading 39 & Holding brought to the surface so many fears and doubts, I have always believed the opposite of love was hate, but wading through the collapse of Greer's marriage with her, I realised something so incredibly enlightening, the opposite of love is indifference, because at least hate comes from a passionate place, but indifference with its shroud of nothingness is so much worse. While Ryan had always been a "good husband", a loving father, somewhere along the lines Ryan stopped seeing Greer as his lover, and Greer stopped feeling desired and wanted.
Enter Nick Costa, young and sexy doctor, after a chance meeting, sparks fly and Greer finds herself attracted to someone other than her ex husband for the first time in years, testing the dating waters M.R. Joseph takes us the reader on journey of self discovery, facing ones fears, and finding love and joy in yourself as an individual, as a woman, instead of just as a wife and mother.
Nick Costa is quite the hero in this story, his ability to support and nurture Greer, to show her desire and lust in ways that have become foreign to her, his innate ability to show Greer how beautiful, talented and special she is, only adds to his charm. When so many books focus on the alpha male and the timid shy naïve heroine, 39 & Holding dares to focus on a successful, smart, mother of two nearing her forties and a young focused professional doctor who's looking to settle down instead of bed hopping.
Heartbreakingly beautiful and so incredibly poignant at times, 39 & Holding had me laughing one moment and crying the next, what I adored so much about M.R. Joseph's latest book is how deeply I understood Greer and her self doubts, her fears and in turn her journey, my reaction was a visceral one, Joseph's words had me looking more deeply at my own marriage, focusing time back into it, reminding me that we are more than just husbands and wives, or mothers and fathers.
39 & Holding started out as a funny, light, sexy read and it turned into something so much more.
March 1, 2015
I loved this book. I don't think I've ever identified with characters more in any book. Maybe it's because they're older (30s-40s) and more mature. But, it was great. I laughed many times and my eyes may have gotten watery a few times as well.
Greer is a 39 year old woman who divorced her cheating husband of 15 years. She lives for her kids and dancing. She is the epitome of a great mom. She doesn't talk bad to her kids about her ex-husband and doesn't want to keep them away from him no matter how much she may hate him. She gives him credit for being a good dad… just no so great of a husband. Her sense of humor is great. She's cynical and sarcastic just like you would expect any woman who has been tossed aside for a newer model.
Nick AKA Mr. Doughnut Man (I love the nicknames they give people in this book) is a few years younger than Greer, but very mature. He's successful, charming, and just all around hot and he wants Greer.
There are very real issues dealt with in this book that I think only women can really understand. Greer is dealing with her almost 40 year old body, which she is not confident in. After 2 kids she has the extra fluff and stretch marks to show for it. And now, she's afraid that Nick is going to see all of this and move on to a Barbie look-alike just like her ex did.
This is a great book for anyone wanting to read about older, more mature characters. The story is believable for the most part and still has plenty of comedy included. This is a book I could see making a great movie.
~Jennifer
Greer is a 39 year old woman who divorced her cheating husband of 15 years. She lives for her kids and dancing. She is the epitome of a great mom. She doesn't talk bad to her kids about her ex-husband and doesn't want to keep them away from him no matter how much she may hate him. She gives him credit for being a good dad… just no so great of a husband. Her sense of humor is great. She's cynical and sarcastic just like you would expect any woman who has been tossed aside for a newer model.
Nick AKA Mr. Doughnut Man (I love the nicknames they give people in this book) is a few years younger than Greer, but very mature. He's successful, charming, and just all around hot and he wants Greer.
There are very real issues dealt with in this book that I think only women can really understand. Greer is dealing with her almost 40 year old body, which she is not confident in. After 2 kids she has the extra fluff and stretch marks to show for it. And now, she's afraid that Nick is going to see all of this and move on to a Barbie look-alike just like her ex did.
This is a great book for anyone wanting to read about older, more mature characters. The story is believable for the most part and still has plenty of comedy included. This is a book I could see making a great movie.
~Jennifer
February 7, 2015
Great book! Right off I want you to know this is a great read. If you are a woman in your thirties who has dedicated her life to her family and husband, this book is for you. If you are a woman period, you will find this book both endearing and eye opening. This author tells the truth.
Having experienced something very similar, I can say our author M. R. Joseph has hit the nail on the head. There is nothing more devastating than stumbling into the truth that your husband is having an affair. It shreds your heart, your trust in men, and your ability to trust your own instincts. How could you not have known? That is the first question you ask yourself. Once the devastation begins to lift, you start analyzing in minute detail your relationship and that is when the Oprah "Aha!!" moment happens. How you deal with it will determine your chances to grow stronger from the experience and move forward to a new life.
Greer is a magnificent character of a woman determined to remain independent and move forward with her children. We experience her feelings of regret, her unending caring of her children's perception of the divorce, and the insanity of having to deal with the *witch* that took your husband away and still appear normal.
She is one of the lucky ones to find a special someone. Nick is everything we would want in a rebound boyfriend. Yet he is not rebound material. This new coupling of Nick and Greer is a lesson on emotions, healing after the devastation of divorce, and the beauty of love. There are some amazing moments here that you will not soon forget.
Absolutely, positively without any hesitation... recommended!
Having experienced something very similar, I can say our author M. R. Joseph has hit the nail on the head. There is nothing more devastating than stumbling into the truth that your husband is having an affair. It shreds your heart, your trust in men, and your ability to trust your own instincts. How could you not have known? That is the first question you ask yourself. Once the devastation begins to lift, you start analyzing in minute detail your relationship and that is when the Oprah "Aha!!" moment happens. How you deal with it will determine your chances to grow stronger from the experience and move forward to a new life.
Greer is a magnificent character of a woman determined to remain independent and move forward with her children. We experience her feelings of regret, her unending caring of her children's perception of the divorce, and the insanity of having to deal with the *witch* that took your husband away and still appear normal.
She is one of the lucky ones to find a special someone. Nick is everything we would want in a rebound boyfriend. Yet he is not rebound material. This new coupling of Nick and Greer is a lesson on emotions, healing after the devastation of divorce, and the beauty of love. There are some amazing moments here that you will not soon forget.
Absolutely, positively without any hesitation... recommended!
January 12, 2015
5 "Something" Stars
*ARC Review for Crazy Daisy Book Whore by Megan*
"Remember, my dear. No matter the year, the season, or the reason, love comes to you when it's the most unexpected thing. The unexpected things are the gifts we should cherish the most."
Greer Walker is a 39 year old divorcee living life for her kids. She co-owns a dance studio, has 2 amazing kids, and a group of wonderful friends. Still angry and reeling from the end of her marriage, Greer is convinced that she will never love and marry again. One failure was enough to last a lifetime. She's going through the motions of life and putting up a strong front, but she is suffering inside. Questions and self-doubt constantly plague Greer.
Nick Costa is a 29 year old orthopedic surgeon with the face and body of a Greek god. Highly intelligent and wise beyond his years, Dr. Costa isn't looking for love. He has his career, loving family, and chocolate donuts.
A chance meeting in traffic. A fateful encounter over a broken arm. Blue eyes. Dancing. Margaritas and chocolate donuts. Can Greer finally let go of the past and allow herself to finally have her something? Will Nick stand by her side or allow Greer to push him away?
M.R. has created a real, relatable character in Greer Walker. Any woman will relate to her flaws and feelings at some point in the story. The supporting characters are just as fun and funny, and I found myself rooting for them as well. This book was well-written and captivated me from the first word to the last. Definitely my favorite book by M.R. so far!
*ARC Review for Crazy Daisy Book Whore by Megan*
"Remember, my dear. No matter the year, the season, or the reason, love comes to you when it's the most unexpected thing. The unexpected things are the gifts we should cherish the most."
Greer Walker is a 39 year old divorcee living life for her kids. She co-owns a dance studio, has 2 amazing kids, and a group of wonderful friends. Still angry and reeling from the end of her marriage, Greer is convinced that she will never love and marry again. One failure was enough to last a lifetime. She's going through the motions of life and putting up a strong front, but she is suffering inside. Questions and self-doubt constantly plague Greer.
Nick Costa is a 29 year old orthopedic surgeon with the face and body of a Greek god. Highly intelligent and wise beyond his years, Dr. Costa isn't looking for love. He has his career, loving family, and chocolate donuts.
A chance meeting in traffic. A fateful encounter over a broken arm. Blue eyes. Dancing. Margaritas and chocolate donuts. Can Greer finally let go of the past and allow herself to finally have her something? Will Nick stand by her side or allow Greer to push him away?
M.R. has created a real, relatable character in Greer Walker. Any woman will relate to her flaws and feelings at some point in the story. The supporting characters are just as fun and funny, and I found myself rooting for them as well. This book was well-written and captivated me from the first word to the last. Definitely my favorite book by M.R. so far!
January 10, 2015
Loved this book! I am a 1974 baby, turning 40 July 2014, and I totally related to this story. I have not had to deal with the cheating husband storyline, thank goodness, but all the midlife crisis stuff hits home to me. 39 and Holding is hilarious, as well as sweet, romantic and fun. Nick is a great character. He had me laughimg and swooning. Greer's friends and family were a great support for the story as well. I loved being in her head, even when she was being wildly out of line and childish. I think every woman would have the body issue thoughts that she did, and I loved how Nick handled all that drama. He had endless amounts of patience for her and her crazy antics. This was a beautiful love story that I encourage everyone to check out.
January 27, 2015
4 LOL Stars
I have not laughed this much at a book in a long time. Of course me being 39, getting ready to turn 40 in a few months may have something to do with it.
Greer was so much like myself, I swear M.R. was in my head. I literally could hear myself talking through this whole book. Her fears, her insecurities, her broken heart; I have had it all.
Nick is absolutely yummy! A true Greek hottie. Just enough Alpha to get you heated up.
The relationship development is so real and down to earth. It's wonderful.
I love the way Greer talks to us. I just loved this book. It was a light refreshing break from the younger character books I read. It was great to read about someone like me.
I have not laughed this much at a book in a long time. Of course me being 39, getting ready to turn 40 in a few months may have something to do with it.
Greer was so much like myself, I swear M.R. was in my head. I literally could hear myself talking through this whole book. Her fears, her insecurities, her broken heart; I have had it all.
Nick is absolutely yummy! A true Greek hottie. Just enough Alpha to get you heated up.
The relationship development is so real and down to earth. It's wonderful.
I love the way Greer talks to us. I just loved this book. It was a light refreshing break from the younger character books I read. It was great to read about someone like me.
January 11, 2015
Another great read by M.R. Joseph. Loved this book!!! I could totally relate Greer and her worries about love, and body image, am I enough/not enough, where did I go wrong? I think any woman who has gone threw a bad breakup can relate. Thank you for writing a book that spoke to me.
February 13, 2015
Fan-flipping-tastic loved this book. Must read. ..
January 22, 2015
I came across this gem of a book while browsing Amazon, really looking for something new and different to read. Downloaded the sample, was pleased enough to go ahead and purchase. I WAS NOT DISAPPOINTED. This book will be told through the POV of Greer.
We are going to meet Greer Walker, 39 year old, divorced mother of 2. After 14 years of marriage (20 years together in all) her husband not only decides that he is no longer in love with her, but he is in fact in love with a 25 year old bombshell. Not only in love with, but has carried on an affair with while still married to Greer (even having sex with the 25 year old in his martial bed). So, after having her heart and world crushed, she is now trying to figure out how to be single after 20 years.
Greer first lays her eyes on Nick Costa while sitting in traffic. They both happen to be listening to the same song when he looks over and offers Greer a chocolate donut. He eventually goes his way, she goes hers. Even though she doesn't believe that she will ever see the "donut man" again, she did feel a spark and for her that meant that maybe she isn't destined to become an old cat lady after all.
So much for her not ever laying eyes on the man with the chocolate donuts again. Greer is more than surprised when she finds herself face to face with him in the emergency room. Her daughter has broken her arm and who would've thought that the Orthopedic Surgeon assigned to repair the arm of her 6 year old is no other than, the man with the chocolate donuts himself or Dr. Nick Costa to be exact.
Now faced with follow-up visits, Greer realizes that she isn't going to be able to avoid Dr. Costa anytime in the near future. So she does what any responsible woman would do, she makes sure that when she shows up for Sophia's first appointment, that she is dressed to impress, well impress a particular doctor that is. After receiving the cold shoulder from the good doctor during the appointment, she is left even more confused, which compounds after she is told that she can't see any other doctor, per Dr. Costa's orders. Don't worry, everything picks up after Nick has chocolate donuts delivered to Greer's dance studio. She tries to deny them, but she will fail epically.
That hopefully gets you a good start to the relationship between Dr. Chocolate Donut and Greer. Here is what I adored about this book. First, Nick is 10 years younger than Greer, who happens to be knocking on the door of 40. I don't think turning 40 is any different than turning 37, but for a woman, it's just having to say "I'm 40" that causes a few heart palpitations, which is even more reason to love the fact that Nick is 29 (going on 30)and really really good looking. Also, this story really focused on Greer's insecurities, which I thought was a good thing. Let me elaborate. Greer did play the "why me" card. The "why would someone as hot as Nick desire a single mom of 2" why me card. I think that her thought process on that had more to do with her husband leaving her for a 25 year old and what that did to her spirit. We learn during the course of the story how her husband made her feel about herself, especially in the latter years of their marriage. He wouldn't go down on her because he saw her give birth, there are so many things I could say to that, or he would comment on how she need to focus more on her midsection. I mean this woman is a dancer, her body is fantastic. But after hearing her husband point out her worst flaws, the ones that she already beats herself up over, then move onto a 25 year old, that is going to do something to a woman's self esteem. Which is another reason I love this story, it was real. And as douchey as her husband was, in all aspects, she continued to respect him. Well, respect him as much as one can when the asshole leaves her for someone 15 years younger. She never allowed what he did to the family unit get in the way of the kind of father he was, which was extraordinary. She was the bigger person.
She was so hung up on her body's flaws, pooch and stretch marks, that she refused to get completely naked in front of Nick. When the two come head to head about it, it is a remarkable moment in the book. What the author did is remind the reader of the fact that it doesn't matter the amount of friends you have that constantly remind you of how beautiful you are (Greer has plenty of those) or how great your professional life may be (Greer has that) or how fantastic your kids are (which Greer also has), but once your spirit has been crushed and your soul damaged, that it really takes someone who is one of a kind to put it back together again.
Greer's insecurities speak to how a lot of women feel about themselves, especially after having children. This book is refreshing. Reading about a woman struggling to find her way back after a divorce that almost destroyed her was inspiring.
Oh, there is sex and it is hot. Nick really brings out the sexual side of Greer like her husband never did. It was written very erotically. Nick is somewhat dominant (I said somewhat) in the bedroom, which Greer has never experienced and quite enjoys. He is also a dirty talker, which is also new to Greer, which I find very sad. Every woman needs a good dirty talker in her bed. I think it would surprise a man of the things a woman would be willing to do based on a few dirty sentences coming out of their mouths. The only frustrating thing for me was this. During a lot of this book, but especially during the sexual parts of this book, we read about how Ryan (the ex) never made Greer feel the way Nick does. Sex was more of a scheduled event that happened, instead of hot, passionate, throw me up against a wall sex that Nick offered, and honestly that everyone desires. Greer would also talk about the sparks felt between her and Nick that she never felt with Ryan. But then she would use her marriage as her fall back, her reasoning for holding up progress in her relationship with Nick. I understand it to a degree, but it was obvious that what her and Nick had was way more than Ryan ever offered, I just wish she would have seen it more clear, earlier than she did.
This book has drama, humor, great sex, and great supporting characters. The author did a wonderful job with the depth of writing Greer's friends and even her father and kiddos in this one. The only thing is I would've liked to have seen friends of the great doctor. But, I suppose since it was told through Greer's POV, it's her friends we get. But no worries, they were fantastic.
Don't judge this book by its cover. I wasn't overly impressed with it either. Trust me, what is on the inside here is what matters. This book is so well written and doesn't leave on a cliffhanger, so you will have your closure. I am very happily married and knocking on the 40 year old door, but this book still inspired me. If anything, to embrace who I am, 40 or not and know that if your husband can't embrace you, battlescars and all, then FUCK HIM!
We are going to meet Greer Walker, 39 year old, divorced mother of 2. After 14 years of marriage (20 years together in all) her husband not only decides that he is no longer in love with her, but he is in fact in love with a 25 year old bombshell. Not only in love with, but has carried on an affair with while still married to Greer (even having sex with the 25 year old in his martial bed). So, after having her heart and world crushed, she is now trying to figure out how to be single after 20 years.
Greer first lays her eyes on Nick Costa while sitting in traffic. They both happen to be listening to the same song when he looks over and offers Greer a chocolate donut. He eventually goes his way, she goes hers. Even though she doesn't believe that she will ever see the "donut man" again, she did feel a spark and for her that meant that maybe she isn't destined to become an old cat lady after all.
So much for her not ever laying eyes on the man with the chocolate donuts again. Greer is more than surprised when she finds herself face to face with him in the emergency room. Her daughter has broken her arm and who would've thought that the Orthopedic Surgeon assigned to repair the arm of her 6 year old is no other than, the man with the chocolate donuts himself or Dr. Nick Costa to be exact.
Now faced with follow-up visits, Greer realizes that she isn't going to be able to avoid Dr. Costa anytime in the near future. So she does what any responsible woman would do, she makes sure that when she shows up for Sophia's first appointment, that she is dressed to impress, well impress a particular doctor that is. After receiving the cold shoulder from the good doctor during the appointment, she is left even more confused, which compounds after she is told that she can't see any other doctor, per Dr. Costa's orders. Don't worry, everything picks up after Nick has chocolate donuts delivered to Greer's dance studio. She tries to deny them, but she will fail epically.
That hopefully gets you a good start to the relationship between Dr. Chocolate Donut and Greer. Here is what I adored about this book. First, Nick is 10 years younger than Greer, who happens to be knocking on the door of 40. I don't think turning 40 is any different than turning 37, but for a woman, it's just having to say "I'm 40" that causes a few heart palpitations, which is even more reason to love the fact that Nick is 29 (going on 30)and really really good looking. Also, this story really focused on Greer's insecurities, which I thought was a good thing. Let me elaborate. Greer did play the "why me" card. The "why would someone as hot as Nick desire a single mom of 2" why me card. I think that her thought process on that had more to do with her husband leaving her for a 25 year old and what that did to her spirit. We learn during the course of the story how her husband made her feel about herself, especially in the latter years of their marriage. He wouldn't go down on her because he saw her give birth, there are so many things I could say to that, or he would comment on how she need to focus more on her midsection. I mean this woman is a dancer, her body is fantastic. But after hearing her husband point out her worst flaws, the ones that she already beats herself up over, then move onto a 25 year old, that is going to do something to a woman's self esteem. Which is another reason I love this story, it was real. And as douchey as her husband was, in all aspects, she continued to respect him. Well, respect him as much as one can when the asshole leaves her for someone 15 years younger. She never allowed what he did to the family unit get in the way of the kind of father he was, which was extraordinary. She was the bigger person.
She was so hung up on her body's flaws, pooch and stretch marks, that she refused to get completely naked in front of Nick. When the two come head to head about it, it is a remarkable moment in the book. What the author did is remind the reader of the fact that it doesn't matter the amount of friends you have that constantly remind you of how beautiful you are (Greer has plenty of those) or how great your professional life may be (Greer has that) or how fantastic your kids are (which Greer also has), but once your spirit has been crushed and your soul damaged, that it really takes someone who is one of a kind to put it back together again.
Greer's insecurities speak to how a lot of women feel about themselves, especially after having children. This book is refreshing. Reading about a woman struggling to find her way back after a divorce that almost destroyed her was inspiring.
Oh, there is sex and it is hot. Nick really brings out the sexual side of Greer like her husband never did. It was written very erotically. Nick is somewhat dominant (I said somewhat) in the bedroom, which Greer has never experienced and quite enjoys. He is also a dirty talker, which is also new to Greer, which I find very sad. Every woman needs a good dirty talker in her bed. I think it would surprise a man of the things a woman would be willing to do based on a few dirty sentences coming out of their mouths. The only frustrating thing for me was this. During a lot of this book, but especially during the sexual parts of this book, we read about how Ryan (the ex) never made Greer feel the way Nick does. Sex was more of a scheduled event that happened, instead of hot, passionate, throw me up against a wall sex that Nick offered, and honestly that everyone desires. Greer would also talk about the sparks felt between her and Nick that she never felt with Ryan. But then she would use her marriage as her fall back, her reasoning for holding up progress in her relationship with Nick. I understand it to a degree, but it was obvious that what her and Nick had was way more than Ryan ever offered, I just wish she would have seen it more clear, earlier than she did.
This book has drama, humor, great sex, and great supporting characters. The author did a wonderful job with the depth of writing Greer's friends and even her father and kiddos in this one. The only thing is I would've liked to have seen friends of the great doctor. But, I suppose since it was told through Greer's POV, it's her friends we get. But no worries, they were fantastic.
Don't judge this book by its cover. I wasn't overly impressed with it either. Trust me, what is on the inside here is what matters. This book is so well written and doesn't leave on a cliffhanger, so you will have your closure. I am very happily married and knocking on the 40 year old door, but this book still inspired me. If anything, to embrace who I am, 40 or not and know that if your husband can't embrace you, battlescars and all, then FUCK HIM!
February 5, 2015
“I wanted to hang on to thirty-nine forever and I was fully prepared to do so.”
You know a book is truly wonderful when you instantly - fully - connect to the main character and the plot. I fell in love with 39 & Holding from the very first page. I laughed (full on belly-laugh), swooned, squirmed, sighed……. I LOVED it.
MR Joseph’s writing style was so damn natural and realistic!!! The things the heroine, Greer, said and thought??? OMG!! Hilarious!!! I’ve said and thought those things at least once throughout my life!! I will even go on and say that I’m sure most women have too! They may deny it, but come on!! They soooo have – especially when dealing with an ex!!!
Getting over a divorce isn’t always a piece of cake, especially when infidelity is a factor, and MR Joseph did an AMAZING job developing this throughout the book. Greer’s life changed in a matter of minutes when she came across a very eye-opening email in her husband’s inbox. Suffice it to say, her marriage ended. At 39 years old, she found herself divorced with two kids.
“My dear, love isn’t measure in length of time. All that counts is when you feel it, grab it. Time is nothing but numbers on a clock.”
Enter Dr. Doughnuts. Nick…oh, Nick. SO YUMMY! My goodness, he was perfect!!!! He definitely changed Greer’s life in more ways than one. He was exactly what she needed. She actually started living – all thanks to him. I loved reading her reactions to all the emotions and situations that came along with dating and falling in love, especially when she had sworn she wouldn’t go through any of this just to avoid the risk of getting hurt…again. Greer’s internal battles/dialogue and conversations with her friends were SO realistic and at times, hilarious! It was all very well written and thought out. Mad props to the author! You see, Greer didn’t just give herself fully to Nick. She had to think about her kids, her life, and other factors (read the book and you will know what I mean) before actually going for it. So like I said, MR Joseph really did a wonderful job in developing their relationship and characters realistically.
“There’s not many imperfect things about you, Greer, but the things that are, they’re the things I love the most.”
This was truly a wonderful read that I enjoyed from start to finish (LOVED the ending!!!!). It was sassy, funny, hot, and at times, even emotional. I would definitely recommend this book to anyone that loves a good and light romance with some very sexy spice! FIVE STARS!!
“The unexpected this are the gifts we should cherish the most.”
You know a book is truly wonderful when you instantly - fully - connect to the main character and the plot. I fell in love with 39 & Holding from the very first page. I laughed (full on belly-laugh), swooned, squirmed, sighed……. I LOVED it.
MR Joseph’s writing style was so damn natural and realistic!!! The things the heroine, Greer, said and thought??? OMG!! Hilarious!!! I’ve said and thought those things at least once throughout my life!! I will even go on and say that I’m sure most women have too! They may deny it, but come on!! They soooo have – especially when dealing with an ex!!!
Getting over a divorce isn’t always a piece of cake, especially when infidelity is a factor, and MR Joseph did an AMAZING job developing this throughout the book. Greer’s life changed in a matter of minutes when she came across a very eye-opening email in her husband’s inbox. Suffice it to say, her marriage ended. At 39 years old, she found herself divorced with two kids.
“My dear, love isn’t measure in length of time. All that counts is when you feel it, grab it. Time is nothing but numbers on a clock.”
Enter Dr. Doughnuts. Nick…oh, Nick. SO YUMMY! My goodness, he was perfect!!!! He definitely changed Greer’s life in more ways than one. He was exactly what she needed. She actually started living – all thanks to him. I loved reading her reactions to all the emotions and situations that came along with dating and falling in love, especially when she had sworn she wouldn’t go through any of this just to avoid the risk of getting hurt…again. Greer’s internal battles/dialogue and conversations with her friends were SO realistic and at times, hilarious! It was all very well written and thought out. Mad props to the author! You see, Greer didn’t just give herself fully to Nick. She had to think about her kids, her life, and other factors (read the book and you will know what I mean) before actually going for it. So like I said, MR Joseph really did a wonderful job in developing their relationship and characters realistically.
“There’s not many imperfect things about you, Greer, but the things that are, they’re the things I love the most.”
This was truly a wonderful read that I enjoyed from start to finish (LOVED the ending!!!!). It was sassy, funny, hot, and at times, even emotional. I would definitely recommend this book to anyone that loves a good and light romance with some very sexy spice! FIVE STARS!!
“The unexpected this are the gifts we should cherish the most.”
February 5, 2015
What a great, funny, sexy, stand alone read M.R. Joseph brings us. I am 42, with a couple of kids, so everything Greer was going through I totally understood.
Greer Walker is 39, freshly divorced (over a year anyway) owns her own business and has a couple of kids. Her husband was a complete dirt bag and traded her in for a newer model. Needless to say this crushed any self esteem she had left. Except for working and her kids, Greer pretty much keeps to herself and a few good girlfriends. Girlfriends who want to see this sexy mama get laid!
Nick Costa is a woman's walking wet dream, as he is tall, dark (Greek) and handsome. Nick "meets" Greer in the funniest way possible and you just wonder how these two will find each other after that. Fate plays a big part in their second meeting and the butterflies take up permanent residence in Greer's stomach when he's around. Nick is wise for his age, which Greer knows is quite a few years younger than her.
Upon meeting again, Nick and Greer dance around dating and maybe a relationship, however that is something she hasn't done in twenty years and is finding it difficult. It doesn't help her insecurities when the dirt bag's new girlfriend is at her house every other weekend to pick up HER kids with HER husband. To say Greer has some lingering issues is putting it mildly.
Nick is a saint. Not that he doesn't have a past of his own, but this guy knows exactly what to say to talk Greer off of the ledge time after time. He is quite the word smith and made me swoon more that once when telling Greer why he appreciates her body and then showing her. Nick knows he is in a battle with Greer's past and puts up a good fight.
The book is well written and my only complaint would be the length, as it got a bit draggy in the middle. That said, we get a complete story and a few epilogues to boot.
Reviewed for Renee Entress's Blog.
Greer Walker is 39, freshly divorced (over a year anyway) owns her own business and has a couple of kids. Her husband was a complete dirt bag and traded her in for a newer model. Needless to say this crushed any self esteem she had left. Except for working and her kids, Greer pretty much keeps to herself and a few good girlfriends. Girlfriends who want to see this sexy mama get laid!
Nick Costa is a woman's walking wet dream, as he is tall, dark (Greek) and handsome. Nick "meets" Greer in the funniest way possible and you just wonder how these two will find each other after that. Fate plays a big part in their second meeting and the butterflies take up permanent residence in Greer's stomach when he's around. Nick is wise for his age, which Greer knows is quite a few years younger than her.
Upon meeting again, Nick and Greer dance around dating and maybe a relationship, however that is something she hasn't done in twenty years and is finding it difficult. It doesn't help her insecurities when the dirt bag's new girlfriend is at her house every other weekend to pick up HER kids with HER husband. To say Greer has some lingering issues is putting it mildly.
Nick is a saint. Not that he doesn't have a past of his own, but this guy knows exactly what to say to talk Greer off of the ledge time after time. He is quite the word smith and made me swoon more that once when telling Greer why he appreciates her body and then showing her. Nick knows he is in a battle with Greer's past and puts up a good fight.
The book is well written and my only complaint would be the length, as it got a bit draggy in the middle. That said, we get a complete story and a few epilogues to boot.
Reviewed for Renee Entress's Blog.
February 6, 2015
5 Stars!
Definitely going to be one of my top reads for 2015!
Laughing. Smiling. Totally cheesing. This book is going to make you belly ache and tears coming out of your eyes kind of laughing. This book was an excellent adventure to how Greer lost love, moved on, and found love again. This book, while crazy good and funny, was also very heartwarming and had many sweet moments that will make you swoon hard. I think most adult women at any age will be able to connect with this book one way or another.
This is Greer and Nick's story. Greer is a woman on a mission. Dumped by her husband and partner for twenty years for someone much younger, Greer is living a shell of the woman she used to be. Being basically traded in for a younger version has made her doubt herself and insecurities to develop. But that is all going to change in with the help of one sexy man, also know as Nick who is determine to show Greer that she is sexy and love is possible again.
Ok so seriously you can't help but fall in love with Nick from the very first meeting. The man was on a mission to make her his and he stopped at nothing... and I do mean nothing. He was so sweet and showed her ways to show she was sexy. And I felt they connected the most when he watched her dance. The charge and sexual tension between them at those times was off the charts. And Greer... I really liked her. I loved her inner thoughts and when she talked about her ex's mistress... funny as crap. I would have loved for her to go round and round with her for a few times.
Oh and I must mention, the best part of this book is the beginning chapters that set up the book!
I am sorry to say this is my first book by this author but I will definitely be correcting that problem and one clicking more books because this book totally knocked it out of the park with me!
I highly recommend this book to everyone!
Blog Tour---> http://reneeentress.blogspot.com/2015...
Definitely going to be one of my top reads for 2015!
Laughing. Smiling. Totally cheesing. This book is going to make you belly ache and tears coming out of your eyes kind of laughing. This book was an excellent adventure to how Greer lost love, moved on, and found love again. This book, while crazy good and funny, was also very heartwarming and had many sweet moments that will make you swoon hard. I think most adult women at any age will be able to connect with this book one way or another.
This is Greer and Nick's story. Greer is a woman on a mission. Dumped by her husband and partner for twenty years for someone much younger, Greer is living a shell of the woman she used to be. Being basically traded in for a younger version has made her doubt herself and insecurities to develop. But that is all going to change in with the help of one sexy man, also know as Nick who is determine to show Greer that she is sexy and love is possible again.
Ok so seriously you can't help but fall in love with Nick from the very first meeting. The man was on a mission to make her his and he stopped at nothing... and I do mean nothing. He was so sweet and showed her ways to show she was sexy. And I felt they connected the most when he watched her dance. The charge and sexual tension between them at those times was off the charts. And Greer... I really liked her. I loved her inner thoughts and when she talked about her ex's mistress... funny as crap. I would have loved for her to go round and round with her for a few times.
Oh and I must mention, the best part of this book is the beginning chapters that set up the book!
I am sorry to say this is my first book by this author but I will definitely be correcting that problem and one clicking more books because this book totally knocked it out of the park with me!
I highly recommend this book to everyone!
Blog Tour---> http://reneeentress.blogspot.com/2015...
February 1, 2015
39 and Holding was a book about trying to live your life to the fullest no matter your age, and feeling like ur life is falling apart to only be brought back by an unexpected love. I loved this book, it had so much realness to it for me. I am 35 and I find myself feeling some of the crazy things Greer feels.. although I haven't been through what she has I still felt like I could relate to her on many accounts. I loved how this book was a light funny read but still had an intense feel about it as well, oh and the sexy scenes were pretty hot as well! I would give this book a 4 star and would definitely recommend to others. It is standalone of thankfully there is an HEA.
Greer is going through a divorce and feels like her life is over. She will be 40 this year and finds herself to determined to start living again. Who would have thought that she would find the reason in a sexy man she meets in traffic on a freeway??? It just a fluke because she will never see this man again they went different directions... but fate has a way of intervening and she finds herself in the ER with her daughter and the sexy man from traffic walks in and is the orthopedic surgeon.
Nick is a surgeon and lives his life to the fullest. He has his career set but not his love life. When he meets an amazing woman in traffic he instantly wants to know everything about her but can't because he is going a different direction but when fate brings them together he is sure its a sign and he is ready to pursue.
Can Greer and Nick make it work, or will the age difference and the fact that she just went through a divorce get in the way? Or will Greer's insecurities keep her from having what she deserves?
Go get this book now it will have you laughing your ass off and swooning! Thanks for a great story!
Greer is going through a divorce and feels like her life is over. She will be 40 this year and finds herself to determined to start living again. Who would have thought that she would find the reason in a sexy man she meets in traffic on a freeway??? It just a fluke because she will never see this man again they went different directions... but fate has a way of intervening and she finds herself in the ER with her daughter and the sexy man from traffic walks in and is the orthopedic surgeon.
Nick is a surgeon and lives his life to the fullest. He has his career set but not his love life. When he meets an amazing woman in traffic he instantly wants to know everything about her but can't because he is going a different direction but when fate brings them together he is sure its a sign and he is ready to pursue.
Can Greer and Nick make it work, or will the age difference and the fact that she just went through a divorce get in the way? Or will Greer's insecurities keep her from having what she deserves?
Go get this book now it will have you laughing your ass off and swooning! Thanks for a great story!
February 3, 2015
I was given a copy of this book by the author for an honest review.
Oh my goodness was this book funny! M.R. Joseph did a fantastic job with these characters. There were serious parts as well. Sometimes, Greer, got on my nerves just being either insecure or wishy-washy about her true feelings regarding Nick Costa. She knew she didn't love her ex-husband anymore. That died the day she found he was having an affair. She wasn't prepared for Nick though.
I think each person's turn around time for when they're ready to date again after the divorce or death of their spouse varies. You never know how people truly are behind closed doors unless you live behind them yourself. One may be ready to move on before the first relationship even ends - like in this case. Greer's husband, Ryan, decides to have an affair with a much younger woman. He falls in love. Thus breaking up their 20 year relationship. How do you rebuild after 20 years?
Greer buries herself in her kids and her dance studio. She doesn't date. She's not looking to love again. She feels damaged. Unworthy. Until she connects with a man in his car eating donuts. It's the most highly charged feeling she's ever felt - not even with Ryan did she feel that power jolt.
So they go their separate ways only to meet again a few weeks later. Their connection is too intense for Greer. She's like a scared cat. She has a big struggle getting over some of her own personal issues as well as the age difference between Nick and her.
I think you will enjoy this story. There's many bust out loud laughing moments in this story. My family kept looking at me funny as I would be completely silent then laughing loudly the next. It's a great story and if you're even close to being 39+ you'll totally get Greer's hang up over age. 40 is a scary decade to approach for sure.
Oh my goodness was this book funny! M.R. Joseph did a fantastic job with these characters. There were serious parts as well. Sometimes, Greer, got on my nerves just being either insecure or wishy-washy about her true feelings regarding Nick Costa. She knew she didn't love her ex-husband anymore. That died the day she found he was having an affair. She wasn't prepared for Nick though.
I think each person's turn around time for when they're ready to date again after the divorce or death of their spouse varies. You never know how people truly are behind closed doors unless you live behind them yourself. One may be ready to move on before the first relationship even ends - like in this case. Greer's husband, Ryan, decides to have an affair with a much younger woman. He falls in love. Thus breaking up their 20 year relationship. How do you rebuild after 20 years?
Greer buries herself in her kids and her dance studio. She doesn't date. She's not looking to love again. She feels damaged. Unworthy. Until she connects with a man in his car eating donuts. It's the most highly charged feeling she's ever felt - not even with Ryan did she feel that power jolt.
So they go their separate ways only to meet again a few weeks later. Their connection is too intense for Greer. She's like a scared cat. She has a big struggle getting over some of her own personal issues as well as the age difference between Nick and her.
I think you will enjoy this story. There's many bust out loud laughing moments in this story. My family kept looking at me funny as I would be completely silent then laughing loudly the next. It's a great story and if you're even close to being 39+ you'll totally get Greer's hang up over age. 40 is a scary decade to approach for sure.
February 1, 2015
I loved this book. I don't think I've ever identified with characters more in any book. Maybe it's because they're older (30s-40s) and more mature. But, it was great. I laughed many times and my eyes may have gotten watery a few times as well.
Greer is a 39 year old woman who divorced her cheating husband of 15 years. She lives for her kids and dancing. She is the epitome of a great mom. She doesn't talk bad to her kids about her exhusband and doesn't want to keep them away from him no matter how much she may hate him. She gives him credit for being a good dad… just no so great of a husband. Her sense of humor is great. She's cynical and sarcastic just like you would expect any woman who has been tossed aside for a newer model.
Nick AKA Mr. Doughnut Man (I love the nicknames they give people in this book) is a few years younger than Greer, but very mature. He's successful, charming, and just all around hot and he wants Greer.
There are very real issues dealt with in this book that I think only women can really understand. Greer is dealing with her almost 40 year old body, which she is not confident in. After 2 kids she has the extra fluff and stretch marks to show for it. And now, she's afraid that Nick is going to see all of this and move on to a Barbie look-alike just like her ex did.
This is a great book for anyone wanting to read about older, more mature characters. The story is believable for the most part and still has plenty of comedy included. This is a book I could see making a great movie.
Greer is a 39 year old woman who divorced her cheating husband of 15 years. She lives for her kids and dancing. She is the epitome of a great mom. She doesn't talk bad to her kids about her exhusband and doesn't want to keep them away from him no matter how much she may hate him. She gives him credit for being a good dad… just no so great of a husband. Her sense of humor is great. She's cynical and sarcastic just like you would expect any woman who has been tossed aside for a newer model.
Nick AKA Mr. Doughnut Man (I love the nicknames they give people in this book) is a few years younger than Greer, but very mature. He's successful, charming, and just all around hot and he wants Greer.
There are very real issues dealt with in this book that I think only women can really understand. Greer is dealing with her almost 40 year old body, which she is not confident in. After 2 kids she has the extra fluff and stretch marks to show for it. And now, she's afraid that Nick is going to see all of this and move on to a Barbie look-alike just like her ex did.
This is a great book for anyone wanting to read about older, more mature characters. The story is believable for the most part and still has plenty of comedy included. This is a book I could see making a great movie.
February 4, 2015
I got a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review for the blog tour I am hosting
39 & Holding is the funniest book I have read so far for 2015. This book is perfect for any married woman, mother and divorce. You will connect with this book on levels you haven’t thought of yet.
So let get to 39 & holding. It is about Greer a 39 year old divorce with two kids, a body that show that she did have baby and a whole lot of insecurities to go with it. The love interest Dr Doughnut or Nic Costa a hot 29 year old doctor that has interest in Greer.
“Darlin, fear is just an emotion”
They meet in a way that is really told in movies and by fate they meet again. Greer has a fight against her own will and truly don’t know if she should or shouldn’t. Look just let’s face it, they do. And things does get really, and I mean really good.
“bravery to those who finally accept the fear sand face the ones head on that take over you mind, body and soul”
39 & Holding will have you look at life, love and the whole thing about being 40 you’re life is over with new open eyes. Life does truly start when your 40. Hey, they do say 40 is the new 30. (I don’t know that, but who am I to argue against it)
“friends like that help you bury the body. Know what I mean?”
This book will have you peeing your pants and make your heart go awwwww….
I give 39 & Holding 4 Crazy stars….
39 & Holding is the funniest book I have read so far for 2015. This book is perfect for any married woman, mother and divorce. You will connect with this book on levels you haven’t thought of yet.
So let get to 39 & holding. It is about Greer a 39 year old divorce with two kids, a body that show that she did have baby and a whole lot of insecurities to go with it. The love interest Dr Doughnut or Nic Costa a hot 29 year old doctor that has interest in Greer.
“Darlin, fear is just an emotion”
They meet in a way that is really told in movies and by fate they meet again. Greer has a fight against her own will and truly don’t know if she should or shouldn’t. Look just let’s face it, they do. And things does get really, and I mean really good.
“bravery to those who finally accept the fear sand face the ones head on that take over you mind, body and soul”
39 & Holding will have you look at life, love and the whole thing about being 40 you’re life is over with new open eyes. Life does truly start when your 40. Hey, they do say 40 is the new 30. (I don’t know that, but who am I to argue against it)
“friends like that help you bury the body. Know what I mean?”
This book will have you peeing your pants and make your heart go awwwww….
I give 39 & Holding 4 Crazy stars….
January 25, 2015
3.5 Stars
39 & Holding is a contemporary, comedic romance. It deals with love, friendship, infidelity, moving on, letting go and finding new love. Greer, the main character, finds herself divorced due to her husband leaving her to be with his mistress. She has a group of tight knit friends but still feels she has lost herself if she is no longer a wife and part of a nuclear family. The comedy in the book is good and we learn a lot of the characters from it. The other main character, Nick, is a doctor (and is younger than Greer) who immediately goes after Greer once he realizes she is divorced. There is great chemistry between Nick and Greer. There is great chemistry between Greer and her friends. I like how the author depicts the relationship between Greer and her ex-husband, Ryan. There were some weaks points in the story for me. Greer's constant devaluing herself and lack of empathy for Nick's feelings did not work so much for me. Also, part of the epilogue there was one aspect of the story that made me say "COME ON!". However, if you are looking for a fun read that will give you moments of tenderness, some spicy heat between the main characters, and good laughs, I would recommend 39 & Holding as a good read.
39 & Holding is a contemporary, comedic romance. It deals with love, friendship, infidelity, moving on, letting go and finding new love. Greer, the main character, finds herself divorced due to her husband leaving her to be with his mistress. She has a group of tight knit friends but still feels she has lost herself if she is no longer a wife and part of a nuclear family. The comedy in the book is good and we learn a lot of the characters from it. The other main character, Nick, is a doctor (and is younger than Greer) who immediately goes after Greer once he realizes she is divorced. There is great chemistry between Nick and Greer. There is great chemistry between Greer and her friends. I like how the author depicts the relationship between Greer and her ex-husband, Ryan. There were some weaks points in the story for me. Greer's constant devaluing herself and lack of empathy for Nick's feelings did not work so much for me. Also, part of the epilogue there was one aspect of the story that made me say "COME ON!". However, if you are looking for a fun read that will give you moments of tenderness, some spicy heat between the main characters, and good laughs, I would recommend 39 & Holding as a good read.
February 28, 2015
I love the way M.R. Joseph writes a book. I get sucked in so quickly no matter what she is writing about. She has this smooth way to tell a story that has you entranced within the first few pages. Toss in the humor and one liners and this book turns into a must read. Although, at times, you will want to punch Greer in the junk forever doubting Nick and his operation “Get Greer” but she will always find a way to redeem herself. I’m not sure if it’s because I’m approaching 40 or not but you just identify.
What happens when the one person in the world who wasn’t supposed to break your heart puts you under the car and drives over you then backups for good measure? You become the person you never wanted to be the one who questions the motives of anyone who pays attention to you. Trying to build trust and learn to let someone in again- as a woman who was scorned is only for the strong. Luckily Greer was meeting the challenge head on.
If as a woman you can’t connect with this book then you may want to do a genital check. I think we have all had at least one of thoughts that went through Greer’s head. Then to top it off you throw in a hot dirty talking man and Dr. Pussy Destroyer is born. Making me fall for her men is a given when it comes to Ms. Joseph
What happens when the one person in the world who wasn’t supposed to break your heart puts you under the car and drives over you then backups for good measure? You become the person you never wanted to be the one who questions the motives of anyone who pays attention to you. Trying to build trust and learn to let someone in again- as a woman who was scorned is only for the strong. Luckily Greer was meeting the challenge head on.
If as a woman you can’t connect with this book then you may want to do a genital check. I think we have all had at least one of thoughts that went through Greer’s head. Then to top it off you throw in a hot dirty talking man and Dr. Pussy Destroyer is born. Making me fall for her men is a given when it comes to Ms. Joseph
March 5, 2015
I had heard a lot of great things about this book so it got me curious and start reading it, this is about a woman who is left by her husband for some blonde bimbo and how this affects her self esteem and how hard is for the women in the world feel wanted and be able to deserve happiness again, in this case this happiness is in the form of a hot beautiful romantic and successful Dr Nick costa who shows her that the world doesn't stop with her divorce and even when sometimes is very difficult take this road again you will never know how would go if you dont give it a chance so that is why I love this book and I think that even if you haven't experienced something like that you can related to her feelings and insecurities with herself so I really recommended this awesome story, love this book!!
February 6, 2015
A total real-life funny and enjoyable read. I was in the beginning of a book rut and just needed one book to make me smile. One book, that's all I asked for....
I GOT IT HERE!!!!
The beginning was my absolute favorite part.
I highlighted so many parts in the beginning.
I still fantasize about gauging his eyes out with red- hot pokers laced with Hepatits C. Too harsh?
Greer (LOVE her name BTW) telling the story, did a fabulous job. The middle and end was a normal type read with a couple of obvious plot lines that happen but still, for me, I very much enjoyed this story, And with a real life topics it's expected. I would have LOVED for the real story take part at the holding time. I would have loved to see Greer's freak out then!!!
I GOT IT HERE!!!!
The beginning was my absolute favorite part.
I highlighted so many parts in the beginning.
I still fantasize about gauging his eyes out with red- hot pokers laced with Hepatits C. Too harsh?
Greer (LOVE her name BTW) telling the story, did a fabulous job. The middle and end was a normal type read with a couple of obvious plot lines that happen but still, for me, I very much enjoyed this story, And with a real life topics it's expected. I would have LOVED for the real story take part at the holding time. I would have loved to see Greer's freak out then!!!
February 14, 2015
Getting older is never easy, but reaching that particular age and having to start over is overwhelming to say the least.
Greer is starting over after 14 years of marriage. She got her friends and family, but something is missing; something that sets your heart aflutter. In walks Nick with those sexy good looks and persistent nature. She try to deny him, but he's not having any of that. Seriously, that man is sexy with a capital S!
I really enjoyed this book; much more than I thought I would. I was laughing and crying and enjoying the ride. I loved that Greer is older than Nick, just how things are here in the real world. Their chemistry is killer! This my first book my M.R. Joseph but won't be my last.
Greer is starting over after 14 years of marriage. She got her friends and family, but something is missing; something that sets your heart aflutter. In walks Nick with those sexy good looks and persistent nature. She try to deny him, but he's not having any of that. Seriously, that man is sexy with a capital S!
I really enjoyed this book; much more than I thought I would. I was laughing and crying and enjoying the ride. I loved that Greer is older than Nick, just how things are here in the real world. Their chemistry is killer! This my first book my M.R. Joseph but won't be my last.
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