Stop searching for purpose and start being present.
"Pursue your calling." "Become the best version of yourself." "Make your life count." These messages inundate us at work, in our churches, in self-help books, and in our own psyches. But so many of us are worn out from constantly pursuing more and always feeling like we fall short. In a capitalist system, purpose is determined by profitability, manipulating us into believing our entire lives should be driven by growth and production. Society has narrowed our perspective of work, gifts, and success, turning our unique energies into commodities. But we don't have to accept this limiting view. We can reclaim our true purpose by resisting systems of exploitation, slowing our constant forward motion, and tuning in to what's happening in the here and now.
In You Don't Need a Calling, former minister Damon Garcia turns our standard ways of thinking about purpose upside down. Purpose isn't something we find--it's something that finds us when we learn to be present to the world in front of us. Drawing on philosophy, theology, pop culture, and anti-capitalist perspectives, Garcia charts a new course away from, on the one hand, the faith perspective that everything in our lives is part of God's plan and, on the other, the cynical belief that our lives have no purpose at all.
For anyone disillusioned by the idea of "God's plan" for their life or exhausted by the achievement treadmill, this book will dislodge your narrow thinking and reframe the way you view your life, desires, gifts, work, success, and relationship to the world. This book isn't about how to become the person you wish you were. It's about how to free yourself to be present to who you already are.
As an adult with a disability, I understood many years ago that I had to justify my existence. I understood years ago that there are people, no matter how accomplished I become, who believe the world would be better off if I didn't exist.
I thought about these things often while reading Damon Garcia's latest book "You Don't Need a Calling: An Anti-Capitalist Manifesto for a Life of Purpose."
"You Don't Need a Calling" isn't about disability. Garcia never delves into my own situation. However, the core of the book centers around Garcia's rejection of the idea that we need to change into some better version of ourselves in order to become valuable.
What if I'm already valuable? What if I step away from the cultural messages that production determines my worth, accomplishments determine my value, and that if I only do "one more thing" I'll finally be worthy of existence.
I'm worthy now.
While Garcia approaches the topic through the lens of capitalism, there's far more here and "You Don't Need a Calling" is both a cultural and interpersonal manifesto.
As I read "You Don't Need a Calling," I got more and more in touch with a lifetime of always trying to prove my worth and just how gutted I am, and still am, by always having that worth questioned whether I'm talking about work, relationships, romance or whatever.
By the end of "You Don't Need a Calling," I found myself appreciating Garcia's literary presence and this move away from worth-based living toward a life of true purpose based on a life of meaning and a different kind of calling.
"You Don't Need a Calling" feels like a journey, Garcia's own experiences weaving together a tapestry with his knowledge to create a manifesto worth telling. While I'll often admit that I find writers sometimes rush to write a book grounded within experiences and beliefs their still processing, in this case it works immensely precisely because it reinforces Garcia's idea that he need not reach a certain status or place to have a message worth sharing.
It's worth sharing now. It'll be worth sharing as his life takes the twists and turns all of our lives take. This isn't a "right now" message. It's a life message. (NOTE: On a reviewer's note, this all also explains so much why I love Broadleaf as a publisher and why I review so many of their titles).
"You Don't Need a Calling" is a lovely gem of a book. It feels like it's an honest book, because it feels as if Garcia is living into his own messages here. While I don't know Garcia, and in fact did not read his first book "The God Who Riots," "You Don't Need a Calling" feels like Garcia wrestling with himself and learning how to give himself grace and then inviting us along on the journey.
Garcia is back at it again, offering a fresh and much needed perspective on things in life that feel tried and stale. How does one write about purpose in an age where it feels like there is none? Garcia skillfully takes on this task by applying both a progressive Christian and sociopolitical lens, challenging the notion that one must find their purpose. Purpose is inherent—as he suggests, if you are alive, then you already have purpose.
Purpose doesn’t have to be sought after via a relationship, a career, or financial opportunities, it comes from within. The next step is to find a community that believes the same, and do life with them, appreciating everything that each persons brings to the table.
Damon Garcia has done it again with his new book. Taking real life and personal examples, he has shown why it matters to question the narratives we've all been given around finding our "calling." I experienced many of the same feelings and also resonated deeply with the experience in the corporate environment shared by Garcia.
In my opinion there has been far too much effort spent on convincing people they need a calling, which has only increased our reliance and dependence on capitalism, or least committed us to it as the answer. When we decide to explore who we are instead of "what we were meant to be" everything changes for us and this book does an incredible job of walking us through that exploration!
I was not going into reading this knowing that Damon has a religious background. It was nice to see someone who had gone through the same struggles I did with growing up in the evangelical church and even how that can tie into our connection with capitalistic standards. It was a good read and gave me a fresh perspective, but I suppose I was expecting the book to be less personal towards Damon's life and more factual I suppose? Like a harder lean towards a call to action to detach yourself from the pressures of capitalistic standards. Overall though, the book was helpful.