It is a good opportunity for you to know yourself at the time when you feel lonely, to recognize a friend at the time when you are not understood by others, and to find the light at the time when you feel in the dark. You will know who is your friend in need at the time when you feel helpless. It is right if you feel confused, because no one is not confused when he/she is young. The reason that he is able to turn into a vice president of the television division of a listed media company from a mere reporter at a television station, and a best-selling author from a mere Chinese Department graduate after nearly ten years ’ hard working in Beijing as a young man from other province is not because that he is a successful man, but that he is a real man with temperatures. This book records Liu Tong’s experiences of growth in the past decade, in which readers should be able to find the shadow of him/herself in today, yesterday and tomorrow. His sincere answers about his past embarrassments and self-comforting like Ah Q make editors cry while smiling. In this era, no one can think and see on behalf of another people, no one dare to say that he/she is a role model of other people. Because: "no one is not confused when he/she is young. It is the same for all of us ".你觉得孤独就对了,那是让你认识自己的机会。你觉得不被理解就对了,那是让你认清朋友的机会。你觉得黑暗就对了,那是你发现光芒的机会。你觉得无助就对了,那样你才能知道谁是你的贵人。你觉得迷茫就对了,谁的青春不迷茫。 从电视台的小记者到上市传媒公司电视事业部的副总裁,从外省青年进入北京奋斗近十年,从中文系毕业到畅销书作者。究其原因并不是因为他有多成功,而是因为他够真实,有温度。 这本书是刘同十年的成长心路历程,每个人都能从中找到当下自己,过去自己,未来自己的影子。对于他过去种种的真实狼狈,阿Q式的自我安慰,再对比他今日对过往的真挚对答,所有文字让编辑团队哭到泪崩,笑到飙泪。 在这个年代,没有谁能代替谁思考,没有谁能代替谁看见,也没有谁敢说自己是谁的榜样。因为“谁的青春不迷茫,其实我们都一样”。