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Rod and Cane Society #3
Body Politics
Feminist Stephanie Gordon knows the instant she meets blind date Mark DeLuca it’s not going to work. Sure the deputy chief of police is criminally sexy, but he’s arrogant, domineering and sexist. Thank goodness after the evening ends, she’ll never have to see him again.
A member of the Rod and Cane Society, an organization of men who spank, Mark DeLuca is attracted to Stephanie like a paddle to a well-rounded bottom. He sees beneath the shield of feminist militancy to the soft, sensitive woman she tries to hide. When she storms away in a snit, the chase is on. Can a spanko convince a diehard feminist her true strength lies in submission?
A member of the Rod and Cane Society, an organization of men who spank, Mark DeLuca is attracted to Stephanie like a paddle to a well-rounded bottom. He sees beneath the shield of feminist militancy to the soft, sensitive woman she tries to hide. When she storms away in a snit, the chase is on. Can a spanko convince a diehard feminist her true strength lies in submission?
191 pages, Kindle Edition
First published January 7, 2013
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Cara Bristol
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Cara is a homebody who married a wanderer. When she’s not writing or being distracted by squirrels cavorting outside her office window, she enjoys reading and traveling the world with her husband. Topping her bucket list is visiting all seven continents and petting a squirrel.
Visit her website to get a free sci-fi romance.
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March 9, 2013
I really enjoyed this story, and it made me very uncomfortable at the same time. Combining domestic discipline with a feminist is a courageous choice for the author in my opinion. For the most part I think she succeeded in explaining why Stephanie was able to accept both her nature and her political leanings. I particularly liked the point made that feminism is about allowing women freedom of choice, even if that choice is to be part of a dd relationship.
There were several aspects that I found impossible to suspend belief for. The main one was the speed at which Stephanie allowed Mark to spank her for punishment. It is one thing to enjoy erotic spankings and even some punishment role play spankings, but it's another thing altogether to accept the principle that one person is entitled to punish another by unilateral decision. The fact that Mark punished Stephanie on their second date for being rude, when in fact he had completely blindsided her by taking her to a Rod and Cane function, was just not okay for me.
I liked Stephanie, and I like the way she could accept when she was wrong and own up to it. She knew she was rude and apologizing to the person she had offended would have been the right thing to do. No, the punishment in this case should have been given to Mark in my opinion. (Although I liked that he allowed Stephanie to spank him, I don't think it was the same thing as accepting his responsibility for why she reacted the way she did.) Mark was in the wrong, and I simply could not understand why Stephanie submitted to being punished so quickly in the relationship.
I agree with another reviewer who pointed out that it was Stephanie who did all the growing, changing, and compromising in the story. I never saw Mark make any real concessions and I have a hard time with that.
Despite all that, I found the story entertaining, humorous, and very hot. I enjoyed most of Stephanie's journey to accepting her body's desires in spite of her political opinions. I would have cheered if just once Mark was talked out of punishing Stephanie because it was the wrong thing to do. This would have indicated a level of consent on Stephanie's part, that I think was missing in the story.
There were several aspects that I found impossible to suspend belief for. The main one was the speed at which Stephanie allowed Mark to spank her for punishment. It is one thing to enjoy erotic spankings and even some punishment role play spankings, but it's another thing altogether to accept the principle that one person is entitled to punish another by unilateral decision. The fact that Mark punished Stephanie on their second date for being rude, when in fact he had completely blindsided her by taking her to a Rod and Cane function, was just not okay for me.
I liked Stephanie, and I like the way she could accept when she was wrong and own up to it. She knew she was rude and apologizing to the person she had offended would have been the right thing to do. No, the punishment in this case should have been given to Mark in my opinion. (Although I liked that he allowed Stephanie to spank him, I don't think it was the same thing as accepting his responsibility for why she reacted the way she did.) Mark was in the wrong, and I simply could not understand why Stephanie submitted to being punished so quickly in the relationship.
I agree with another reviewer who pointed out that it was Stephanie who did all the growing, changing, and compromising in the story. I never saw Mark make any real concessions and I have a hard time with that.
Despite all that, I found the story entertaining, humorous, and very hot. I enjoyed most of Stephanie's journey to accepting her body's desires in spite of her political opinions. I would have cheered if just once Mark was talked out of punishing Stephanie because it was the wrong thing to do. This would have indicated a level of consent on Stephanie's part, that I think was missing in the story.
February 26, 2022
This book contains ALL my pet peeves about this genre:
1) The H makes a mistake, never apologizes, and never experiences any consequences: .
2) There is talk about spanking children. Authors: keep children out of this. Just don't!
3) The men are perfect; other women are toxic: .
4) Misconceptions about safewords: You can use your safeword anytime, anywhere.
These reviews contain ALL my pet peeves about this site: Many of the five-star reviews are from fellow authors in this genre. They do not identify themselves as such. Because authors host each other on their blogs as free publicity, they have a duty to self-disclose this conflict of interest. Their five-star reviews are unfairly inflating the ratings for this book. Unless they have given one or two stars for any fellow author, they are simply doing each other favors with their reviews.
Finally, since the narrative equates feminism with"choices," I want to say that this is true only for middle- or upper-class (usually) white women with husbands who can support them. The majority of women -- globally -- aren't asking themselves "Should I submit to my husband?" They're asking "How can I feed my children today" (https://www.worldhunger.org/women-and...).
1) The H makes a mistake, never apologizes, and never experiences any consequences: .
2) There is talk about spanking children. Authors: keep children out of this. Just don't!
3) The men are perfect; other women are toxic: .
4) Misconceptions about safewords: You can use your safeword anytime, anywhere.
These reviews contain ALL my pet peeves about this site: Many of the five-star reviews are from fellow authors in this genre. They do not identify themselves as such. Because authors host each other on their blogs as free publicity, they have a duty to self-disclose this conflict of interest. Their five-star reviews are unfairly inflating the ratings for this book. Unless they have given one or two stars for any fellow author, they are simply doing each other favors with their reviews.
Finally, since the narrative equates feminism with"choices," I want to say that this is true only for middle- or upper-class (usually) white women with husbands who can support them. The majority of women -- globally -- aren't asking themselves "Should I submit to my husband?" They're asking "How can I feed my children today" (https://www.worldhunger.org/women-and...).
July 5, 2015
I actually enjoyed this story, and think it quite brave of writer, Cara Bristol to produce such characters as Mark, deputy police chief, and member of the Rod and Cane Society and a proponent of domestic discipline and male dominant...and Stephanie, a full on feminist and founder of WAN, women act now, a feminist organisation that supports and works towards women's rights. Oh, how the two should clash and never make it to base with spanking. Yes, Stephanie is against abuse in any form shown by men towards women. So how does Cara manage to not only write about virtual opposites but also opens a whole area that should be discussed.
Topic being IMO that women's feminist movement and support groups should be about women having the right to choose. But the organisation appears to follow the stereo type which tends to be quite anti male and pro everything women, and not the right for women to choose what is right for them. Stephanie makes a journey from one side of the coin of women's lib and power to the right of the individual woman to choose and have her decision respected by others both male and women. It also portrays the difference between agreed lifestyle choices with domestic discipline in a loving relationship where both agree to such compared to if one inflicts on another without consensus it becomes abuse and to be abhorred.
I loved her journey and transformation with Mark, and thought her brave agreeing to try a Domestic Discipline life, conceding control not just for their sex lives but giving him the power to decide limits and enforce her behaviour by bare butt spankings when she lets her behaviour or manners with other slip.
The speed that it all happens I found rather unrealistic, to agree on second meeting to accept a punishment spanking I found hard to believe.
I thought the way Mark introduced her to the Society was wrong, and her meeting with WAN Board member as well as DD lifestyler Elizabeth, produced expected reactions from someone who was probably quite shocked by what she found and the fact it would totally go against all she previously believed and held dear...and don't think that warranted punishment.
However, the thing that really got me angry and the unjustness that was never resolved was the way WAN treated their Founder for so small a problem without any chance to put her own case. If this were to go on for real then I would be horrified, as the organisation preaches one thing but acts totally in opposite of all it stands for.
I would have liked to see some comeuppance and justice happen within that board room and staff. I was and still am incensed.
The end is sweet, but rushed as their is much that needed completion in my mind.
Brave tackling what are technically two diametrically opposed viewpoints.
Just four stars from me.
Topic being IMO that women's feminist movement and support groups should be about women having the right to choose. But the organisation appears to follow the stereo type which tends to be quite anti male and pro everything women, and not the right for women to choose what is right for them. Stephanie makes a journey from one side of the coin of women's lib and power to the right of the individual woman to choose and have her decision respected by others both male and women. It also portrays the difference between agreed lifestyle choices with domestic discipline in a loving relationship where both agree to such compared to if one inflicts on another without consensus it becomes abuse and to be abhorred.
I loved her journey and transformation with Mark, and thought her brave agreeing to try a Domestic Discipline life, conceding control not just for their sex lives but giving him the power to decide limits and enforce her behaviour by bare butt spankings when she lets her behaviour or manners with other slip.
The speed that it all happens I found rather unrealistic, to agree on second meeting to accept a punishment spanking I found hard to believe.
I thought the way Mark introduced her to the Society was wrong, and her meeting with WAN Board member as well as DD lifestyler Elizabeth, produced expected reactions from someone who was probably quite shocked by what she found and the fact it would totally go against all she previously believed and held dear...and don't think that warranted punishment.
However, the thing that really got me angry and the unjustness that was never resolved was the way WAN treated their Founder for so small a problem without any chance to put her own case. If this were to go on for real then I would be horrified, as the organisation preaches one thing but acts totally in opposite of all it stands for.
I would have liked to see some comeuppance and justice happen within that board room and staff. I was and still am incensed.
The end is sweet, but rushed as their is much that needed completion in my mind.
Brave tackling what are technically two diametrically opposed viewpoints.
Just four stars from me.
January 11, 2013
When Stephanie meets Mark, she doesn’t want to be attracted to him – especially when she finds out he’s a member of the Rod and Cane society, an organization of men who spank their wives. That kind of thing is against everything she stands for as the founder of WAN (Women Act Now). She’s soon fighting a battle between her steadfast feminist principles and her body’s strong, traitorous sexual attraction to the sexy, dominant Mark. As much as she doesn’t want to see him again, she can’t seem to stay away.
Mark is immediately smitten and drawn to Stephanie’s strong personality, as well as the softness he glimpses underneath her public face. He longs to kiss her, hold her, and spank her. As I was reading, I kept thinking “how in the heck is Mark going to convince Stephanie to let him spank her?” It didn’t seem possible at the beginning…and yet the first spanking is a disciplinary spanking that felt completely authentic. He gains Stephanie’s trust, as well as her reluctant consent. Gradually, it becomes clear to Stephanie that the women of Rod and Cane aren’t brainwashed to submit to their husbands, but that it’s about choice – and part of being a feminist is supporting a woman’s right to choose what kind of relationship she enters. She also finds being spanked by Mark makes her feel loved and protected.
Body Politics is my favorite of all the Rod and Cane books by Cara Bristol. It was a pleasure to read. If you enjoyed Unexpected Consequences and False Pretenses, you won’t want miss this installment in the series. Body Politics is a sexy page-turner complete with disciplinary and erotic spankings, and it contains a whole lot of steamy sex between two unique, likeable characters with great chemistry. 5 stars!
Mark is immediately smitten and drawn to Stephanie’s strong personality, as well as the softness he glimpses underneath her public face. He longs to kiss her, hold her, and spank her. As I was reading, I kept thinking “how in the heck is Mark going to convince Stephanie to let him spank her?” It didn’t seem possible at the beginning…and yet the first spanking is a disciplinary spanking that felt completely authentic. He gains Stephanie’s trust, as well as her reluctant consent. Gradually, it becomes clear to Stephanie that the women of Rod and Cane aren’t brainwashed to submit to their husbands, but that it’s about choice – and part of being a feminist is supporting a woman’s right to choose what kind of relationship she enters. She also finds being spanked by Mark makes her feel loved and protected.
Body Politics is my favorite of all the Rod and Cane books by Cara Bristol. It was a pleasure to read. If you enjoyed Unexpected Consequences and False Pretenses, you won’t want miss this installment in the series. Body Politics is a sexy page-turner complete with disciplinary and erotic spankings, and it contains a whole lot of steamy sex between two unique, likeable characters with great chemistry. 5 stars!
February 9, 2013
Interesting read that starts with a bit of a stereotype but quickly evolves into so much more. Feminist meets spanker, sparks fly, and the term blushing takes on a while new meaning. Great story with fun, intriguing characters. The DD is just right. Nothing too excessive - and lots of opportunity for you as reader to examine your own beliefs. Of particular importance to me is a key idea that I think gets missed and that is feminists started by advocating a woman's choice. We seem to have evolved to the point where the only acceptable choice is what agrees with a certain agenda. If the purpose is to allow free choice and not be limited as long as the person makes the choice willingly and consensually then what's the problem? Answer: Not a damn thing. Recommended!
May 3, 2013
A feminist who loves to be spanked and disciplined by a man, how does this work? It starts out a little shaky and turns into something that works quite well.
In BODY POLITICS, Stephanie Gordon is a vocal feminist who runs a non-profit organization supporting women. Women Act Now (WAN) is her brain child that she grew from infancy to its mature organization. When she is set up on a blind date with Mark DeLuca, deputy chief of police, she's cursing her dear friend Liz.
Mark is a delicious disciplined man. His desire to run a household where he leads is appealing. Domestic Discipline (DD) is an oft maligned practice because it's easily misunderstood or perhaps abused at times. Not everyone agrees DD is part of the BDSM lifestyle. For me, it matters not how it is categorized or sub categorized. What is appealing is the give and take in a DD relationship. Ms. Bristol does a good job of showing how it's not all about spanking the woman when she errs. She uses Mark to illustrate a caring and protective husband. Mark isn't looking for a doormat. He wants a feisty woman who can partner up with him. One could argue how a partnership can work in a DD relationship. Isn't the man supposed to be the lead? I would point out, a partner is someone to share the joys and burdens, not necessarily equally.
Ms. Bristol does a great job of creating characters that are realistic and believable. Neither Stephanie nor Mark is perfect. The way they chose to behave or respond in some of the situations wasn't always the best choice. And this is what makes the book good. It's not perfect people getting it on. It's regular people I can relate to, who enter into a specific type of lifestyle that I'd love to have.
The conflict in this story is all too realistic and the resolution of it isn't exactly a happily ever after which I greatly appreciated. It's contemporary and authentic to the real world. This book is still quite romantic and there is a happily ever after for Stephanie and Mark. Essentially, the stick up Stephanie's ass was pulled out by Mark and he used it on her ass instead. And for this, I love Mark. When bad things happened to Stephanie, rather than let her sink into a destructive cycle, he steps up and helps her. He supports her as those try to rip her down. This is a lovely partnership which is the core of a DD relationship. Actually, it's really the core of any relationship.
The spanking scenes in this book are light, even the punishment scenes. The erotic ones are teasingly tantalizing. And what spanking book doesn't involve a little bit of anal? Anal is always a plus. My favourite place in this book is the Bottoms Up bar. I really wish there was a place like this for me to hang out with kinky friends. The "butt" souvenir glass is hilarious and I'd love to own a set.
This kinky romance is recommended to readers who enjoy a good spanking from an alpha male.
January 28, 2013
This was my first book by Cara Bristol. I'd actually started with Unexpected Consequences which is the first in this series but they're stand alone and I was participating in Celeste Jones' book club so read this one first. I had gotten a few chapters into Unexpected Consequences and thought 'shit, I'm going to be annoyed with Melania.' Disclaimer, I have not yet finished the book - but I thought she was a spoiled, bratty woman so I'm glad I read this one first.
Stephanie, the main character here, is a feminist and Mark is a chief of Police (I may be off on that but close enough). She was total opposite to what I expected out of Melania and - although I expected the total opposite extreme, i didn't get that. I quite liked Stephanie, I didn't think she was extreme at all and I loved that that she was open to Mark's DD lifestyle.
My favorite scene in this book, actually, the scene that made the book for me, was right after Stephanie's first spanking. The relationship between Stephanie and Mark changed, went to a whole other level of trust that was written seamlessly and believably.
Although I do wish there had been more closure on (SPOILER) Stephanie losing her job, I also appreciated the way the 'bad guy' wasn't depicted as a purely evil woman. She was human and the way things ended at WAN for Stephanie, although unfair - absolutely - were realistic. The good guy doesn't always come out on top, at least not right away.
The writing in this book was remarkable. It was no nonsense, smart and sexy. I'd recommend this book for anyone interested in a well written DD book and am looking forward to Unexpected Consequences. This time, I will be checking my expectations at the door.
Stephanie, the main character here, is a feminist and Mark is a chief of Police (I may be off on that but close enough). She was total opposite to what I expected out of Melania and - although I expected the total opposite extreme, i didn't get that. I quite liked Stephanie, I didn't think she was extreme at all and I loved that that she was open to Mark's DD lifestyle.
My favorite scene in this book, actually, the scene that made the book for me, was right after Stephanie's first spanking. The relationship between Stephanie and Mark changed, went to a whole other level of trust that was written seamlessly and believably.
Although I do wish there had been more closure on (SPOILER) Stephanie losing her job, I also appreciated the way the 'bad guy' wasn't depicted as a purely evil woman. She was human and the way things ended at WAN for Stephanie, although unfair - absolutely - were realistic. The good guy doesn't always come out on top, at least not right away.
The writing in this book was remarkable. It was no nonsense, smart and sexy. I'd recommend this book for anyone interested in a well written DD book and am looking forward to Unexpected Consequences. This time, I will be checking my expectations at the door.
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January 23, 2013Okay, I do this all the time, but I have to say it again: Loose Id has the world’s best book covers. I am completely in love with the cover of Body Politics. His hand – there’s something about it that makes me happy!
This is the third book in Cara Bristol’s Rod and Cane Domestic Discipline series, but I’m pretty sure you could read this one on its own without any problems. The author writes the kind of DD I enjoy reading about: there’s some kink in there, but the discipline is there too.
I wondered how the subject of feminism would be tackled here, because I can be touchy when people say negative things about it. I figure that if you’re so against feminism, you should hand back your right to vote, stop complaining about rape and start asking to be paid less than your male workmates.
So I was happy to see that the compromise Stephanie had to come to in order to thrive in a DD relationship did not mean sacrificing her values.
I really appreciated that.
I also really liked the way the discipline was handled in this one. Things went beyond good old spanking, and though we only saw Mark and Stephanie in the early stages of their relationship, I thought we were exposed to the dominant-submissive dynamics between them well.
Sometimes you read a few duds in a row, so and I was really happy to pick up Body Politics and just dive into a world I enjoyed.
This is the third book in Cara Bristol’s Rod and Cane Domestic Discipline series, but I’m pretty sure you could read this one on its own without any problems. The author writes the kind of DD I enjoy reading about: there’s some kink in there, but the discipline is there too.
I wondered how the subject of feminism would be tackled here, because I can be touchy when people say negative things about it. I figure that if you’re so against feminism, you should hand back your right to vote, stop complaining about rape and start asking to be paid less than your male workmates.
So I was happy to see that the compromise Stephanie had to come to in order to thrive in a DD relationship did not mean sacrificing her values.
I really appreciated that.
I also really liked the way the discipline was handled in this one. Things went beyond good old spanking, and though we only saw Mark and Stephanie in the early stages of their relationship, I thought we were exposed to the dominant-submissive dynamics between them well.
Sometimes you read a few duds in a row, so and I was really happy to pick up Body Politics and just dive into a world I enjoyed.
January 23, 2013
Loved this story. A strong heroine and hero who challenges her. Swoon. This book has so many things to love. Real characters that make you feel and pull you with them on their journey. Stephanie tried to run away after their first encounter, but Mark chases and tempts her. The end result is hot and completely combustible and that's just the first few pages. The book continues at a page turning pace, with conflict and fears, desire, heartbreaking misfortune, and love.
Sometimes books contain conflict that feels forced, but you won't find that here, nope. You'll find characters that are true and filled with life. Cara doesn't force her characters to be something they're not. At one point Mark thinks of Stephanie, "Obedient, yet still rebellious. She would make his life interesting. If ever a woman deserved to be spanked and then kissed senseless, she did." Oh yeah and does he ever come through on his thoughts. The story is hot and leaves you satisfied.
Body Politics is a must read and more than worthy of a five-star rating.
Sometimes books contain conflict that feels forced, but you won't find that here, nope. You'll find characters that are true and filled with life. Cara doesn't force her characters to be something they're not. At one point Mark thinks of Stephanie, "Obedient, yet still rebellious. She would make his life interesting. If ever a woman deserved to be spanked and then kissed senseless, she did." Oh yeah and does he ever come through on his thoughts. The story is hot and leaves you satisfied.
Body Politics is a must read and more than worthy of a five-star rating.
September 12, 2013
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
January 23, 2013
I picked this book up because I liked another of the author's books a while back and wanted to happened upon this one. It is Book 3 in the series but it stood alone perfectly, the characters were so engaging and their conflict real. I am now reading another in the series!
February 12, 2013
Another great book from the Rod and Cane Society. I enjoyed the unique dynamic in this one - feminist meets spanker.
March 4, 2013
It was with great anticipation and curiosity that I read Body Politics. How would Cara treat the topic of feminism and domestic discipline-- one I have wrestled with in my own life?
For the most part, she nails it- the attraction to submission for Stephanie is sexual, not political. Cara does poke a little fun at feminism. Stephanie's hero is Gloria Steinham and so instead of thinking things like "Oh God," or even "Oh Goddess," as many of my friends phrase it, Stephanie thinks "Oh Gloria." It's hilarious, and also slightly offensive to me, because I don't want Stephanie's feminism to be over the top, where it can be laughed at. Feminism isn't funny. Nor are the things that feminism seeks to correct: Inequality isn't funny. Lack of rights isn't funny. Domestic and sexual abuse aren't even remotely amusing.
Then again, Cara treats the Rod and Cane Society with humor as much as she does the feminists. The organization is over the top creepy, so much so that it becomes downright silly, which is good, because otherwise, it's downright offensive.
So how does feminism reconcile with domestic discipline? Cara does a good job of keeping it in the sexual arena. Does Mark think Stephanie deserves to be spanked? Yes, but he's also quite clear that he desires to spank her. It turns him on to be a leader, just as it turns her on to relinquish control. Without that piece, it would offend me, even with consent. Because we ARE talking politics here - and this book will necessarily bring to question - what are the politics of domestic discipline? Are they about a man being better equipped to make decisions and therefore inflict punishment? Are they about a relationship in which one person must choose to be with the other knowing that other person spanks? So consent is given, but it's reluctant-- the choice is abuse or losing the person you love? I am saddened by this scenario and I know it exists in fiction and real life.
Honestly, my teeth get set on edge when it's the spanker who brings the DD to the relationship and the spankee doesn't like it but goes along with it anyway. And of course, it all turns me on at the same time. Because non-con is hot. That first spanking scene in Body Politics, where she doesn't think she likes it, is thinking he's a misogynist pig, but still submits is HOT. I got off. (TMI?) Cara showed that the characters got off too. Even as Stephanie's mind rebelled, her body said yummy.
In Body Politics, Stephanie thinks: "She shouldn't have have wanted a man who claimed entitlement to spank her because she was female and he was male." Since we are talking politics here, I'll state my view that there is no entitlement accorded men to spank women and even though I LOVE submission, spanking and being dominated, I don't think I could submit to someone who actually believed they had a right to spank or make decisions. It's gotta be a choice that works for both parties because they each prefer their role - and embracing the base sexual attraction of wanting a particular role is what makes it empowering, regardless of whether it's the dominant or the submissive position. I don't believe power is out of balance in a DD relationship, or perhaps I should say, it shouldn't be. It's the twist of the yin and yang symbol - a giving and receiving that swirls the power, but the balance should remain equal.
There's one other political issue that's touched on in Body Politics where our intelligent, educated feminist Stephanie fondly imagines that Mark will spank their children. WHAT??! Sorry, I can't go there, either. 'nuff said.
I also wish that Mark had more of a character arc-- the journey is all Stephanie's in this book.
As Anastasia Vitsky titled her review of Body Politics on Amazon: "I may not like the Politics, but Body Politics is a great read." I concur. Cara Bristol is a top notch writer. I teared up at Stephanie's challenges, got wet at her turn-ons, and enjoyed every minute of the ride. This book is not to be missed. Well done, Cara! - See more at: http://www.reneeroseromance.com/2013/...
For the most part, she nails it- the attraction to submission for Stephanie is sexual, not political. Cara does poke a little fun at feminism. Stephanie's hero is Gloria Steinham and so instead of thinking things like "Oh God," or even "Oh Goddess," as many of my friends phrase it, Stephanie thinks "Oh Gloria." It's hilarious, and also slightly offensive to me, because I don't want Stephanie's feminism to be over the top, where it can be laughed at. Feminism isn't funny. Nor are the things that feminism seeks to correct: Inequality isn't funny. Lack of rights isn't funny. Domestic and sexual abuse aren't even remotely amusing.
Then again, Cara treats the Rod and Cane Society with humor as much as she does the feminists. The organization is over the top creepy, so much so that it becomes downright silly, which is good, because otherwise, it's downright offensive.
So how does feminism reconcile with domestic discipline? Cara does a good job of keeping it in the sexual arena. Does Mark think Stephanie deserves to be spanked? Yes, but he's also quite clear that he desires to spank her. It turns him on to be a leader, just as it turns her on to relinquish control. Without that piece, it would offend me, even with consent. Because we ARE talking politics here - and this book will necessarily bring to question - what are the politics of domestic discipline? Are they about a man being better equipped to make decisions and therefore inflict punishment? Are they about a relationship in which one person must choose to be with the other knowing that other person spanks? So consent is given, but it's reluctant-- the choice is abuse or losing the person you love? I am saddened by this scenario and I know it exists in fiction and real life.
Honestly, my teeth get set on edge when it's the spanker who brings the DD to the relationship and the spankee doesn't like it but goes along with it anyway. And of course, it all turns me on at the same time. Because non-con is hot. That first spanking scene in Body Politics, where she doesn't think she likes it, is thinking he's a misogynist pig, but still submits is HOT. I got off. (TMI?) Cara showed that the characters got off too. Even as Stephanie's mind rebelled, her body said yummy.
In Body Politics, Stephanie thinks: "She shouldn't have have wanted a man who claimed entitlement to spank her because she was female and he was male." Since we are talking politics here, I'll state my view that there is no entitlement accorded men to spank women and even though I LOVE submission, spanking and being dominated, I don't think I could submit to someone who actually believed they had a right to spank or make decisions. It's gotta be a choice that works for both parties because they each prefer their role - and embracing the base sexual attraction of wanting a particular role is what makes it empowering, regardless of whether it's the dominant or the submissive position. I don't believe power is out of balance in a DD relationship, or perhaps I should say, it shouldn't be. It's the twist of the yin and yang symbol - a giving and receiving that swirls the power, but the balance should remain equal.
There's one other political issue that's touched on in Body Politics where our intelligent, educated feminist Stephanie fondly imagines that Mark will spank their children. WHAT??! Sorry, I can't go there, either. 'nuff said.
I also wish that Mark had more of a character arc-- the journey is all Stephanie's in this book.
As Anastasia Vitsky titled her review of Body Politics on Amazon: "I may not like the Politics, but Body Politics is a great read." I concur. Cara Bristol is a top notch writer. I teared up at Stephanie's challenges, got wet at her turn-ons, and enjoyed every minute of the ride. This book is not to be missed. Well done, Cara! - See more at: http://www.reneeroseromance.com/2013/...
January 11, 2013
Full disclosure: While I love spanking and domestic discipline, I do shy away from a popular current theme of "I'm a feminist until a man spanks me" that pops up in a lot of spanking books. I was skeptical. I've seen enough of Cara's work to know that she is one amazing writer, but I expected to be slightly annoyed while reading this book.
Talk about judging a book by its cover! Ideology aside, this is one great story. The writing is seamless, the details are stunning, and the characters are real. I can almost hear Stephanie and Mark breathing (and panting and moaning) as I turn each page. Wonderful. Cara has obviously done a great deal of research into DD, and her portrayal of this kind of relationship is careful and realistic. The moment when Mark allows Stephanie to spank him as a way of demonstrating his trustworthiness is well-done.
Ideology included, I may not agree with Cara's politics but she does a wonderful job within the parameters that she sets up. I don't agree that feminists are really women who have been hurt by men and just need a good man to show them how to relax, but Cara's story hits so many nails on the head that I finally had to sit back and say, "Okay. Maybe we'll have a debate about this after I finish reading it, but I respect what you've done." The ways that women turn on each other and undercut feminist efforts to advance the movement? Spot-on. The real contributions that feminism has made and the challenges that a woman faces in the workplace and in society? Flawless.
My only disappointment was that I expected Mark to help Stephanie with the work problem at the end of the book. I can't say specifics because I don't want to spoil the ending for anyone else, but within this story-verse of a wonderful man being everything Stephanie needed, I had hoped that he could make that right for her, too. Then again, perhaps that's a testament to Cara's skill that I expected it from him. Mark is a good man, and he is what Stephanie deserves.
This may be the first Cara Bristol book I've read, but it certainly won't be the last. Brava!
Talk about judging a book by its cover! Ideology aside, this is one great story. The writing is seamless, the details are stunning, and the characters are real. I can almost hear Stephanie and Mark breathing (and panting and moaning) as I turn each page. Wonderful. Cara has obviously done a great deal of research into DD, and her portrayal of this kind of relationship is careful and realistic. The moment when Mark allows Stephanie to spank him as a way of demonstrating his trustworthiness is well-done.
Ideology included, I may not agree with Cara's politics but she does a wonderful job within the parameters that she sets up. I don't agree that feminists are really women who have been hurt by men and just need a good man to show them how to relax, but Cara's story hits so many nails on the head that I finally had to sit back and say, "Okay. Maybe we'll have a debate about this after I finish reading it, but I respect what you've done." The ways that women turn on each other and undercut feminist efforts to advance the movement? Spot-on. The real contributions that feminism has made and the challenges that a woman faces in the workplace and in society? Flawless.
My only disappointment was that I expected Mark to help Stephanie with the work problem at the end of the book. I can't say specifics because I don't want to spoil the ending for anyone else, but within this story-verse of a wonderful man being everything Stephanie needed, I had hoped that he could make that right for her, too. Then again, perhaps that's a testament to Cara's skill that I expected it from him. Mark is a good man, and he is what Stephanie deserves.
This may be the first Cara Bristol book I've read, but it certainly won't be the last. Brava!
June 27, 2013
Stephanie Gordon is a feminist, she founded and leads an organization that protects women’s rights and teaches them how to defend themselves. The last thing she expects is to find herself wanting someone like deputy chief of police Mark DeLuca, a member of the Rod and Cane Society. Rod and Cane Society is an old organization that believes in spanking and calling wives by their husband’s names. When Mark meets Stephanie on their blind date, he sees the soft woman beneath the hard shell and knows she is what he has been looking for. He lets her know up front what their relationship will entail and how it will affect her bottom.
Do not let the cover fool you! Although it is a hot read the cover looks like it is about a young punk couple but it is not. This is a spanking romance with some hot love scenes. You do not need to read any other book in the series (but you should lucky you), feel free to jump right in and enjoy. Mark and Stephanie are a prime example of opposites attracting, the author did not just put them together and showcase their chemistry. She made them a believable couple who complimented each other. Followers will enjoy checking in on the society, new comers will not be distracted by the mention of old characters since it helped build Mark and Stephanie’s world. The book was too short I wanted more, although Bristol gave us everything we romance reader want: a love story, a black moment and betrayal from a friend. I am in love with spanking stories and sometimes they can be a little ho hum. Right now I would say Cara Bristol is taking over the genre.
Do not let the cover fool you! Although it is a hot read the cover looks like it is about a young punk couple but it is not. This is a spanking romance with some hot love scenes. You do not need to read any other book in the series (but you should lucky you), feel free to jump right in and enjoy. Mark and Stephanie are a prime example of opposites attracting, the author did not just put them together and showcase their chemistry. She made them a believable couple who complimented each other. Followers will enjoy checking in on the society, new comers will not be distracted by the mention of old characters since it helped build Mark and Stephanie’s world. The book was too short I wanted more, although Bristol gave us everything we romance reader want: a love story, a black moment and betrayal from a friend. I am in love with spanking stories and sometimes they can be a little ho hum. Right now I would say Cara Bristol is taking over the genre.
March 23, 2013
I really loved the play between the main characters their jobs and the discipline aspect. The dichotomy well, it really made me think about it and them. I actually found myself talking to the hubs about it.
The secondary character Liz really helped to develop both characters.
The only reasons it didn’t get a 5 from me is that there were a few parts that seemed a little out of character. Like trusting her to invite her… (cant spoil)
But I loved it overall especially when a Dom can be both firm and fighting with his discipline wants, endearing.
The secondary character Liz really helped to develop both characters.
The only reasons it didn’t get a 5 from me is that there were a few parts that seemed a little out of character. Like trusting her to invite her… (cant spoil)
But I loved it overall especially when a Dom can be both firm and fighting with his discipline wants, endearing.
May 18, 2015
As hot as her skin
Well told story about the growing domestic discipline relationship between two consenting adults. Loved the way this was written. Loved the realistic interactions between the lead characters. Great rhythm like a dance in the thought process of a feminist giving in to self doubts desires and urges. This was my introduction to rod and cane and i enjoyed it. Just wish the ending was drawn out a bit fuller but it was done well. Looking forward to reading more of car a bristol s work.
Well told story about the growing domestic discipline relationship between two consenting adults. Loved the way this was written. Loved the realistic interactions between the lead characters. Great rhythm like a dance in the thought process of a feminist giving in to self doubts desires and urges. This was my introduction to rod and cane and i enjoyed it. Just wish the ending was drawn out a bit fuller but it was done well. Looking forward to reading more of car a bristol s work.
June 1, 2013
Wow.. this series just got better and better.. every story focused on a different type of female personality and even values, from naïve to independent to this last one a feminist.. I think the stories while short still do manage to capture and set the scene's & emotions as well as show both POV's... all the stories had a humorous undertone without taking away from the steaminess or the h's views on DD. Looking forward to the next in this series.
January 19, 2013
I really enjoyed this series I hope Ms Bristol adds another book to the series
February 14, 2013
another good book in the series. wish the ending hadn't wrapped up so tidily but I enjoy how this author effortlessly presents an alternate lifestyle within a beautiful love story.
August 4, 2013
I loved this. Feminism meets domestic discipline, sexy, romantic, with enough butt twitching action to keep me interetsed
December 17, 2013
Another beautiful, sexy romance from Cara Bristol.
There are so many things I want to say about this book that I don't know where to begin. The way that Cara Bristol writes is so real, the characters are so real, their emotions, struggles, their connection and sexual encounters... everything just comes to life. I empathized with Stephanie's dilemma in trying to reconcile her attraction to Mark with her preconceived notions of what she should be attracted to... Mark was everything she didn't want to like - masculine, dominant, arrogant, too sexy for his own good (or for her own good, more like). Yet her body couldn't help but respond to him. And when her body responded to him, Cara's gift of prose ensured that mine did too.
The story developed in a very organic way. Mark and Stephanie's relationship progressed quickly, but naturally. It felt right and the way that Cara treated the "feminist dilemma" was also done well.
Combining feminism and domestic discipline is tricky. Someone is going to get offended. Especially because most people associate feminism with the very extreme bra-burning, all-women-must-work-outside-the-home and be treated with exact equality (no opening doors or paying for dinner or any other chivalrous behavior) movement of the 1970s. It's a common misconception that all feminists think this way. However, the reality is that there are so many different feminist schools of thought that it's almost impossible to keep track of them all (I know, I minored in Women's Studies in college). I've always defined feminism as the right to choose to do what makes you happy without being judged for it. If that means enjoying a domestic discipline relationship with the love of your life then ... why not?
I think that Cara Bristol did a very good job of showing the "traditional" feminist outlook that Stephanie started out with in the beginning of the book (the PC version of feminism that we're familiar with) and then showing us the progression of thought... to what may be somewhat more "liberated" feminism. Reconciling sexual desires that are not PC within a world where PC is the norm. Showing that instead of having to bury these desires and living a half-life... settling for less than, a woman can enjoy herself... surrender, be spanked... and still retain her identity as a productive member of society, doing something meaningful, making a difference, etc. That one does not impede the other. They're not mutually exclusive. And, most importantly, nowhere does Cara Bristol imply that ALL women need or want to be in a domestic discipline relationship or need a man or that there's only one way to eat a Reese's...
Some quotes that stood out for me: "After all, that was what feminism was all about: giving women choices." And: "I'm living my truth. For me, domestic discipline creates intimacy. For other women, it doesn't. Isn't feminism about having options?" YES! Yes, that's what it's about. Well said.
Overall, everything about the book was good, the writing, the world that Cara Bristol created within the Rod and Cane Society - it just gives such a community feel to everything else that goes on and is so well incorporated into the story, and characters - Mark and Stephanie and their connection. They were both good people who lived normal lives doing something that they believed in. At first, obviously, Stephanie wasn't sure how she was going to fit Mark into her life, but he didn't let her give up on him. Mark is a force to be reckoned with. He never does anything halfway and once he decided that he was going to be the man for Stephanie, he followed through and led her on a journey of sexual exploration, self discovery, and was there for her when other parts of her life didn't go her way. It was a great depiction of an overall healthy relationship with love and care... and spanking!
So far, every book I've read by Cara Bristol has been well written and sexy and interesting. As I said in my review of Unexpected Consequences, this may not be for everyone, because traditional gender roles may offend some people and domestic discipline is somewhat different from just being kinky and liking a bit of spice in the bedroom. It's actually used to adjust behavior and attitude. But for those who understand the dynamic, this is another beautiful story. Five stars.
To read more of my reviews go to haydeereviews@blogspot.com.
There are so many things I want to say about this book that I don't know where to begin. The way that Cara Bristol writes is so real, the characters are so real, their emotions, struggles, their connection and sexual encounters... everything just comes to life. I empathized with Stephanie's dilemma in trying to reconcile her attraction to Mark with her preconceived notions of what she should be attracted to... Mark was everything she didn't want to like - masculine, dominant, arrogant, too sexy for his own good (or for her own good, more like). Yet her body couldn't help but respond to him. And when her body responded to him, Cara's gift of prose ensured that mine did too.
The story developed in a very organic way. Mark and Stephanie's relationship progressed quickly, but naturally. It felt right and the way that Cara treated the "feminist dilemma" was also done well.
Combining feminism and domestic discipline is tricky. Someone is going to get offended. Especially because most people associate feminism with the very extreme bra-burning, all-women-must-work-outside-the-home and be treated with exact equality (no opening doors or paying for dinner or any other chivalrous behavior) movement of the 1970s. It's a common misconception that all feminists think this way. However, the reality is that there are so many different feminist schools of thought that it's almost impossible to keep track of them all (I know, I minored in Women's Studies in college). I've always defined feminism as the right to choose to do what makes you happy without being judged for it. If that means enjoying a domestic discipline relationship with the love of your life then ... why not?
I think that Cara Bristol did a very good job of showing the "traditional" feminist outlook that Stephanie started out with in the beginning of the book (the PC version of feminism that we're familiar with) and then showing us the progression of thought... to what may be somewhat more "liberated" feminism. Reconciling sexual desires that are not PC within a world where PC is the norm. Showing that instead of having to bury these desires and living a half-life... settling for less than, a woman can enjoy herself... surrender, be spanked... and still retain her identity as a productive member of society, doing something meaningful, making a difference, etc. That one does not impede the other. They're not mutually exclusive. And, most importantly, nowhere does Cara Bristol imply that ALL women need or want to be in a domestic discipline relationship or need a man or that there's only one way to eat a Reese's...
Some quotes that stood out for me: "After all, that was what feminism was all about: giving women choices." And: "I'm living my truth. For me, domestic discipline creates intimacy. For other women, it doesn't. Isn't feminism about having options?" YES! Yes, that's what it's about. Well said.
Overall, everything about the book was good, the writing, the world that Cara Bristol created within the Rod and Cane Society - it just gives such a community feel to everything else that goes on and is so well incorporated into the story, and characters - Mark and Stephanie and their connection. They were both good people who lived normal lives doing something that they believed in. At first, obviously, Stephanie wasn't sure how she was going to fit Mark into her life, but he didn't let her give up on him. Mark is a force to be reckoned with. He never does anything halfway and once he decided that he was going to be the man for Stephanie, he followed through and led her on a journey of sexual exploration, self discovery, and was there for her when other parts of her life didn't go her way. It was a great depiction of an overall healthy relationship with love and care... and spanking!
So far, every book I've read by Cara Bristol has been well written and sexy and interesting. As I said in my review of Unexpected Consequences, this may not be for everyone, because traditional gender roles may offend some people and domestic discipline is somewhat different from just being kinky and liking a bit of spice in the bedroom. It's actually used to adjust behavior and attitude. But for those who understand the dynamic, this is another beautiful story. Five stars.
To read more of my reviews go to haydeereviews@blogspot.com.
October 3, 2015
I really liked this book.
Let me start by saying Body Politics is one pretty hot enjoyable read. This is the first time I read Cara Bristol’s work and I have to say I’ll be going back for more.
Stephanie is a busy career woman and doesn’t think she needs a man to take care of her. Yeah, she gets the itch some times and would prefer something else– rather, someone else other than her boyfriend with batteries. However, in no way does that mean she’ll let a man take care of her. Oh, no. She doesn’t want that. It’s been a while, and her friend sets her up on a blind date with Mark DeLuca (turn the A/C on, would you?). Stephanie agrees only to prove her friend wrong, except Mark is not that easy a man to get rid off.
From the moment Stephanie walks in at Bottom’s Up (that’s the bar’s name), Mark knows she is the woman for him. Her defiance makes his hands itch with the urge of a good spanking. No matter what Stephanie tries to do to prove him she doesn’t need a man like him, he wants to show her why he’s exactly the man for her.
Stephanie doesn’t go down without a fight. The thought of being spanked so that she can be disciplined is beyond her. She thinks it’s ridiculous. She rather spank him than be the one spanked. Stephanie never expects to enjoy the spanking as much as she does and that worries her. How is she supposed to continue leading an organization that’s all about women’s rights, and completely the opposite to what she’s thoroughly enjoying? And, enjoy it she does.
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Oh my! Well, I loved Mark. How couldn’t I? He’s so hot and sexy, and his spankings sound heavenly. I also enjoyed Stephanie’s I-can-do-it-myself-so-get-out-of-my-way attitude. I especially loved that. And then, the end… well, that was an unexpected suprise. I think if that little bit hadn’t been added (you’ll have to read it to know what I’m referring to) my rating wouldn’t have been as high. It gave me that aaww that’s original type of thought. I do have to say, I enjoy reading about spankings and all the delish naughtiness that comes with it. But this book gave me a different view into things, and I could totally relate to Stephanie’s feelings/thoughts about domestic discipline. Although I love reading these kinds of books, in real life I don’t know that I’d ever let dear husband try that. Hell no! Hey, if it ever came up I’d offer to discipline him instead. Ha!
I’d recommend this fun and sexy read to anyone looking for something different and original. I tell ya, it’s refreshing.
Let me start by saying Body Politics is one pretty hot enjoyable read. This is the first time I read Cara Bristol’s work and I have to say I’ll be going back for more.
Stephanie is a busy career woman and doesn’t think she needs a man to take care of her. Yeah, she gets the itch some times and would prefer something else– rather, someone else other than her boyfriend with batteries. However, in no way does that mean she’ll let a man take care of her. Oh, no. She doesn’t want that. It’s been a while, and her friend sets her up on a blind date with Mark DeLuca (turn the A/C on, would you?). Stephanie agrees only to prove her friend wrong, except Mark is not that easy a man to get rid off.
From the moment Stephanie walks in at Bottom’s Up (that’s the bar’s name), Mark knows she is the woman for him. Her defiance makes his hands itch with the urge of a good spanking. No matter what Stephanie tries to do to prove him she doesn’t need a man like him, he wants to show her why he’s exactly the man for her.
Stephanie doesn’t go down without a fight. The thought of being spanked so that she can be disciplined is beyond her. She thinks it’s ridiculous. She rather spank him than be the one spanked. Stephanie never expects to enjoy the spanking as much as she does and that worries her. How is she supposed to continue leading an organization that’s all about women’s rights, and completely the opposite to what she’s thoroughly enjoying? And, enjoy it she does.
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Oh my! Well, I loved Mark. How couldn’t I? He’s so hot and sexy, and his spankings sound heavenly. I also enjoyed Stephanie’s I-can-do-it-myself-so-get-out-of-my-way attitude. I especially loved that. And then, the end… well, that was an unexpected suprise. I think if that little bit hadn’t been added (you’ll have to read it to know what I’m referring to) my rating wouldn’t have been as high. It gave me that aaww that’s original type of thought. I do have to say, I enjoy reading about spankings and all the delish naughtiness that comes with it. But this book gave me a different view into things, and I could totally relate to Stephanie’s feelings/thoughts about domestic discipline. Although I love reading these kinds of books, in real life I don’t know that I’d ever let dear husband try that. Hell no! Hey, if it ever came up I’d offer to discipline him instead. Ha!
I’d recommend this fun and sexy read to anyone looking for something different and original. I tell ya, it’s refreshing.
March 25, 2013
Third in the Rod and Cane Society series, perfectly fit for a relief from the more serious lengthy novel. Dominance and domestic discipline rein, with 154 occurrences, from imagining spanking her ass, to her thoughts of a hangout for spankos, set this experience aside from others. Somewhat more realistic, believeable, I could certainly see myself experimenting with this lifestyle. A prerequisite for my reading journeys is 'happily ever after' which was more than met. I will continue exploration with Rod and Cane Society selections.
October 7, 2013
I was very excited for this book to come out. I have been a long believer that feminism & spanking relationships are not mutually exclusive. I was looking forward to seeing how author, Cara Bristol, handled this hot topic. What I got was a story that I fully enjoyed. Stephanie discovers that sometimes we all have pre-conceived ideas and sometimes being a feminist is really about being true to yourself. Hot issues, hot spankings, & hot romance!
April 2, 2013
Mark and Stephanie's story. Another great book in the Rod and Cane Series!
March 11, 2013
it was a nice read, started and finished in a day that wasn't just a reading day. I always think of stories as meals, this would be a breakfast not complicated, just satisfying and filling.
November 4, 2013
It's an ok story and a fast read. Kind of silly and not realistic but enjoyable with a HEA ending.
April 14, 2017
This is a spanking story, but a little different.
Mark and Stephanie are having a blind date and she is a feminist and he is the deputy sheriff and he needs it to discipline his lady when she needs it. Stephanie isn't into that at all. But when she gives it a try she feels better in her body.
They grow towards each other and they are opening up more and more.
The spanking is only used for discipline, but the side effect is hot and of course they act on that too.
I felt so sorry for Stephanie for what happened with her job. I wanted to kick the others for doing this to her.
Great story and I sure wouldn't mind to read more in this series.
You can read this book as a standalone I did that too.
Mark and Stephanie are having a blind date and she is a feminist and he is the deputy sheriff and he needs it to discipline his lady when she needs it. Stephanie isn't into that at all. But when she gives it a try she feels better in her body.
They grow towards each other and they are opening up more and more.
The spanking is only used for discipline, but the side effect is hot and of course they act on that too.
I felt so sorry for Stephanie for what happened with her job. I wanted to kick the others for doing this to her.
Great story and I sure wouldn't mind to read more in this series.
You can read this book as a standalone I did that too.
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