“Love is so that people have a reason”
You don’t need a better reason to read this lovely book.
Florence Greene is ninety-two years old, and has received a somber diagnosis. Working with her new friend, fifty-one year old Teresa McNair, who happens to be a “death doula”, Florence is managing the transition from life to death gracefully. So much so that she is writing a letter, an autobiography of sorts, to her much-loved friend, Ruth Elmer, who will be her heir.
In this letter, in her intimately present first-person voice, as Florence reviews the “things” all around her, (remnants of her life), and tells Ruth their stories, we come to know Flo’s own story. Tender and often profound, Flo is feisty, meddlesome and vulnerable, a sort of Olive Kitteridge (one of this readers favorite literary characters) with perhaps fewer rough edges.
Beginning with her blossoming friendship with Ruth, who was then a young girl, and carrying into her relationship with Terrence, her now-deceased partner (eventually revealing the heartbreaking secret this marriage holds), Florence does “not deny life sorrows, but chooses to focus on its compensations”, making new friends, experiences and memories deep into her ninth decade.
Sweetly and slowly, the magic of this story unwinds, leading the reader through a life and its loves, underscored by the bittersweet upcoming necessity of saying goodbye. Heartwarming and poignant, Flo is the warm and wise voice we all need in our lives, — hopeful, compassionate and living to love.
A great big thank you to Netgalley, the author and the publisher for an ARC of this book. All thoughts presented are my own.