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You're Doing Everything Wrong: Divorce: Advice from Deep within the Trenches
Do you suck at divorce?
Sounds like a weird question. I mean, is anyone good at being divorced?
But is it all that weird? Surely someone has figured out how to make this life work. Someone out there knows the secret to emerging on the other side of this traumatic event a better person!
So, you’re considering reading my book. In my Solid choice! This probably means one of several
You’re contemplating finally running away from your marriage Or you’ve just gotten out of your marriage, and you’re confused and seeking some help and guidanceOr you’ve been divorced for some time now, and yet the hell that was your life won’t seem to go awayIf any of these describe Of course you’re thinking about buying my book!
How could you not be confused? These are uncharted territories, and there aren’t exactly instruction booklets you can buy on these topics. At best you’ll have well-meaning friends and family members advising you to go to therapy. But that’s not enough! You need direction, camaraderie, and reassurance.
And you need to know there are answers to your questions. You need to know people do emerge on the other side of their divorce happy and healthy. You need to know there is a light at the end of the tunnel.
Don’t worry. You are not alone and you don’t need to make this journey by yourself.
Most of us suck at divorce. Why? Because it’s hard as hell. And we don’t have enough help pointing us in the right direction. So we just go at it, hoping we know what we’re doing… and that we’re not causing any permanent damage.
But that’s not the way it should be.
We need help to make it to the other side of the adventure unscathed.
And who do you want to get that help from?
Well, it’s not from someone who’s never met adversity.
You know that guy who married straight out of high school? Yeah, that guy. He is as lovey dovey now as when they first started dating. He’s got money, a house, and respectful kids.
What do we say about him?
Screw that guy!
He’s got nothing for us. He doesn’t know the challenges the rest of us face. He doesn’t know what it’s like to be in an agonizing situation.
No, in order to find someone who can relate to you and help you, you need someone who’s been through the ringer. Someone who has suffered, but learned countless gems as a result of the pain.
I suffered. I’m like you. I got married quite quickly, and the dumpster fire of a marriage that followed still haunts me.
But I’ve come out on top. I’ve pulled myself out from under all the garbage, with more than a few lessons learned.
I’ve been to hell and back… so you don’t have to.
Learn from me so you don’t have to learn these important lessons on your own.
In my book, you will find
When you should stick around and try and figure out how to salvage your marriageWhen to pick up and get the hell out of there like you’re running from the fiery gates of hellA little perspective on why you’re dealing with all the misery in your life right nowWhen you should start the healing processHow shifting the focus onto yourself will be the game changer to a successful recoveryThe one thing in the world infinitely more important than your disdain for your exHow your divorce can turn you into the parent you’ve always wanted to beHow much interaction should you have with your ex and what should be its nature Why you should keep an open mind that happiness in a relationship can actually existHow to redefine yourself, so you’re proud to be a divorceeFor just $1.50 you will learn all this and more. Click to buy today. What are you waiting for?
Sounds like a weird question. I mean, is anyone good at being divorced?
But is it all that weird? Surely someone has figured out how to make this life work. Someone out there knows the secret to emerging on the other side of this traumatic event a better person!
So, you’re considering reading my book. In my Solid choice! This probably means one of several
You’re contemplating finally running away from your marriage Or you’ve just gotten out of your marriage, and you’re confused and seeking some help and guidanceOr you’ve been divorced for some time now, and yet the hell that was your life won’t seem to go awayIf any of these describe Of course you’re thinking about buying my book!
How could you not be confused? These are uncharted territories, and there aren’t exactly instruction booklets you can buy on these topics. At best you’ll have well-meaning friends and family members advising you to go to therapy. But that’s not enough! You need direction, camaraderie, and reassurance.
And you need to know there are answers to your questions. You need to know people do emerge on the other side of their divorce happy and healthy. You need to know there is a light at the end of the tunnel.
Don’t worry. You are not alone and you don’t need to make this journey by yourself.
Most of us suck at divorce. Why? Because it’s hard as hell. And we don’t have enough help pointing us in the right direction. So we just go at it, hoping we know what we’re doing… and that we’re not causing any permanent damage.
But that’s not the way it should be.
We need help to make it to the other side of the adventure unscathed.
And who do you want to get that help from?
Well, it’s not from someone who’s never met adversity.
You know that guy who married straight out of high school? Yeah, that guy. He is as lovey dovey now as when they first started dating. He’s got money, a house, and respectful kids.
What do we say about him?
Screw that guy!
He’s got nothing for us. He doesn’t know the challenges the rest of us face. He doesn’t know what it’s like to be in an agonizing situation.
No, in order to find someone who can relate to you and help you, you need someone who’s been through the ringer. Someone who has suffered, but learned countless gems as a result of the pain.
I suffered. I’m like you. I got married quite quickly, and the dumpster fire of a marriage that followed still haunts me.
But I’ve come out on top. I’ve pulled myself out from under all the garbage, with more than a few lessons learned.
I’ve been to hell and back… so you don’t have to.
Learn from me so you don’t have to learn these important lessons on your own.
In my book, you will find
When you should stick around and try and figure out how to salvage your marriageWhen to pick up and get the hell out of there like you’re running from the fiery gates of hellA little perspective on why you’re dealing with all the misery in your life right nowWhen you should start the healing processHow shifting the focus onto yourself will be the game changer to a successful recoveryThe one thing in the world infinitely more important than your disdain for your exHow your divorce can turn you into the parent you’ve always wanted to beHow much interaction should you have with your ex and what should be its nature Why you should keep an open mind that happiness in a relationship can actually existHow to redefine yourself, so you’re proud to be a divorceeFor just $1.50 you will learn all this and more. Click to buy today. What are you waiting for?
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Published June 22, 2025
About the author
David Andrew Jaffe
9 books13 followersMy name is David Andrew Jaffe. I blog weekly at jaffeworld.com
I was born a writer. I write every single day of my life and I hope to never stop writing.
I also have more hobbies than you can imagine, and I'm constantly reading, learning new things, and expanding what I know and what I know how to do. All of this impacts my writing.
My topics are broad, since my interests are broad. They include health and fitness, religion, Judaism, Israel, dating, marriage, divorce, education, and more.
I expect my Amazon page to be flooded with books before you know it!
I was born a writer. I write every single day of my life and I hope to never stop writing.
I also have more hobbies than you can imagine, and I'm constantly reading, learning new things, and expanding what I know and what I know how to do. All of this impacts my writing.
My topics are broad, since my interests are broad. They include health and fitness, religion, Judaism, Israel, dating, marriage, divorce, education, and more.
I expect my Amazon page to be flooded with books before you know it!
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