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Ebben a régóta várt, megindítóan őszinte önéletírásban megelevenedik a világhírű, kétszeres Oscar-díjas színész, Sir Anthony Hopkins gyerekkora, színészi pályája, az eszméléstől a bölcsességig ívelő életútja.

Sir Anthony Hopkins egy kis walesi iparvárosban, Port Talbotban született. Gyerekkorát beárnyékolta a háború és megkeserítette az a társadalmi közeg, melyben a férfias keménység, az alkohol és a nyers brutalitás vitte a prímet, kíméletlenül elnyomva a lelki érzékenység, a szépség iránti vonzalom minden formáját. Gyenge tanulmányi előmenetele miatt diáktársai, tanárai és szülei egyaránt leírták mint tehetségtelen fajankót, aki semmire sem fogja vinni az életben. A sorsdöntő fordulat akkor következett be a semmibe vett walesi fiú életében, amikor egy szombat este megnézte Shakespeare Hamletjének 1948-as filmváltozatát. Ez az élmény volt a szikra, amely lángra lobbantotta lelkében a vágyat, hogy színész legyen; ekkor határozta el, hogy rálép az útra, amelyen eljutott a világhírig.

Hopkins megnyerő őszinteséggel, lebilincselő stílusban idézi fel könyvében pályájának legfontosabb állomásait és enged bepillantást az olvasónak abba a műhelymunkába, amelynek során megszülettek zseniális alakításai. Jago szerepének megformálásáért vették fel a rangos Royal Academy of Dramatic Art drámaiskolába, ahol Laurence Olivier volt a mestere. Richard Burtonnel még fiatal fiúként találkozott rajztanárának a lakásán, hogy néhány év múlva már befutott pályatársként üdvözölhesse rajongásig szeretett példaképét, a kulisszák mögött, az Equus egyik előadásán. Egyik ikonikus szerepének, Hannibal Lecternek a megformálásában, saját bevallása szerint, döntő szerepe volt kiváló színészmesterség-tanára útmutatásának és Lugosi Béla Drakulájának, amelyből ihletet merített. A Lear király címszerepének felejthetetlen alakításához apja és nagyapja rendíthetetlen higgadtsága, szenvedélymentessége szolgált számára mintaképül.

Hopkins kíméletlen őszinteséggel tárja fel az olvasó előtt magénéleti válságait is. Súlyos alkoholfüggősége tönkretette nemcsak az első házasságát, de egyetlen gyerekével való kapcsolatát is, és kis híján az életével fizetett érte. Amikor erre rádöbbent, elhatározta, hogy nem nyúl többé a pohárhoz, és ezt a fogadalmát immár lassan fél évszázada tartja. Minden erejével megpróbálja elnyomni magában a vágyat, hogy magányosan élje le az életét, és mindent megtesz az ellen, hogy a kiszolgáltatottságtól való félelmében – családja férfitagjaihoz hasonlóan – kerülje az emberi kapcsolatokat. Az évek előrehaladtával egyre jobban foglalkoztatja a múlandóság, apja szavait idézve „a nagy titok”, hogy mi jön a halál után.

A Jól csináltuk, kölyök! egy különleges, összetett, ikonikus ember nyers és szenvedélyes, személyes fotókat is tartalmazó emlékirata, aki több mint hatvan éven át figyelemre méltó alakításokkal inspirálja közönségét.

386 pages, Hardcover

First published October 28, 2025

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Anthony Hopkins

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Librarian Note: There is more than one author by this name in the Goodreads database.

Sir Philip Anthony Hopkins, is a Welsh actor of film, stage, and television, and a composer and painter. After graduating from the Royal Welsh College of Music & Drama in 1957, he trained at the Royal Academy of Dramatic Art in London, and was then spotted by Laurence Olivier who invited him to join the Royal National Theater. In 1968, he got his break in film in The Lion in Winter, playing Richard I.
Considered to be one of the greatest living actors, Hopkins is well known for his portrayal of Hannibal Lecter in The Silence of the Lambs, for which he won the Academy Award for Best Actor, its sequel Hannibal, and the prequel Red Dragon. Other notable films include The Mask of Zorro, The Bounty, Meet Joe Black, The Elephant Man, Magic, 84 Charing Cross Road, Bram Stoker's Dracula, Legends of the Fall, Thor, The Remains of the Day, Amistad, Nixon, The World's Fastest Indian, Instinct, and Fracture.(-wiki)

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Profile Image for Lisa.
125 reviews
January 9, 2026
I am a huge fan of an autobiography that is self reflective and insightful…. Not just telling the stories of someone’s life. Anthony Hopkins’ book is just that. He is raw, he’s honest and he weaves this through every chapter. Not only is he an amazing actor, but he’s an engaging and entertaining storyteller, and this book is a masterpiece that will live on forever. 5 solid stars!
Profile Image for Linda.
506 reviews136 followers
May 5, 2026
3⭐ — thoughtful, but holds back where it matters

I went into this memoir by Anthony Hopkins pretty much blind, and it ended up being a surprisingly engaging listen. We Did OK, Kid follows his journey from a lonely, struggling kid in Wales to becoming one of the most respected actors of his generation (yes, including *The Silence of the Lambs*, which I still refuse to watch 😅).

It’s very reflective—lots about anxiety, aging, and finding purpose later in life. The writing is smooth and there are some genuinely great quotes.

That said, it feels a bit… selective. I wanted more honesty in certain areas. Still, a solid, easy memoir if you’re in the mood for something introspective but not too heavy.
Profile Image for Donna.
4,639 reviews182 followers
November 21, 2025
I've always admired Anthony Hopkins and his work. This memoir offered a wonderful glimpse into the man behind the spotlight. Throughout the book, Hopkins reflected on the roles he embraced and made his own, both on the screen and the stage. He elevated each character with the details that made them believable and memorable and that in turn made Hopkins himself impossible to forget.

I completely enjoyed the parts where he opens up about his family, his early experiences in acting, his journey to stardom, his alcoholism, and his other struggles. His success never felt like a matter of being in the right place at the right time. He clearly had the talent, discipline, and the presence to support every opportunity that came his way. He still remembered a lot of his lines from early on....and took every opportunity to share them with the reader. That wasn't always my favorite, but I have to say, I loved his tenacity.

Overall, this memoir was a heartfelt and engaging look at an extraordinary career and the person behind it. So 5 stars.
Profile Image for Aya.
372 reviews189 followers
November 9, 2025
Невероятният и истински Антъни Хопкинс. Не е нужно да казвам нищо повече.
1,412 reviews102 followers
November 10, 2025
A long slog through the life of an actor whose mindset is that of a very insecure rebel. It's a pretty unsatisfying read, especially if you're hoping to hear much about his movie work. There's a short chapter on Silence of the Lambs, but little about most other films and some of his best-known screen work isn't even mentioned. Seriously?

You may enjoy this if you admire a lot of introspection, poetic views of existence, his turning alcoholism into a life of sobriety, or hearing too much about his theater work. I admire Hopkins for facing head-on his faults and weaknesses, though he also skips over some major flaws (he mentions cheating on his wife with many women in just one sentence and his reputation for being a scary hothead on movie sets is barely acknowledged).

His single-sentence aside that his grandfather fed him beer regularly as a child is probably one of the most important things in the book, considering the mean alcoholic he became, but the author fails to hone in on that.

Meanwhile he goes off on tangents about stars he watched at the movie theater and quotes from other performers but it all has nothing to do with his actual life. Why is he including multi-paragraph Wikipedia style entries about American film actors, some of whom he tells more about than himself?! The oddest inclusion is a halfhearted message to his estranged daughter, who he abandoned when she was a child and he has failed to do much to show her his love.

In the hands of a better co-writer this could have been a worthy memoir. By the tenth time he's repeating his depressive "whoa-is-me" commentary it gets old, especially after he's rich and famous! And while he skips over many major events and films, in almost every aspect of his life he includes simplistic narrative on unimportant things like answering a door, answering a phone, the name of the pub where he had a drink and where he sat, what he ate at a restaurant, etc.

It feels like the book was rushed to publication while he's still alive (even a quick note added about his 2025 house fire a few months before publication) and it needed a sweeping edit that would cut out at least fifty pages. He could also dump the thirty pages of poetry that he includes at the end. It feels like one of those rambling four-hour theatrical productions that seems interesting at first, has some good spots, but would have been better cut almost in half.

I understand the title, since Hopkins internally still considers himself that little boy from Wales who was told he'd amount to nothing, but it also reflects that he wrote a memoir that is just "ok."
Profile Image for Joy.
2,146 reviews
November 9, 2025
Really interesting. An interesting life to read about!
I really appreciated his reflections on alcoholism and on his (“failed”) relationship to his daughter. I also found it so interesting that he stayed very close with his own parents throughout his life. Given his fame and age, it was just really interesting to hear so much about his relations with his parents. Not all famous people’s autobiographies would spend this much time reflecting on their relationships with their parents. He is especially eloquent/loving in describing his father and the men of his father’s generation.

He makes passing reference to his infidelities during his 2nd marriage. That seemed odd to me, because he never said more about it before or after that. So I was surprised he mentioned the topic, if he wasn’t going to discuss it more.

At the end there is 45 minutes of him reading his favorite poems, which was just really interesting.

(Interestingly, in contrast to what I recently said about Bjorn Borg’s autobiography, Anthony Hopkins really, really makes it clear in this that he has wrestled with how he handled fatherhood and his relationship with his daughter. I think he said it’s his greatest remorse and greatest sadness (?), or something along those lines—and that he is also sure the choice he made, to leave her mother because their marriage was so dysfunctional, was the correct one. But the level of his remorse, and the admission of his own imperfection is so clear here. It’s exactly the degree of introspection that I thought seemed to be missing from Borg’s autobiography.)
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843 reviews434 followers
March 18, 2026
4 🎭 🎭 🎭 🎭 (5⚝⚝⚝⚝⚝ for narration)
At first I was disappointed to learn Sir Anthony did not narrate his memoir and the first 30% was a bit slow for me, but then the exceptional thespian skills of Sir Kenneth Branagh took hold and I was immersed. Hopkins later narrates some of his favorite poems in the appendix, but Branagh exudes not only the author's persona, but all the other characters portrayed.
Some of the rolls he played are represented, but this is more about personal recollections looking back after 88 years of life. We've lost many great actors recently and I will miss this man's talent when he is gone, but thankfully there is more planned to come.
Profile Image for Allison.
317 reviews
November 5, 2025
A beautiful and brutally honest retrospective by Hopkins on his life, relationships, sobriety, and career… I loved every moment of this book.
Profile Image for Oskars Kaulēns.
597 reviews136 followers
March 7, 2026
mēs visi uz šīs pasaules esam tikai viesi. uz īsu brīdi, uz neatgriezenisku palikšanu.
Profile Image for Chrissie Whitley.
1,366 reviews161 followers
February 18, 2026
I'm not sure how likely it would've been that I'd have picked this up – and certainly right away — but when I saw an interview Hopkins gave to Stephen Colbert for The Late Show, I was immediately intrigued. His voice — his views — his approach to life was really interesting … and not really what you'd think. He's well-versed in Shakespeare … has had the kind of voice that makes people say "he could read me the phone book and I’d listen," but he has never really liked talking about would-be pretentious things like "craft" and "method" when it comes to acting.

His story — from early childhood in Wales and onward — was fascinating. He has exactly the thing you need in these celebrity memoirs — introspection and self-awareness … particularly the type of self-actualizing wisdom that comes from having lived for 8 decades, coming out on the other side of alcoholism, and finally coming to terms with the big regrets of his life.

I totally recommend the audiobook, which is performed by Kenneth Branagh — apart from an extended portion at the end with Anthony Hopkins — doing a little epilogue, I believe, and also he reads his favorite poems and such. That’s about an hour total from Hopkins himself. My one personal caveat is that Branagh’s Katharine Hepburn is utterly ridiculous, but his Laurence Olivier is perfection.
Profile Image for Daniel Ray.
675 reviews15 followers
January 22, 2026
Anthony Hopkins is possibly on the spectrum of Asperger’s. Showing no interest in school, he flunked out. But he had a natural talent for memorization and delivery of Shakespeare speeches. He was awarded a scholarship to train at a prestigious school in Great Britain. He performed on stages in London and eventually moved into movies. He also played the piano well and had an interest in the arts. The biography is well delivered in the audiobook version and Hopkins reflects deeply and openly about his life and career.
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54 reviews2 followers
November 19, 2025
Have been a huge admirer of Sir Anthony Hopkins for many years. So many amazing memories from his work. There’s so much wisdom for everyone in this memoir, in all its stark rawness often, especially for those with a creative bend. I will treasure this book. Really really enjoyed reading it and came away richer for it.
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1,827 reviews126 followers
March 9, 2026
Not your typical film-by-film recounting of a career, this is much more the story of a troubled alcoholic (who ALSO just happens to be one of the greatest actors of our time) struggling to come to terms with his past and regain control of his future. And for that reason, is a much better book than your typical celebrity memoir. That said, it certainly contains its share of inside-the-industry gossip, ranging from what an apparent ass Paul Sorvino is, to the following (which IMHO is the best line in the book):

"It was great working with Alec and Bart the Bear, who was also in, among other movies, Legends of the Fall, The Bear, and White Fang. He could really act, that bear."

Two minor complaints with the book's production. I had waited a long time for the audiobook, only to finally get it and learn it was narrated by...Kenneth Branaugh?? I mean, I love Sir Ken (who doesn't?), but Anthony Hopkins has THE VOICE, and to hear his words coming from anyone else's mouth just seemed so wrong that I switched to the dead tree version and just heard Hopkins' voice in my head.

And second — what the hell is it with celebrity bios and their massive head shots these days? You’re famous — we KNOW what you look like!! Below is a recent display at our local B&N, and this book obviously continues this unfortunate trend:



But otherwise, just a fascinating and surprisingly insightful read.

DISCLAIMER: And okay, as noted in my recent review of Virginia Evans' wonderful The Correspondent, I do have a special, highly personal connection to Hopkins. From that review:

"Back in the mid-'90s, my father and I both wangled roles as extras in the film "The Road to Wellville" — one of Anthony Hopkins' few comedies — which was shot near our home in Upstate New York. Not long after, my dad had a major stroke, after which (and among so many other things) he fixated on the movie — asking when it would come out, revisiting our few days of standing in the background, wondering how he would watch it, etc. I ended up writing to Hopkins via his agent and explaining the situation, and asking if he might possibly send a brief note to my dad. Instead, he sent a beautiful long letter chatting about the film and his upcoming plans, recalling chats with my dad (probably non-existent, although he did enjoy talking to everyone — crew, extras, etc.), expressing his sympathy and wishing my dad a full recovery, even ultimately quoting MLK. That thoughtful gesture meant the world to my dad through his final days, and continues to mean the world to me — to this day, "Tony" (as he asked everyone to call him) can do no wrong."

So — endless thanks and love, Sir Tony. And miss you every day, Dad...
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637 reviews184 followers
January 1, 2026
A fascinating story of a successful life against all the odds - his parents despaired of what he would become and he was a loner at school and then an alcoholic and only really achieved his full potential late in life.
The description of SIlence of the Lambs alone is enough to make this worth reading but it is much more than that.
Only how morbid and preoccupied with death it became towards the end stopped me giving this five stars.
Profile Image for Dumi Cladicov.
52 reviews3 followers
January 1, 2026
O autobiografie scrisă autentic, fără un ajutor vizibil din exterior, cu detalii profunde și sincere despre viața și personalitatea lui Anthony Hopkins. Nu evită deloc viciile și defectele sale, iar tocmai această onestitate m-a făcut, personal, să-l îndrăgesc și mai mult.
Profile Image for Nastya Khyzhniak.
99 reviews5 followers
February 18, 2026
Не знаю, як поставити цій книзі рейтинг, бо яке ж нього цікаве життя. Я не оцінюю життя, але дозвіл піти в цю подорож разом вартує багато чого. Трохи хаотична, місцями себе повторює, але захоплива та сповнена інсайтів та рефлексій.
Profile Image for Agris Fakingsons.
Author 5 books158 followers
February 7, 2026
..lieliska aktiera memuāri. sakārojās noskatīties kādu viņa filmu.
Profile Image for Vanessa Hrvatin.
132 reviews
March 28, 2026
What a lovely book! Silence of the Lambs is one of my favourite movies, but I realized going into this book I didn’t know much about Anthony at all. He tells his life story simply and honestly. I learned a lot and enjoyed the ride!
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616 reviews11 followers
December 12, 2025
Still reading, but oh, so good. I'm listening to the recording of this book done by Kenneth Branagh. Completely engrossing.

Brilliant book. Now I want to go back through all of Anthony Hopkins's movies. I rarely give five stars to any book, but this one earned it.

Thank you, Donna, for nudging me to read this book, so timely for me.
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182 reviews11 followers
November 13, 2025
Incredibly autistic for a guy who suddenly doesn't think autism is a thing despite proudly wearing that diagnosis about 10 years ago. Still an excellent book. One of those rare celebrity memoirs that doesn't make me feel like the guy who wrote it is kinda gross by the end of it.
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209 reviews9 followers
March 18, 2026
The experience of this audio-book was perfect for a run. The memoir flowed beautifully with melancholy and deep loneliness. It had its honest vulnerabilities from the actor and poetic during those moments. The appendix of the actor narrating poetry was the best conclusion to this memoir of honesty and growth of a legendary actor.
Profile Image for Nata Korn.
50 reviews1 follower
April 1, 2026
Ентоні Гопкінс - це особлива людина. Текст не читався швидко чи легко, але мені було дуже цікаво. Я розумію про що це все і скільки всього залишено між рядків.
Приємно вразило як вдало описані моменти, які стосуються особистого життя інших людей, відчувається етичний підхід, делікатність.
Тут немає якогось напучування в стилі успішного успіху «я зміг і ти зможеш» (від Ентоні Гопкінса я цього і не сподівалась, рада що мої очікування справдились). Мені не була цікава його акторська карʼєра (що часто є мотивом у читачів при виборі мемуарів від акторів), мені цікавий він як людина, його історія, його світогляд. І тим, що ця книга про життя, вона мене і порадувала.
Profile Image for Roderick Vonhogen.
494 reviews72 followers
January 24, 2026
A wonderful memoir by Anthony Hopkins. Honest, well-written, full of hard-earned insight and wisdom. Beautifully narrated by Kenneth Branagh, with poetry readings from Sir Anthony Hopkins as an encore.
Profile Image for Sally Boocock.
1,104 reviews55 followers
November 6, 2025
An extremely interesting and thought provoking memoir. Sir Anthony talks about his alcoholism in depth and what eventually made him give up drinking. He talks about his family and how he regrets walking out on his then wife and daughter. It has not been an easy life but by God he's worked to get where he is today. Well done. Would definitely recommend to any one who loves memoirs.
Profile Image for Theresa Smith.
1,087 reviews2 followers
December 3, 2025
As far as memoirs go, this was top shelf. The audiobook is narrated by Kenneth Branagh, not Anthony Hopkins himself, but this does nothing to detract from the atmosphere and that intimate listening feeling that a good memoir should give you. We do hear from Anthony, in the epilogue, which is made up of him reading a selection of poems that mean a lot to him. It's in this section that you appreciate why Anthony did not read his own memoir for the audiobook - he's almost ninety, and his age is evident in his voice. Kenneth Branagh was able to bring the full force of his acting talent to the 'role', which he did with vigour, and the resulting audiobook was a wonderful listening experience.

Anthony Hopkins certainly has a story to tell. It’s a long and winding life with plenty of initial setbacks in terms of his acting career, a bad first marriage, estrangement from his only child, alcoholism, a better second marriage, but still another divorce, a change of direction within his career, London, Hollywood, New York, and marrying for a third time later in life.

I absolutely loved his relationship with his parents. And while not without difficulty at times, it was always one of love, and as their only son, this came through in waves. His father asking him to recite Hamlet to him while on his death bed; his mother watching him win an Oscar for his role as Hannibal Lecter, even though she had to watch at 4am from Wales. These, and many other moments, brought tears to my eyes. His stories of his grandparents were also heart warming. His strong Welsh heritage is such a defining part of his character.

I laughed, also cried, was impressed over and over. One story I'll share and leave you with, is how Anthony tells of Jodi Foster admitting after the filming of The Silence of the Lambs was concluded, that she had been terrified of him the entire time, from the very first table read. He was that convincing as Hannibal Lecter.

I highly recommend this memoir. It was a brilliant read, entertaining and inspiring.
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