Was It Something I Said?: Everyday Etiquette to Avoid Awkward Moments in Relationships, Work, and Life

by Alison M. Cheperdak

Genres: Nonfiction, Self Help

304 pages, Hardcover

Published March 17, 2026

Reviews

[Sophia Strobel · Rating 4 out of 5]

This book is a useful, straightforward guide that I think would be helpful to a broad range of people, especially young people. Alison’s tone I warm and precise, and the diagrams were a great touch too!

[Deborah · Rating 4 out of 5]

As a long-time follower of Alison Cheperdak’s Elevate Etiquette, I had high hopes for her debut book, Was It Something I Said?, and it did not disappoint. This isn't your grandmother’s etiquette book. It takes the guesswork out of modern etiquette with amazing visuals and practical advice for every situation. Whether you need a full guide or a quick reference tool, this book is a total game-changer for navigating life with confidence. You can read it cover-to-cover or just flip to a specific chapter when you're in a social pinch. You’ll love that she incorporates relatable examples. A must-read for anyone looking to navigate social scenarios with ease.

[donutqueenie · Rating 4 out of 5]

This is a handy crash course into many etiquette topics. It’s easy to read because the tone is casual but polished and also relatable.

The graphics and drawings were confusing.
-Three of the five chin positions looked the exact same to me.
- The description for sitting position with “feet flat”describes the knees being slightly apart like the width of a golf ball but the corresponding drawing labelled “feet flat” shows knees about 10 inches apart. That’s a bowling ball, not a golf ball.

Thanks to the publisher and NetGalley for the ARC. Release date 3/17/26.

[Kueen · Rating 5 out of 5]

This is a great book to have. I think every family today needs this book in their homes from the being. Definitely teaches us what the Title says and much much more. I really enjoyed the book it's a keeper and one for sharing.

[Heather · Rating 5 out of 5]

An excellent, relevant current day etiquette book for a multitude of situations.

[Jacqueline115 · Rating 5 out of 5]

I appreciated this book from start to finish. Many wonderful tips that I was not aware of. Being polite and understanding etiquette goes a long ways.