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The Mother of all Comebacks
Could it be time for a rebrand?
When Becca's daughter, Sophie, leaves for university, she finds herself with a very empty nest and no idea how to fill it. Her marriage to Steady Steve hasn't excited either of them since the noughties, and with her job being taken from under her by someone much younger, Becca is losing her grip on all of her labels - mum, wife, employee.
Forced to move in with her estranged mother after she takes a fall, Becca is confronted by the fact that her life doesn't look at all like she expected it would. And if things are going to change, she's going to have to be the one to change them. But then Sophie announces she's moving back in, and it seems she's expecting her mum to solve all her problems . . .
Throwing on her best pair of mum jeans, and fighting against all of her instincts, Becca must learn to put herself first. But how can she embrace her second act when she doesn't even have a second to herself?
Don't miss the BRAND-NEW hilariously relatable read from bestselling author of Would You Ask My Husband That?, Kathleen Whyman! Perfect for fans of Fiona Gibson, Alexandra Potter and Sophie Kinsella.
When Becca's daughter, Sophie, leaves for university, she finds herself with a very empty nest and no idea how to fill it. Her marriage to Steady Steve hasn't excited either of them since the noughties, and with her job being taken from under her by someone much younger, Becca is losing her grip on all of her labels - mum, wife, employee.
Forced to move in with her estranged mother after she takes a fall, Becca is confronted by the fact that her life doesn't look at all like she expected it would. And if things are going to change, she's going to have to be the one to change them. But then Sophie announces she's moving back in, and it seems she's expecting her mum to solve all her problems . . .
Throwing on her best pair of mum jeans, and fighting against all of her instincts, Becca must learn to put herself first. But how can she embrace her second act when she doesn't even have a second to herself?
Don't miss the BRAND-NEW hilariously relatable read from bestselling author of Would You Ask My Husband That?, Kathleen Whyman! Perfect for fans of Fiona Gibson, Alexandra Potter and Sophie Kinsella.
371 pages, ebook
Published March 12, 2026
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April 29, 2026
➡️ I usually adore a good comeback story.
Who doesn't???
➡️ COMPELLING PREMISE:
What happens when a woman gets hit with an unexpected midlife crisis involving job loss to a younger candidate, a failing marriage, an adult child moving back home, and the sudden responsibility of caring for an aging parent?
Kathleen Whyman is a talented writer with razor-sharp wit.
That said, I was seeking more of the author's sharp, funny voice with less melodrama.
Pacing dragged.
Repetitive text and emotional angst were plentiful.
I listened to the audiobook, expertly narrated by Helen Keeley.
Helen Keeley's performance was 5-star.
March 25, 2026
Definitely written for a target demographic, 3.5 rounded up.
Solid themes and concepts, particularly for women of a certain age, but the characters were difficult to like. The narrative is a little repetitive and I felt the storyline dragged a bit.
Overall, a good coming of (middle) age tale.
Solid themes and concepts, particularly for women of a certain age, but the characters were difficult to like. The narrative is a little repetitive and I felt the storyline dragged a bit.
Overall, a good coming of (middle) age tale.
Review of advance copy received from Netgalley
Becca said, what if I simply implode quietly while wearing mum jeans and pretending I am fine? And honestly, I have never felt more seen.
The Mother of All Comebacks by Kathleen Whyman is basically a love letter to every woman who has spent twenty years holding everyone else’s emotional support water bottle and suddenly realizes no one refilled hers. Becca’s daughter Sophie heads off to university, her job is snatched by someone younger and shinier, and her marriage to Steady Steve is so beige it should come with complimentary Magnolia paint. Separate bedrooms. Minimal spark. Vibes that scream “we used to share an iPod.”
And then, because the universe loves a pile on, Becca has to move in with her estranged, hyper critical mother after a fall. Nothing says personal reinvention like sleeping in your childhood bedroom while your mum critiques your life choices with the subtlety of a foghorn. It is intergenerational chaos. It is emotional regression with better skincare.
What I loved, and I mean genuinely loved, is how painfully relatable Becca’s identity crisis feels. She has built her entire personality around being mum, wife, employee. When those labels start slipping off like cheap name tags at a conference, she panics. Of course she does. We all would. There is something almost horror adjacent about realizing you do not know who you are outside of service to others. It is giving Eat Pray Love but with more British sarcasm and less spontaneous Italian property purchases.
And listen, Steady Steve. Sir. The man talks at her, not to her. Their marriage feels less like a partnership and more like a long term roommate agreement that no one remembers signing. The emotional stagnation is so real it practically has its own postcode. When Becca notices that time away from him feels like a relief, even if it means dealing with her high maintenance mother, that hit. That is the kind of quiet truth that creeps up on you at 2 a.m.
There is also this delicious thread of possibility when she meets a rather interesting web developer who reminds her there is life outside her tiny, self sacrificing bubble. It never veers into cartoonish fantasy. It stays grounded in that messy middle space where you are not necessarily blowing up your life, but you are absolutely questioning why you built it the way you did. Reinvention here is not about becoming a completely different woman. It is about finally letting the existing one breathe.
Sophie moving back home expecting Mum to fix everything? Oh, the audacity of adult children. The book does such a good job capturing that push and pull between wanting to be needed and desperately wanting to not be the default problem solver anymore. Becca trying, sometimes clumsily, to put herself first is both funny and quietly radical. The twitchy eye running gag had me cackling, but underneath the humor is very real anxiety about aging, relevance, and being seen.
Is it perfect? No. There are moments that circle the same emotional drain a couple times. But honestly, that felt weirdly true to life. Growth is repetitive. You do not have one empowering speech in the mirror and suddenly transform into a Pinterest quote. You backslide. You overthink. You put the mum jeans back on and then take them off again.
What Whyman nails is that midlife is not an ending. It is a pivot. And pivots are awkward. They involve wobbling. They involve saying things out loud that you have been swallowing for years. Watching Becca inch toward something braver, something that belongs to her, is deeply satisfying in a way that feels earned.
Four stars. Not because it is flashy or dramatic, but because it is honest, warm, and sneakily profound under all the wit. It made me laugh, it made me wince, and it made me want to text my friends and ask, “Are we okay, or are we just tired?”
And a huge, chaotic thank you to Embla Books and NetGalley for the ARC, for letting me spiral emotionally over mum jeans, marital beige, and midlife.
The Mother of All Comebacks by Kathleen Whyman is basically a love letter to every woman who has spent twenty years holding everyone else’s emotional support water bottle and suddenly realizes no one refilled hers. Becca’s daughter Sophie heads off to university, her job is snatched by someone younger and shinier, and her marriage to Steady Steve is so beige it should come with complimentary Magnolia paint. Separate bedrooms. Minimal spark. Vibes that scream “we used to share an iPod.”
And then, because the universe loves a pile on, Becca has to move in with her estranged, hyper critical mother after a fall. Nothing says personal reinvention like sleeping in your childhood bedroom while your mum critiques your life choices with the subtlety of a foghorn. It is intergenerational chaos. It is emotional regression with better skincare.
What I loved, and I mean genuinely loved, is how painfully relatable Becca’s identity crisis feels. She has built her entire personality around being mum, wife, employee. When those labels start slipping off like cheap name tags at a conference, she panics. Of course she does. We all would. There is something almost horror adjacent about realizing you do not know who you are outside of service to others. It is giving Eat Pray Love but with more British sarcasm and less spontaneous Italian property purchases.
And listen, Steady Steve. Sir. The man talks at her, not to her. Their marriage feels less like a partnership and more like a long term roommate agreement that no one remembers signing. The emotional stagnation is so real it practically has its own postcode. When Becca notices that time away from him feels like a relief, even if it means dealing with her high maintenance mother, that hit. That is the kind of quiet truth that creeps up on you at 2 a.m.
There is also this delicious thread of possibility when she meets a rather interesting web developer who reminds her there is life outside her tiny, self sacrificing bubble. It never veers into cartoonish fantasy. It stays grounded in that messy middle space where you are not necessarily blowing up your life, but you are absolutely questioning why you built it the way you did. Reinvention here is not about becoming a completely different woman. It is about finally letting the existing one breathe.
Sophie moving back home expecting Mum to fix everything? Oh, the audacity of adult children. The book does such a good job capturing that push and pull between wanting to be needed and desperately wanting to not be the default problem solver anymore. Becca trying, sometimes clumsily, to put herself first is both funny and quietly radical. The twitchy eye running gag had me cackling, but underneath the humor is very real anxiety about aging, relevance, and being seen.
Is it perfect? No. There are moments that circle the same emotional drain a couple times. But honestly, that felt weirdly true to life. Growth is repetitive. You do not have one empowering speech in the mirror and suddenly transform into a Pinterest quote. You backslide. You overthink. You put the mum jeans back on and then take them off again.
What Whyman nails is that midlife is not an ending. It is a pivot. And pivots are awkward. They involve wobbling. They involve saying things out loud that you have been swallowing for years. Watching Becca inch toward something braver, something that belongs to her, is deeply satisfying in a way that feels earned.
Four stars. Not because it is flashy or dramatic, but because it is honest, warm, and sneakily profound under all the wit. It made me laugh, it made me wince, and it made me want to text my friends and ask, “Are we okay, or are we just tired?”
And a huge, chaotic thank you to Embla Books and NetGalley for the ARC, for letting me spiral emotionally over mum jeans, marital beige, and midlife.
Review of advance copy received from Author
What a corker of a read! And I cannot believe I have read none of Kathleen Whyman's books before today. This was soooooo relatable!
Becca is a woman of a certain age, making her way through the empty-nester years, with a less-than-satisfactory job, a rather boring husband, and an increasingly demanding mother.
She is the epitome of a woman stuck in the sandwich generation: those who are still caring for and bringing up children, with the added strain of caring for older parents who have their own needs.
I found myself immersed in a world where there are so many situations I find myself in, right now, as a 50-year-old woman, thinking about what my grown children need, as well as constant concern for ailing parents, and with that urge to want to do something different with my working life, but not having the courage or belief in myself that I could do anything else.
The difference is that I get on very well with my mum and mother-in-law, and my relationship is not in question, but even with a solid partnership, other things can rock the boat.
Becca finds herself living with her mother, Josephine, to care for her, despite a very fragile relationship with her, and then her daughter, Sophie, who has flown the nest, comes back, bringing equal stress.
A brilliant theme of reinvention becomes apparent: with support and encouragement from those close to her, she finds a renewed passion for her old love of journalism and writing, as well as for her own appearance. And then there is Rey... Who makes her realise she isn't actually dead inside, or rather, down below!
Josephine is quite a character in herself, and I cannot look at hand cream now, without thinking of her and applying sparingly, to save my door handles!
I think this story touches on and explores many important themes that will resonate with many women out there. And now I can't wait to read a few more of Kathleen's books!
Becca is a woman of a certain age, making her way through the empty-nester years, with a less-than-satisfactory job, a rather boring husband, and an increasingly demanding mother.
She is the epitome of a woman stuck in the sandwich generation: those who are still caring for and bringing up children, with the added strain of caring for older parents who have their own needs.
I found myself immersed in a world where there are so many situations I find myself in, right now, as a 50-year-old woman, thinking about what my grown children need, as well as constant concern for ailing parents, and with that urge to want to do something different with my working life, but not having the courage or belief in myself that I could do anything else.
The difference is that I get on very well with my mum and mother-in-law, and my relationship is not in question, but even with a solid partnership, other things can rock the boat.
Becca finds herself living with her mother, Josephine, to care for her, despite a very fragile relationship with her, and then her daughter, Sophie, who has flown the nest, comes back, bringing equal stress.
A brilliant theme of reinvention becomes apparent: with support and encouragement from those close to her, she finds a renewed passion for her old love of journalism and writing, as well as for her own appearance. And then there is Rey... Who makes her realise she isn't actually dead inside, or rather, down below!
Josephine is quite a character in herself, and I cannot look at hand cream now, without thinking of her and applying sparingly, to save my door handles!
I think this story touches on and explores many important themes that will resonate with many women out there. And now I can't wait to read a few more of Kathleen's books!
March 28, 2026
Becca Monaghan is 49 years old. She is married to Steve who has become very boring and quite cheap. Her life is bright due to her beloved daughter Sophie. However, she has just left for university and Becca is devastated She has been the center of Becca’s life and being away from her is killing her.
Becca’s mother is a self-centered, selfish woman who was a hand model in her heyday. Even though it has been 20 years since she has had any gigs for that, she still feels like more things are just around the corner for her so she does so many things to keep up the beauty of her hands. However, she has fallen recently and broken her wrist. After a few days in respite care, she is now being sent home and Becca has no choice but to move in with her until she heals. As they have not had a good relationship, this is awful for Becca. Add to that the fact that after working for a local magazine for 30 years, she has been made redundant by her new boss who is so young he probably doesn’t shave yet.
Then, Becca receives a call from Sophie saying she’s coming home for a bit. Sadly, she has really quit university because she used up all of her money spending it foolishly. Becca soon realizes she has raised a spoiled girl and is getting tired of being used by her daughter and her mother. Add to that her husband who is clueless about doing anything to help around the house and Becca has had enough. time to reinvent herself.
This story develops into a true joy. It’s lovely watching Becca realize her potential and talent and her willingness to step up and grab the things she wants from life as she works into a new mode with other like women. Do come and read this amazing book and enjoy!
Copy provided by NetGalley in exchange for a fair and honest review.
Becca’s mother is a self-centered, selfish woman who was a hand model in her heyday. Even though it has been 20 years since she has had any gigs for that, she still feels like more things are just around the corner for her so she does so many things to keep up the beauty of her hands. However, she has fallen recently and broken her wrist. After a few days in respite care, she is now being sent home and Becca has no choice but to move in with her until she heals. As they have not had a good relationship, this is awful for Becca. Add to that the fact that after working for a local magazine for 30 years, she has been made redundant by her new boss who is so young he probably doesn’t shave yet.
Then, Becca receives a call from Sophie saying she’s coming home for a bit. Sadly, she has really quit university because she used up all of her money spending it foolishly. Becca soon realizes she has raised a spoiled girl and is getting tired of being used by her daughter and her mother. Add to that her husband who is clueless about doing anything to help around the house and Becca has had enough. time to reinvent herself.
This story develops into a true joy. It’s lovely watching Becca realize her potential and talent and her willingness to step up and grab the things she wants from life as she works into a new mode with other like women. Do come and read this amazing book and enjoy!
Copy provided by NetGalley in exchange for a fair and honest review.
February 2, 2026
I seriously adore Kathleen Whyman’s books and was over the moon to see a new title to add to my shelf! I have the fondest memories of her other books so I launched into this one with relish.
I was met with a relatable tale, a hooking story and characters that I was quickly rooting for! It was filled with humour and my few chapters of this a day, burrito’d in my blankets with a cup of coffee was a treasured moment of the mornings!
The central story itself was one of self discovery, challenge and overcoming. It’s hard to break out of patterns, especially when they’re comfortable. The world outside a comfort zone is a scary place and when Becca finds herself redundant and looking after her (high maintenance) mother after a fall, she’s forced to face her lot in life.
Her nest is emptying, time away from her husband is bliss (despite the trade off having to stay with her mother and all that entails) and she meets a rather interesting web developer who makes her realise there’s more outside her bubble. My only bit of advice to our main character is maybe to get that twitchy eye seen to be a doctor as she was rather prone to a twitch!
It was a great story and I so enjoyed it! I can only hope for and look forward to more by this author!
Thank you to the author and publisher for this book on NetGalley in return for my honest thoughts and review.
I was met with a relatable tale, a hooking story and characters that I was quickly rooting for! It was filled with humour and my few chapters of this a day, burrito’d in my blankets with a cup of coffee was a treasured moment of the mornings!
The central story itself was one of self discovery, challenge and overcoming. It’s hard to break out of patterns, especially when they’re comfortable. The world outside a comfort zone is a scary place and when Becca finds herself redundant and looking after her (high maintenance) mother after a fall, she’s forced to face her lot in life.
Her nest is emptying, time away from her husband is bliss (despite the trade off having to stay with her mother and all that entails) and she meets a rather interesting web developer who makes her realise there’s more outside her bubble. My only bit of advice to our main character is maybe to get that twitchy eye seen to be a doctor as she was rather prone to a twitch!
It was a great story and I so enjoyed it! I can only hope for and look forward to more by this author!
Thank you to the author and publisher for this book on NetGalley in return for my honest thoughts and review.
April 5, 2026
This book is about midlife and adapting to having an empty nest.
Becca's daughter Sophie has gone off to university and Becca is feeling lost without her. Then her mother, Josephine, breaks her wrist and needs someone to look after her, so Becca goes over to help.
As a woman in her 50s, I can completely relate to the problems Becca had! We are the sandwich generation - looking after our aging parents and bringing up children. I understood Becca's discombobulation when all the 'certainities' in her life get kicked out from under her one by one. She needs to find a new equilibrium ... and fast.
This book is funny, interesting and highly relatable. There is a strong romantic subplot, but it's really about Becca and how she learns to embrace her new self (which is actually a lot more like her much younger self in some ways). This is a lovely, uplifting tale about becoming you're meant to be once you no longer have to be mum all the time.
Becca's daughter Sophie has gone off to university and Becca is feeling lost without her. Then her mother, Josephine, breaks her wrist and needs someone to look after her, so Becca goes over to help.
As a woman in her 50s, I can completely relate to the problems Becca had! We are the sandwich generation - looking after our aging parents and bringing up children. I understood Becca's discombobulation when all the 'certainities' in her life get kicked out from under her one by one. She needs to find a new equilibrium ... and fast.
This book is funny, interesting and highly relatable. There is a strong romantic subplot, but it's really about Becca and how she learns to embrace her new self (which is actually a lot more like her much younger self in some ways). This is a lovely, uplifting tale about becoming you're meant to be once you no longer have to be mum all the time.
April 9, 2026
In the ‘Mother of all Comebacks’ Kathleen Whyman has lightheartedly explored the mid-life problems of Becca whose self esteem seems to unravel when the need to recreate her career has to be balanced with the demands of being supportive to her daughter as well as her own mother.
It is easy to relate to panic induced by these circumstances, but this novel allows us to laugh at our insecurity. Discrimination against women of a certain age is clearly a serious issue but the light-hearted way Becca’s troubles are described avoids any preaching.
If only my generation (I am 70) could have had online organisations such as Middle Aged And Magnificent (MAAM) to help us feel less isolated. The description of connections made on this website turned Becca’s life around.
In an age when the dangers of technology are always on our minds it is good to remind ourselves that life online can also be life-affirming.
It is easy to relate to panic induced by these circumstances, but this novel allows us to laugh at our insecurity. Discrimination against women of a certain age is clearly a serious issue but the light-hearted way Becca’s troubles are described avoids any preaching.
If only my generation (I am 70) could have had online organisations such as Middle Aged And Magnificent (MAAM) to help us feel less isolated. The description of connections made on this website turned Becca’s life around.
In an age when the dangers of technology are always on our minds it is good to remind ourselves that life online can also be life-affirming.
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March 13, 2026 This was a charming read about a woman who has to reconsider work, rest and play all at once, and makes some great decisions! Excellent cast of believably flawed characters. I especially liked the fact that in never asserting herself against her life partner’s penny-pinching ways it meant she had a heck of a divorce settlement. There was a lot to love in this novel, including the friendships, fashion updates, and self-absorbed mother who turns out to have been right about a few things. There were some scenes that strained credulity including the overused device of “I suck at the internet” which was even worse here because she literally worked in a very connected industry. STOP making this a flaw in older characters PLEASE. That’s so 2001.
I read this book courtesy of the author, publisher Embla Books and Netgalley. Opinions are my own.
I read this book courtesy of the author, publisher Embla Books and Netgalley. Opinions are my own.
Review of advance copy received from Netgalley
The Mother of all Comebacks by Kathleen Whyman is a relatable novel that explores the "rebranding" of a middle-aged woman facing an empty nest and professional obsolescence.
The theme of the book is self discovery and new beginnings and Becca’s struggle to put herself first after decades of prioritizing everyone else. I enjoyed the book but the repetition of certain actions became irritating and I really hope that it gets a good editing before publication day because it ruins the story. Overall though the plot is well paced with relatable and likeable characters and a satisfying ending.
3.5 stars
The theme of the book is self discovery and new beginnings and Becca’s struggle to put herself first after decades of prioritizing everyone else. I enjoyed the book but the repetition of certain actions became irritating and I really hope that it gets a good editing before publication day because it ruins the story. Overall though the plot is well paced with relatable and likeable characters and a satisfying ending.
3.5 stars
March 12, 2026
This is a story of a woman called Becca who is feeling low after her daughter goes to university and her husband is boring plus her mother is very demanding. and she gets dismissed from her job and replaced by a younger woman.
When her mother has a fall she cajoles Becca into moving in with her and then her daughter returns from university expecting her mother to do everything for her she feels put upon. Then she meets Rey a software developer who encourages her to explore her choices. and when her friend and old boss Nikki encourages her to stand up for herself and decide what she wants out of life.
I enjoyed Becca's journey of discovery would recommend.
Thanks to NetGalley & Embla Books for the ARC.
When her mother has a fall she cajoles Becca into moving in with her and then her daughter returns from university expecting her mother to do everything for her she feels put upon. Then she meets Rey a software developer who encourages her to explore her choices. and when her friend and old boss Nikki encourages her to stand up for herself and decide what she wants out of life.
I enjoyed Becca's journey of discovery would recommend.
Thanks to NetGalley & Embla Books for the ARC.
Review of advance copy received from Netgalley
Meeting as bartenders at the age of 20 and 21, instant rivalry for attention of undergoing bar owner Otto.
Following life's choices and changes.
Making a cocktail that becomes an internet sensation makes the bar a worldwide sensation.
Splitting the reputation and the working partnership for many years.
Then a tragedy brings them back together. Can it last?
Following life's choices and changes.
Making a cocktail that becomes an internet sensation makes the bar a worldwide sensation.
Splitting the reputation and the working partnership for many years.
Then a tragedy brings them back together. Can it last?
April 2, 2026
I have never read this author Kathleen Whyman before and was glad to be able to read this novel thru NetGalley. This novel will definitely hit home for women hitting their 50’s and beyond as the main female character struggles with empty next, a placid marriage and troubles with her own mom. It’s a feel good story and will look for more by this author,
April 23, 2026
This was a fun read. Becca is the perfect wife to her husband Steve and Mum to her daughter Sofia. She has been working at the same dead end job for 30 years. Out of the blue, she is fired. This sets Becca on the road to self discovery and a new life she never knew she wanted or needed.
April 25, 2026
Another hilarious and relatable story from Kathleen Whyman. Loved this book and its themes of reinvention. Can’t wait for more!
May 20, 2026
relatable
A nice change from my usual read. Sweet book. I am glad she came to her senses. Is the grass greener?
A nice change from my usual read. Sweet book. I am glad she came to her senses. Is the grass greener?
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