The Everything Groom Book: A Survival Guide for Men

by Shelly Hagen

Who cares what kind of flowers we have? What does she want me to say about the china for our registry? And why is she always on the phone in tears? While some may say that men have it easy gearing up for a wedding, today’s grooms seem to be finding that their brides actually expect a little help and enthusiasm along the way. The Everything® Groom Book is the perfect handbook for grooms looking for that extra support on their wedding day. Features no-nonsense information on how · Find the perfect ring
· Choose the groomsmen
· Plan the honeymoon
· Manage finances
· Survive the bachelor party From knowing the proper etiquette to dressing appropriately and handling responsibilities, The Everything® Groom Book is the one guide guaranteed to get the groom down the aisle—while still in the bride’s good graces.

Genres: Nonfiction, Marriage

288 pages, Paperback

First published January 1, 2004

Reviews

[Craig · Rating 1 out of 5]

I was given this book by my sister and brother-in-law. While I appreciated the sentiment, this book was of little use. I learned far more about the wedding process by taking part in other weddings than I did from reading this book. Aside from being pretty outdated, the book is pretty patronizing towards the reader and their future parter. Not only does the author assume that the reader is a "frat boy" type, but that the bride is overly emotional. Personally, I feel like Shelly spent some time writing this book after she watched a few movie weddings and decided to comment on the do's and don'ts.

I do not suggest this book for anyone who has attended a formal wedding. I'd suggest this book for someone who has never been to a wedding and who also does not have family members to consult.

[Kevin Regimbal · Rating 3 out of 5]

The book assumes the male reader is a bit of a block headed jock and that the bride is going to be an emotional wreck or in a constant state of panic. Thankfully, my fiancé is crazy, so at least the latter part applies to me (lol)!

With respect to advice, there was not a whole lot of ground breaking info if you have talked with other people who had weddings, or if you have some help from family. But could be extremely useful if you were someone who had no help. However, the way the author addresses the reader sometimes comes across as rude or patronizing, likely in an effort to be funny but missing the mark.

[Stephen · Rating 4 out of 5]

This book was a X-Mas gift as well, but let me just be clear with anyone reading this review.....this book is ESSENTIAL! After reading it I only wish I was more on top of this knowledge, for I would have bought it for each and every guy I know who was about to, or is even thinking about marriage. It really does help you get a leg up on all the things that will be happening in ones life and how to properly plan for them.

I dont believe the book is correct on every issue, but i feel that it gives one a pretty clear picture of things to expect and ways to prepare oneself for that day that lives forever in you and your wifes minds. Great read, and is about as good of a help guide as I have ever seen!

[Adam Lohonyai · Rating 2 out of 5]

The information is vague and general. Unless I'm missing something, this book is intended for men who are strongly considering marriage. The audience is probably a little wiser and more mature than a typical teenager. On the whole, I find that the author insults the intelligence and common sense of the adult male population. Tips like "shave, shower, and don't be hung over" for your wedding day are a waste of paper, ink, and the reader's time. I gave the book a rating of 2 out of 5 simply because a 1 would have been too harsh. The advice isn't bad, but it's not very helpful either. The reader is not likely to read much of anything he doesn't already know.

[A. · Rating 4 out of 5]

Seems like a good book with adequate information. However, the part about asking the father kind of irritated me. I don't think in this time period it really matters, and if it does I am sure the man would know if that is what he should do. My fiance didn't ask my father and everything is fine, so her telling EVERYONE that they HAVE to was a bit ridiculous.

[John · Rating 3 out of 5]

Good checklist of stuff before a wedding. However, every woman is portrayed as a raving lunatic and it is too heavy on old dumb traditions ("You should NOT pay for your engagement party, your friends/family who throw it should pay for all costs")

[Sean McBride · Rating 3 out of 5]

So I needed to get some info, because I felt pretty out of my depth, but the majoroty of this book basically just tells you to make sure you are double checking everything and keeping open communication with your wife to be. Seems pretty sound to me, and now I'm feeling much better about things...

[Jessica · Rating 3 out of 5]

My husband did a great job with his responsibilities at our wedding, although this book may or may not have helped on that front.

[Fernando · Rating 2 out of 5]

Read on the recommendation of a family member. There are some nuggets to be found but, on the whole, more ink on paper than it was worth.