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From the author of New York Times bestseller Real Americans , a brilliant short story collection about love, life, and the anguish of becoming oneself in a time when it’s so easy to be someone else

The characters in My Dear You find themselves facing extraordinary choices in scenarios that range from the everyday to the The U.S. government injects all citizens with a drug that makes them see everyone else as members of their own race and gender. God does away with humans in favor of something much better. A woman adopts a cat who conjures the ghosts of her ex-loves. A factory worker decides to liberate a sex doll she is tasked with selling.

These stories go deep beneath the surface, touching on the particular awkwardness of dating in your thirties and What does it mean to be an Asian woman in America? Or an American? Or a human? Along the way, the characters stop to consider interventions from the supernatural, the earthly, the robotic, and the immortal.

Playful, profane, and yet enveloped with profound compassion for life, however you define it, My Dear You takes on dating, marriage, and the pressures of having or not having children; intimacy, memory, race, and capitalism; living, dying, and being dead. At their very core, they are tales of love in its many being in love when you’re not supposed to be, or not being in love but wishing you were; failing at dating apps or finding yourself in weird but wonderful lifelong friendships; struggling in heaven to remember your loved ones.

Ranging from the sinister to the tender, these witty and expertly paced stories will have you laughing out loud one minute and reaching for your best friend the next.

240 pages, Hardcover

First published April 7, 2026

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Rachel Khong

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RACHEL KHONG is the author of the novels Real Americans, a New York Times bestseller, and Goodbye, Vitamin, winner of the California Book Award for First Fiction. From 2011 to 2016, she was an editor of Lucky Peach, a quarterly magazine of food and culture. In 2018, Rachel founded The Ruby, a work and event space for writers and artists in San Francisco’s Mission District. Her story collection, My Dear You, will be published by Knopf in April 2026. Since 2021, she has mentored emerging writers with the Periplus Mentorship Collective. With friends, she teaches as The Dream Side (www.thedreamside.com).

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2,611 reviews96.7k followers
April 21, 2026
"a brilliant short story collection about love, life, and the anguish of becoming oneself in a time when it’s so easy to be someone else"

mini-reviews for every story:


MY DEAR YOU
this is a beautiful and surprising story about heaven that only slightly drove me crazy with its inconsistencies.
rating: 4


THE FRESHENING
what if we all got injected with a drug that made us see everyone like us? makes ya think. i'm not even being sarcastic.
rating: 3.5


SLOW AND STEADY
oh gosh. this one was surprisingly swoony.
rating: 4


TAPETUM LUCIDUM
one of my favorite things is when a short story makes me forget it's not a novel.
rating: 4


THE FAMILY O
damn. what an emotional rollercoaster.
rating: 4


SERENE
the power of female friendship (between an AI-powered sex doll and a saleswoman).
rating: 4


RED SHOES
the whole of this story, i was irritated by its superior-sounding protagonist. but then it ended with "Every day of my life, I wish I knew what to do" and now i think she's just like me.
rating: 4


GOOD SPIRITS
i do believe in ghosts and ghouls but i feel like they're nice.
rating: 4


COLORS FROM ELSEWHERE
each of these stories has more of a cohesive style and riveting plot than most full-length novels i read.
rating: 4


D DAY
touched my heart. and i hate sentient animal stories of all kinds.
rating: 4.5


OVERALL
i have been experiencing miss after miss when i pick up a short story collection. what a hit this was — each story unique and interesting and resonant, and all of it building toward a theme greater than the sum of its parts. i didn't want to stop reading and i didn't want it to end.
rating: 4.5

(thanks to the publisher for the e-arc)
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607 reviews478 followers
Review of advance copy received from Publisher
April 6, 2026
Typically I am not the biggest fan of short story collections. They tend to leave me wanting more. However, with so many beloved authors releasing short story anthologies, I have given them a second glance. This new collection by Rachel Khong, (author of Goodbye Vitamin and Real Americans) may have completely changed my perspective on short story compilations altogether.

My Dear You contains 10 deeply imaginative stories that center around various types of love. Dreamlike, multifaceted, playful, and, at times, thought-provoking. I really enjoyed this collection but the ones that stood out to me the most were:

• My Dear You
• The Freshening
• The Family O
• Serene
• Good Spirits

Fans of Rachel's prior works as well as fans of literary fiction short stories will absolutely love My Dear You!

My Dear You: Stories by Rachel Khong will be available on April 7. Many thanks to AA Knopf for the gifted copy!
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222 reviews87 followers
April 19, 2026
4 ⭐️ This is a great collection of 10 short stories by Rachel Khong. I’m usually not the biggest fan of short stories, but I really enjoyed the variety of topics covered, life and death, friendship, race, capitalism, the planet, and the afterlife. Some were funny, some sad, and some futuristic and unique.

The prose is lovely and each story held my attention from the first, “My Dear You”, where the departed struggled to remember their loved ones in the afterlife, to the last, “D-Day” where God is ending the human race and all humans must choose an animal to become on humanity’s last day. There was not a single one that I did not like!

Thanks to NetGalley and Knopf publishers for the eARC in exchange for my honest review
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77 reviews2 followers
September 22, 2025
This book was masterful from start to finish. Each short story tackled difficult themes in a playful surrealist way that I really enjoyed. I couldn't stop thinking about the last short story for days. Someone read this so I can talk about it!

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94 reviews13 followers
November 4, 2023
This one chokes me up every time. It makes a difference when the right people find each other. This is such a beautiful testament to that.
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503 reviews43 followers
April 5, 2026
Normally I am not a fan of short story collections. “My Dear You” breaks the mold. All written by Rachel Khong, some of the stories are straight out of sci fi, others a tender love letter to love and self. And some…well, see for yourself.

The opening story, which is also the title of the book, had me in tears by the end. It was a beautiful story of what comes after and remembering to love. A very strong start to this collection of stories! The Freshening was something straight out of a sci-fi flick. What if you had the option to only see people that looked like you in the world? Everyone was still there, but they looked like you but only to you. Would you want it, or not? Slow and Steady felt like it was written from a place of imposter syndrome. What chances don’t we take on ourselves because we are too scared to make the jump? Tapetum Lucidum was tragic in a different way, being haunted by what might have been. (We’ve ALL been there!) The Family O was crazy and made me so very glad to be out of the dating app game. The lesson learned in that one was extremely satisfying! Serene was a surprise! It didn’t end the way I thought it would, and it was completely endearing. (When you read it, you’ll understand why!) Red Shoes was a tough one to read. Most of the stories in this collection are sad but hopeful, Red Shoes was just sad. You can tell it was written from a place of pain, and it comes through in every sentence. It makes me want to hug Rachel Khong. Good Spirits was spooky! (I think I too would choose a tiger over a ghost following me, thank you very much.) Colors From Elsewhere veered back to sci-fi, but be warned it centers around a pregnancy loss. If you’re not in the right headspace for that one, it will leave you completely wrecked. D Day posits what if God hit CTRL+Z on the whole human being idea and had them choose a different species to become. Oh and BTW, he sent the announcement to every phone on Earth, natch. What would you choose, if you had the chance?

My Dear You hits shelves April 7 and I highly recommend picking it up!

Huge huge thank you to Alfred A Knopf and author Rachel Khong for the gifted ARC and the opportunity to review this amazing book. All opinions are my own.

(In case it’s helpful: trigger warnings for pet death in both Tapetum Lucidum and Red Shoes. Colors from Elsewhere opens and pivots on pregnancy loss.)
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January 7, 2026
Book Riot’s Most Anticipated Books of 2026:

There is always a remarkable economy of language in Rachel Khong's books. She doesn't waste any time—or any words—getting to the point, but she doesn't sacrifice artistry, either. Khong's generous affection for her characters and ability to capture mundane human moments and anxieties with uncommon grace and humor make her exactly the kind of writer whose novels have made me wonder what she'd do with short stories. I can't wait to find out. —Rebecca Joines Schinsky
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211 reviews384 followers
April 14, 2026
I wasn’t sure what a short story collection from Rachel Khong would look like, but I absolutely adored it.

Unlike Real Americans, which felt more expansive, this collection is more intimate while still exploring big ideas. I’ve always loved Khong’s writing. It’s precise and controlled, yet still comforting.

There is a consistent exploration of identity, relationships, and the complexities of belonging throughout the stories and many of the characters exist in spaces of uncertainty, navigating questions of selfhood and connection in ways that feel both specific and relatable.

As with most collections, certain stories stood out more than others, but the strongest stories are especially memorable.
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417 reviews10 followers
April 22, 2026
4.5 ⭐️’s

Thanks to Knopf & NetGalley for the ARC

I loved Goodbye Vitamin and went into this excited to see what Khong offers in short stories. After reading this I cannot wait to get to Real Americans.

Khong is the real deal. Her tenderness, her wittiness, her creativity. You are invited into all of it.

I am always blown away when a short story collection holds me all the way through because that is so hard to do. Every story in this collection landed for me. Every single one.
And they all stop at exactly the right moment, which is its own kind of art.

What I keep coming back to is her craft.
Specifically, she trusts her reader. That's rarer than it sounds.
She assumes you're intelligent, that you can feel nuance, that you don't need to be guided.
Most writers don't trust their reader enough and overexplain.
Khong trusts completely, and because of that the stories just feel complete. Like nothing is missing.

Running through all of it is something more subtle, but no less powerful, the quiet cost of being a woman. The layered, often unspoken experience of being an Asian woman. The ways love shapes us, stretches us, asks things of us we don't always have language for. It isn't highlighted or made into a lesson. It simply exists beneath the surface of each story, the way these truths live within us in real life…present, felt, and often unnamed.

I love her as a writer.
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45 reviews1 follower
May 4, 2026
I definitely think that if you texted God, he'd reply with brown thumbs up emojis.

Had the privilege to meet Rachel Khong at an author event in LA last week and picked up her new short story collection while there. Each story is a delight - insightful in how it illustrates complex themes against unique and often humorous realities.

My Dear You 4/5 sidenote - Gave a presentation on this story for a college class after finding it on the annals of the internet in 2023. Didn't realize that Rachel Khong was the author until seeing it in this collection!
The Freshening 3.5/5
Slow and Steady 3/5 it's sweet but didn't stick with me
Tapetum Lucidum 4/5 All My Ghosts by Lizzy McAlpine in short story form
The Family O 4/5 Ridiculously silly with a side of sympathy
Serene 4.5/5
Red Shoes 2.5/5
Good Spirits 2.8/5 I don't think a short story is the right media form for this. The plot and themes need more time to develop.
Colors from Elsewhere 3/5 what if Resident Aliens were actual aliens?
D Day 6/5 Perfect ratio of humor and really profound observations on friendship.
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476 reviews108 followers
April 15, 2026
Typically my problem with short stories is there isn't enough character depth for me to latch on to. I'm happy to report there is no such problem in this collection. I found myself emersed in every single story, a collection largely themed around intimacy and the abject. I enjoyed Real Americans but found it a little forgettable; My Dear You made a much stronger impression on me. The light scifi and magical realist elements help to elucidate the incredibly human themes.
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661 reviews18 followers
April 17, 2026
I really, really enjoyed this new short story collection by novelist Khong. They were more speculative and more funny than I was expecting, and I was engrossed the entire time.
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54 reviews1 follower
October 3, 2025
As a fan of Rachel Khong, I was really excited to see this ARC offered. The stories were reminiscent of Ted Chiang’s sci-fi short stories but from a uniquely Asian female lens. Some of the stories I found so engaging I was disappointed when they ended. Overall, another great read from Rachel Khong. Thank you to the publisher for the ability to read this in advance!!
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193 reviews44 followers
January 19, 2026
MY DEAR YOU is a collection of odd, surreal and powerful short stories. Each one masterfully digs into what it means to be human, to love, and to change. I practically inhaled this, and will be thinking about these characters for a long time to come. Another incredible read from the one and only Rachel Khong.

Thank you to Knopf for the ARC!
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288 reviews44 followers
April 12, 2026
[Copy provided by publisher]

READ IF YOU LIKE...
• Speculative fiction, magical realism, or the supernatural
• Exploring Asianness and race
• Exploring love both romantic and platonic

I THOUGHT IT WAS...
A story collection full of fascinating premises, but not all were fully delivered. A woman discovers heaven is a place where you gradually forget your life. The U.S. government injects everyone with a serum that causes you to see everyone as the same race and gender as you. A group of Asian women take revenge on a serial online dater with an Asian fetish. These are just some of the quirky premises to Khong's stories.

When you present me with a really interesting premise, I go into the story with high expectations. Perhaps that's why I felt like some of the stories in this collection fell flat. In particular, speculative fiction short stories are hard to pull off. You have to build both a plausible proposed reality and a plausible, interesting plot within that reality in a short span of time. What often ends up happening is that one or both of these pieces end up underdeveloped, and that is what happened to some of the stories here. (Of note, though, is one of the premises was so interesting that I wish Khong would write a full novel on it.)

Even among the stories that weren't speculative, there were some that felt more mundane than brilliant. Khong's exploration of Asianness in particular felt tired and tropey, at times. But the stories that I felt were strongest contain lots of fun, nuanced, and incredibly touching moments, and also showcase the best of Khong's writing.
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125 reviews6 followers
April 7, 2026
Review of the Day: My Dear You by Rachel Khong

My Dear You is a collection of stories that focus on identity, particularly Asian American identity and what it means to be human often through a speculative or science fiction lens. Khong is probably best known for her novel Real Americans — a book I have not read, but I would like to now because I enjoyed the stories innMy Dear You.

At least in my opinion, the standout stories in this book are:

“The Family O” about a group of Asian American women who plot their revenge against a white man who only dates Asians in order to pursue his fetish.

“The Freshening” in which a law is passed that requires every American to receive an injection that forces them to see everyone as the same race and gender.

And,

The title story, “My Dear You” in which a woman adjusts to her new life in heaven that starts with selecting a new face. I particularly appreciated this line which I suspect people of color hear often:

“Where are you from?” people sometimes asked me, admiring my face.

“California,” I would say.

“I mean, where are you from originally?” they would ask, and I would think, Come on. Is this really still happening, here? (loc. 152).

At least in my opinion, this is a story collection worth reading.

Thanks to Net Galley for providing a copy; all opinions are my own.

epub. 240 pgs. 7 April 2026
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1,244 reviews
April 14, 2026
4.5 stars. Thank you to Knopf and Net Galley for an ARC in exchange for my honest review. I loved these stories as they encompassed everything we might encounter in life - all sorts of relationships, love, living, death, race, culture and society, intimacy and sex, and many stories centered on being an Asian/Asian American woman. They can be fun, cringy, quirky and profound. I enjoyed every story and plan to go back and read my favorites again. I read that Ali Wong has optioned The Freshening and look forward to seeing it. I highly recommend this collection.
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330 reviews166 followers
May 2, 2026
like with most short story collections, some were hits and some were misses, but i really enjoyed the breadth of topics covered here! rachel khong’s imagination is so interesting to explore and i can’t wait to see what she writes next!
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157 reviews39 followers
March 31, 2026
This is the first time I've read Khong's short fiction--I've read her two previous novels, and this is the first book that's really wowed me. Khong had me from the opening sentence ("I selected fifty-four millimeters for the space between my eyes.").

Four and a half stars
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30 reviews2 followers
April 13, 2026
Loved this collection of short stories, especially D Day. I thought that many of the stories were about the grief and beauty that come with the finiteness of our choices, and Khong did an amazing job weaving in themes of love, race, and technology to highlight this.
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294 reviews16 followers
March 23, 2026
Thank you PRH Audio for the gifted ALC to listen to and review!

I downloaded this short story collection on a whim, and I’m so glad that I did. I was wholly unprepared for the gamut of emotions these stories put me through. They tackle many themes and issues told through the eyes of several thought-provoking characters. A lot of the themes are around being an Asian woman in America. Also explored are the concepts of friendship, love, intimacy, and connection.

There’s humor, tragedy, and moments where you find yourself cringing or confused (not in a bad way). Each story felt separate from the last, but the writing in all of them was similarly reflective. Although I had a few favorites, there weren’t any in the collection that I didn’t like.

Absolutely and wholeheartedly recommend this collection. My favorites were:

My Dear You
Tapetum Lucidum
The Family O
Red Shoes

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88 reviews2 followers
November 9, 2025
Masterful short stories that highlight the challenging journey of finding yourself, in a time when it is very easy to not. It was playful and surrealist without skimping on depth. Highly recommend!
675 reviews26 followers
August 25, 2025
Thanks to Netgalley and Knopf for the ebook. This book of stories takes on serious ideas in many playful ways. It does it realistically, like when twenty Asian women band together to exact revenge on a white male who only dates Asian women on a dating app, to the more absurd, like when God gives humans a few months to pick another animal species, or when the government gives you a drug so that you see everyone as your own race and gender. It’s so much fun to see a novelist cut loose and have so much fun with short stories.
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80 reviews3 followers
September 1, 2025
I loved. LOVED. Completely unexpected since I was expecting a novel but v pleasantly surprised.
The perfect combo of surreal/thought provoking. Excited for my friends to read it.

'"Samsara," Greg said. "Life as circular rather than linear."
I liked that: life as cyclical, not a straight line marked with stones. Or could there be more dimensions to it? In water, there wasn't only forward. There was down and up and through.'
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77 reviews6 followers
October 18, 2025
My Dear You is a captivating collection of short stories filled with fantastical, absurd, and even delightfully silly scenarios. Each story feels out of this world yet somehow deeply human. What I loved most was how every piece made me stop and reflect. I wondered what I would do in those situations. It’s the kind of book that stays with you and makes you want to journal your thoughts after each story. Thought-provoking and imaginative.

Thanks to NetGalley for providing the arc.
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85 reviews8 followers
September 9, 2025
Rachel Khong you are a visionary. This was weird and wonderful!!! Loved every second
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190 reviews5 followers
April 7, 2026
Rachel Khong is not just an exceptionally skilled writer; she is also deeply creative and a fascinating thinker. I had previously read her novel Real Americans and raved about how it addresses some of the most perplexing human questions: what makes someone who they are? What role does genetics or heritage play in defining a person? What do we owe our ancestors, our descendants?

This collection of short stories is a brilliant outlet for Khong to expand her explorations of these topics and others. The stories are each a unique treat, and as a collective, they share a curiosity about human existence, the persistence of love, racial and race relations, the human impact on our planet, and more. There’s a group of Asian-American women who team up to score a point over a white guy with an Asian fetish; a take on the afterlife, in which everyone looks perpetually 33; a cat who brings the ghosts of past lovers; a saleswoman who befriends the sex doll she is meant to sell; a tale of gentrification and industrialization in 1980s Malaysia, Khong’s place of birth; an affair with a married man; a woman who discovers she is an alien; and a final story about the end of humanity, in which each person must choose an animal to be transformed into. There really isn’t a dud in the bunch; they are all individually effective, interesting, and perfectly suited for the short story format.

Overall, this is an excellent collection of speculative short fiction from a wonderful writer. I am so fortunate to have read it! Thank you to Knopf and NetGalley for a free eARC in exchange for an honest review.
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110 reviews7 followers
May 1, 2026
This short story collection blew me away. I like short stories in general and enjoyed Rachel Khong's novel Real Americans quite a bit last year, but I was still unprepared for how much I'd love this book. As I've come to expect from Khong, the writing is so beautiful and every word is intentional. Each story is gorgeous in its own way. Maybe what I liked most about this, though, is that it's evident from reading this collection that the author had fun writing each story. The stories aren't all joyful, but the joy the author felt from getting to experiment with different genres and characters is really clear as a reader. It's obvious she had fun and that made it fun for me as a reader too.

It's hard to pin down the genre of this book: there's science fiction and drama and love stories and tragedy and comedy. Every story stands on its own and they still manage to feel cohesive as a collective. She explores a lot of interesting themes around identity, gender, culture, and relationships. I loved every single one of these stories, but my favorites were The Freshening, The Family O, Tapetum Lucidum, and My Dear You. I'm still mulling over so many ideas from this book and will be thinking about these complex characters for a while to come.

Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for the ARC!
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