What do you think?
Nasty Work: Resist Systems, Explore Desire, and Liberate Yourself
An award-winning sexuality educator takes down society’s deeply entrenched colonial views on sex and gender throughout history in this accessible, candid, and revolutionary exploration of how we can—and should—reclaim our minds and bodies for a more pleasurable existence for all.
When you think about sex ed, your mind likely goes back to those uncomfortable school desks and the stifled laughs of your teenage years. But what we’ve been socialized to believe about sexuality actually hinders our own pleasure well into adulthood. Whether we know it or not, even the most progressive among us are often using 400-year-old inherited thoughts and belief systems in the twenty-first century. Why are we still carrying forth these ancient values that have never served the vast majority?
As a Black, queer, non-binary, disabled femme, Ericka Hart believes that sex ed done right can actually be a tool for liberation. In Nasty Work, she breaks down the ways that social implications keep us from experiencing pleasure, particularly for marginalized communities across race, gender, sexuality, and ability, and how we can dismantle these oppressive myths. From examining what guides our attraction to others to the history of consent, Ericka Hart takes the blinders off and reveals a more empowering view of sex and sexuality.
Nasty Work blends eye-opening research with powerful, poignant personal narrative that disrupts everything you thought you knew about sex and society, offering a liberatory framework that makes pleasure accessible for all.
When you think about sex ed, your mind likely goes back to those uncomfortable school desks and the stifled laughs of your teenage years. But what we’ve been socialized to believe about sexuality actually hinders our own pleasure well into adulthood. Whether we know it or not, even the most progressive among us are often using 400-year-old inherited thoughts and belief systems in the twenty-first century. Why are we still carrying forth these ancient values that have never served the vast majority?
As a Black, queer, non-binary, disabled femme, Ericka Hart believes that sex ed done right can actually be a tool for liberation. In Nasty Work, she breaks down the ways that social implications keep us from experiencing pleasure, particularly for marginalized communities across race, gender, sexuality, and ability, and how we can dismantle these oppressive myths. From examining what guides our attraction to others to the history of consent, Ericka Hart takes the blinders off and reveals a more empowering view of sex and sexuality.
Nasty Work blends eye-opening research with powerful, poignant personal narrative that disrupts everything you thought you knew about sex and society, offering a liberatory framework that makes pleasure accessible for all.
304 pages, Hardcover
Published April 14, 2026
Ratings & Reviews
Friends & Following
Create a free account to discover what your friends think of this book!
Community Reviews
Displaying 1 - 30 of 51 reviews
August 20, 2026
Truly incredible and exceeded my expectations. A must read for everyone!
April 27, 2026
I liked this book, but it wasn't quite what I was expecting based on the title/blurb, and for me, it didn't quite hit as hard as I'd hoped. The focus here was really on exploring the ways in which the racist/colonizing/patriarchal society has impacted all of us, and while Hart definitely does bring it back to the ways in which our sexuality and pleasure specifically has been impacted, the desire/pleasure aspect was definitely a lighter touch than I'd been expecting (and hoping for). I do think the author covers these topics well, and even has some takes that felt novel/like less well-trod ground, but I felt that the desire and sexuality aspect of this approach was what made this book stand out, and I wanted the author to more continuously and clearly link their subjects back to that as a central thrust/thesis. There was also more of an autobiographical slant, with each chapter beginning with a personal anecdote from the author's life that particularly represented the theme of that chapter. I wasn't necessarily opposed to this, but it hadn't quite been what I was expecting. I appreciated the questions at the end of each chapter meant to prompt the reader to dig deeper into the different themes, and there was certainly a lot of thought provoking stuff in here, but I didn't love it quite as much as I wanted to.
June 9, 2026
i really enjoyed this book and i can’t wait to see this author in person on thursday!
May 1, 2026
It is literally one of the best books I’ve ever read in every way. One of the most intersectional, frank, and well-written books about intimate, serious, and political topics. MANY other authors would have written this one in a way that is really dry, academic, or a sludge to get through; this one reads really quick and there are no bad takes in it. Truly a must-read.
May 20, 2026
3.75
This offered up some great information on how we view sex and gender as a society and why we view it the way we do. I do wish that we got to explore pleasure and desire a little more in this. I like how Hart ties in their own experiences and the questions they pose at the end of the chapters. A great eye opener and really interesting read.
This offered up some great information on how we view sex and gender as a society and why we view it the way we do. I do wish that we got to explore pleasure and desire a little more in this. I like how Hart ties in their own experiences and the questions they pose at the end of the chapters. A great eye opener and really interesting read.
May 27, 2026
"A sexually liberatory framework requires a commitment to dismantling the barriers to pleasure, bodily autonomy, and gender expansiveness that often make an example out of marginalized bodies to be used as a talking point rather than a breakdown for everyone’s access to pleasure."
The thesis statement of this book is very easy to agree with and gets you excited about the ways in which the world shapes pleasure and desire.
This book was a bit more rooted in the author's lived experiences than I was prepared for. While there were so many connections between oppressive systems and the various topics discussed in each chapter, the author's negative experiences with the topics drove the conversation. This created extrapolations that did not seem like patterns of a system in some instances, but just reflection on past traumas. Chapter 8 and 9 exemplified this the most. The author even admits that the topics were hard to write about.
There is much food for thought with this book, which is one of the main goals expressed early on. Each chapter ends with questions to help you better shed light on your relationship to the various oppressive powers and how they impact you. With this structure, it makes sense that the author would include their own answers and stories.
"Black women by virtue of being Black transcend gender, oftentimes without even realizing it."
I think I just struggle with absolute sentences based on one lived experience. I enjoyed the Chapters that zoomed out more, with examples from various sources or charted a pattern over time, such as Chapter 3-5.
Anywho! I copied the questions for journaling and to do some investigating of the impacts of these systems on my own life.
"Sex education has the ability to shift lives, to uproot systems of oppression, but instead the focus is on orgasms void of any politicization."
The thesis statement of this book is very easy to agree with and gets you excited about the ways in which the world shapes pleasure and desire.
This book was a bit more rooted in the author's lived experiences than I was prepared for. While there were so many connections between oppressive systems and the various topics discussed in each chapter, the author's negative experiences with the topics drove the conversation. This created extrapolations that did not seem like patterns of a system in some instances, but just reflection on past traumas. Chapter 8 and 9 exemplified this the most. The author even admits that the topics were hard to write about.
There is much food for thought with this book, which is one of the main goals expressed early on. Each chapter ends with questions to help you better shed light on your relationship to the various oppressive powers and how they impact you. With this structure, it makes sense that the author would include their own answers and stories.
"Black women by virtue of being Black transcend gender, oftentimes without even realizing it."
I think I just struggle with absolute sentences based on one lived experience. I enjoyed the Chapters that zoomed out more, with examples from various sources or charted a pattern over time, such as Chapter 3-5.
Anywho! I copied the questions for journaling and to do some investigating of the impacts of these systems on my own life.
"Sex education has the ability to shift lives, to uproot systems of oppression, but instead the focus is on orgasms void of any politicization."
June 8, 2026
Listened to this one slowly but my goodness did I love it.
I think the hallmark of a good teacher is someone who asks as many questions as they make statements and Hart does that in this book. At the end of each chapter, they ask the audience a series of questions for them to ask themselves that pertain to the content of each chapter.
So many connections were made. A textbook and a memoir and an all-around necessary volume.
I think the hallmark of a good teacher is someone who asks as many questions as they make statements and Hart does that in this book. At the end of each chapter, they ask the audience a series of questions for them to ask themselves that pertain to the content of each chapter.
So many connections were made. A textbook and a memoir and an all-around necessary volume.
June 14, 2026
This was a great mix of enjoying myself and also learning a lot, which means that some parts were difficult reads (both in subject matter and complexity of prose - feels like there’s some capital T Theory in here).
I particularly liked the chapter that explained the inherent queerness of black women’s existence because of the way we/society reject “femininity” for them.
Like with any nonfiction book, there were some chapters/essays that were stronger than others, and it probably could have used a more thorough fact checking/research backing (a couple instances of saying things “probably” or “likely” were true that I think could have actually been verified). But that’s a small gripe, especially since I know publishers aren’t exactly throwing money at fact checking for nonfiction about racial/sexual liberation.
I’ve followed Ericka on social media for a long time and really liked getting to hear their thoughts in a long form (love island references included!).
I particularly liked the chapter that explained the inherent queerness of black women’s existence because of the way we/society reject “femininity” for them.
Like with any nonfiction book, there were some chapters/essays that were stronger than others, and it probably could have used a more thorough fact checking/research backing (a couple instances of saying things “probably” or “likely” were true that I think could have actually been verified). But that’s a small gripe, especially since I know publishers aren’t exactly throwing money at fact checking for nonfiction about racial/sexual liberation.
I’ve followed Ericka on social media for a long time and really liked getting to hear their thoughts in a long form (love island references included!).
May 21, 2026
Whew! This book dives deeper into sex, gender, and how racism, misogyny, class and ableism has affected how we are viewed in the world. Ericka was in her bag with this one!
July 18, 2026
Incredible
August 26, 2026
3.25/5 ⭐️
September 7, 2026
Less about sex and more so on desire and systems that shape it. Decenters romantic relationships, capitalism, white supremacy, patriarchy and in favor of community
August 29, 2026
“White supremacy is threatened by imagination; staying connected to imagination is always troubling to a system whose modus operandi is control.”
August 4, 2026
A MUST read in my opinion. The combination of incredible research, analysis and anecdotal experiences create a work that will change your life and perspectives. I can only speak from the experience of a white cis female reader, but I feel inspired, informed and encouraged to continue my learning and the work of helping to dismantle all the bs.
July 14, 2026
[2.25/5]
This book was definitely not what I was expecting based on the subtitling here. There is a lot more memoir/personal essay style content than I thought there would be. I think I went into this thinking it would be more action and outcome oriented. While Hart is often correct about the systemic oppression that undergirds sexual politics, I found that overall, this want on a lot of tangents that often left me a little lost about the takeaways. Also, there were a few instances where I felt the arguments and examples weren’t as nuanced as I had hoped. I think this may be a natural consequence of trying to squeeze everything in. I just wish this had been more focused. I will say that my favorite portion focuses on the importance of friendship and community building towards the end of the book; this is an oft overlooked part of liberation in a culture obsessed with coupling up.
This book was definitely not what I was expecting based on the subtitling here. There is a lot more memoir/personal essay style content than I thought there would be. I think I went into this thinking it would be more action and outcome oriented. While Hart is often correct about the systemic oppression that undergirds sexual politics, I found that overall, this want on a lot of tangents that often left me a little lost about the takeaways. Also, there were a few instances where I felt the arguments and examples weren’t as nuanced as I had hoped. I think this may be a natural consequence of trying to squeeze everything in. I just wish this had been more focused. I will say that my favorite portion focuses on the importance of friendship and community building towards the end of the book; this is an oft overlooked part of liberation in a culture obsessed with coupling up.
May 31, 2026
Recommended reading!! I'm late to make this review and forgot what I was gonna say, but yeah. It's time for us to unlearn what the white supremacist, capitalist, ableist, fatphobic and cishetornormative social order has taught us. This shit is pervasiveeeeee. Marked down because it was pretty overwritten sometimes, but it's absolutely worth listening to what they have to say.
“The ways in which we relate to our and others’ bodies are informed by being brought up in a white supremacist, capitalist, patriarchal police state, a state that is the intentional product of colonization. Land and bodies alike have been colonized, and that control is built on the binary of desired and ugly, civilized and savage, white and Black.”
Fav essays were the ones on white womanhood and impunity, Black femmes, and on how the US's genocidal founding and history of chattel slavery informs teachings and understandings of consent. Here's some random quotes:
Chapter 6 on Black femmes: “...what is most glaring about colonization in Europe and spread across the Atlantic is that whiteness and womanness and manliness, the very personhood of those privileged by these newly minted social constructs of gender and race, are hinged on the denigration of those who are not and can never be either white or man, much less “feminine” or “masculine.” While white women are rewarded with humanity under the white male gaze for successful performances of femininity, they are harshly punished if/when they fail to do so precisely because it leaves room for Black women to be seen as feminine according to white supremacist, Eurocentric standard—which would disrupt the whole social order of the nation-state built on anti-Blackness”
Chapter 7 on transness and consent: “Moreover, anti-trans legislation or any governmental regime’s panic around transness is more than likely a reaction to a loss of power over children’s bodies. This panic is rooted in a fear that resistance to being told who they are might lead to greater resistance to the state’s plans for both their bodies and minds. A similar manner of control is wielded over children of all genders, the thinking being that if children have any decision-making power, how will they continue to replicate our roles under capitalism: a zombielike, resigned workforce, zombielike unquestioning parenting, a comprador in their own exploitation, a willing participant in an empire who is unable to strike back. ”
Chapter 10 on what's better than orgies: “The sexual revolution was marked in the US during the 1960s when birth control became widely available. Black people had access to birth control but were often kept from accessing it due to cost inaccessibility and fears that birth control was another way for the state to further genocide in the Black community. So why is this time marked as the sexual revolution if only white people could access it? How is it that white people control the narrative around what is sexually free, when historically they have had a propensity toward sexual violence?”
“The ways in which we relate to our and others’ bodies are informed by being brought up in a white supremacist, capitalist, patriarchal police state, a state that is the intentional product of colonization. Land and bodies alike have been colonized, and that control is built on the binary of desired and ugly, civilized and savage, white and Black.”
Fav essays were the ones on white womanhood and impunity, Black femmes, and on how the US's genocidal founding and history of chattel slavery informs teachings and understandings of consent. Here's some random quotes:
Chapter 6 on Black femmes: “...what is most glaring about colonization in Europe and spread across the Atlantic is that whiteness and womanness and manliness, the very personhood of those privileged by these newly minted social constructs of gender and race, are hinged on the denigration of those who are not and can never be either white or man, much less “feminine” or “masculine.” While white women are rewarded with humanity under the white male gaze for successful performances of femininity, they are harshly punished if/when they fail to do so precisely because it leaves room for Black women to be seen as feminine according to white supremacist, Eurocentric standard—which would disrupt the whole social order of the nation-state built on anti-Blackness”
Chapter 7 on transness and consent: “Moreover, anti-trans legislation or any governmental regime’s panic around transness is more than likely a reaction to a loss of power over children’s bodies. This panic is rooted in a fear that resistance to being told who they are might lead to greater resistance to the state’s plans for both their bodies and minds. A similar manner of control is wielded over children of all genders, the thinking being that if children have any decision-making power, how will they continue to replicate our roles under capitalism: a zombielike, resigned workforce, zombielike unquestioning parenting, a comprador in their own exploitation, a willing participant in an empire who is unable to strike back. ”
Chapter 10 on what's better than orgies: “The sexual revolution was marked in the US during the 1960s when birth control became widely available. Black people had access to birth control but were often kept from accessing it due to cost inaccessibility and fears that birth control was another way for the state to further genocide in the Black community. So why is this time marked as the sexual revolution if only white people could access it? How is it that white people control the narrative around what is sexually free, when historically they have had a propensity toward sexual violence?”
May 15, 2026
This book is phenomenal.
I listened to the audiobook, but I need to go back and underline half the book because there are so many essential quotations. The threads of race, history, queerness, womanhood, colonization, romance, and so much more bring a depth of clarity not just to Ericka’s story, but to everyone who’s woven into systems of patriarchy and white supremacy.
As a queer, genderfluid white parent of a biracial child, I was cut to the core more than once by the incisive insights and searing questions Hart makes. Do I compliment Black women’s hair in public to feel better about my place in society? Do I seek to date Black partners to affirm the stamp of “anti-racism” that I want to embody? Have I ever stopped to consider the role that eugenics plays in keeping disabled Americans from accessing marriage benefits? Why didn’t I know that Thanksgiving was popularized specifically to uphold white womanhood?
I relate to much of Hart’s upbringing but they also lay out the gaps in our experiences that can be so hard for white Americans to see and understand. I will be recommending this book to everyone I know. In particular, I see it as an essential read for white queer communities to contend with our complicity in ongoing systems of harm—but truly, I can’t think of a single person alive who wouldn’t benefit from these pages if they’re able to take in Hart’s words. This is the best book I’ve read in a long time and l’ll be turning to it time and again to learn, process, and integrate.
I listened to the audiobook, but I need to go back and underline half the book because there are so many essential quotations. The threads of race, history, queerness, womanhood, colonization, romance, and so much more bring a depth of clarity not just to Ericka’s story, but to everyone who’s woven into systems of patriarchy and white supremacy.
As a queer, genderfluid white parent of a biracial child, I was cut to the core more than once by the incisive insights and searing questions Hart makes. Do I compliment Black women’s hair in public to feel better about my place in society? Do I seek to date Black partners to affirm the stamp of “anti-racism” that I want to embody? Have I ever stopped to consider the role that eugenics plays in keeping disabled Americans from accessing marriage benefits? Why didn’t I know that Thanksgiving was popularized specifically to uphold white womanhood?
I relate to much of Hart’s upbringing but they also lay out the gaps in our experiences that can be so hard for white Americans to see and understand. I will be recommending this book to everyone I know. In particular, I see it as an essential read for white queer communities to contend with our complicity in ongoing systems of harm—but truly, I can’t think of a single person alive who wouldn’t benefit from these pages if they’re able to take in Hart’s words. This is the best book I’ve read in a long time and l’ll be turning to it time and again to learn, process, and integrate.
September 3, 2026
This book revolutionized my life and literally everyone needs to read it. I'm finally dismantling my internalized colonialism and white supremacy. I grew up in these systems, so why would I not be a product of them? How would it not affect my relationships - romantic, familial, and otherwise? There is a chapter literally for everyone and how our White-Supremacist Capitalist Patriarchy affects everyone and every relationship, from fat people to disabled people, cis men to gender-nonconforming people, and especially BLACK PEOPLE! Also, the read of white women? Come get your baddie chain, Ericka. It's an academic text while simultaneously being joyful and funny to read. I love the pop-culture elements woven into it, too.
If you've ever felt undesirable to society and not "normal", baby it was never you and this book breaks down exactly why. Also, it's so freeing as a disabled daughter of African immigrants trying to figure out her way in this world. I would tattoo this book on my forehead if I could. Go read it now.
If you've ever felt undesirable to society and not "normal", baby it was never you and this book breaks down exactly why. Also, it's so freeing as a disabled daughter of African immigrants trying to figure out her way in this world. I would tattoo this book on my forehead if I could. Go read it now.
Review of advance copy received from Publisher
Nasty Work is a bold, thought-provoking exploration of sexuality, power, and liberation that challenges everything we’ve been taught about our bodies and desires. Ericka Hart blends personal narrative with cultural critique, unpacking how deeply rooted systems—colonialism, racism, ableism, and more—shape the way we experience intimacy and pleasure. The result is both eye-opening and empowering, pushing readers to question long-held beliefs and consider what freedom could really look like.
What makes this book stand out is its unapologetic honesty and sense of purpose. Hart doesn’t offer easy answers—instead, they invite readers into deeper self-reflection and a more expansive understanding of desire, consent, and connection. Nasty Work is challenging in the best way: a powerful, necessary read that feels as liberating as it is insightful.
What makes this book stand out is its unapologetic honesty and sense of purpose. Hart doesn’t offer easy answers—instead, they invite readers into deeper self-reflection and a more expansive understanding of desire, consent, and connection. Nasty Work is challenging in the best way: a powerful, necessary read that feels as liberating as it is insightful.
July 6, 2026
In Nasty Work, Ericka Hart minces no words: the predominating culture of white supremacy is harming us all, but more specifically those closest to the margins of society. Highlighting the gaps in our analyses around race, gender, sexuality, and survival, Hart invites us to see the erotic as a lens in which we can begin to interrogate that within us and around us that is faltering, namely our fear of confronting historic and contemporary oppression. Nasty Work could be stronger in its social science rigor; sometimes the analysis felt overly simplistic. But this book is a must read especially for folks interested in unlearning what we've been taught around what it means to live freely.
August 18, 2026
I made it to chapter 6 and couldn't take anymore. This book purports to be about liberated sex ed, but there is very little about sex in it (maybe it comes in the second half of the book? Still.) Really each chapter is an extremely disorganized rant about anything and everything that floats through Hart's head. Hart continuously makes blanket statements and asserts facts that she doesn't even try to back up. It's very telling that there are no footnotes, just a bibliography. She truly lost me in Chapter 4, however, when she declares that when a white woman gives her a compliment, it's obviously virtue signaling, because in her experience, white women don't compliment each other. What?
July 13, 2026
Been following the author for a while on socials for their intersectional social commentary (including but not limited to Love Island!)
Desire is not and has never been some intrinsically derived notion! And that is a hard and weird thing to learn. Going to have a hard time discussing desire without referencing the lessons I learned in this book. And the raw sharing of the author’s own experiences as a nonbinary Black femme were beautiful and heartbreaking. Thank you Ericka Hart for your work!!
Desire is not and has never been some intrinsically derived notion! And that is a hard and weird thing to learn. Going to have a hard time discussing desire without referencing the lessons I learned in this book. And the raw sharing of the author’s own experiences as a nonbinary Black femme were beautiful and heartbreaking. Thank you Ericka Hart for your work!!
August 11, 2026
⭐️5/5
This was an excellent book, it was hard to hear/read at times and called me in to do some internal work and deep diving. Hart also helped me look at the system of oppression and gives insight in what joy can look like dismantling those oppressive teaching and ways of thinking from those systems. But mostly it helped me ask questions and find the root of causes. Hart does a Greta job of asking a tough question and making you sit in uncomfortableness but you know you’ll come out the end a better person.
This was an excellent book, it was hard to hear/read at times and called me in to do some internal work and deep diving. Hart also helped me look at the system of oppression and gives insight in what joy can look like dismantling those oppressive teaching and ways of thinking from those systems. But mostly it helped me ask questions and find the root of causes. Hart does a Greta job of asking a tough question and making you sit in uncomfortableness but you know you’ll come out the end a better person.
September 19, 2026
I've followed Ericka Hart for a long time on insta, and have learned a whole hell of a lot from the free labor that both they and Ebony provide. When I heard about this book, I put a request in right away for my library to get it, and I was excited when it came in. I think it would be a lot to take in if you aren't already actively doing a lot of daily and ongoing work to understand systems of oppression and how you may be complicit in them. Just know going into it that it's not an easy read, but it's an important (if a bit crowded) one.
October 4, 2026
Everyone needs to read this book, which feels like part memoir, part history text, and part textbook - in a great way. Ericka Hart interweaves her own life story from childhood to adulthood with a takedown of U.S. society’s views of race, sex, and gender, using their life experiences to demonstrate how racism, sexism, and homophobia/biphobia/transphobia show up on every level. I also really appreciated the questions at the end of each chapter - they really made me stop and reflect and ask myself a lot. I wish I’d had this book to read 15 years ago.
May 9, 2026
4.5*
”White supremacy is threatened by imagination; staying connected to imagination is always troubling to a system, whose modus operandi is control.”
To me, this work is liberation. It frees its reader from the machine working overtime to commoditize normalcy. Where anti-Blackness has been a suggestion for most, a thought to be grappled with—if there’s time—Hart drives the connectedness of pleasure, ability, gender, sexuality, weight and race home until there is no polluting the systemic othering of Black humanity and its impact on the world at large. Unlearning selective white history starts here.
”White supremacy is threatened by imagination; staying connected to imagination is always troubling to a system, whose modus operandi is control.”
To me, this work is liberation. It frees its reader from the machine working overtime to commoditize normalcy. Where anti-Blackness has been a suggestion for most, a thought to be grappled with—if there’s time—Hart drives the connectedness of pleasure, ability, gender, sexuality, weight and race home until there is no polluting the systemic othering of Black humanity and its impact on the world at large. Unlearning selective white history starts here.
June 1, 2026
This was great. This book does not hold your hand through some of the foundational ideas/principles, which I appreciated. It jumps right in and really gets into some interesting spaces that I've never considered before, or simply don't hear enough conversation around. I really appreciated the chapter on friends in particular, and the space created to talk about the toxicity around marriages as well. Highly recommend!
August 9, 2026
Read for a book club on reproductive health. The author covers all the bases and I definitely found myself taking audio notes basically on entire paragraphs because so much is very truthful and revelatory. I fully endorse this book as it's calls out the problematic systems under which we are held. There's a lot of reckoning that people need to do to dismantle the oppressive systems we live under and it starts with people's individual mind shifts and fostering the communities that correspond.
September 17, 2026
4.5. i began following ericka a few years ago… I was so excited to get my hands on this book when I found out about it! ericka did an impeccable job integrating personal narrative, anthropology, social work, history, critical race theory, feminism, abolition, & afrofuturism/imagination. it was such a well conceptualized work; ericka’s experiences are so well synthesized with the concepts presented. I see the content in this book as unique from other books in this genre!
July 13, 2026
While I had already run across almost all of the historical examples that are referenced this book still provided me food for thought especially why my experience of many of these things is different from what is presented as the norm for my race and gender. It also maid me go I am glad I am aroace because romance and sex seems way overcomplicated LOL
Displaying 1 - 30 of 51 reviews