Keep The New Mum's Manual, with an introduction by Jools Oliver, is the perfect antidote to inflexible, guilt-inducing parenting guides. Turning the tables on encyclopaedic tomes on parenthood and their often conflicting advice, GP and mum-of-two Dr Ellie will empower you to relax, trust your instincts and enjoy your new baby. Early days – looking after baby and listening to your instincts* Sleeping – establishing a flexible routine that works * Feeding – making the right, guilt-free choices * Soothing – understanding crying and settling your baby * Weaning – starting with a simple action plan for success* Development – identifying key milestones and not worrying* Health – recognising baby illnesses and when to call the doctor* Vaccinations – understanding the facts and getting them without tears This isn't a one-size-fits-all routine but a lighthearted, sensible guide that is full of essential advice to build your confidence and bring back mummy power.
Very comforting as a new mum! This book is not a from-scratch guide to parenting, it's a book for parents who have read too much already, been told 5 contradictory things about breastfeeding, and have sat up in the middle of the night googling how many layers of clothing to dress a baby in. It's the equivalent of someone sitting you down and firmly telling you that you're doing fine, actually.
Pares down everything "vital" you need to know (and leave's out the messy stuff you don't) in an short entertaining read filled with humour and only useful stuff. Highly recommend for expectant mothers and fathers, even if you feel you have it under control!
First, I have to say that I only got about half way through this book before returning it to the library. The approach is based on one tenet: you are the only baby expert you need and you will instinctively know everything you need to about your own baby. How this has been pulled out into a whole (not tiny) book is beyond me.
Each chapter looks at a different aspect of baby care, but the message is the same as above in each one. I found it quite patronising, which is ironic as the blurb claims that is it just the opposite (as you already are your baby's expert so you don't need anyone telling you what to do, etc, etc.).
I've just had my second baby and, having read loads of books the first time around, I said I wouldn't bother this time. But I can't help it! Perhaps there are reassuring words here, but there are plenty of other reads I would recommend before this one.
I wish I had read this book sooner! Fantastic resource. for those that are begging for schedules or rules, this isn't for you. for those who need to figure out what is right in a situation with a trickload of information, this is for you. A Dr who is a mother first and foremost. trust your instinct! and read this book!
Great book worth reading. Funny and yet full of things to think about. It's hard to find the healthy balance in today's world to make the right decisions either for us or for our children. It's written in a very enjoyable way of "live and let live".
I'm not keen on her tone... I get its important to instil confidence in a new mum but the language is very annoying. Def picked up some useful information though and yes I guess it does bolster my confidence despite the annoying language!