The Adult ADHD Blueprint for Decluttering, Cleaning, and Organizing offers a complete guide on dealing with everyday chores for adults with ADHD, written not from a clinical perspective but from lived experience. The author has ADHD herself and shares the sustainable systems she's developed.
The book starts off with the author's narration of how she had dealt with ADHD over the years, feeling less as an adult, feeling severe guilt about the present status of her life, and came to a conclusion that she needs to make specific steps to deal with her present predicament and guilt. The book moves through several visually interacting chapters which move systematically from the author's personal experience to practical, step-by-step solutions. The Adult ADHD Blueprint for Decluttering, Cleaning, and Organizing consists of 12 interactive chapters that take the reader through a journey of the author's reality of living with ADHD. The book is written with practical guides which the author gives the reader the freedom to customize according to them.
Amy Harper states that no two ADHDers are the same, so you customize based on your present experience. Part one, which includes Chapter One, introduces the reader to how ADHD and clutter are a natural pair. It takes the reader through the natural predicament of executive dysfunction paired with decision fatigue and time blindness, which are close pals that send the neurodivergent ADHD individual into a mental shutdown. These recurrent processes eventually lead to shame and guilt, and according to the author, this should not be the case since there can be systematic solutions to these.
Chapter two talks about the emotional toll of letting go, how ADHDers are emotionally attuned to items, which eventually leads to clutter, i.e., feelings are associated with objects. Amy Harper highlights several forms of emotionally charged clutter/items and a definitive 30-day box challenge, and other tools to create a space for a period of reflection for these items.
In part two, Amy Harper highlights how perfection is an unwelcomed guest that needs to be shut down, how ADHDers should adopt a process that works for the ADHD mind, not the neurotypical mind, and should keep in mind that the home is not a place to impress an outsider, but should be a space to breathe and to feel good in your space.
Amy Harper highlights a three-phase system that takes into cognizance the several energy phases of an ADHDer and being productive even during those phases. Part three talks about being systematic with the decluttering system of an ADHDer and taking things room by room and space by space, taking in cognizance high-use zones. Amy Harper also discusses the clothing dilemma of the neurodivergent ADHDer, and processes like keeping clothing in sight through some specific means can improve this, making use of systems like the three-pile system to identify items that work and let go of clothing which will lead to clutter. Amy Harper also highlighted drop zones, friendly spaces for daily essentials that reduce daily decision fatigue incidences. Amy Harper also talks about a very important aspect of ADHDers' lives when spaces are shared either with partners, children, spouses, or even roommates.
She takes the reader through a friendly route to navigate this in a manner that will not induce resentment but instead foster a sense of "we're in this together." After the interactive parts of identifying the reason for clutter and highlighting systematic interactive solutions to it, Amy Harper takes the reader to a very, or one of the most important aspects in part four: sticking to it. Highlighting the issue of forming permanent habits by ADHDers but not leaving the reader stranded, Amy Harper introduces the process of attaching new habits to old ones and other systematic processes to help in forming lasting habits to deal with decluttering, and a very important part: allocating a fun reward system for completing each task.
Amy Harper also highlights the importance of taking into account the energy levels of ADHDers, mapping out the energy level, also using systems like the 3D method, but also keeping in mind to let go of what doesn't feel essential and make do of what you can during each energy level, make sure to keep kindness in check to oneself even on days of extreme low energy levels to reset and then reset. Part five introduces the reader to a distinct seven-day challenge to see your space differently. Part five is a complete interactive 7-day guide to cleaning and decluttering during periods of low energy, a dopamine boost, and a final exhortation to reflect and acknowledge what worked so as to stick to it.
An important part: what if I start this routine and then can't continue, and I then relapse? This takes the reader to an important stage, Part Six: Relapse-Proof Your Progress. Amy Harper encourages the reader to understand that relapse is a part of being human, and moreover, a human with a specially attuned brain. The author highlights a weekly checklist as an accountability buddy and not a nag to beat oneself up to, highlighting that small rituals stick together to make a rhythm.
Amy Harper takes into account the short attention span of an ADHDer and congratulates the reader on the successful completion of the book in the conclusion part, also highlighting a summary of each chapter with a beautiful success story of a single mom who made use of the three-phase system and 7-day challenge, and after several months, starts to find peace in her space.
Amy Harper's extensive knowledge in psychology and over 15 years of experience as a behavioral health licensed counselor synergize to produce an interactive book about the challenges of ADHD neurodivergent with clutter and distinctive and visually interactive solutions to deal with these challenges.
I recommend The Adult ADHD Blueprint for Decluttering, Cleaning, and Organizing to readers who seek a lasting solution to the challenge of executive dysfunction with Decluttering, Cleaning, and Organizing in a compassionate, non-judgmental way that honors the ADHD experience. I received an ARC from the author, and I'm leaving this review voluntarily.