Feeling safer in connection!
I’ve come to realize that I carry both avoidant and anxious attachment patterns, but for most of my life, I’ve lived on the avoidant side, keeping people at a safe distance and quietly longing to be understood. Reading this book felt like someone finally saw me. The author put words to experiences I could never quite explain, and for the first time, I feel hopeful that I can change my patterns without losing who I am. I loved how gently the author guides you through the process of staying connected even when every part of you wants to run. It’s such a compassionate and deeply validating read. I felt comforted, seen, and inspired to keep showing up differently.