Open and Relational Parenting: Loving Parents Reflecting a Loving God

by Chris Hanson

In Open and Relational Parenting, Dr. Chris Hanson, a pediatrician and theologian, bridges child development research with open and relational theology to present a transformative model for modern parenting. Rejecting authoritarian styles often rooted in classical theism, Hanson offers a vision of parenting that mirrors a loving, responsive, co-creative God. This book helps parents align their approach with evidence-based, nurturant parenting—characterized by high responsiveness and guidance, not rigid control. Hanson examines how beliefs about God can shape parenting style and child outcomes. With clarity, compassion, and practical examples, he equips caregivers to foster resilience, empathy, and autonomy in their children. Whether you’re a parent, pastor, or therapist, this book offers a hopeful, theologically grounded path to raising thriving children in today’s complex world.

196 pages, Kindle Edition

Published August 19, 2025

Reviews

[Steve Watson · Rating 5 out of 5]

For parents raised in command and control or overly permissive styles of parenting - from their religious or cultural upbringing - Dr. Hanson offers a thoughtful, well-informed, gentle redirection.

Integrating child development and theological research, Hanson advocates with modes of parenting and for modes of theology that align - views of God and models of parenting that exercise wide ranges of age-appropriate responsive love and persuasive power.

I appreciate the well-informed perspective on parenting and theology that is also non-dogmatic, acknowledging a range of possibilities that one's faith, cultural heritage, and personal sensibilities may prefer, while encouraging us away from parenting (and faith) that is likely to do. most harm.

[Michael Brennan · Rating 5 out of 5]

Strongly recommend this book for parents, but also for anyone. We’re all children and we work with others. A nurturing theology isn’t just for parents. On the heels of Dobson’s death, we found a healthier way of parenting and existing that rejects the old aggressive parenting styles.

Love aspires for overall well-being!