Comedian and author of Birdie & Harlow @thedailytay shares an honest and hilarious essay collection on parenting young children, navigating social anxiety, and being a millennial woman.
"It's just a busy season," we say to ourselves after a chaotic morning (that we've had every day for the past three years). It turns out that season is actually just life, and here Taylor Wolfe explores the funny and dark side of all a busy life can entail. We've all found ourselves at a highway rest stop allowing our child to pee directly into our hands because she's scared of the toilet, right? Right? In her trademark voice—hilarious, poignant, and real—she dishesabout everything from motherhood to the roots of anxiety (childhood and tornados, obviously), to the highs and lows of getting through whatever season we find ourselves in.
Just a Busy Season dispenses a necessary dose of hope and relatability as Taylor candidly reflects on how we cope, or don’t, with the stress and unrealistic expectations of being a mom, daughter, woman, and person in the world without losing ourselves—or our sense of humor.
This book mirrored my own postpartum brain in an almost creepy way. I love Taylor’s honesty and humor and relatability. This book felt like a warm hug from your best friend.
I love Taylor Wolfe, and this novel lived up to my expectations. I laughed out loud and her ramblings about motherhood really resonated with me. She is a beautiful and clever writer and I can't wait to see what she does next!
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Synopsis: Comedian and author @thedailytay shares a collection of essays that humorously explores the challenges of motherhood, social anxiety, and the experiences of being a millennial woman.
Book Review: There is only one person that I will ever not be secretly annoyed and covertly roll my eyes at when they tell me “enjoy it while you can”, “just you wait”, or “time slow down” when talking about having kids. And that person it turns out is Taylor Wolfe.
Taylor has this unique ability to take every day parenting experiences and make them relatable, hilarious, and introspective all at the same time. It perfectly captures the vulnerability of motherhood, the guilt of not feeling like you’re doing enough, and also the unexpected ways that’s joy creeps in when you least expect it.
Sometimes you just need to hear someone else’s experiences to help you put your own into perspective. And what better way that to read a book that will have you laughing out loud and crying all in the same paragraph. If that doesn’t describe motherhood, I don’t know what will. I’ve also never quite felt so seen as to when she describes her social anxiety. You mean to tell me I’m not the only one that when they spots someone they know in the grocery store, they turn and hide before the other person to see them?!
I absolutely loved her first book, Birdie and Harlow. I think that one is my most gifted book. This one I have a feeling will be giving it a run for its money.
A relatable memoir about the exhaustion of motherhood told in a humorous way that is sure to hit for fans of books like Fair Play, Honest Motherhood or When good moms feel bad. Many thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for an early audio copy in exchange for my honest review!
Taylor’s essays on motherhood had me laughing out loud. While I am quite new to the role of mom, I found myself relating to many of the stories Taylor shared of her pregnancy and postpartum experience. Also, does everyone’s husbands leave dried up little contacts all around the house??
BOOK: 𝙹𝚞𝚜𝚝 𝚊 𝙱𝚞𝚜𝚢 𝚂𝚎𝚊𝚜𝚘𝚗: Essays on Motherhood, an Unexpected Comedy AUTHOR: @thedailytay PUB DATE: April 14, 2026 by @harperonebooks PAGES: 240 pages RATING: ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ GENRE: Autobiographical Essay Collection/Memoir
🙏🏼THANK YOU to @harperone for gifting me a hard copy and digital copy of this book! Taylor is a favorite of mine, and after reading her book from 2 years ago, I jumped at the chance to read this new one! Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own.
📖 QUICK SYNOPSIS: 𝙹𝚞𝚜𝚝 𝚊 𝙱𝚞𝚜𝚢 𝚂𝚎𝚊𝚜𝚘𝚗 follows a Taylor Wolfe trying to keep her life from unraveling during what’s supposed to be just a hectic stretch of time. Between complicated relationships & old baggage creeping in, “busy” starts to feel like an understatement. As the chaos builds, she’s forced to confront what she’s been avoiding & what actually matters. It’s a relatable, slightly messy look at how life rarely slows down when you need it to.
✍️QUICK & SPOILER-FREE REVIEW: If you read Taylor Wolfe’s last book or follow her on social media, you already know how funny & entertaining she is. I loved her last book, 𝙱𝚒𝚛𝚍𝚒𝚎 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝙷𝚊𝚛𝚕𝚘𝚎, and this one just reinforces why I wanted to get my hands on this new one. Her mix of humor & those slightly awkward, very human moments make everything feel so relatable & honest. It’s the kind of writing that feels effortless but hits in all the right ways. Honestly, I’m fully on board. I’ll read anything she puts out!
Loved every page of this book so much. Taylor is my age, her kids are the same ages as my kids, she was a fur mama first who lost her fur baby around the same time that I lost my fur baby - I just resonate with her books so much and was even sending excerpts to my husband. (We have 8 thermometers that we think don’t work, too - give me a good old fashioned mercury thermometer, haha!) Every doubt, fear, criticism, and anxiety that I have felt in motherhood is expressed here with a comedic twist. This book is like a wink and a hug from one millennial fur-mama-turned-human-mama to another. I am still talking about my beloved dead dog too, Taylor.
This book does such a great job of capturing the dichotomies of motherhood in a hilarious and relatable way. I was laughing out loud through so much of this, because someone else talking about the ridiculous things their toddler does is both healing and hysterical. It felt like Taylor was in my head throughout most of the book (for good and for bad, ha). If you’re a mom, you’ll appreciate this one.
Loved this book almost as much as her first. Had to stifle many belly laughs while up in the middle of night feeding my newborn. The whole book makes you feel a connection and validation of the challenging experience of anxiety during pregnancy, postpartum, and motherhood while mixing her humor in
I have been following Taylor since the blogging days and her writing is hilarious! This book is so authentic about motherhood and just being an adult. It's so relatable. Anything Taylor writes, is an automatic read for me.
Another funny, relatable, down to earth book about parenting, motherhood, and pet mamas. If you fall under the category of any of those I’d pick this book up because she is hilarious! I liked Birdie & Harlow better, but this one was still great! Taylor is a very relatable woman who says what so many of us are probably thinking and feeling.
An honest and hilarious book about the amazing and chaotic journey of motherhood and all the complicated feelings that come with it. I love the author’s writing style and it’s rare a book is “laugh out loud” funny for me. Recommending for all my mom friends!
@thedailytay is one of my all time favorite follows on Instagram - she is so genuinely herself and talks through her thoughts in a way that is so similar to the way I think, and worry, and even speak. I love the way she shows up (especially in her stories) with self awareness, empathy, and so so so much humor. She is so funny!
And now onto her book - this is her second book (Birdie and Harlow is her first and also 5 stars!) and it is so well written. (Quick aside --- if you're an audiobook girlie, you absolutely need to listen to her narration. She is so so so good!!! Honestly - she should look into doing this for more than just her own books. She is an excellent narrator!) The essays interspersed with poems in somewhat of an arbitrary order - truly just works!
While this is not necessarily the book format I'm drawn to or typically read, it really does work well for this book. It took me a minute to get my bearings, but once I did, I actually appreciated it. It kind of felt like truly being in her brain with her. A bit of stream of consciousness with so much heartfelt raw truth just flying off the pages.
She had one poem in there - I think it would have been called Just You Wait and it made me so emotional. It was just beautiful and a total reminder that we all need to quit it with the shitty "oh you think two is hard? Just you wait -- three is even more fucked!" Like how is that helpful and WHY shit on someone's hard moment or "busy season" just because you "know" what's ahead because you are further down the path? And how is this the actual norm? I suppose it has to be human nature - but ew. Can we all be more mindful and quit it?! The poem Taylor writes as it relates to this is so tender and just beautiful. It is so powerful to have someone point out that there are some really really good things ahead!
As a mom (who is writing this review on Mother's Day!) of kids older than Taylor's girls - I want to tell her - if she so happened to read this review, that there is even more fun and amazement in store for you as your sweet girls get older. Just you wait - you will continue to watch in awe as you see them become real life humans that don't need you to wipe their asses (maybe you'll still need to get skid mark stains out of their undies - but hey, no ass wiping for the win, eh???!!) You will see them struggle and find their way - and make it to the other side of the struggle better for it - you will all of the sudden have kids that are somehow taller than you and that you will look up to both literally and figuratively. Just you wait - your girls are going to somehow become funnier than you and you will be passing on your wigs and fake cigs for them to make up their own characters. Just you wait - there is so much God damn goodness headed your way.
If you are reading this review as a reader, trying to decide if this is a book you should read - here are my thoughts: If you are a mom, read it. Right now actually. Go buy the audio and read it. If you're not a mom and you like dogs - read this book. Right now. Go get the audio. If you're not into dogs and don't want to read about Mom stuff - you should buy the book to support this lovely author and maybe just skip reading it? 🤷♀️
And if you are Taylor reading this review -- Thank you for writing this book while in a wildly busy season and adding so much thoughtful discussion to the experience of Motherhood. I am such a fan - but definitely not in a creepy way. Like in a one-sided running Instagram DM chain cheering you on hoping one day you will see one of my DMs but not think oh shit, this chick is nuts that for five years she's been DMing into this void that I have either never seen or have seen everytime and ignored bc she seems like a weirdo. I really hope that's not the case. Haha! I am like so normal. And chill. And funny. And clearly a weirdo.
Lastly - if you are reading this review and you are Taylor's mom, Sandy - Hi!! You raised such an amazing human. Will you tell Tay to check her DMs from @Whitneystreamlined or @urbradymama (both me!) and tell her how sweet and normal I am? Def not a creep and truly just cheering her on. Every "woke liberal" story, every real mom moment, every almond stick wood scratch step of the way. Lol!!! Thanks!
I lied - that last paragraph was not lastly. But this is.... If you are reading this review and you know me in real life - can you believe what a weirdo CREEP I'm being in this review? What is happening? I am apparently a fan girl who fan girls too close to the sun.
A big thank you to the author and HarperOne for a gifted finished copy of this book!
I have followed Taylor Wolfe on Instagram (@thedailytay) for years and find her to be relatable and funny and was so excited for a chance to read her sophomore book. I have to tell you, as a fellow anxious mom, so much of this resonated with me.
I especially loved the chapter on breastfeeding that honestly had me crying so hard I was tearing up: "I switched her to my other boob, then tried the football method, the dangle, the bangle, side step, hopscotch, kick the can, ghost in the graveyard. Nothing was working! My boobs grew more furious and fierier as I kept them waiting, my power boob (the left one) began foaming at the mouth in anticipation" (36). The whiplash of new motherhood is so keenly felt in her vivid and entertaining descriptions. The author has a knack of making experiences that make her very uncomfortable or stressed and turning them into very humorous anecdotes that we can all relate to. And later on, the chapters about her late dog Vinny made me cry!
I do think if you suffer from anxiety or you're a mom, this book would be particularly appealing. But I also think it would be ideal for a reader who isn't a mother or who isn't anxious, because the author does such a great job of putting us in that headspace and allowing us to see what it feels like to walk in her shoes.
This is a funny, fast read. It is technically non-fiction, but it reads like a comedy show transcript with nuggets of real wisdom threaded throughout. I liked getting to know the author a bit more through this book, especially seeing how fiercely she loves her children.
Highly recommend to anyone struggling in the postpartum period...I would have felt so much less alone if I'd listened to this in the midst of some heavy PPA after my first birth. I always love Taylor's honesty and relatability (we're somehow always on the same page, from the little things like our kids referring to their fave restaurant as Old McDonald's to the big things like moving across the country shortly before having scheduled c section with our last babies). This book did not make me sob a la birdie and harlow, but I did tear up a tiny bit in that last heartfelt section as I try desperately to grip onto my kids childhoods that feel like they're absolutely flying by.
My favorite chapters were on mother's milk (as I'm currently in the throes of pumping for my sleepy newborn) and hearing about her C-section experience, as I am fresh out of the OR from aforementioned newborn.
I think I'd need to read this again in print to disentangle my very slight critical thought, but it's something like the thesis felt like an afterthought thrown together to try to wrap this up with a bow, rather than something that was present from the get go stringing the essays together neatly. I doubt this book is for everyone, but it's definitely for every anxious mom of babies.
Taylor also gets bonus points for recording this in her own voice!! So maybe 4.5 stars overall.
I craved books like this when I was in the thick of mothering small children, and even though I’m now in a different season—although certainly still a busy one—I found Wolfe’s words about the dizzying feelings of overwhelm and adoration competing in an often hormone-addled state to be totally relatable.
Taylor Wolfe has an online presence—I picked up this book because I think her humor skits are funny—and it’s always interesting to learn more about the person behind the online persona. Online, she’s funny and sharp and gives every indication of confidence; in these pages, she writes of at times debilitating anxiety and introversion, though keeping the same humorous, self-deprecating tone I’m used to in her online content. I missed her first book, but I think I’ll give it a listen after this one—I enjoy her perspectives and certainly feel less alone in some of my own experiences, especially early postpartum days wrestling with mental health. This is a book that will make readers laugh, but it’s also real and vulnerable—exactly what new mothers need.
I received a copy of JUST A BUSY SEASON from the publisher in exchange for an honest review.
Just a Busy Season is full of SO MUCH emotion it's hard to find the right words to describe just how much I loved and understood it. It felt like she put all the words inside my head on paper and into a book...but she's obviously way funnier and wittier than I am. As a mom of two toddlers (also a 1 and 3 year old like the girls were when she was writing this), every story, every anxiety, and every other feeling was just so incredibly relatable. I laughed, I went "awwww", I though "heck yeah mama", and during the Arby's story I openly sobbed like a baby.
Thank you so much for sharing your experiences with us all Taylor. Your words matter to all of us out here fighting the toddler motherhood fight daily. We all know it is going to go fast, we just can't fathom how fast until it's gone. Now I'm off to hold my babies hands until they no longer want to hold mine.
Huge thank you to Taylor herself for answering my DM, the Netgalley team and HarperAudio/HarperOne for the chance to listen to the audiobook prior to publication.
I’ve been following Taylor on her old blog and now social media for probably 15ish years. I absolutely loved her first book. I could relate so much to her relationship with Harlow. While I knew I wanted to read this new one, I was more apprehensive going into it. I’m not a mother and while I fully believe essays about motherhood and differing perspectives are important, I don’t personally need to engage too much. One because I can’t relate and two because it frankly can make me really sad. But I love Taylor’s voice and humor. The first part of the book was hard for me. I thought that maybe it just really wasn’t for me this time. But something clicked maybe about half way through. Her original voice and humor came through regardless of subject matter. So many beautiful thoughts and truths on a variety of topics including anxiety and mental health. I especially loved the essays with her mom and reflecting back on her own childhood. I also liked listening to the audiobook in her own voice. So regardless of life situation, I highly recommend this one.
This is a funny, insightful book that captures the absurdity, humor, and tenderness of girlhood, womanhood, and motherhood. This should probably be mandatory reading for anyone who knows anyone who is or may someday become a mother. ESPECIALLY people who love to give out unsolicitied and judgmental and fundamentally unhelpful advice. This book is for you to read with an open mind and to think about your life choices. And also for anyone who is or may someday be a mother. I’m a pretty self aware person, but I felt quite seen in this book, especially in the extensive, neurotic inner monologue wracked with mom guilt and all of the things. I also am quite certain that I will inadvertently do something at some point to at least one of my children that will also get me uninvited from one of their birthdays.
I picked this book up to start reading after having to have my eye taped shut (because, life) thinking I would just rest and read. Turns out reading with one eye is harder than you think. A few days later I picked up a cup again with both eyes wide open both figuratively and literally.
This book is a relatable and delightful memoir from a mom going through the busy season of life, balancing anxiety, kids and the day to day but with a comedic twist.
Could I see this as a delightful coming of age (the age being motherhood) movie in the vein of Bridget Jones? Yes! Yes, I could.
I physically read this book. I will probably reread it by listening to the audiobook as it is read by the author and I want to hear her inflection (yey!) Sometimes listening is easier than finding the time to sit and focus on physically reading.
I didn't follow Taylor Wolfe on social media before I read her first book, Birdie & Harlow, but I have loved her ever since. She has a refreshing and unique way of capturing the paradoxes of motherhood. She weaves hilarious anecdotes into heart felt stories about loving your children so much. So many times I said out loud "YEP!!!! UH HUH!!! YES." or texted my friends about a chapter.
I have a hard time fully expressing what it feels like to be a mother and a wife and a daughter and an adult healing her inner child, but this book came pretty damn close. Listening/reading about the insane things toddlers (and postpartum parents) do was healing in a way I didn't know I needed. I felt like I was chatting with a good friend laughing about silly stories, and crying about how much we love our kids/lives.
I followed Taylor's blog in it's early days and always enjoyed her humor. Her writing voice is honest and witty. She has a way of making you feel like you've been longtime friends. I have to be honest- I liked this book, but I didn't love it. As an anxious person, I read to escape the racing thoughts and I struggled to voluntarily step into another person's anxious mind- it felt like it should come with a trigger warning. In her online presence, I feel like she does a good job of balancing the harder things with infusions of her trademark goofiness and snark. But this book felt heavy on the postpartum anxiety and light on the comedy.
I voluntarily read and reviewed an advanced copy of this book. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
“Just A Busy Season” was chicken soup for this recently-postpartum mom’s soul! Through a collection of essays on all things motherhood (and life generally), Taylor Wolfe hilariously and authentically immerses the reader into her chaotically beautiful journey into and during motherhood. Discussing everything from pregnancy to dogs to marriage, by the end of the book, the reader will feel as if they’re friends with Wolfe due to her vulnerability and relatability. She’ll have you laughing out loud, vigorously nodding your head in agreement, and feeling all the feels right along with her. This is a must read for all the moms out there!
Thank you to Taylor Wolfe, HarperOne, & NetGalley for the ARC! All opinions are my own.