How to Raise Confident and Autonomous Children: Fostering Values Through Short, Simple, Actionable Moments to Build Positive and Resilient Kids

by Sergio Funes

Are you concerned that your children may not be developing the confidence and resilience they need to reach their potential and thrive? Do you want to help them become more self-reliant and responsible but are unsure of where to start? Do you want to be the one instilling their values rather than leaving it up to pop culture and social media influencers?

If you answered “Yes” and “I do,” then HOW TO RAISE CONFIDENT AND AUTONOMOUS CHILDREN will be of enormous help.

Imagine teaching your children lasting values that will stay with them throughout life. Picture doing it easily in everyday situations in a more straightforward and effective way than you might think.

Get your copy of How to Raise Confident and Autonomous Fostering Values Through Short Simple Actionable Moments to Build Positive Resilient Kids .

After conducting many interviews with parents and educators, I have compiled 137 common situations that can be used for instilling essential values in children. With straightforward examples, this guide shows how each interaction you have with your children can serve as an opportunity to build character.

In HOW TO RAISE CONFIDENT AND AUTONOMOUS CHILDREN , you’ll practical, one-page scenarios explaining how you can teach up to 47 different values to your children—even if, like most parents, your schedule is packed.Guidance on becoming a role model while taking advantage of everyday moments to teach values by making the most of every opportunity.Ready-to-use phrases that reinforce good behavior or gently correct inappropriate actions.Tips for strengthening your bond while helping your children develop a solid moral compass.Practical approaches for teaching decision-making and conflict resolution help them gain self-confidence.Simple methods for instilling lasting values without overcomplicating the process.
PLUS, BONUS With your purchase, you’ll receive 18 additional resources—so simple that even a six-year-old can put them into practice. These bonuses are designed to help you apply everything you’ve learned easily and effectively.

👉 “Keep in mind that the phrases and scenarios in this book are designed for children ages 7 and up, including teenagers. Younger kids may not fully understand them yet. Still, you can start introducing the ideas little by little so they gradually internalize them.”

If you’re tired of books that are heavy on theory but light on practical steps, get your copy of HOW TO RAISE CONFIDENT AND AUTONOMOUS CHILDREN today!

The best time to start instilling values in your children is now, and the second-best time is tomorrow. Whether your child is a toddler or teenager, it’s never too early or too late to transform their lives by equipping them with the tools to become their best selves.

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209 pages, Paperback

Published July 31, 2025

Reviews

[Fay]

Raising Confidence in Everyday Moments

This book is a breath of fresh air for modern parents. Instead of long lectures or dense theories, it offers short, relatable examples and simple phrases that can be put into practice right away. It reminds you that confidence and core values can be nurtured in the smallest, most ordinary moments with your child.

I especially appreciated the variety of topics covered—it doesn’t just focus on discipline or motivation but expands to include areas like teamwork and family relationships. The section on “Family Connections,” for example, explores the idea of group parenting in a thoughtful and encouraging way. A warm, practical guide that empowers parents to teach with heart and intention every day.

[J. Jose · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book feels like a breath of fresh air for parents who want to raise confident, capable kids without feeling overwhelmed. Every example feels real, like it was written by someone who’s actually been in the trenches of parenting. The short, actionable scenarios make it easy to teach values through small, everyday moments. What stood out most is how it helps parents reconnect with their kids through empathy and structure, not pressure. It’s inspiring, practical, and full of heart, an empowering guide for anyone who wants to nurture independence, kindness, and resilience in their children one day at a time.

[Mary C. N. · Rating 4 out of 5]

I am a mother of two little ones and I am also a psychologist, and reading this book has satisfied both my human side as a mother and my professional side. It provides everything.

Everything you need as a mother to raise your children with confidence so they have it. And it gives you the confidence of knowing that it is provided by someone who has truly worked on this to have solid knowledge to recommend it.

The work, the research method used, and the evidence-based recommendations are noticeable. No one would love this book more than me. The downside? It is somewhat lacking in references.

[Juan Cortez · Rating 5 out of 5]

I chose this book because I wanted something simple but meaningful to help me raise my children, and it really lived up to my expectations. The tips are not overwhelming, but are broken down into brief, doable moments that make sense in everyday life. I tried a couple of suggestions with my nephew, like letting him make small decisions on his own, and I could already see him gaining confidence. I liked that he didn't focus on perfection, but on building values little by little. I found it realistic and encouraging, just what I needed.

[Julian Hartfield · Rating 5 out of 5]

Raising confident kids made simple

How to Raise Confident and Autonomous Children is a refreshingly practical parenting guide that turns everyday moments into powerful lessons. With short, actionable scenarios and clear examples, it shows how to model values, build resilience, and foster independence without overwhelm. Insightful, inspiring, and easy to apply, it’s a must-read for parents raising confident, self-reliant kids.

[Don · Rating 5 out of 5]

How to Raise Confident and Autonomous Children is a highly recommended read for parents of toddlers through middle schoolers. It’s an antidote to the anxiety often accompanying modern parenting, offering clear, compassionate, and ready-to-implement strategies. Sergio Funes proves that building confident and resilient children is not a monumental task, but a series of meaningful, intentional moments.

[Hilario · Rating 5 out of 5]

A thoughtful, down-to-earth parenting guide that turns everyday moments into lessons in confidence and connection. The examples feel real and the advice is easy to apply, gentle, encouraging, and full of heart. Perfect for parents who want to raise capable, confident kids without the pressure