Amy Chan is a leading expert in social and relational skills and the author of the bestselling Breakup Bootcamp: The Science of Rewiring Your Heart.
She founded Renew Breakup Bootcamp, the world’s first science-based heartbreak retreat, and has been dubbed “a scientific Carrie Bradshaw” by The Observer.
Amy has taught at Google, YouTube, has guest lectured at Columbia University, and is faculty at Esalen and The Omega Institute. Her work has been featured in The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, The New Yorker, The Guardian, USA Today, on Good Morning America, The Today Show and more.
USINGLE: How to Date Smarter and Create Love That Lasts is Amy’s latest book, publishing in April 2026.
A refreshing, systematic way to approach dating without the overwhelm
Dating can feel overwhelming, especially when it’s treated as something that should “just happen.” What I appreciated most about Unsingle is how Amy Chan breaks dating down into five clear phases, giving structure to a process that often feels confusing and emotionally draining.
By walking readers through discovery, evaluation, commitment, and retention, the book helps you see exactly where you might be getting stuck—and what to do differently. The Dating Funnel framework is practical, easy to understand, and empowering. It shifts you from reacting to dating to making intentional choices with your time and energy.
This book is refreshing, actionable, and grounded. If you want a smarter, more thoughtful approach to dating, Unsingle delivers!