This is not the kind of book you race through in one sitting. Instead, you sit with it, revisit certain passages, and let the words wash over you like waves themselves. Bates doesn’t sugarcoat his struggles, nor does he pretend to have all the answers. Instead, he shares his journey with humility, vulnerability, and thoughtfulness. Some sections hit like poetry, others like philosophy, and together they create a mosaic of the human mind. At times it can feel heavy, but it’s worth the emotional investment.