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Surviving Life: The Art of Resilience
This book will restore your faith in life. It might even save it.
Surviving Life: The Art of Resilience is not "based on a true story." It is a true story. More precisely, it is a memoir of dozens of Dr. Tom Schneider's true stories: from devilish schoolboy hijinks and death-defying heroics during his time in the military to medical miracles and a heated disagreement with his boss, the US surgeon general.
In this updated version of Dr. Schneider's second book, including a bonus epilogue, discover the authenticity of Dr. Schneider's storytelling voice-the way he writes to you and only you—and the humorous wisdom only someone who has truly survived life can give you.
In the final few chapters, after reading Dr. Schneider's astounding stories, when you think you there's no way he can provide you with more value, you'll learn the basics of human health and wellnessfrom someone who learned them the hard way.
It's a wonder that Dr. Schneider lived to write this book. That he did is a testament to his fighting but humble spirit, as well as his desire to live up to the true meaning of his profession. The word "doctor" originally comes from the Latin docere. It does not mean "to heal" or "to cure." It means, instead, "to teach."
Surviving Life willteach you something about life, death, and the human spirit on every single page.
Surviving Life: The Art of Resilience is not "based on a true story." It is a true story. More precisely, it is a memoir of dozens of Dr. Tom Schneider's true stories: from devilish schoolboy hijinks and death-defying heroics during his time in the military to medical miracles and a heated disagreement with his boss, the US surgeon general.
In this updated version of Dr. Schneider's second book, including a bonus epilogue, discover the authenticity of Dr. Schneider's storytelling voice-the way he writes to you and only you—and the humorous wisdom only someone who has truly survived life can give you.
In the final few chapters, after reading Dr. Schneider's astounding stories, when you think you there's no way he can provide you with more value, you'll learn the basics of human health and wellnessfrom someone who learned them the hard way.
It's a wonder that Dr. Schneider lived to write this book. That he did is a testament to his fighting but humble spirit, as well as his desire to live up to the true meaning of his profession. The word "doctor" originally comes from the Latin docere. It does not mean "to heal" or "to cure." It means, instead, "to teach."
Surviving Life willteach you something about life, death, and the human spirit on every single page.
240 pages, Paperback
Published October 14, 2025
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February 28, 2026
Surviving Life: The Art of Resilience is a memoir by surgeon and Vietnam combat pilot Tom Schneider, who walks through an abusive childhood, the heartbreak and love around his profoundly disabled brother Mark, the terror of being shot down over a rice paddy in Vietnam, and a later life filled with medicine, illness, near-death moments, and hard-won forgiveness. The book moves from a chaotic home with parents Russ and Ellen, to the flight deck of a carrier, to exam rooms and operating rooms, and finally into living rooms and Zoom calls with old friends as he ages and rethinks what really matters. Through all of it, he circles one core idea. Life will hurt, and it will not be fair, and yet you can choose how to respond; you can choose kindness, and you can learn to carry both anger and gratitude without letting either one run your life.
The memoir hooked me fast. The opening scene in the Vietnamese rice paddy feels cinematic, but the voice stays very plainspoken and almost chatty, which I liked a lot. Schneider leans on short, punchy lines, then drops in dark humor that made me wince and smile at the same time. When he talks about “Agent Orange Country Club” or calls himself a “sugar monster” as a kid, the jokes soften the blow while still letting the horror land.
I also appreciated how often he circles back to specific phrases, like his grandmother’s charge to “take care of yourself,” and the mantra that even cruel people were doing “the best they could do.” That repetition gave the book a spine. Sometimes the structure feels a bit loose, like a long conversation that wanders. He digresses, he backs up, he jumps ahead. For me, though, the voice stayed strong enough that I did not mind the meandering feel. It actually made it sound like an older doctor talking late at night, telling the stories he never had time to tell before.
Emotionally, the book hit me hardest in the family sections and in the late-in-life medical chapters. The scenes with Mark are full of small, concrete details that stay in my head, like pushing his wheelchair to the TV and yelling “Heal” at Oral Roberts, or calling him “Umpy” in private and learning love and patience from a brother who never spoke a word. The abuse from Russ and Ellen is described in the same straightforward tone, and that contrast made it even more disturbing. There is no self-pity, just this steady drip of information. I felt his anger, and I also felt the weight of carrying that anger for fifty years. The epilogue gives the book a useful, almost guide-like layer without losing the personal voice.
I walked away from Surviving Life feeling like I sat with someone who truly “survived life” in every sense, not just survived war or disease. The book is honest, rough around the edges, and that texture matches the story he tells. I would recommend it most strongly to readers who like candid medical or military memoirs, to veterans and their families, to adult children from chaotic homes, and to anyone staring down serious illness who wants company from someone who has been on both sides of the hospital bed. If you prefer straight talk, gallows humor, and a lot of heart wrapped around some pretty brutal memories, this book will speak to you.
The memoir hooked me fast. The opening scene in the Vietnamese rice paddy feels cinematic, but the voice stays very plainspoken and almost chatty, which I liked a lot. Schneider leans on short, punchy lines, then drops in dark humor that made me wince and smile at the same time. When he talks about “Agent Orange Country Club” or calls himself a “sugar monster” as a kid, the jokes soften the blow while still letting the horror land.
I also appreciated how often he circles back to specific phrases, like his grandmother’s charge to “take care of yourself,” and the mantra that even cruel people were doing “the best they could do.” That repetition gave the book a spine. Sometimes the structure feels a bit loose, like a long conversation that wanders. He digresses, he backs up, he jumps ahead. For me, though, the voice stayed strong enough that I did not mind the meandering feel. It actually made it sound like an older doctor talking late at night, telling the stories he never had time to tell before.
Emotionally, the book hit me hardest in the family sections and in the late-in-life medical chapters. The scenes with Mark are full of small, concrete details that stay in my head, like pushing his wheelchair to the TV and yelling “Heal” at Oral Roberts, or calling him “Umpy” in private and learning love and patience from a brother who never spoke a word. The abuse from Russ and Ellen is described in the same straightforward tone, and that contrast made it even more disturbing. There is no self-pity, just this steady drip of information. I felt his anger, and I also felt the weight of carrying that anger for fifty years. The epilogue gives the book a useful, almost guide-like layer without losing the personal voice.
I walked away from Surviving Life feeling like I sat with someone who truly “survived life” in every sense, not just survived war or disease. The book is honest, rough around the edges, and that texture matches the story he tells. I would recommend it most strongly to readers who like candid medical or military memoirs, to veterans and their families, to adult children from chaotic homes, and to anyone staring down serious illness who wants company from someone who has been on both sides of the hospital bed. If you prefer straight talk, gallows humor, and a lot of heart wrapped around some pretty brutal memories, this book will speak to you.
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