Let’s face it: Some people rub you the wrong way. It could be something they do, something they don’t do—or you may not be able to put your finger on it. Handling Difficult People is an engaging, easy-to-read reference full of examples to aid you in dealing with the troublesome people in your life. With this practical guide, you’ll develop the skills you need to handle anyone in any situation…and come out on top.
Read this as a joke with a mild hope to learn something to cope. By the end of it, I realised I need a book about how to handle how insufferable reading this book as been
There were some good tips on how to either avoid or confront difficult people. This is just the first book I've read about this. I'm going to find more to try and make my situations with difficult people better.
At one point or another, you will encounter someone inconsiderate, angry, or aggressive, and you will need to learn how to manage the situation effectively. This book helps you deal with the toxic personalities in life areas, including in the workplace, at home, and during daily interactions. In between, you'll also find strategies and tools needed to spot the ten most common personality types and information on why these people behave in such an irritating manner. Additionally, it teaches you what you should do when confronted by a difficult person and how to avoid these people altogether. Just as you would want others to get past your transgressions toward them, see if you could find it within yourself to do the same. At last, any challenges fate places on your path, do enjoy the journey on this ride.
I picked this book up looking for some assistance with a person I just can’t seem to get along with. While there were no magic, easy solutions, I did identify some characteristics and dynamics that will give me food for thought. The book over-simplifies the concept of “difficult people” – aren’t we all difficult sometimes? – and there are some parts that I think are questionable in accuracy and reasoning. But the descriptions of the types do add detail to one’s thinking, and I don’t think the book was a waste of time. Just not a problem solver.
I borrowed this book from the library on a whim and based purely on the title, a subject matter that interests me. Truthfully, I only skimmed this book but that was because it's poorly written. It lacks science; it's as if the author wrote purely based on his personal experience. It's borderline dangerous: it's inaccurate and offers bad advice for dealing with some dangerous personalities (like bullies). Take care if you read this seriously and do more research before you endanger yourself!