A book club read, and my first time reading a non-fiction book at a book club! I am pleased that this book exists, as it offers clear, hopeful and informative advice and ideas about initially exploring your identity. The attempt at balancing her own experience with others is nice but perhaps doesn't quite work, as you end up not getting enough of either. I wish it had either just been Rosie's memoir, or a collective book that offered longer passages/interviews to allow us to get to know the other people commenting in the "queer voices" section.