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No Longer Her(e): A Woman’s Journey Through Breakups, Reinvention and the Search for Home
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At twenty-something, she had the perfect life — on paper.
A rising career, a sexy, long-term boyfriend, and a well-mapped future.
But when betrayal cracked the foundation of everything she thought she wanted, she packed a suitcase — and her dog — and set off across continents in search of something real.
A place that felt like home.
A version of herself that felt like truth.
In No Longer Her(e), Connie Kulczycki invites readers on a raw and riveting journey of heartbreak, healing, and becoming.
From a college romance gone wrong to a nationally televised proposal...
From the rigid roles of marriage and military life to the wild freedom of digital nomadism...
She unpacks the grief of letting go — of people, places, identities, and the illusion of control.
Told through journal entries, spiritual reflections, and unflinching vulnerability, this memoir doesn’t just chronicle a breakup — it reveals a woman rising from the ashes of her almost life.
Through sacred medicine journeys, foreign coastlines, loyal canine companionship, and soul-shaking realizations, Connie discovers that the “here” she was chasing had always lived within her.
And in finding here, she finally found her.
No Longer Her(e) is a love letter to the woman who chooses herself — even when it breaks her heart to do so.
For anyone who has ever questioned the life they were “supposed” to live, this is a story of what it means to stop waiting to be chosen — and start choosing yourself instead.
At twenty-something, she had the perfect life — on paper.
A rising career, a sexy, long-term boyfriend, and a well-mapped future.
But when betrayal cracked the foundation of everything she thought she wanted, she packed a suitcase — and her dog — and set off across continents in search of something real.
A place that felt like home.
A version of herself that felt like truth.
In No Longer Her(e), Connie Kulczycki invites readers on a raw and riveting journey of heartbreak, healing, and becoming.
From a college romance gone wrong to a nationally televised proposal...
From the rigid roles of marriage and military life to the wild freedom of digital nomadism...
She unpacks the grief of letting go — of people, places, identities, and the illusion of control.
Told through journal entries, spiritual reflections, and unflinching vulnerability, this memoir doesn’t just chronicle a breakup — it reveals a woman rising from the ashes of her almost life.
Through sacred medicine journeys, foreign coastlines, loyal canine companionship, and soul-shaking realizations, Connie discovers that the “here” she was chasing had always lived within her.
And in finding here, she finally found her.
No Longer Her(e) is a love letter to the woman who chooses herself — even when it breaks her heart to do so.
For anyone who has ever questioned the life they were “supposed” to live, this is a story of what it means to stop waiting to be chosen — and start choosing yourself instead.
- GenresMental HealthSelf Help
308 pages, Kindle Edition
Published January 5, 2026
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About the author
Connie Kulczycki
1 book16 followersConnie Kulczycki is a writer and digital nomad who has spent the last eight years traveling the world in search of truth, healing and home. With a background in marketing and a passion for storytelling, she weaves personal growth, spiritual insight and emotional depth into everything she creates. Her work centers on helping women reclaim their voice, worth and desires through raw self-inquiry and embodied transformation. When she’s not writing, Connie can be found guiding women through major life transitions, teaching yoga or chasing sunsets with her dog, Lu. No Longer Her(e) is her debut memoir.
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January 8, 2026
I admire the way Connie poured her heart and soul into this book, revealing so much honesty and vulnerability that we rarely hear or see nowadays. She reminds everyone that we're not supposed to be perfect; we should embrace our own path, our humanity and individuality. Connie's story of some whirlwind years are a lesson of life's constant ebbs and flows that you usually have no control of, and a reminder to live in the moment. Great writing style and enjoyed the metaphors that gave me all the feels.
November 18, 2025
No Longer Her(e) by Connie Kulczycki stirred something in me—an awareness of how often I cling to familiar roles and expectations, even when they no longer serve my soul. Connie’s story hit close to home, especially her raw honesty about heartbreak, loss, and the messy process of rebuilding from the ashes.
What resonated most was her portrayal of vulnerability. The way she intertwines journal entries, spiritual reflections, and candid storytelling creates a tapestry that feels both intimate and empowering. I was particularly moved by her journey from the rigidity of societal roles to the wild freedom of embracing her true self. It reminded me that sometimes, the greatest growth comes when we let go of control and surrender to the unknown. Her experiences with sacred medicine journeys and traveling across foreign coastlines painted a vivid picture of how stepping outside comfort zones can lead us to find ourselves—and, ultimately, a sense of home.
Connie’s compassionate tone throughout the book is so respectful of her own process and of those who might be reading along, questioning their own life choices. Her unflinching honesty isn’t about self-pity or blame but about acceptance and renewal. It’s clear she poured her heart into this work, and that effort shines through in every chapter.
What I loved most is how relatable her story is—no matter where you are in life, the desire to be true to yourself is universal. I found myself nodding along, remembering moments when I felt trapped by expectations and how liberating it can be to choose yourself, even when it hurts. This book feels like a gentle nudge to stop waiting for life to happen and start creating it on our own terms.
No Longer Her(e) isn’t just a memoir; it’s a heartfelt invitation to reclaim your power and embrace the beautiful chaos of self-discovery. Connie’s journey is a testament that sometimes, the most profound home we find is the one we build within. Highly recommend for anyone seeking inspiration to live more authentically—and to love themselves fiercely in the process.
What resonated most was her portrayal of vulnerability. The way she intertwines journal entries, spiritual reflections, and candid storytelling creates a tapestry that feels both intimate and empowering. I was particularly moved by her journey from the rigidity of societal roles to the wild freedom of embracing her true self. It reminded me that sometimes, the greatest growth comes when we let go of control and surrender to the unknown. Her experiences with sacred medicine journeys and traveling across foreign coastlines painted a vivid picture of how stepping outside comfort zones can lead us to find ourselves—and, ultimately, a sense of home.
Connie’s compassionate tone throughout the book is so respectful of her own process and of those who might be reading along, questioning their own life choices. Her unflinching honesty isn’t about self-pity or blame but about acceptance and renewal. It’s clear she poured her heart into this work, and that effort shines through in every chapter.
What I loved most is how relatable her story is—no matter where you are in life, the desire to be true to yourself is universal. I found myself nodding along, remembering moments when I felt trapped by expectations and how liberating it can be to choose yourself, even when it hurts. This book feels like a gentle nudge to stop waiting for life to happen and start creating it on our own terms.
No Longer Her(e) isn’t just a memoir; it’s a heartfelt invitation to reclaim your power and embrace the beautiful chaos of self-discovery. Connie’s journey is a testament that sometimes, the most profound home we find is the one we build within. Highly recommend for anyone seeking inspiration to live more authentically—and to love themselves fiercely in the process.
October 10, 2025
She had the dream life, the career, the boyfriend, the future all neatly planned. You know, the kind of “I’ve got it all together” vibe? Yeah, until betrayal blew it all up. So what did she do? Packed her bags (and her dog, obviously) and took off to find something real.
No Longer Her(e) isn’t your average breakup memoir. It’s raw, honest, and a little wild, kind of like the emotional road trip you didn’t know you needed. Connie doesn’t hold back. From a picture-perfect proposal on TV to rediscovering herself across continents, she turns heartbreak into a full-on spiritual awakening.
Reading this felt like watching someone rise from the ashes, mascara-smudged but stronger than ever. It’s messy, it’s real, and it hits deep if you’ve ever looked at your life and thought, “Wait… is this really me?”
What I love most? It’s not about finding love again, it’s about finding yourself. Connie’s journey reminds you that home isn’t a place; it’s that quiet little “I’m okay” moment inside you.
If you’ve ever had to start over, question everything, or choose yourself even when it hurts, this one’s going to stick with you. 💫
No Longer Her(e) isn’t your average breakup memoir. It’s raw, honest, and a little wild, kind of like the emotional road trip you didn’t know you needed. Connie doesn’t hold back. From a picture-perfect proposal on TV to rediscovering herself across continents, she turns heartbreak into a full-on spiritual awakening.
Reading this felt like watching someone rise from the ashes, mascara-smudged but stronger than ever. It’s messy, it’s real, and it hits deep if you’ve ever looked at your life and thought, “Wait… is this really me?”
What I love most? It’s not about finding love again, it’s about finding yourself. Connie’s journey reminds you that home isn’t a place; it’s that quiet little “I’m okay” moment inside you.
If you’ve ever had to start over, question everything, or choose yourself even when it hurts, this one’s going to stick with you. 💫
January 5, 2026
In an era of filters, where everyone is always happy and there is a facade from social media, a refreshing honest and raw look into the trials and tribulations of a person trying to make sense of it all and guide the life she wants to lead. The outlook is genuine and the waves of choices resonate with all. Would recommend, could use more action scenes xD ! (joking)
January 16, 2026
There's a reason why this book is a best seller. It feels like you're on this journey of discovery with your best friend. We've all felt the way the author felt at some time in our lives, so it makes it easy to feel the emotional roller coaster the author was on. An amazing read.
September 21, 2025
Considering it’s my book, I think it’s worth the five stars 😇
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