It’s hard to have ADHD in a world not built for our brains. It can leave us feeling discouraged, like we’re always getting in our own way. Like we can never quite have the life we want. But the reality is that we can influence how our brains work, and we have unique strengths. We just need the right tools.
In 30 Days to Thrive with ADHD, Dr. K brings us those tools. As a Harvard-trained psychiatrist who also spent time training to be a monk, he draws on both modern neuroscience and ancient wisdom to help you understand and harness your ADHD brain.
Each day is short—just 5 to 10 minutes—and talks about a specific aspect of ADHD and how to practically address it in your life. Over the next 30 days, Dr. K will help
Understand and reset your unique neurochemistry Lean into procrastination to finally get things done Change your self-narratives and master your emotions Train your brain with ADHD-friendly meditations
We’re done surviving. We’re learning to thrive.
Produced by Audible Writer and Narrator: Dr. Alok Kanojia Kanojia Executive Producer and Editor: Anna Stitt Sound Design, Mixing, and Mastering: Mark Galup of Reel Audiobooks Original Music: Kyle Murdock Operations Coordinator: Sonya Guimet Special thanks to Hannah Dam and Kruti Kanojia Head of Production at Audible Studios: Mike Charzuk Head of Creative Development: Kate Navin Chief Content Officer: Rachel Ghiazza
This guide is part of the 30-Day Guides to Improve Your Life series. If you like the daily format, you can also listen to titles on changing your relationship to alcohol, setting better boundaries, and rediscovering your creativity, each authored by an expert on the topic.
Dr Kanojia, known widely as 'Dr K,' is the foremost expert on video game psychology as Instructor of Psychiatry at Harvard Medical School, a private psychiatrist working with esports professionals, and the cofounder of Healthy Gamer. He has first-hand experience as an avid gamer and due to his personal struggles with video game addiction as a teenager and young adult. Despite having loving parents who tried to help – they simply didn’t understand what they were dealing with – after two years of college, Alok had less than a 2.0 GPA. There were simply no solutions, so he first traveled to India, where he embarked on a seven year journey to become a monk. After years of dedicated practice to understand the nature of desire and overcome his own addiction, Dr. Kanojia transitioned away from a spiritual life, conducting neuroscience research at Harvard Medical School for two years. He ultimately went to medical school at Tufts University School of Medicine, and completed his psychiatry training at Massachusetts General Hospital and McLean Hospital (Respectively the #1 and #2 top psychiatric hospitals in the US) and Harvard Medical School, where he continues to teach about video game addiction. After helping gamers in his clinical practice, Dr Kanojia started Healthy Gamer, an online digital mental health platform that helps gamers and parents achieve healthy video gaming habits.
Dr K’s Healthy Gamer psychoeducational content reaches 3-5M people monthly on YouTube, and his Healthy Gamer Coaching program has helped nearly 10,000 people all over the world take control of their lives. Dr Kanojia’s Healthy Gamer programs have been proven to improve the parent-child relationship, improve mental health, and reduce addictive gaming. How to Raise a Healthy Gamer is a distillation of the most universal themes parents contend with combined with the most effective, most impactful practices from Dr Kanojia’s evidence-based programs.
High 4 stars. Lots of information and strategies to try in small segments. It took me longer than 30 days, and sometimes, I wanted to have more deep dives on specific areas. But, overall, it was helpful, accessible, and informative. I found it useful and plan to revisit different sections.
Love how clear and straightforward all the advice is. Straight off the bat, full of things I wish I had been told 10+ years ago — would’ve saved me years of heartache and struggle. He is always careful to explain what bits are from his experience as a doctor, his experience as a monk, what is accepted by the broad scientific community, and what he thinks is relevant but needs more studies to prove. He came off as extremely trustworthy, that he gets it, and he really wants to help.
The format of the 30 Days books is especially good for people like me with ADHD. I usually prefer books in print because I find it difficult to focus on audiobooks for very long. But this book's short daily 5 to 8 minute chapters worked well for me. The book has a lot of helpful information about ADHD and useful tips for living with ADHD in a neurotypical dominated world.
Great listen and great idea. Although I didn’t work through it like intended and I knew a lot of the material already, I still enjoyed listening through. I also always like to just listen to Dr. K in terms of his voice.
Good mix of information on latest studies of brain chemistry and the importance of meditation. I think this is probably very reassuring to people with ADHD to see it normalized.