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Calladita No More: My Latina Journey and the Lessons that Shaped Me
"Calladita No More" is a powerful collection of stories about the lived experiences of a Latina who dared to dream big-only to find that the world wasn't built for her ambitions. Through the lens of familiar Latinx cultural sayings, or refranes, Hady Méndez shares the lessons she learned navigating identity, leadership, and belonging in a world fueled by bias, discrimination, racism, and sexism.
Each chapter holds a different refrán and lesson, blending personal storytelling with cultural reflection to spotlight hard-earned insights on empowerment, resilience, and reclaiming one's voice. This is not a step-by-step guide. It is a deeply personal narrative-an offering of wisdom and encouragement to Latinas and Women of Color who are carving their own paths through systems that were never designed with them in mind.
Hady's journey is a testament to what is possible when one learns to champion themselves, celebrate their successes, foster community, and prioritize self-care. Written with joy, clarity, and mucho orgullo, the book invites readers to reflect on the lessons they've learned and the insights they've gained.
This book is a call to remember who you are, where you come from, and the power you already hold. You are not alone on this journey. The wisdom and strength you desire are already within.
Each chapter holds a different refrán and lesson, blending personal storytelling with cultural reflection to spotlight hard-earned insights on empowerment, resilience, and reclaiming one's voice. This is not a step-by-step guide. It is a deeply personal narrative-an offering of wisdom and encouragement to Latinas and Women of Color who are carving their own paths through systems that were never designed with them in mind.
Hady's journey is a testament to what is possible when one learns to champion themselves, celebrate their successes, foster community, and prioritize self-care. Written with joy, clarity, and mucho orgullo, the book invites readers to reflect on the lessons they've learned and the insights they've gained.
This book is a call to remember who you are, where you come from, and the power you already hold. You are not alone on this journey. The wisdom and strength you desire are already within.
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195 pages, Kindle Edition
Published August 20, 2025
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September 7, 2025
So much to reflect on in reading this
Like so many in recent years, Hady Mendez has gone from being a corporate employee to a business owner first and foremost in the name of alignment.
And in her new book, Calladita No More: My Latina Journey and the Lessons That Shaped Me, that alignment, along with how she got there, shines through.
In this book, she is raw and unfiltered, but also projects an optimistic tone for the reader that is exemplified in many "You can..." statements drawn from her own life.
She starts with her origin story of her family as the youngest of four girls and whose father owned a business whose customers largely came from the neighborhood and thus were known to him and her family.
The book is packed with learning experiences largely aimed at Latinas and women of color, but there is something here for anyone. Included are reflective questions at the end of each chapter that are helpful to go through; although I have yet to sit down and do them for myself, I read them and in most cases knew I had to take some time later and think about them more than just in passing.
Along the way, she shares how she learned to show confidence, how she discovered her purpose and the clarity that looks obvious now but wasn't necessarily there earlier, and the importance of self-care. She also points out, with her own examples, how the actions and reactions of others to something involving us is often not at all about us, even though we worry that they are.
Among the better parts to read was her experience in Bolivia, where she built community and uses that to talk about to pour into others and amplify them, which appealed to me as someone who tries to do that regularly, including in the context in which we became acquainted as fellow mentors in a mentoring program for early career technologists of color.
The book shares troubling experiences she has had and has seen others have, and she doesn't shy away from them or that they still happen. On the whole, it reads optimistically and as an act of service for those who read it.
Like so many in recent years, Hady Mendez has gone from being a corporate employee to a business owner first and foremost in the name of alignment.
And in her new book, Calladita No More: My Latina Journey and the Lessons That Shaped Me, that alignment, along with how she got there, shines through.
In this book, she is raw and unfiltered, but also projects an optimistic tone for the reader that is exemplified in many "You can..." statements drawn from her own life.
She starts with her origin story of her family as the youngest of four girls and whose father owned a business whose customers largely came from the neighborhood and thus were known to him and her family.
The book is packed with learning experiences largely aimed at Latinas and women of color, but there is something here for anyone. Included are reflective questions at the end of each chapter that are helpful to go through; although I have yet to sit down and do them for myself, I read them and in most cases knew I had to take some time later and think about them more than just in passing.
Along the way, she shares how she learned to show confidence, how she discovered her purpose and the clarity that looks obvious now but wasn't necessarily there earlier, and the importance of self-care. She also points out, with her own examples, how the actions and reactions of others to something involving us is often not at all about us, even though we worry that they are.
Among the better parts to read was her experience in Bolivia, where she built community and uses that to talk about to pour into others and amplify them, which appealed to me as someone who tries to do that regularly, including in the context in which we became acquainted as fellow mentors in a mentoring program for early career technologists of color.
The book shares troubling experiences she has had and has seen others have, and she doesn't shy away from them or that they still happen. On the whole, it reads optimistically and as an act of service for those who read it.
September 1, 2025
Calladita No More is beautifully written with rich storytelling and in a voice that is as unique as the experiences shared. Every page is warm and filled with advice and knowledge that inspires me as a woman in tech. I loved when Méndez talks about her roots and the lessons she learned from her family, including her conservative yet fiesty mami, local community-oriented and shoemaker father, and thoughtful younger sister. This book offers a lot of professional and personal lessons, including the importance of community and knowing the customers you serve. I enjoyed the following passage that indirectly highlights the change in the modern day faceless online merchant exchanges, where merchants do not know their customers nor put in as much care to build connections with them: “What I learned from my dad in those early years was that a business can be a business or it can be a service to the community.” Passages like these create a setting that highlights the change in modern businesses while also creating a nostalgia for an era where community mattered above profits. I also liked the highlight of a traditional woman (Mendez’ mother) hinting at a rebellious side. The admission of awareness of self-limiting beliefs is a fascinating topic, especially in regards to women’s bodily autonomy in religious households. In another passage, when talking about her traditional mother, Méndez mentions that she got a tattoo despite her mother not approving them. However, when her mom saw the tattoo, she admitted that she always wanted one. I thought this a beautiful story that highlights a big theme of this book: breaking boundaries and saliendo adelante. Calladita No More is full of gems of Spanish sayings as well, including “Santo Que no me quiere, con no rezarle basta” which I have thought about often since reading, reminding me that it’s not worth caring about the opinions of others who do not care about me. This book is chock full of advice and inspiration and is an excellent read for Hispanic women and allies who have been in or are entering tech, as well as for anyone interested in reading an inspiring story of pushing onwards and believing in oneself.
August 15, 2025
TLDR: In short, this book is a gift for readers, communities, or anyone trying to live more boldly and intentionally. It's as much about reclaiming your own story as it is about writing new chapters.
The structure of the book itself feels a lot like reading your best friend's newsletter, in the best way possible. It’s conversational and rich with personality. As I read, I could hear Hady's voice, see her expressions, her mannerisms. It felt like I was sitting across from her during a deep, honest conversation where you laugh, reflect, tear up a little, and leave feeling seen and empowered. It’s part memoir, part manifesto, and part love letter to anyone learning to reclaim their time, voice, body, boundaries, and joy.
One line that really stuck with me comes from page 65: “We show up fully, completely, imperfectly, and courageously. We take up space, we use our voice, we inspire others…” The whole thing warms my disruptive, intensa heart.
Hady gives readers permission to embrace all of who they are without apology. I definitely recommend it to anyone. You'll either feel seen because it resonates with you or learn a lot from a Latina, if you're not familiar with the demographic. I'm so glad I read this book.
The structure of the book itself feels a lot like reading your best friend's newsletter, in the best way possible. It’s conversational and rich with personality. As I read, I could hear Hady's voice, see her expressions, her mannerisms. It felt like I was sitting across from her during a deep, honest conversation where you laugh, reflect, tear up a little, and leave feeling seen and empowered. It’s part memoir, part manifesto, and part love letter to anyone learning to reclaim their time, voice, body, boundaries, and joy.
One line that really stuck with me comes from page 65: “We show up fully, completely, imperfectly, and courageously. We take up space, we use our voice, we inspire others…” The whole thing warms my disruptive, intensa heart.
Hady gives readers permission to embrace all of who they are without apology. I definitely recommend it to anyone. You'll either feel seen because it resonates with you or learn a lot from a Latina, if you're not familiar with the demographic. I'm so glad I read this book.
September 6, 2025
This book felt like a warm conversation with a mentor and friend. Hady’s voice, through her use of “dichos”, illustrates shared experiences that resonated deeply; from lessons learned at home to those that emerged in the workplace. Each chapter’s opening dicho added cultural depth and made her lessons memorable. Hady creates a powerful and authentic reading experience while balancing cultural wisdom and professional growth lessons.
Through sharing her life lessons, she gives readers actionable advice that is insightful and approachable. She encourages readers to fully embrace themselves, to find the confidence to be seen, and to push boundaries to reach their goals.
I appreciated that each chapter closes with thought-provoking questions that allow for reflection and setting real-world intentions. These interactive sections ensured the lessons learn were growth opportunities that could be actively applied.
Overall, I’d recommend this book to anyone – especially Latinas – seeking inspiration, guidance, or reflection on personal and professional growth. May we all find the courage to be seen and heard just like Hady has.
Through sharing her life lessons, she gives readers actionable advice that is insightful and approachable. She encourages readers to fully embrace themselves, to find the confidence to be seen, and to push boundaries to reach their goals.
I appreciated that each chapter closes with thought-provoking questions that allow for reflection and setting real-world intentions. These interactive sections ensured the lessons learn were growth opportunities that could be actively applied.
Overall, I’d recommend this book to anyone – especially Latinas – seeking inspiration, guidance, or reflection on personal and professional growth. May we all find the courage to be seen and heard just like Hady has.
September 7, 2025
"Your voice matters. Being brave and bold matters. Owning your narrative matters. Bet on yourself."
Calladita No More is a powerful and inspiring book that came to me at the perfect time. As I step into a new stage in my career as a leader, its lessons are becoming my blueprint for how I want to guide and support others. The book beautifully blends cultural wisdom with practical leadership advice, and the use of refranes made it feel deeply personal and connected to my own roots.
One message that struck me is the reminder that purpose without action is nothing. Another that I will carry with me is the affirmation that I am the author of my story and the architect of my life. These words encouraged me to own my voice and to lead with courage, humility, and authenticity.
This is a book for anyone ready to rise boldly, reclaim their power, and take up space without apology. It left me motivated, grounded, and ready to embrace both my leadership role and my personal journey. It is truly a must-read. Thank you Hady!
Calladita No More is a powerful and inspiring book that came to me at the perfect time. As I step into a new stage in my career as a leader, its lessons are becoming my blueprint for how I want to guide and support others. The book beautifully blends cultural wisdom with practical leadership advice, and the use of refranes made it feel deeply personal and connected to my own roots.
One message that struck me is the reminder that purpose without action is nothing. Another that I will carry with me is the affirmation that I am the author of my story and the architect of my life. These words encouraged me to own my voice and to lead with courage, humility, and authenticity.
This is a book for anyone ready to rise boldly, reclaim their power, and take up space without apology. It left me motivated, grounded, and ready to embrace both my leadership role and my personal journey. It is truly a must-read. Thank you Hady!
September 15, 2025
This book is targeted at women of color, but is an amazing resource for anyone who to show up at work or for their community as the most confident, authentic, and generous version of themselves. The stories of hardships in the workplace are incredibly relatable, which paired with the lessons learned, make for an inspiring and practical guide to succeeding - and lifting up others in the process.
February 8, 2026
Engaging and raw. Hady shares personal experiences and advice that's well thought out. I love the reflection questions after each chapter that makes you stop and think about your own stories. This is a mentorship relationship through a book.
January 19, 2026
Calladita No More is a bold, generous, and deeply affirming call to reject silence and step fully into our power. From the first page, Hady Méndez writes with clarity and courage—naming the ways we’ve been taught to stay quiet to comfort others, to please, to survive—and then lovingly dismantling those expectations. What emerges is a powerful invitation to live truthfully, bravely, and in community.
As a mixed Asian queer woman, I don’t always experience a single, neat community where I “belong.” This book resonates because it doesn’t demand that kind of belonging. Instead, it models how to make space—for ourselves and for others—by being brave, bold, intentional, and fearless. Méndez doesn’t just talk about leadership; she reframes it. As she writes, “A true leader knows that they lead best when they recognize the contributions of others… A true leader sees power and influence as the ability to advocate for others.” That ethic of shared power runs through every chapter.
One of the book’s greatest strengths is its coaching lens. Each chapter ends with reflective questions that invite honest self-inquiry and action. The question that stayed with me most: “What would it look like for you to live fearlessly?” It’s deceptively simple—and profoundly disruptive. Méndez reminds us that the other side of fear is the freedom we want and deserve, and that telling our stories is a form of revolution: owning our narrative, stepping into our power, and choosing a bold life.
I also love how she centers cultura—how we lead with it, learn from it, and build with it. She names sisterhood as something larger than the things that divide us, urging us to help others unleash their awesomeness. Beyond our given families, she reminds us, there is chosen family waiting for us—ready to love and accept us as we are. The refrán “hoy por ti, mañana por mí” lands beautifully here: today for you, tomorrow for me.
As a coach, I especially appreciated the practical wisdom embedded in the reflection prompts, including:
1. Is this the best time to make this decision?
2. Do I have the financial resources to support this plan?
3. How will this decision impact other people?
These questions ground courage in care, and boldness in responsibility.
Ultimately, Calladita No More is a reminder that I belong, you belong, we belong—and the best thing we can do is act like it. We are magic: energy, light, fire, joy, hope. We are not meant to shrink or dim our light to make others comfortable. Becoming who we’re meant to be won’t always be easy—but it will be worth it.
We are badasses. And Hady Méndez is a true author-sister—one whose words light the way.
As a mixed Asian queer woman, I don’t always experience a single, neat community where I “belong.” This book resonates because it doesn’t demand that kind of belonging. Instead, it models how to make space—for ourselves and for others—by being brave, bold, intentional, and fearless. Méndez doesn’t just talk about leadership; she reframes it. As she writes, “A true leader knows that they lead best when they recognize the contributions of others… A true leader sees power and influence as the ability to advocate for others.” That ethic of shared power runs through every chapter.
One of the book’s greatest strengths is its coaching lens. Each chapter ends with reflective questions that invite honest self-inquiry and action. The question that stayed with me most: “What would it look like for you to live fearlessly?” It’s deceptively simple—and profoundly disruptive. Méndez reminds us that the other side of fear is the freedom we want and deserve, and that telling our stories is a form of revolution: owning our narrative, stepping into our power, and choosing a bold life.
I also love how she centers cultura—how we lead with it, learn from it, and build with it. She names sisterhood as something larger than the things that divide us, urging us to help others unleash their awesomeness. Beyond our given families, she reminds us, there is chosen family waiting for us—ready to love and accept us as we are. The refrán “hoy por ti, mañana por mí” lands beautifully here: today for you, tomorrow for me.
As a coach, I especially appreciated the practical wisdom embedded in the reflection prompts, including:
1. Is this the best time to make this decision?
2. Do I have the financial resources to support this plan?
3. How will this decision impact other people?
These questions ground courage in care, and boldness in responsibility.
Ultimately, Calladita No More is a reminder that I belong, you belong, we belong—and the best thing we can do is act like it. We are magic: energy, light, fire, joy, hope. We are not meant to shrink or dim our light to make others comfortable. Becoming who we’re meant to be won’t always be easy—but it will be worth it.
We are badasses. And Hady Méndez is a true author-sister—one whose words light the way.
September 14, 2025
Reading Calladita No More affirmed so much of what I have lived and what I strive to model as a leader. Hady Méndez’s journey illustrates the tension between silence and voice, belonging and exclusion, doubt and confidence all realities I’ve navigated in my own work across schools and communities. Her insistence on taking up space, using her voice, and showing up for others resonates deeply with my belief that leadership is not about holding power, but about creating ecosystems where others can access it too.
The refranes she shares Calladita no más, De tal palo, tal astilla, Al mal tiempo, buena cara reminded me of the wisdom I carry from my own family and community. Legacy, resilience, and authenticity are not abstract ideas; they are strategies that help us withstand systems not built for us. Like Méndez, I’ve seen how cultural knowledge, family teachings, and lived experience can serve as powerful leadership tools when we have the courage to center them.
What struck me most was her story about imposter syndrome at the executive retreat. I have been in those spaces where the instinct is to shrink, to question whether I belong, to worry if my presence or my voice is “too much.” Her decision to show up fully laugh, accent, values and all is a reminder that authenticity isn’t weakness; it is how we transform rooms.
What also makes this book unique is that it doesn’t just tell stories; it offers reflection prompts throughout. Those questions gave me the space to pause, process, and connect Méndez’s lessons to my own leadership journey. The act of journaling alongside the reading allowed me to see where my own story intersects with hers, and where I can apply those insights to the schools, families, and communities I serve.
From my perspective, the biggest takeaway is this: we cannot separate personal courage from systemic change. Individual resilience matters, but so does building structures where resilience is no longer the constant tax for people of color, women, and underrepresented leaders. My commitment is to design spaces in schools, communities, and leadership teams where belonging is measured, voice has consequence, and legacy is honored as expertise.
At its core, Calladita No More is not just a call to speak louder; it is a call to lead differently. It challenges me to keep showing up unapologetically, to keep creating room for others to rise, and to keep transforming silence into collective power.
The refranes she shares Calladita no más, De tal palo, tal astilla, Al mal tiempo, buena cara reminded me of the wisdom I carry from my own family and community. Legacy, resilience, and authenticity are not abstract ideas; they are strategies that help us withstand systems not built for us. Like Méndez, I’ve seen how cultural knowledge, family teachings, and lived experience can serve as powerful leadership tools when we have the courage to center them.
What struck me most was her story about imposter syndrome at the executive retreat. I have been in those spaces where the instinct is to shrink, to question whether I belong, to worry if my presence or my voice is “too much.” Her decision to show up fully laugh, accent, values and all is a reminder that authenticity isn’t weakness; it is how we transform rooms.
What also makes this book unique is that it doesn’t just tell stories; it offers reflection prompts throughout. Those questions gave me the space to pause, process, and connect Méndez’s lessons to my own leadership journey. The act of journaling alongside the reading allowed me to see where my own story intersects with hers, and where I can apply those insights to the schools, families, and communities I serve.
From my perspective, the biggest takeaway is this: we cannot separate personal courage from systemic change. Individual resilience matters, but so does building structures where resilience is no longer the constant tax for people of color, women, and underrepresented leaders. My commitment is to design spaces in schools, communities, and leadership teams where belonging is measured, voice has consequence, and legacy is honored as expertise.
At its core, Calladita No More is not just a call to speak louder; it is a call to lead differently. It challenges me to keep showing up unapologetically, to keep creating room for others to rise, and to keep transforming silence into collective power.
September 15, 2025
This book was exactly what I needed at this moment in time. As a Latina in corporate I’ve gone through the entire emotional roller coaster. I’ve had feedback that I’m too much and too little. That I’m a good technician but not ready for leadership. Hady reminded me that I’m exactly who I need to be and right where I should be. I’ve worked hard to get where I am in an industry that has few Latinas for me to reference or reach out to for guidance. And that the world only changes if I trust in myself and keep pushing and help bring others with me along the way.
There were so many good refranes through out the book but I think the line that most aligns with my goals is “I want to be the leader I’ve needed over the course of my career.” I love that this is an active phrase. I WANT. I choose to take on this work as if it is a manda from my younger self. I want to meet with younger Latinas trying to start their careers. I want to be visible so future generations know this career is an option for us and that we belong everywhere.
I’m a midpoint in my career and this is the reality check and corporate career honesty that I needed to refresh and keep things moving. Gracias Hady for this wisdom and clarity. Brava!
#calladitanomore #jointhemovement
There were so many good refranes through out the book but I think the line that most aligns with my goals is “I want to be the leader I’ve needed over the course of my career.” I love that this is an active phrase. I WANT. I choose to take on this work as if it is a manda from my younger self. I want to meet with younger Latinas trying to start their careers. I want to be visible so future generations know this career is an option for us and that we belong everywhere.
I’m a midpoint in my career and this is the reality check and corporate career honesty that I needed to refresh and keep things moving. Gracias Hady for this wisdom and clarity. Brava!
#calladitanomore #jointhemovement
September 12, 2025
This book is a disrupter in the best way! Hady lets us into her life, personally and professionally, in the most vulnerable way. She shares her journey in a powerful and relatable manner that makes you reflect on your own story. This isn’t a memoir. It’s an experience for the ages. It strikes a chord by sharing lessons and then asking the reader questions about their own life. Show up with a highlighter and a pen if you want to make the most of it. Write in the margins and underline the passages that speak to you.
At a time when women, particularly women of color, are reclaiming their power, this book provides the visibility and the direction we need to succeed in bold ways. Hady’s use of refranes at the beginning of each chapter is poetic. It creates an opportunity to reflect on your own narrative and see how your past has shaped your present life experiences. She speaks to you in a conversational tone that makes you feel seen.
Hady wrote this book for all of us. To champion our past and to cheer us on as we strive for great things in our future. Buy a book for you and then buy another one for someone else that needs it.
At a time when women, particularly women of color, are reclaiming their power, this book provides the visibility and the direction we need to succeed in bold ways. Hady’s use of refranes at the beginning of each chapter is poetic. It creates an opportunity to reflect on your own narrative and see how your past has shaped your present life experiences. She speaks to you in a conversational tone that makes you feel seen.
Hady wrote this book for all of us. To champion our past and to cheer us on as we strive for great things in our future. Buy a book for you and then buy another one for someone else that needs it.
September 15, 2025
Reading this book felt like having the big sister I always needed. As the eldest daughter of immigrants, I have spent so much of my life figuring things out on my own, carrying responsibilities silently, and convincing myself that asking for help was not appropriate. Hady’s book spoke directly to that experience.
She breaks down step by step what it takes to be successful, while also showing how to unlearn the survival habits that can hold us back. What I love most is that she challenges you to grow without asking you to reject your roots. She reminds you that you can honor where you come from while creating a new path forward.
This book made me feel so seen and understood. I found myself nodding along, sometimes with tears in my eyes, realizing I am not alone in this journey. Calladita No More is part guide, part love letter to first-gen daughters like me, and I am so grateful Hady wrote it.
I highly recommend it to anyone looking for new insight, encouragement, or simply the comfort of knowing that someone else has been there too.
She breaks down step by step what it takes to be successful, while also showing how to unlearn the survival habits that can hold us back. What I love most is that she challenges you to grow without asking you to reject your roots. She reminds you that you can honor where you come from while creating a new path forward.
This book made me feel so seen and understood. I found myself nodding along, sometimes with tears in my eyes, realizing I am not alone in this journey. Calladita No More is part guide, part love letter to first-gen daughters like me, and I am so grateful Hady wrote it.
I highly recommend it to anyone looking for new insight, encouragement, or simply the comfort of knowing that someone else has been there too.
September 10, 2025
Just finished reading Calladita No More by Hady Mendez, and wow… what a book.
This isn’t just a must-read for women, it’s a must-read for men too. I grew up with refranes and, through my career, I was known for pulling one out for everything. As I read, it felt like I was reliving my own life, being reminded that I’ve never really been alone.
It’s an easy, pleasurable read that’s filled with those “oh wow, that was me” moments, mixed with deep reflections that stay with you long after you close the book.
I already know I’ll be handing a copy to my 15-year-old Boricua daughter, being raised here in the U.S. by two Puerto Rican parents. Because she deserves to carry these voices and stories with her as part of her own journey.
Powerful, heartfelt, and necessary. Calladita No More is more than a book, it's filled with hope, inspiration, and a reminder of the importance of stepping into who we truly are meant to be because we are the ones in control of our lives.
This isn’t just a must-read for women, it’s a must-read for men too. I grew up with refranes and, through my career, I was known for pulling one out for everything. As I read, it felt like I was reliving my own life, being reminded that I’ve never really been alone.
It’s an easy, pleasurable read that’s filled with those “oh wow, that was me” moments, mixed with deep reflections that stay with you long after you close the book.
I already know I’ll be handing a copy to my 15-year-old Boricua daughter, being raised here in the U.S. by two Puerto Rican parents. Because she deserves to carry these voices and stories with her as part of her own journey.
Powerful, heartfelt, and necessary. Calladita No More is more than a book, it's filled with hope, inspiration, and a reminder of the importance of stepping into who we truly are meant to be because we are the ones in control of our lives.
September 22, 2025
This was My first audiobook and I loved it! I have both the paperback and audio. I love that I can use the paper back for my journaling in between Hady’s stories. Hady is so entertaining. I finished in a round trip plane and it really kept me upbeat as positive. Her next book should be all those affirmations. I could listen to that over and over!
Hady’s life and career advice truly resonates with me, and I believe it will greatly benefit all audiences, especially women and the younger generation. This is precisely the kind of guidance I wish I had received earlier in my career.
Men and allies I think this is great for you to experience latinidad in corporate America. It will be definitely be eye opening.
Hady’s book is an invaluable guide, filled with insightful lessons and reframes that provide much to reflect on. This is especially true as many of us are navigating our corporate career journeys. Companies, get ready—"Calladita NO MORE!"
Hady’s life and career advice truly resonates with me, and I believe it will greatly benefit all audiences, especially women and the younger generation. This is precisely the kind of guidance I wish I had received earlier in my career.
Men and allies I think this is great for you to experience latinidad in corporate America. It will be definitely be eye opening.
Hady’s book is an invaluable guide, filled with insightful lessons and reframes that provide much to reflect on. This is especially true as many of us are navigating our corporate career journeys. Companies, get ready—"Calladita NO MORE!"
September 19, 2025
I found myself nodding and even saying YES out loud as I read Calladita No More. Page after page, I felt seen, proud, and lifted up. It felt less like reading a book and more like having a conversation with a friend, the kind who hypes you up, reminds you of your worth, and tells you to take up space without apology.
The mix of memoir and guidance is powerful. The stories are real and relatable, and the advice is practical while still rooted in cultura and comunidad. I especially loved the Spanglish throughout, it made the book feel close to home, like it was written by one of us, for us.
This is more than a book; it’s an invitation to step into our voices and bring others with us. I’m so proud this exists, and I know I’ll be revisiting it whenever I need that reminder to be calladita no more.
The mix of memoir and guidance is powerful. The stories are real and relatable, and the advice is practical while still rooted in cultura and comunidad. I especially loved the Spanglish throughout, it made the book feel close to home, like it was written by one of us, for us.
This is more than a book; it’s an invitation to step into our voices and bring others with us. I’m so proud this exists, and I know I’ll be revisiting it whenever I need that reminder to be calladita no more.
September 16, 2025
As a Latina that has been in the corporate space for several years I felt so seen in this book and loved the personal stories and advice the author, Hady Méndez, shares!
A line that resonated with me deeply was when Hady said, "Personal alignment will feel like your decisions are deeply rooted in your beliefs. Professional alignment will feel like your work reflects your values."
Immediately, a light bulb went off in my head. It wasn't until I read this that I finally found words to what I had been feeling for last few years of my career and Hady wrote it so beautifully.
I highly recommend this book to Latina professionals or anyone looking to reclaim their voice and live their lives with a fierce purpose!
A line that resonated with me deeply was when Hady said, "Personal alignment will feel like your decisions are deeply rooted in your beliefs. Professional alignment will feel like your work reflects your values."
Immediately, a light bulb went off in my head. It wasn't until I read this that I finally found words to what I had been feeling for last few years of my career and Hady wrote it so beautifully.
I highly recommend this book to Latina professionals or anyone looking to reclaim their voice and live their lives with a fierce purpose!
September 3, 2025
Reading this books feels like you're having a conversation with a friend who understand Latinx culture especially the family dynamics and all the spoken and unspoken expectations that come with it. The author talks about trusting yourself and finding your way in a way that makes it clear that she's been there before and she has your best interests at heart. She writes from her lived experience and shares the lessons she's learned along the way.
This books is a great reminder that we're not alone and that our voices matter. It's the kind of book that you'll come back to at different phases of your live because each time you'll take something new that speaks to exactly where you are.
This books is a great reminder that we're not alone and that our voices matter. It's the kind of book that you'll come back to at different phases of your live because each time you'll take something new that speaks to exactly where you are.
September 9, 2025
As a Latina reader and therapist, Calladita No More felt like sitting across from a wise hermana who says, “I see you.” Hady Mendez’s memoir is both story and mirror, inviting us to question the inherited scripts of silence and ask which ones still serve us. Her honesty about leadership, voice, and belonging struck me deeply, especially her redefinition of confidence as listening, questioning, and choosing peace. The bilingual affirmations and reflection questions make this book more than a memoir; it is a map. Each page reminds us that when one of us dares to speak, we leave the door open for another. Gracias
September 4, 2025
As a first-generation Latina educator, being in spaces where we have historically not belonged can feel overwhelming. There are moments in meetings or when speaking with administration where I’ve felt the need to stay “quiet” because that’s just how things have always been. Even small things, like what I wear or how I show up have sometimes made me feel like I don’t quite fit in.
Reading Calladita No More felt like such a breath of fresh air. Hady beautifully shares her experiences in the workplace and among colleagues in ways that felt so real to me. One story that stood out was when she was mistaken for the cleaning lady something that hit home because I’m often mistaken for a student myself. Not to say that being a student is bad but when you worked so hard to earn your degree to be a professor, it can feel personal.
This book reminded me that I’m not alone in these experiences, and it encouraged me to keep showing up fully as myself. Thank you, Hady, for writing a book that speaks so directly to our realities and gives us permission to take up space unapologetically.
Reading Calladita No More felt like such a breath of fresh air. Hady beautifully shares her experiences in the workplace and among colleagues in ways that felt so real to me. One story that stood out was when she was mistaken for the cleaning lady something that hit home because I’m often mistaken for a student myself. Not to say that being a student is bad but when you worked so hard to earn your degree to be a professor, it can feel personal.
This book reminded me that I’m not alone in these experiences, and it encouraged me to keep showing up fully as myself. Thank you, Hady, for writing a book that speaks so directly to our realities and gives us permission to take up space unapologetically.
September 5, 2025
Calladita No More is a love letter to the Latinx community and to the fearless women of a new generation. It is the story of living boldly, of claiming one’s voice and one’s power. Through the sharing of her own life’s joys, struggles, and lessons, Hady Méndez whispers a reminder: we are meant for more, for bigger dreams, for brighter days. Her presence is a quiet magic, a testament that each of us carries the spark to rise, to shine, to embrace our fullest potential.
September 8, 2025
What an enjoyable and useful read! This book felt like a personal conversation with an experienced cousin sharing her journey and wisdom with an invitation to self reflection on your own journey.
As a holistic leadership coach I was cheering and nodding along with the insights throughout. It is more engaging than a typical career self help book and totally worth the read for her relatable stories as a Latina in corporate and developing her own rhythm throughout and living by her values.
As a holistic leadership coach I was cheering and nodding along with the insights throughout. It is more engaging than a typical career self help book and totally worth the read for her relatable stories as a Latina in corporate and developing her own rhythm throughout and living by her values.
September 4, 2025
Calladita no more is by far one of the best books I’ve read this year. I love how she captivated and drew me in since the first few sentences. She dove right into what this book was going to be about and I found it extremely relatable.
January 2, 2026
Highly recommended!
This is a must-read if you want to dare greatly, embrace change, and stay true to yourself. One of the best parts of this book is the realization that you aren't alone; it was so validating to see my own experiences reflected in the writing.
This is a must-read if you want to dare greatly, embrace change, and stay true to yourself. One of the best parts of this book is the realization that you aren't alone; it was so validating to see my own experiences reflected in the writing.
February 2, 2026
Empowering, honest, funny, and such a needed book for Women of Color and Latinas. If you need a lift, encouragement, and/or cheer, give this book a read. I was pleasantly surprised.
September 4, 2025
Calladita No More by Hady Mendez is an excellent and powerful read. Hady is unapologetically her authentic self throughout the book, and that honesty is what makes her story so impactful.
One of my favorite lines is when she writes: “My purpose is to empower those who are often overlooked, teaching them skills they need to thrive and succeed in a world that sometimes makes it hard for them to let their light shine.” That resonated with me so much that I added it to my email signature at work.
This book is inspiring, empowering, and deeply personal. It made me proud to be a strong Hispanic woman, and I believe it’s a must-read for anyone who values courage, authenticity, and empowerment.
One of my favorite lines is when she writes: “My purpose is to empower those who are often overlooked, teaching them skills they need to thrive and succeed in a world that sometimes makes it hard for them to let their light shine.” That resonated with me so much that I added it to my email signature at work.
This book is inspiring, empowering, and deeply personal. It made me proud to be a strong Hispanic woman, and I believe it’s a must-read for anyone who values courage, authenticity, and empowerment.
March 4, 2026
Some of her ideas get a little repetitive but she holds true to taking up space and NOT being an imposter. Hermana, you belong!
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December 30, 2025This book is a love letter to every Latina who's ever been told to stay quiet and put.
I've known Hady for years, and reading Calladita No More felt like sitting across from her over coffee (or cafecito, let's be honest), listening to her share the stories that shaped her into the leader she is today. What makes this book so special isn't just that it's beautifully written (though it absolutely is!), it's that Hady weaves her abuela's refranes (*sayings)with her corporate experiences in a way that made me furiously take notes.
This book is for every Latina and woman of color who's been called "too much" or "not enough" (and honestly, for everyone who wants to become a better and more intentional ally)
Hady, gracias por este regalo. You've given us something powerful here 💜
I've known Hady for years, and reading Calladita No More felt like sitting across from her over coffee (or cafecito, let's be honest), listening to her share the stories that shaped her into the leader she is today. What makes this book so special isn't just that it's beautifully written (though it absolutely is!), it's that Hady weaves her abuela's refranes (*sayings)with her corporate experiences in a way that made me furiously take notes.
This book is for every Latina and woman of color who's been called "too much" or "not enough" (and honestly, for everyone who wants to become a better and more intentional ally)
Hady, gracias por este regalo. You've given us something powerful here 💜
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