For anyone who is overwhelmed, stressed, or lonely in today’s world, or who simply senses they have an untapped potential to lead a more fulfilling life, here are ways to flourish.
The human species is experiencing a massive mental health crisis. Depression is now the leading cause of morbidity globally. Loneliness is more dangerous to our health than smoking 15 cigarettes per day. Suicide rates in different groups in some parts of the world are skyrocketing and cut across social class and income. Distractibility and impairments of concentration are at an all-time high, and teens are spending more time on social media than they do sleeping.
Now, based on decades of neuroscientific research, Dr Richard Davidson, a pioneering neuroscientist and New York Times bestselling author, and Dr Cortland Dahl, one of the world’s foremost experts on the science and practice of meditation, share their groundbreaking scientific model — the Healthy Minds Framework — that highlights the four core skills of human flourishing to counteract such problems.
Each skill — awareness, insight, connection, and purpose — translates into practices that all of us can do in simple ways, every day, with enormous positive results. When we cultivate these skills, we can navigate life’s ups and downs with far more resilience and calmness, on a path to a life that feels balanced, rich, and rewarding.
I'm giving this book 5 stars because I think the authors not only accomplished their goal--to lay out an evidence-based, simple path to thriving--but they did it so straightforwardly that at first glance it seems obvious and maybe not all that remarkable or groundbreaking. Their goal is to offer a path that is accessible and can be widely undertaken by people of any sort of lifestyle and belief system. It's deliberately non-esoteric and easily grasped. Each of the four components of their formula--awareness, connection, insight, purpose--are things we understand and perhaps think we've mastered because we comprehend them. But honestly, who has fully developed their potential in any one of these areas, much less all four? Each is a doorway into inexhaustible exploration that none of us will ever fully complete. Together they offer a clear and useful framework that, in benefitting individuals in their own growth, is a gift to a world that is deeply in need of clarity, kindness, and wisdom.
TLDR: You need these four things to be resilient even under stress— · Awareness: Learn to be fully present with your emotions so that you can embrace all of life’s ups and downs. · Connection: Grow meaningful relationships and a sense of belonging by cultivating kindness and appreciation. · Insight: Learn to know yourself through self-inquiry, so that you can break free from old narratives. · Purpose: Connect with your core values and guiding motivation to create clarity and make sound decisions.
This entire book is endless stories and research about these four things. There’s not really an action plan at the end or steps, just a lot of talk about their Healthy Minds app and lots of stories and research about needing these four things in life. I already actively work to incorporate all four in my daily life so this didn’t offer me anything new.
If you don’t know why those four goals are important for your mental health, this book will explain it. It is not really designed to help you do them though.
This book is exceptional in its ability to engage the reader and to invite them into honing the pragmatic and proven skills needed to truly flourish. It deftly balances the rigorous research of neuroscience with the art of the wisdom contemplative traditions in a fresh, relatable, easy to grasp and most interesting way. Interwoven with personal anecdotes from the authors, this book gently guides us in understanding how integrating simple daily and effortless practices in our lives can effect profound positive changes to our resilience, mental health and overall well-being. The authors have distilled decades of knowledge, research and practice into a book that comes alive on every page; their heartfelt desire to help all of us to flourish is truly the most generous gift that anyone can ever receive.
3.0 stars. The co-authors identify four skills of flourishing: awareness, connection, insight, and purpose. (I include the definitions here as a reminder to myself when I’m ready to reread this book.) Awareness is “a heightened and flexible attention to what is happening in the moment.” Connection is “an inner sense of care and kinship that leads to supportive interactions and caring relationships with others.“ Insight is “the ability to see how our thoughts, emotions, and beliefs shape our experience.” Purpose is “a clarity about our deepest aspirations and guiding principles, and the ability to apply them in daily life.“ Each of the skills is explained further with samples from case studies, and supported by practices. Anyone familiar with mindfulness is not going to be surprised by anything here, but the book is worth reading for its inclusion of data to support its claims.
Born to Flourish offers a clear, accessible guide to improving mental well-being through neuroscience-informed practices. And while the ideas are solid and the approach is encouraging, I found much of it fairly familiar if you’ve read other books on mindfulness or positive psychology.
Still, it’s a gentle, useful read for anyone looking to build better mental habits.
The premise of this book is simple: science proves over and over again that even the most basic daily meditation practices are beneficial for our health. Through a mix of term paper statistics, real-world examples, and multiple examples, the authors continually prove and support their thesis. This is a book that will need to be read several times, perhaps, before the lessons take, but that's good. It is empowering and reassuring. (preview copy provided by NetGalley)
A landmark book. Different from Positive Psychology which approaches flourishing from a Western tradition. ‘Born to Flourish’ is approached from a Tibetan Buddhist tradition. ‘Born to Flourish’ details the four skills — awareness, connection, insight, purpose — with the supporting science, then includes daily actions to develop habits. Recommended.
I have used the Healthy Minds app and found it super helpful so I was curious to see what the book was about. I enjoyed reading more about the science behind it and I think the flourishing framework is a simple but effective mindset of how to approach meditation.
The book presents a scientifically based framework for flourishing - having well-being and resilience in tough life situations. Contains great, simple, exercises. Very much recommend.