Why Bad Bitches Get All the Good Men: A Self-Love & Dating Guide for Confident Women Who Know Their Worth

by Isla Grey

✨ Confidence isn’t arrogance — it’s your superpower. ✨



Why do strong, self-assured women attract the best partners? Because they know their worth, set their standards high, and never settle for less.



In Why Bad Bitches Get All the Good Men, Isla Grey redefines what it truly means to be a “bad bitch.” This isn’t about being cold, manipulative, or “too much.” It’s about embracing your power, owning your femininity, and creating relationships that align with your highest self.



Whether you’re single, dating, or rebuilding after heartbreak, this empowering guide will help you shift your mindset, protect your energy, and attract men who truly deserve you.



✅ Inside You’ll



The magnetic power of self-worth and how to cultivate it daily.
Why boundaries are the ultimate act of self-love (and how to set them gracefully).
The secret to balancing feminine softness with unshakable strength.
Why being “too nice” holds you back — and how to stop people-pleasing.
Simple confidence rituals that make you unforgettable.
How to spot the difference between “good men” and time-wasters.


💎 This book is for you



You’re tired of settling in love and want a man who truly values you.
You want to replace self-doubt with unshakable confidence.
You’re ready to step into your power and become magnetic to high-quality men.


✨ You were the prize all along. Stop chasing love — and start attracting it.



📘 Why Bad Bitches Get All the Good Men is your guide to stepping into your full feminine power and creating the love story you deserve.

18 pages, Kindle Edition

Published August 22, 2025

About the author

Isla Grey is from Central Virginia and still lives in the same small town she grew up in. She developed a love of writing at an early age and over the years has tried her hand at penning poetry (some good, some not so good), screenwriting, newspaper articles and historical stories. She’s “old school” when it comes to writing and is a hoarder of more pens, post-it notes and writing journals than she’ll ever need. Isla likes to write different types of stories from romance to mystery and anything in between and loves a “happy for now but there could be some bad things coming” feel.

When Isla’s not writing, she spends her time being called “Mom, Mama, Mommy” (well, you get the picture) by her daughter who is forever active, even in her sleep. She considers herself an unofficial “cat whisperer” and is a pet human to a plethora of cats that have taken up residence at her home over the years. Isla also enjoys reading a good biography or ghost story, traveling even though “there’s no place like home”, good music played loud and walking.

She's also the Movie Mistakes Editor for Bellaonline.com, where she talks about...well...movies!