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The Shadow Side of Emotional Intelligence: From Self-Awareness to Control and Boundary Violations : The Manipulative Power of Emotional Intelligence in Toxic Relationships
The Shadow Side of Emotional From Self-Awareness to Control and Boundary Violations—The Manipulative Power of Emotional Intelligence in Toxic Relationships offers a compelling new perspective on one of today’s most celebrated personal and professional skills. Drawing on real-life stories, research, and the author’s clinical and coaching expertise, this book explores both the promise and the peril of emotional intelligence (EI).
While EI is widely praised for enhancing relationships, promoting collaboration, and fostering personal growth, its power is not inherently benign. Through vivid examples and practical insights, the book reveals how empathy, intuition, and emotional awareness—hallmarks of EI—can be misused to manipulate, control, or exploit. Readers will discover how these same strengths, when distorted, can erode boundaries, foster toxic dynamics, and undermine self-confidence.
This guide takes you beyond the familiar benefits of emotional intelligence and into its hidden terrain. Whether you are a leader, professional, or simply someone seeking healthier, more authentic relationships, The Shadow Side of Emotional From Self-Awareness to Control and Boundary Violations—The Manipulative Power of Emotional Intelligence in Toxic Relationships will help you recognize manipulation, strengthen your emotional boundaries, and reclaim the balance between care and control. Step into the light and discover the whole truth of emotional intelligence—its gifts, its risks, and its transformative potential for healing and growth.
While EI is widely praised for enhancing relationships, promoting collaboration, and fostering personal growth, its power is not inherently benign. Through vivid examples and practical insights, the book reveals how empathy, intuition, and emotional awareness—hallmarks of EI—can be misused to manipulate, control, or exploit. Readers will discover how these same strengths, when distorted, can erode boundaries, foster toxic dynamics, and undermine self-confidence.
This guide takes you beyond the familiar benefits of emotional intelligence and into its hidden terrain. Whether you are a leader, professional, or simply someone seeking healthier, more authentic relationships, The Shadow Side of Emotional From Self-Awareness to Control and Boundary Violations—The Manipulative Power of Emotional Intelligence in Toxic Relationships will help you recognize manipulation, strengthen your emotional boundaries, and reclaim the balance between care and control. Step into the light and discover the whole truth of emotional intelligence—its gifts, its risks, and its transformative potential for healing and growth.
177 pages, Kindle Edition
Published August 22, 2025
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January 6, 2026
10 stars if possible!!
I wish I had read this book about 60 years ago. It would have saved me a lot of misunderstanding and personal harm. Even now, at 85 years old, it helps me heal and rebuild my own personal authenticity and self power. I cannot recommend it enough !!! It may transform your life, family, community and even your culture !!
I wish I had read this book about 60 years ago. It would have saved me a lot of misunderstanding and personal harm. Even now, at 85 years old, it helps me heal and rebuild my own personal authenticity and self power. I cannot recommend it enough !!! It may transform your life, family, community and even your culture !!
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