Koza Kelebeği Bilmez

The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari

by Robin Sharma, Belkıs Çorakçı Dişbudak (Translator)

"Koza için hayatın sonu olarak görünen şeyi, ustalar kelebek olarak görür." Kafama değen metalin soğukluğunu hissedebiliyordum. Bu iş nasıl bu hale gelmiş olabilirdi? Bir otel odasında oturmuş durumdaydım ve şakağıma silah dayalıydı. Alnımdan aşağı terler boşalıyor, kalbim gümbür gümbür çarpıyordu. Ama gözlerimi yumup son duamı yüksek sesle söylerken mucizevi bir şey oldu. Başım dönmeye başladı, yere yıkıldım, silah da elimden düştü. Orada hareketsiz yatarken birdenbire vücuduma kör edici bir ışık dolmaya başladı. Halbuki ben her zaman ayakları yere basan mantıklı bir insan olagelmiştim. Ne meleklerle konuşmuşluğum vardı -hala da yok- ne de yıldızlara göre hareket ederdim. Ama başıma gelen ortadaydı. İlahi bir tecrübe miydi? Yoksa yaşamakta olduğum aşırı stresli hayata fiziksel tepkimi, doğrusu bilemiyorum. Tek bildiğim orada olan şeyin hayatımın dönüm noktası olduğuydu...

Genres: Self Help, Nonfiction, Personal Development, Philosophy, Spirituality, Inspirational, Psychology

210 pages, Paperback

First published January 1, 2004

About the author

Robin Sharma is one of the world’s premier thinkers on leadership, personal growth and life management. The bestselling author of
The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari,
Who Will Cry When You Die? and
The Saint, the Surfer, and the CEO and four other books on self-transformation.

Robin Sharma is in constant demand internationally as keynote speaker at the conferences of many of the most powerful companies on the planet including Microsoft, Nortel Networks, General Motors, FedEx and IBM. He is a resident of Ontario, Canada. (Barnes and Noble)

Reviews

[newton · Rating 5 out of 5]

بالرغم من انه من اروع كتب شارما التي قرائتها الا انني قراته بشكل متقطع ..مع ذلك ادركت ان بعض الكتب لها وقت معين من حياتك لاينفع ان تقرائه قبلها..والا لن تستفيد منها يالشكل المقدر لك..
حقيقي بعد عودتي له بعد انقطاع بدات اقراء نفسي من خلاله واتامل بابتسامه لاحداث النقله التي تواكب نقلتي الحاليه..
اجمل الكتب بالنسبة لي تلك التي اجد فيها اجابات لتساؤلاتي الغير مجابه وهذا ماوجدته في هذا الكتاب+وصدق كاتبه اضاف له وقع في نفسي لايزول مع مرور الوقت..
كانت بدايتي مع روبن من خلال الراهب الذي عمل نقله مهمه في حياتي مرورا بدليل العظمه بجزئيه..الذي ارسى لي جذوري في ارض التنمية وهاهو اليوم اكتشف مصيرك يعيد اكتشاف الجانب التنويري في حياتي.لينقلني الى مرحلة جديده اصبحت فيها اقوى وافضل وتمدد فيها وعيي بشكل لما يسبق له ان حدث..
لا انصح به فقط بل بكل كتب شارما الي اعتبره اهم شمعه اضاءت لي حياتي..ودفعتني لرد الجميل للمولف الذي دائما مايردد اكثر مااريده منك أن تنقل ماتعملته مني لغيرك وبهذا تنتشر رسالتي ونحدث تغيير ايجابي في العالم...
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[Sandra · Rating 4 out of 5]

Libro para tener siempre presente y releer las anotaciones o lo que has subrayado, en mi opinión es muy enriquecedor y puede aportarte muchas cosas, de hecho he anotado frases para tener siempre a ellas cuando lo necesito.

[Evelyn · Rating 1 out of 5]

This is written in a style that I dislike. It is a fictional tale in which a teacher imparts wisdom to his student. It really doesn't work as fiction, the conversations are quite one sided and the characters are very stilted. It also doesn't really work (for me) as psychology/self help - I kept thinking, just lay out your theory already and forget about trying to turn it into a story.

[Mohsin Sultan · Rating 5 out of 5]

إنه لا توجد حياة مهما كانت رائعة تخلو من المشكلات والتحديات. والأشخاص الوحيدون الذين ليست لديهم أية مشكلات هم من في قبورهم. في الواقع، إن وجود المشكلات والتحديات هو ما يجعلنا أكبر وأقوى وأكثر حكمة. يمكننا أن نركض منها، ونصبح أكثر مرارة، ونشكو من صعوبة الدنيا. أو يمكننا أن نتقبّلها ونصبح أفضل. إننا نكون، بصورة عامة، عند أكبر آلامنا أكثر ارتباطاً بمن نكون حقيقةً - ومن كان يجب أن نكونه. قال مارتن لوثر كنج ذات مرة: "المقياس الحقيقي للإنسان ليس أين يقف في لحظات الثقة، بل أين يقف في أوقات التحدي والجدل".

' إكتشف مصيرك، مع الراهب الذي باع سيارته الفيراري ' لـ روبن شارما

[Eman Al-wreikat · Rating 5 out of 5]

الكتاب الذي يحب على الجميع امتلاكه وقرائته ..
كتاب راااائع ..
رحلة جميلة ومليئة بالمعاني والافكار ..
كتاب يدفعك للتفكير بحياتك بطريقة اخرى .. ويدفعك للعمل اكثر ..
كتاب يدعوك لعيش حياتك كاملة وبطريقة صحية وصحيحة
♥♥♥♥

[Desislava · Rating 5 out of 5]

Wonderful book.Extremely wise and helpful for ones self awakening.
Life is a treasure and you are more than you think you are. Embrace things that happen with open heart and you will grow better, wiser, stronger. Give the new day most of it as if it will be your last and treat others with kindness, love and respect as if you will never see them again.

[غفران الحمد · Rating 5 out of 5]

#كتاب #اكتشف_مصيرك
لــ #روبين_شارما 🌱
215 صفحة 📖
التقييم : 5/5
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من أروع الكتب التي قرأتها والتي أضافت الكثير من الحكمة والتنوير إلى حياتي. ولا أبالغ إن قلت بأنك إن قرأته فستعتز بقراءته إلى الأبد. 🍀

أنا شخصيًّا أحب الكتب التي تركز على النمو بكافة أنواعه " العقل، الجسد، العاطفة والروح " تلك التي سماها الكاتب بـ " اليقظات الأربع " حيث لا يمكن تفضيل إحداها على الأخرى أو الإعتماد عليها بشكل تام مع اهمال كلي للبقية.📎

يطرح الكاتب فكرة المراحل السبع لإيقاظ الذات والتي تتضمن ما يلي :

يجب على الإنسان بداية أن يخرج من الكذبة التي يعيش فيها ويدرك خداع الذات الذي يمارسه فقط لكي يكون محبوبًا ويتواءم مع الحشد ثم يبدأ بكسر القيود التي فرضها الآخرون عليه منذ الصغر والتحرر منها.
ينتقل بعدها إلى الرؤية بعيون جديدة " الوعي " لرصد كل العجائب والاحتمالات التي يهبها الله للإنسان ولكنه كان يعصب عينيه عن رؤيتها، مستعينًا بتعليمات الأساتذة ويحول انتباهه إلى الكتب والمصادر المختلفة من المعرفة ويكتب بشكل يومي في حوار صادق مع النفس. 💚
بعد ذلك يشعر بأنه سيولد من جديد لكن إحدى قدميه في حياته الجديدة وأخرى في حياته القديمة فيعيش صراعًا بين كل ما تعلمه في المراحل التي تقدمت وبين ما كان يعرفه ويفعله قبل ذلك وللتخلص من هذا الصراع يمر في مرحلة اختبار للتأكد من أمرين :
أولًا: إنه تعلم ودمج كل تلك الدروس التي حصل عليها في حياته.
ثانيًّا: اختبار عزيمته في اكمال هذه المراحل السبع للوصول إلى حقيقته ولكي يصبح إنسانًا متنورًا وبعد النجاح في الاختبار ينتقل إلى المرحلة الأخيرة وهي مرحلة اليقظة الكبرى للذات (مرحلة انعدام الخوف) حيث يعيش في اتصال مع الموت ليدرك في كل لحظة قيمة ما يُمنح له.📍🎀

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الكتاب متسلسل الفكرة ولا يجب اهمال أي جزء فيه لذلك فكرة كتابة ملخص عنه غير موفقة البتة.
فكل ما كتبته لا يمكنه إيصال الفائدة المرجوة ولا فكرة الكتاب بدقة.
كل ما كتبت كان مجرد دعوة لقراءة هذا الكتاب العظيم ..📖✔

#غفران_الحمد | 🌱
#يوميات_قارئة ❤

[Mariia Manko · Rating 5 out of 5]

I just wanted to tell that I love the books of Robin Sharma. He is discovery for me in this year. His thoughts are profound , his way of thinking helps people to live happy life. His stories are made in an interesting concept of magic. His books are balanced.

I have one book more to read of this author, and I looking forward to his new books! It is my big pleasure to read them!

And never enough reading !

[Joyce · Rating 5 out of 5]

"Despierta tu mejor yo y sigue brillando"
Grande Robin Sharma!!

[Rahul Rajendran · Rating 4 out of 5]

The book has nothing at all.. Seriously nothing, to make me hate it!! Yes of course, its philosophy, and some find it boring(not all), and yet some suggested me to stop reading it, as it is meant for old people. Honestly, its a big NO to such suggestions. Youth belong to the must-read category, and I genuinely feel that it will change their lives in a better way. Don't necessarily have to follow everything mentioned, and that's not fair too. We just have to consider the facts and the methods suggested to improve our own set of regimes for life. I just started to, try to apply certain modalities I found to be resonating with my inner ideologies, and I don't bother whether they work soon, but I'm just enjoying the process.

The most favorite quote that still keeps me amazed is this:

"I saw grief drinking a cup of sorrow and called out,'It tastes sweet, doesn't it?'. 'You've caught me', grief answered, 'and you've ruined my business. How can I sell sorrow when you know it's a blessing?' "
- Rumi

I never felt the power of words this much. Maybe, I'm still ignorant. I recommend it to all. :D

[Sachi · Rating 2 out of 5]

50% of this book is basically the search result of "inspirational quotes" on Pinterest. The author keeps referring to these quotes to get his point across that life is too short and one must live it instead of just existing. The book has no character development and most of the things that the main characters says after he meets his mentor is summarizing everything the mentor just taught him that day. In fact, quite a bit of this book is repetition because the mentor or the mentee would repeat all the previous stages of self-awakening in each chapter as the mentee learns about the next step. Save yourself some time and flip to the last 2 pages of the book. It has the 7 stages of self awakening and the 5 disciplines to follow to get to those 7 stages.

[jory Abdullah · Rating 5 out of 5]

يستكمل جوليان رحلته مع الراهب وتمضي القصة شارحا فيها جوليان لصديقه جون كل الرموز السبعة وفضائلها والأساليب المتبعة لإسقاطها كمتغيرات على حياة الفرد في الجزء الثاني لأكتشاف مصيره
والنظر الى الحياة بشكل مختلف
الكثير من الدروس والحكم والقصص المؤثرة بأسلوب ممتع وسهل جدا
إن كتابة الاشياء ممارسة شديدة الاهمية لأكتشاف الذات لقد علمنا الرهبان الذي التقينا بهم أعلى الجبال الهمالايا "
عن القيمة الهائلة للتدوين اليومي لقد غير نظام حياتي تماما كما تبدو في معرفة شخص أخر بالمحادثات الطويلة معهم
فإنك بالتدوين كل صباح ستتعرف على نفسك من خلال الكتابة لقد اكتشفت ماكنت أريده
"وماكان مانعا أياي من أن أعيش أعظم حياة لي

[Mohammed Mansouri · Rating 3 out of 5]

أول كتاب أقرأه هذه السنة، روبن شارما الإنسان والكاتب الملهم الذي أحبه كثيرا وأحب أعماله وفلسفته في الحياة. في كتابه المميز هذا الذي يعتبر أحد كتب السلسلة الشهيرة "الراهب الذي باع سيارته الفيراري"، بأسلوبه القصصي الجميل(الأسلوب القصصي يعتبر أحد أنجع الوسائل التربوية في ايصال الأفكار) يأخذنا روبين في رحلة عميقة مليئة بالمعاني الجميلة والأفكار الملهمة لايقاظ الذات من وحي خبرته في الحياة كخبير عالمي في مجال القيادة والنجاح الشخصي لأكثر من 20 .سنة . كتاب لامس قلبي بشدة كجل كتبه الأخرى، لا يمكن أن تقرأ لروبين شارما ولا تستشعر لمسته الخاصة في الكتاب

[Phil Beswick · Rating 5 out of 5]

I read this in Bali when i felt lost and wondered into a book shop searching for something to inspire me. I found it-this book. I no longer question myself nor my lifes purpose, this truly is a superb thought provoking read. The hardest thing is actually deciding it is for you, the rest is easy.

[Anindya · Rating 5 out of 5]

Like 'The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari' this one too takes the readers on a self-realization journey and I liked every bit of it. Many questions that others tried to avoid or couldn't answer were so easily explained by the author in this astonishingly beautiful book. Highly recommended for everyone.

[Ahmed Nada · Rating 3 out of 5]

كتاب رائع

[Rosemary Szczygiel · Rating 2 out of 5]

Useful but troubling presentation. Spiritual advice for the rich and famous.

[Lupita Figueroa BookLoverRomantic · Rating 5 out of 5]

Maravilloso. Un libro para despertar.

[Wesam Karam · Rating 3 out of 5]

عظيم الكتاب والكاتب

[Unnati Shinde · Rating 4 out of 5]

Author- @robinsharma
One of the greatest book of Robin Sharma collection..
World is a mirror..we receive from life not what we want but who we are..you want to find mental peace? You want to know what is life and how much sacrifice is require to fulfill over desire ? You want to descover your destiny?..so this is the book in which you find all this questions answers highly recommend for those who has lots of money in there bank account but still not happy still not able to find love of inner soule... External happiness in too much small when we compare it with authentic happiness.. because at the end of life money will never give you happiness what authentic will give..
"Life is a treasure and you are so much more than you know"
These book will tell you to stop living your life as a lie be true to yourself..nd your destiny will come knocking..
Happy reading 💜📚
#robin #robinsharma #robinsharmaquotes #robinsharmabookclub #bookstagrammer #novels

[Rida Rizvi · Rating 4 out of 5]

It was a fun (enlightening) read. Came at a time when I really needed it. As they say 'when the student is ready only then life throws a teacher'. This book was lying on my tbr shelf for over a year.

Anyways, the simple concepts explained with a pragmatic approach is what makes writings of Robin Sharma most relatable. I read The Monk Who Sold his Ferrari a year ago (which is a preamble of this one). The authentication of Julian Mantle's learning and their practical manifestation can be seen when he becomes the Mentor in this one.

The 7 stages of awakening and the rules attached to internalize those stages are an excellent guide. Prime of focus of fighting the fears and living the life out of self betrayel is the key take away.

[Sofia · Rating 3 out of 5]

Para ler com muita calma e ir absorvendo cada lição que nos vai dando. Fez-me pensar e sem duvida que me fez ver algumas coisas de outra perspectiva.

[Selma Šljuka · Rating 5 out of 5]

Na putu ka spoznaji sebe ovo je knjiga koja zaista ima velikog uticaja i koju treba pročitati više od jednom. Predivna i jednostavna, puna životnih istina i spoznaja.

[Jolanta Ginsevičiūtė · Rating 5 out of 5]

Puiki knyga. Reikia gana idėmiai skaityti, nes yra labai daug gerų minčių, kurios gyvenimą paverstų gražesniu ir pilnavertiškesniu. Rekomenduoju kaip motyvuojančią priemonę. :)

[Elena Toncheva · Rating 3 out of 5]

Интересна, но някак слаба на фона на останалите творби на Шарма.

[Alberto Zapata · Rating 3 out of 5]

Buenas citas de autores y libros influyentes. Considero que mucho contenido redundante durante todos los capítulos. Fácilmente se podría resumir en 20 páginas

[Kristján Diego · Rating 1 out of 5]

100 bls inn:
Ég get ekki meira.

Uppljómaða sögupersónan, Julian, hættir ekki að segja amigo

Ég hef fengið nóg.

[Idealist- Realist · Rating 4 out of 5]

8I read this in 2008. I couldn't remember anything from this book.:D except for this excerpt that I came across from my blog.


''The whole reason we are alive is to grow into our greatest selves and rememebr the truth about who we fundamentaly are. Life will suport you perfectly in this quest.

You will be sent people,events and trials that will invite you to reveal more of your brilliance and discover more of your possibilities.


Often, our lessons will not come easily. Suffering has always been a vehicle for deep spiritual growth. Those who have endured great suffering are generally the ones who evolve into great beings. Those who have been deeply hurt by life are generally the ones who can feel the pain of others in a heartbeat. Those who have endured adversity humbled by life, and a result, are more open, comppasionate and real.

We may not like suffering when it visits us, but it serves us so very well: it cracks the shell that covers our hearts and empties us of the lies we have clung to about who we are, why we are here and how this remarkable world of our really functions.

Once emptied we can be refilled with all that is good, noble and true. Troubles can transform if we choose to allow to them to do so."

[Anil Swarup · Rating 4 out of 5]

This is a how-to-do book as the author takes the readers to a seven step journey. Robin Sharma quotes copiously from great men like Mahatma Gandhi and Martin Luther King Jr to drive home his points and does that quite successfully. The quote from Martin Luther is a seminal one : "The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of confidence but where he stands at time of challenge and controversy". The lesson he draws from Gandhi is that of simplicity, "No matter how insignificant the thing you have to do, do it as well as you can, give as much of your care and attention as you would give to the thing you regard as most important". His advocacy of passion comes through in this book as well : "Once you can develop an emotional engagement around a pursuit, rather that simply an intellectual one, the excitement flows and the energy explodes"

[Diana · Rating 3 out of 5]

2.5 stars. An easy read, which would have been easier if it wasn’t so repetitive. Nothing I haven’t heard before - except that it’s OK to enjoy nice and expensive things (as long as you don’t make that your goal). I guess looking past some outdated references and a whiff of privilege, it can be kind of comforting reading something that is idealistic, believes that people are inherently good and that the universe has your back.

I read it like it was a bedtime fairy tale for adults. Wake up. Live authentically. Take care of your body, mind, emotions and spirit. Discomfort = opportunity for growth. What you resist will persist but what you befriend, you will eventually transcend. Do your best, and let nature do the rest, accepting that whatever comes is for our own good. And we all live happily ever after. The end.