This was such a refreshing read. Instead of constantly focusing on what’s wrong with our mental health (which can feel exhausting), this book flips the script and asks what’s already going right instead.
I really liked how straightforward and approachable Dr. Conti is. He introduces the idea of our “generative drive”, which is basically the part of us that wants to grow, help others, problem solve, and feel connected, and shows how tapping into that can bring more peace and contentment into daily life. Nothing felt overly clinical or preachy.
The tools he shares, like self-inquiry, compassionate curiosity, relaxing the body, and reframing life stories, felt practical and doable rather than overwhelming. This book felt more like a supportive guide than a lecture.
I felt like this is a hopeful, grounding read that reminds us that healing doesn’t always start with fixing ourselves, but sometimes it starts with recognizing the good that’s already there.
Thank you to NetGalley, Paul Conti, and Balance for the eARC of this book.