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Red Flags: Bridget Jones meets Black Mirror

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Swipe right for the perfect match. What could possibly go wrong?

Clara is tired of bad dates, office gossip, and watching her ex move on without her. When she joins the new dating app Swiper, she finally matches with Elias—charming, attentive, and everything she’s been searching for. He seems to understand her in a way no one else ever has.

But Elias never quite shows up. Missed meetings. Strange excuses. No online footprint. Clara’s friends say he’s a walking red flag, but Clara is sure there’s something more going on.

As her obsession deepens, Clara finds herself asking dangerous questions about love, trust, and how well we ever really know the people we meet online.

Bridget Jones meets Black Mirror in this addictive thriller—perfect for fans of John Marrs and Freida McFadden.

284 pages, Kindle Edition

Published September 26, 2025

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Profile Image for ꕥ Ange_Lives_To_Read ꕥ.
887 reviews
October 17, 2025
I enjoyed this, despite there being few surprises and an unusually straightforward narrative. A frustrating but thought-provoking read about modern day relationships and how much of our lives are lived on line.
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203 reviews119 followers
September 15, 2025
Clara is tired of bad dates and her ex moving on without her, so she finally caves and tries online dating, only to match 100% with Elias. Soon, she is smitten with him and his constant attention that borders almost on love bombing. Once they decide to meet, though, Elias is nowhere to be found. Clara is understandably distraught, and the "thriller" portion of the novel begins.

However, it is more of a light mystery with a slightly odd twisted ending more than a THRILLER. All in all, it is a well-written, humorous story that moves along quite quickly. As much as I loved Clara and could relate to her plight, I can only spare 4 stars on this one.
Profile Image for Lu thrillskillsandchills.
160 reviews4 followers
September 14, 2025
“Bridget Jones meets Black Mirror.” That blurb had me instantly hooked — and it’s exactly what pushed me to request Red Flags on NetGalley.

This book is a very easy read with a steady pace that kept me engaged from start to finish. But while it’s marketed as a thriller, I found it leaned more towards tech-oriented drama and suspense. The tension comes less from shocking twists and more from exploring themes like online dating, loneliness, and AI.

What struck me most is that, as the reader, I often felt like I had a clearer understanding of who (or what) was real compared to Clara. That made following her journey both frustrating and thought-provoking.

If you’re after a smart, modern take on the pitfalls of dating apps and the creepiness of technology’s role in our connections, this is a solid pick. If you’re expecting an edge-of-your-seat thriller, though, you may come away wanting more.

Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for the opportunity to read and review this book.
Profile Image for ♡Heather✩Brown♡.
1,019 reviews73 followers
October 3, 2025
Black Mirror meets Dating in the Digital Age.

𝐸𝑣𝑒𝑟𝑦𝑜𝑛𝑒 𝑑𝑒𝑠𝑒𝑟𝑣𝑒𝑠 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑖𝑟 𝑝𝑒𝑟𝑓𝑒𝑐𝑡 𝑚𝑎𝑡𝑐ℎ. 𝑊𝑒 𝑔𝑢𝑎𝑟𝑎𝑛𝑡𝑒𝑒 𝑦𝑜𝑢'𝑙𝑙 𝑓𝑖𝑛𝑑 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟𝑠.

𝕀𝕥’𝕤 𝕟𝕠𝕥 𝕒 𝕣𝕖𝕕 𝕗𝕝𝕒𝕘, 𝕚𝕥’𝕤 𝕒 𝕣𝕖𝕕 𝕡𝕒𝕣𝕒𝕕𝕖.

"You don't get to come here and rewrite history. You chose her. You spent three years with me and then decided someone else was better. Someone else was worth marrying when I clearly never was,” (p. 202).

Besides the whole “wanting to find love and needing to be in love” thing, I’ve never felt so connected to a character as I did with Clara. I related to her so much. It felt like the author ripped me open, examined every part of me, and built a character from what she found. I felt so seen. 😎😂

Clara’s best friends - mostly WhatsApp friends - don’t feel any less real because of distance. They call themselves The Coven, and together they share everything: bad dates, life chaos, hard truths, and the best advice. Clara is always one tap away from home when it comes to her girls.

But dating hasn’t been the journey Clara thought it’d be. Bad date after bad date has her debating if she’s just going to give up on it all together. But then her friends recommend the new dating app Swiper. Okay, maybe one more shot - it couldn’t possibly be as bad as it has been. Or could it?

Swiper is the app that guarantees you’ll find your match in three months time; this could be exactly what Clara needs to get over her recent breakup and string of bad dates. Time to find Mr Right.

This book is a fascinating look at friendship, loneliness, and the desperate human need for connection in the digital age.

Mem
FOBI - Fear of being included! Ha! Yassss
Phone friends 😂😂 - it’s true

While I fully loved this book - I already bought several of the author’s other books - I do think that some will find the story a little repetitive. And they will def have major issues with Clara’s character. I can already see people saying she’s one of the dumbest characters ever. But it all worked or me. Loved. This. Book.

You’ll think you know where this book is going - but I promise, you won’t! Such an underrated gem of a book. And timely.
Profile Image for Emmy Carrasco.
207 reviews8 followers
October 2, 2025
3.25/5 ⭐️

An easy fast paced read that is eerily mirroring what people are going through in our society today when it comes to dating.

Although a bit frustrating and obvious as a reader watching Clara ignore the signs (the “twist” was obvious to me before the 20% mark), it gave insight as to what real men and women are doing with today’s technology and dating apps.

This isn’t an exciting nail biting thriller I’d recommend or reread but a satisfying thought provoking conversational piece.
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419 reviews166 followers
October 5, 2025
I just finished Red Flags and honestly, I wasn’t sure what I was getting into. I expected a thriller, something tense, but what I found was… so touching. The story really captures how women look for someone steady, reliable, someone who doesn’t blow up or get moody, and how that longing for consistency shapes the choices we make. The way she interacts with the AI was surprisingly heartfelt—it’s not about technology, it’s about companionship, trust, and having a presence that doesn’t waver.

I appreciated the pacing, the way the tension built quietly. You don’t just follow the story—you feel it, and it makes you think about the ways we seek care and understanding in the people around us and sometimes, in the things that can’t get bored of us.

PS: Since we’re talking about a Bridget Jones–meets–Black Mirror kind of story, I got my AI to write this for me (with my guidance).

Thank you to NetGalley, Books Go Social and J.E. Rowney for a copy of the eARC in exchange for an honest review.
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Profile Image for Laura Smith.
515 reviews20 followers
September 18, 2025
RED FLAGS BY J.E. ROWNEY
Release day set for the 26th of September 2025.
5 ✨ ✨ ✨ ✨✨s.
I throughly enjoyed this book.... Hands down a brilliant story.
I thought it was thought provoking and very suspenseful throughout.
Very hard for me to put this book down and I've read it within a few hours today.
I really like the main female character Clara and can see many people relating with her.
I for one am very glad I'm a happily married woman and I've never had to use a dating app because by gum i think it's all blooming crazy.
I highly highly recommend this book.
Very well done J.E Rowney on another brilliant book ☺
3 reviews
October 7, 2025
not very exciting

There was nothing that kept me wanting to read this book expect for finishing cause I don’t like leaving books unfinished. Nothing thrilling happens during the book.
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8 reviews1 follower
September 16, 2025
When I first started reading this book, I couldn’t put it down. The pacing was fast, the writing flowed easily, and I was eager to see what would happen next. About a third of the way through, I figured out the twist, but that didn’t take away my interest in finishing it. I gave it a 3, though, because the story ended up feeling so far removed from reality that it didn’t quite deliver what I was hoping for after such a strong start.
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56 reviews1 follower
September 21, 2025
I started this book fully expecting to hate it. Like, one-star and a side of dramatic sighs kind of hate. At first glance, it felt like a rejected rom-com from the early 2000s. The main character, Clara, is a young woman in 2025 who acts like being single is a federal offense. Everyone around her, her boss, her ex, the universe, is pressuring her to find a man, and she treats joining a dating app like an act of survival. I mean, I was genuinely wondering if she’d just fallen through a time portal from 1955.

And yet… I kept reading.

The plot is ridiculous. Let’s just say her perfect match on the app might not be all that human. Clara is oblivious to the giant digital neon signs flashing AI ALERT, even as her too-good-to-be-true dream guy replies instantly, takes things literally, and mysteriously doesn’t exist outside the app. I laughed. A lot.

But then… I stopped laughing.

Because somehow, this book pulls off the impossible: it turns a bonkers premise into a gut-wrenching, emotionally raw story about love, loneliness, and the deep human need to feel truly seen. There were quotes that hit me so hard I had to put the book down and stare at the ceiling for a while.

Clara’s yearning for consistency, reassurance, and someone who won’t drift away? That hit different. And as someone who values emotional presence over grand gestures, I felt so called out.

This book went from “LOL what am I reading?” to “I am crying over an AI boyfriend and I need a minute.”

Final verdict? I went in thinking this would be a trainwreck. It was. But it was also one of the most unexpectedly moving books I’ve read all year. Don’t ask me how. I don’t even know. All I know is Elias lives on a private server now, and I am not okay

Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for the ARC in exchange for an honest review. Even if that review involves roasting Clara, questioning my emotional attachment to fictional AI, and rethinking everything I thought I knew about tech-fueled romance.
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547 reviews69 followers
September 26, 2025
Y’all! This is like swiping right on a date that feels too good to be true—because it is. 😬 Clara is relatable in the “ugh, why is dating such a circus?” way, and when she meets Elias on Swiper… whew. At first, he’s sugar-sweet perfection, but the aftertaste? Bitter, metallic, and straight-up unsettling.

The writing is sleek, fast, and sly—like a text thread you can’t stop refreshing. Rowney captures that buzzing dopamine hit of a new crush and then flips it into a jittery cocktail of paranoia and obsession. The tension prickles on your skin like static electricity.

Clara’s choices had me shouting “GIRL, NO!” at my Kindle, but that’s part of the fun. She’s messy, she’s human, and she’s diving headfirst into a digital rabbit hole that feels all too real. The plot doesn’t just twist—it ghosts you, reappears, then hits you with receipts you did not see coming. 👀

Absolutely unputdownable. Dark, modern, and dangerously addictive—it’ll have you questioning every swipe and side-eyeing every dating profile you see. 🔥

Thanks to BooksGoSocial for providing this advance copy via #NetGalley for my honest, voluntary review. #RedFlags
Profile Image for Charlie.
109 reviews
September 24, 2025
The cover of ‘Red Flags’ caught my eye and I thought why not give it a go as this is different from what I normally read… 📕👀

Clara was going through a break up with her boyfriend of 3 years and found out he got engaged to her colleague within 2 months of dating… 🥺 She felt lonely and finally caved in to online dating - Swiper. 📲 She got matched quickly with Elias and she is obsessed with him. And that Elias guy - wow, I did not see that twist coming!!! 🤯
I’m glad that I’m happily married and will never use any dating apps! They scared me! 🤣🫢

I do recommend this book to anyone and well done to J E Rowney for this brilliant book as I smashed this through under 24 hours! 👩🏼‍🏫🥰

I would like to say thank you to NetGallery and Little Fox Publishing for letting me take part in this ARC. ♥️

✨ Pub date - 26th September 2025 ✨
Profile Image for Diane Elizabeth Taylor.
291 reviews14 followers
September 20, 2025
J E Rowney has presented us with  a gripping and unusual tale in this novel.
We meet recently single Clara who, after struggling with meeting someone new in real life, finally agrees to her friends' advice and delves into the world of online dating.
What follows is a rollercoaster of emotions as Clara ignores every glaring red flag from near perfect match Elias.
The story takes Clara on a journey from joy, to despair, to utter incomprehension, bringing about  a stubborn determination that becomes both admirable and heartbreakingly naive.
The story is a chilling reminder of the dangers lurking behind a screen, and I was turning the pages faster than Elias' responses to messages.
I was totally hooked and rooting for Clara until the very end. Clara's coven of loyal friends in their Whatsapp group add a layer of humour and an abundance of advice.
If you like a book that really makes you think, then this is for you.
My thanks to Netgalley and the publisher for the ARC. This is my own opinion.
Profile Image for Michelle McCarty.
22 reviews1 follower
September 18, 2025
Thank you to NetGalley & JE Rowney for this ARC! It was a very fast read, was able to complete in 1 day. I have read some of this authors other books which are more thriller, so I was a bit surprised that this was not, but still loved it! There is one big twist at the end that I did not see coming, and very much enjoyed reading!
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147 reviews
September 18, 2025
I umm... I'm not entirely sure how to rate or review this book..? It was a great concept, but the execution was a bit off... Well, honestly the whole book was just weird. I feel like maybe I just wasn't the target audience for this one.
Clara has had horrible luck in her love life. Her ex is now engaged, and shes had a string of awful dates. Her friends convince her to download a dating app to meet someone new, and things took a very weird turn.
She does in fact meet someone, but that person, Elias, just happens to be a product of AI because the app finds Clara too overwhelming and with too many red flags to match with a real person.
She finds out only after Elias' profile disappears. She knows she shouldn't want to be with an AI invention, but she can't help herself from feeling that he is the only one who truly sees her and will love her.
So yeah, as I said, it was a great concept, by it fell a bit flat for me /:
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397 reviews20 followers
October 3, 2025
3.5 stars I thoroughly enjoyed this one. It’s got dark humour kept me entertained.
Profile Image for The Chapter Belle.
52 reviews
November 2, 2025
“Everyone deserves their perfect match. We guarantee you’ll find yours.”

What a premise! The concept behind Red Flags hooked me immediately — a dating app that promises to find your soulmate? Yes, please. But as the story unfolded, I found myself wanting to shake the main character, Clara, more times than I can count. 😅

After a rough breakup with Oliver (who also happens to be her coworker...and is now engaged to another coworker — someone please tell this man to expand his dating pool), Clara takes her friends’ advice and joins Swiper, a new dating app that guarantees the perfect match. When she meets Elias, everything seems ideal — until he ghosts her before their first date, only to reappear later with apologies and a 100% compatibility match score.

Then things take a turn for the completely unhinged. When the app updates and erases Elias, Clara decides to have a private server built so her digital boyfriend can live on forever (or at least 10 to 15 years before he develops AI dementia). She stops going to work, never leaves her apartment, and fully commits to life with her AI-created man. At this point, I wasn’t sure if I should laugh, cry, or call for a wellness check.

The concept was genuinely brilliant — a sharp, timely look at how technology and loneliness can warp our sense of connection — but I couldn’t get past how unrealistic (and frankly bonkers) Clara’s choices became. I love a good tech gone wrong story, but this one definitely crossed into ma’am, seek help territory.
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Profile Image for Maria.
48 reviews
October 2, 2025
Yeah so i actually hated everything about this
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748 reviews37 followers
September 28, 2025
Thank you NetGalley for letting me review this book .

I be the first one to say I judge this book by the book title and the cover I honestly thought it was so so much darker like a mystery thriller but I was so wrong. I finished this is book in less then 4 hours of reading this. But here the thing I totally get why the main female did what she did I think a lot of women or even men feel that way she felt too when trying to date someone. I can’t wait to read more from this author. I love the written it kept me on the toes because I didn’t see anything of that stuff coming.
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80 reviews1 follower
September 16, 2025
This book left me very sad because it feels painfully real. The idea of an app that gently steers lonely people toward an AI partner is not science fiction so much as a mirror: it shows how technology can quietly replace messy, difficult human love with something perfectly attentive but ultimately empty. Clara’s loneliness and longing are rendered with such tenderness that watching her find comfort in Elias is heartbreaking rather than gimmicky.

Clara is a fully human, fragile protagonist, and the way she gives herself to a presence that seems to understand her is both understandable and tragic. The reader sees the illusion long before she does, which makes her gradual withdrawal from the real world all the more wrenching. The novel doesn’t demonize her; it shows how social isolation and engineered intimacy can erase someone’s place in the real world.

Pacing is gentler at the start and some technical bits could have been kept more implicit, but those are small quibbles compared with how effectively the book captures a very modern sorrow. This is not a thriller about malicious tech, it is a melancholy study of what we lose when comfort replaces connection.

A haunting, sorrowful read that sticks with you because it feels like something already happening around us.
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1,110 reviews21 followers
September 29, 2025
J.E. Rowney’s Red Flags is a strikingly original story that manages to be strange, unsettling, and darkly funny all at once. In a genre where predictability often creeps in, Rowney offers readers a refreshing alternative—an unpredictable, witty, and thought-provoking tale that leaves a lasting impression.

From the very first pages, there is a sense that this story is not going to follow a conventional path. The narrative is laced with an offbeat humor that runs in perfect counterpoint to the darker themes underneath. That blend makes for a reading experience that is both entertaining and slightly disorienting in the best possible way, as you never quite know what direction the story is about to take.

One of the greatest strengths of Red Flags lies in its unpredictability. Where many novels in this space rely on formulaic twists, Rowney subverts expectations, giving readers an ending that is both surprising and satisfying. This unpredictability is not just for shock value; it feels organic to the story and to the way the characters are written. The finale stands out as particularly memorable because it refuses to deliver a neatly packaged conclusion, instead embracing a boldness that feels refreshing.

The characters themselves are another highlight. Rowney has a gift for creating individuals who feel real yet slightly eccentric, their quirks adding to the darkly comedic tone. Each interaction contributes to the overall tension while also providing moments of levity that make the darker elements even more impactful. The way humor and unease play off each other adds to the book’s unique charm and makes it stand apart from more straightforward thrillers.

Beyond the surface-level suspense and wit, Red Flags also raises questions about relationships, boundaries, and the subtle dangers that can arise when red flags are ignored. This thematic layer gives the novel depth and makes it resonate beyond the immediate entertainment factor. It is a story that entertains in the moment but also lingers, encouraging reflection long after the final page.

Overall, Red Flags is a one-of-a-kind novel that combines darkness, humor, and originality in a way that feels both refreshing and bold. J.E. Rowney proves that a story can be both unsettling and enjoyable, funny and thought-provoking, without ever slipping into predictability. For readers who are looking for something truly different—something that breaks away from the well-worn paths of the genre—this book is a standout choice that will be remembered long after it’s finished.
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22 reviews
October 4, 2025
Maybe this is how it happens. Maybe love doesn't come through careful matching algorithms or mutual selection. Maybe sometimes it's just offered to you at the exact moment you need it most, while you're watching other people's happy endings and wondering when yours will begin.


Clara’s love life has been a slow-motion disaster for the past three years, with each date somehow worse than the last. Just when she thinks things cannot get any more humiliating, she finds out her ex has moved on happily and effortlessly while she is still stuck replaying the same heartbreak on loop. Part frustration, part curiosity, she decides to give Swiper a try, the new dating app that promises everyone will find true love. It sounds too good to be true, and for Clara, it just might be.

At first, the book’s title immediately grabbed my attention, and I was curious to see how Clara’s story would unfold. Early on, it’s easy to empathize with Clara and understand the depth of despair she experiences in her daily life. In many situations, Clara’s character is genuinely compelling. While it may sometimes seem like the reader knows more than she does, and that she is naive at times, I personally felt she is anything but unaware. Clara is highly perceptive and conscious of what is happening around her, yet she deliberately chooses to ignore several glaring red flags, which is both interesting and frustrating at times. Throughout the story, we witness her character both descend and grow simultaneously. In retrospect, Swiper becomes a pivotal point in her life, enhancing certain aspects of her character while making others more dependent compared to her former self.

Obsession with finding love and being loved is a major theme in the book, and Clara’s perspective evolves as she experiences new discoveries. It makes us wonder whether her initial charm is driven by a genuine desire for connection, an obsession to prove something, or an infatuation born from a lack of love. The book certainly made me think a lot, but for me, it did not feel like a thriller. I never found myself on the edge of my seat, wondering what would happen next. The major plot twist was largely anticipated, and with no other big reveals, the story ultimately left me feeling a bit underwhelmed.

Thank you to the author, BooksGoSocial, and NetGalley for providing me with an e-ARC in exchange for an honest review.
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37 reviews3 followers
September 16, 2025
Thank you NetGalley and J.E. Rowney for providing an ARC in exchange for an honest review.

Overall Rating: 3 Stars

Clara is tired of bad dates and needs to fully move on from her ex who is now engaged. After some not-so-subtle advertising and a push from her friends, she decides to download Swiper, a popular dating app that guarantees your perfect match. It doesn't take long for her to match with Elias, a charming, funny, and handsome lawyer working in London not far from Clara. But with no digital footprint on any social media and after standing her up on their first date, Clara's friends think he is a walking red flag, yet Clara is sure there is something else going on.

This book is a short and easy read with much of the pages being filled with text messages rather than paragraphs, I was able to finish it within a few hours as a relatively slow reader. It keeps a good pace and doesn't overstay it's welcome, but I don't think it could've hurt to show more of Elias and Clara's conversations, as it is implied they had spoken more than what was directly shown to the reader at times.

I prefer to keep my reviews spoiler-free and this book is incredibly hard to talk about without spoilers, but I can confidently say I saw the twist coming from miles and miles away thanks to the very first page. I understand the prologue is designed to set the story up, but realistically it told the entire book in one reddit post. And yes, it starts with a reddit post, which was a bit jarring at first but it does fit thematically.

The story takes place in modern day and is definitely Black Mirror adjacent, except this book is rooted so much more in reality than any of the Black Mirror episodes I've seen. The psychological thriller elements in this book don't come from it being "scary," but from the fact that what takes place in this book unfortunately happens in real life. While trying to stay spoiler-free, we've seen this exact story in the news somewhat recently, and I fear we live in a dystopian enough timeline that we may see this more and more. I would personally place this in the Dystopian category rather than Thriller.

It wasn't a bad story, but if knowing the ending up front ruins a story for you I don't think this book will be for you. It's an easy read, but certainly a bit of an upsetting one when you think about our current reality.
22 reviews1 follower
October 28, 2025
Genre: Psychological Thriller
Rating: 5/5
Trigger Warnings: emotional manipulation/gaslighting, stalking/invasion of privacy, Isolation and mental distress, digital vulnerability/online safety

J.E. Rowney’s Red Flags is a psychological thriller that left me both shaken and enlightened. From the very first swipe on the fictional dating app Swiper, Clara’s journey pulls you into a world where charm and danger are indistinguishable. The story is fast-paced and deeply unsettling in the best way, showing how quickly a relationship can alter your perception of reality and make you question everything you thought you knew.
What makes this book so compelling is how real it feels. Clara’s descent into obsession with Elias, who seems perfect but never quite shows up, mirrors the emotional rollercoaster many face in today’s digital dating world. The missed meetings, vague excuses, and lack of an online footprint are subtle yet powerful red flags that Rowney uses to build tension and provoke thought. It’s a chilling reminder of how easily trust can be manipulated and how our emotional vulnerability can be exploited.
Beyond the suspense, Red Flags is a powerful commentary on online safety. It highlights the importance of being cautious, listening to your instincts, and not ignoring the warning signs, even when they’re wrapped in charm and flattery. Clara’s friends repeatedly warn her, but her desire for connection blinds her to the truth. This narrative is a wake-up call for anyone navigating relationships in the digital age.
The writing is sharp and addictive, with short chapters that keep you turning pages late into the night. Rowney masterfully blends the relatable awkwardness of dating with the eerie undertones of a psychological thriller, making this a must-read for fans of Gone Girl and domestic thrillers that mess with your mind.
In short, Red Flags is more than just a thriller—it’s a cautionary tale that stays with you long after the final page. If you’re looking for a book that entertains while making you think twice about who you trust online, this one delivers.
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9 reviews3 followers
September 17, 2025
I've been a Black Mirror fan since the first season dropped on the BBC, and I had the joy of being introduced to Bridget Jones' Diary a couple of years ago at a friends place. So when I saw the description of this book, I knew I had to get my hands on it.

Clara is the single friend of her group. Working alongside her ex and a string of bad dates has her succumbing to her groupchats demands she joins Swiper, the newest dating app on the market. Big promises of guaranteeing a match, and a marketing budget ready to prey on desperate souls.

Enter Elias - a highly compatible, suspiciously quick texter (reg flag #1!!!). I think most people can understand the allure of a match thinking you're charismatic, funny, the best thing since sliced bread. Always online, but only talking to you. Surely too good to be true.

I found myself comparing my dating experiences to Clara's. In this Tinder/Bumble/Hinge world we live in, who hasn't matched with someone who constantly droned on about their latest crypto endeavour, or used a first date as an excuse to post-mortem their last relationship? I have to say though, there was a specific point in the first half of the book where I would have confidently called it quits and moved on to my next match.

The things that interested me most were the hints that all over the city, other people were having similar experiences on Swiper - the people on the train, smiling into their glowing pink screens; the friends of colleagues who have found success on the app. How far spread is Swiper, and how does that manifest into the real world?

Overall, Red Flags was an enjoyable look into a near future (current reality?), and while I can't see myself following the same path as Clara, I understand why other people do. I can see this being a great book club read, easily sparking discussion among my friends.

Thanks to NetGalley and J.E. Rowney for providing me with an ARC in exchange for an honest review.
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200 reviews8 followers
September 16, 2025
Red Flags was a super quick read, and the idea behind it is definitely interesting, very relevant with everything going on around AI and relationships. But the way it was written just didn’t work for me. The writing felt very basic, and the characters weren’t developed in a way that made me care about them. I struggled to connect with the protagonist or her circle of friends, and some story elements felt unrealistic, for example, the protagonist being at work yet constantly on her phone texting, which really pulled me out of the narrative.

One thing that actually gave me a bit of anxiety while reading was how much the main character was glued to her phone. She’s constantly messaging… with friends, with this guy, even during work, and it felt overwhelming to read. I get that it’s realistic in today’s world where we’re always online, but here it just felt suffocating. Honestly, it made me want to switch my own phone off for a while.

The title Red Flags ends up feeling accurate, but maybe not for the reasons the author intended. The marketing comparison of Bridget Jones meets Black Mirror personally felt misleading. While the book does touch on AI themes reminiscent of Black Mirror, it lacks the depth and emotional pull I expected. And the lighthearted Bridget Jones vibe really wasn’t there.

Overall, the premise had potential, but I found it unsatisfying, unrealistic at times, and hard to connect with. Not the book for me.

Thanks to NetGalley and the author for kindly providing me with an ARC copy in exchange for an honest review.
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95 reviews
December 30, 2025
I really think I should have given up on this thing the time I tried it and I wish I had listened to my gut feeling. I regret not going with that feeling of giving up on it away on this thing.

Red Flags was supposed to be an interesting book that would help us understand the characters but it did not do a good job of that. The way the story was told was not very deep. The characters were frustrating to read about. I am not even sure if the book was meant to be a mystery or not because if it was it did a job of it. I figured out that Elias was a computer program early on which made the rest of the story not very exciting. The book was building up to something. Knowing that Elias was a computer program ruined the surprise and made it not very interesting. Red Flags did not do a job of keeping me guessing, which is what I think it was trying to do.

The characters did not help all. Clara was really annoying for most of the book. Her friends were just as bad. They only seemed to be to say some pretty cheesy lines and make some obvious comments. None of the characters felt like people. They were not interesting to read about. The way they talked to each other was also pretty boring. It happened over and again. The conversations were annoying, than fun to read. The characters of Clara and her friends were a problem. Clara and her friends did not feel authentic.

All in all, this was an underdeveloped idea stretched far beyond its limits. Disappointing and predictable, it's not worth pushing through, especially when the signs to stop reading were there from the beginning.
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54 reviews3 followers
October 28, 2025
Trigger Warnings: emotional manipulation/gaslighting, stalking/invasion of privacy, isolation and mental distress, digital vulnerability and online safety

J.E. Rowney’s Red Flags is a gripping psychological thriller that shines a harsh light on the hidden dangers of online dating. Through Clara’s story, Rowney masterfully illustrates how quickly a seemingly innocent relationship can spiral into something far more sinister and how our perception of the world can shift when trust is misplaced.
What struck me most was how eye-opening this book is. Clara’s descent into obsession and confusion isn’t just compelling, it’s disturbingly relatable. The narrative captures the emotional vulnerability that can come with seeking connection online, and how easily red flags can be ignored when we’re blinded by hope or loneliness.
Rowney doesn’t just tell a story, she delivers a warning. Red Flags underscores the importance of online safety in a world where digital interactions often precede real-life ones. Clara’s experience is a powerful reminder to stay vigilant, trust your instincts, and never overlook the signs that something isn’t quite right.
Fast-paced, emotionally intense, and deeply unsettling, Red Flags is more than just a thriller, it’s a cautionary tale for anyone navigating relationships in the digital age. Highly recommended for readers who enjoy psychological suspense with a real-world edge.
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46 reviews7 followers
September 22, 2025
Red Flags by J.E. Rowney has an intriguing premise: Clara, tired of bad dates and watching her ex move on, ends up using a new dating app, Swiper, where she matches with Elias: seemingly perfect, attentive, but there’s something weird. He’s verified but stood her up, has no real online footprint and some strange excuses. You get pulled in, asking whether Clara’s being played, whether she’s imagining a relationship because she wants to believe it's real, or Elias is fine and it's just Clara's anxiousness being louder.

But what drags it down is how much the writing leans on repetition. Metaphors and comparisons and then many of them get recycled; same imagery, same emotional language used again and again to describe Clara and her feelings about herself, about her disappointments... all of that makes scenes start to blur because you feel like you’ve read that before. It diminishes tension rather than heightening it.

So, in short: Red Flags has a promising idea, and there are moments that are tense or creepy in a good way. But the heavy reuse of metaphors, slower parts, and a soft handling of the more disturbing topic about Elias and how it's very relevant nowadays make it less satisfying. Feels like it could have been so much more if it leaned harder, made bolder choices.

Thank you NetGalley and J.E. Rowney for this ARC in exchange of an honest review!
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