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291 pages, Kindle Edition
Published May 7, 2026
They teach you in AA that addiction is hereditary. That one way or another this insatiable yearning opens up within us and sobriety is learning to live with the reality it will never be filled. But I left the conversation with Mum feeling so angry. So enraged. The way Yarl’s Wood security walked me out of the visiting area. The smiles from the receptionist as I left. The normality. Acceptance that this place can exist. I hate it all. I hate the politeness of this country. I hate having a stiff upper lip and pretending these systems are acceptable. That we can’t all agree that removal centres should not exist, and are neither discussion worthy or vote dependent, but stand as lessons that humanity should never put in place again. Then there’s Mum and her f*** generation. Why is pain such a taboo? Why are we told stories but never allowed to ask details? Why is it so hard for her to admit for once in her life that she is suffering?