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Até parece que é amor – Um fake dating divertido sobre se apaixonar inesperadamente em meio a incertezas
A avó de Elle, Lovie, cuida da neta desde antes que Elle se lembra. Mas é justamente aí que está o lembrar. Com o Alzheimer de Lovie avançando rapidamente, é a vez de Elle assumir os cuidados. Deixando Chicago para trás, a última coisa que Elle esperava ao entrar na casa onde cresceu era encontrar um desconhecido dormindo na cama dela.
Adam Wheeler acabou de ser contratado como enfermeiro de cuidado integral de Lovie e está ali para ajudá-la a comer, tomar os remédios, dormir e repetir a mesma rotina no dia seguinte. Mas, após uma primeira impressão tenebrosa, a convivência vinte e quatro horas por dia entre Elle e Adam parece que não vai ser nada fácil.
E as coisas só se complicam quando Lovie, mergulhada em lembranças confusas, jura que os dois estão apaixonados. Convencidos de que logo tudo estará esquecido, Elle e Adam decidem seguir com o teatro, para não abalar a idosa. O problema? Ela não esquece.
Agora, os dois terão que continuar fingindo. Mas se Lovie é a única que acredita que esse namoro de mentira é real, então por que Elle começa a pensar em Adam mais do que gostaria? E por que, a cada dia, parece menos uma encenação e mais uma possibilidade?
Adam Wheeler acabou de ser contratado como enfermeiro de cuidado integral de Lovie e está ali para ajudá-la a comer, tomar os remédios, dormir e repetir a mesma rotina no dia seguinte. Mas, após uma primeira impressão tenebrosa, a convivência vinte e quatro horas por dia entre Elle e Adam parece que não vai ser nada fácil.
E as coisas só se complicam quando Lovie, mergulhada em lembranças confusas, jura que os dois estão apaixonados. Convencidos de que logo tudo estará esquecido, Elle e Adam decidem seguir com o teatro, para não abalar a idosa. O problema? Ela não esquece.
Agora, os dois terão que continuar fingindo. Mas se Lovie é a única que acredita que esse namoro de mentira é real, então por que Elle começa a pensar em Adam mais do que gostaria? E por que, a cada dia, parece menos uma encenação e mais uma possibilidade?
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First published March 18, 2025
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Megan Murphy
2 books116 followersMegan Murphy grew up in small-town Kentucky, aside from a short stint in northern Indiana, which became the basis for her debut novel.
When she’s not writing (or reading) swoony, laugh-out-loud contemporary romances, Megan works as a business analyst. She’s most at home, well, at home, with her husband and rescue dog, or enjoying a concert or local festival.
Megan also writes under the name Megan Avery.
When she’s not writing (or reading) swoony, laugh-out-loud contemporary romances, Megan works as a business analyst. She’s most at home, well, at home, with her husband and rescue dog, or enjoying a concert or local festival.
Megan also writes under the name Megan Avery.
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April 25, 2025
Fake It Like You Mean It is an emotional rollercoaster wrapped in a heartwarming, fake-dating romance that strikes the perfect balance between laughter, tension, and tear-jerking moments. Megan Murphy crafts a deeply moving story centered on Elle, a woman who returns to her childhood home to care for her grandmother, Lovie, whose battle with Alzheimer’s is rapidly worsening. But Elle's world is further shaken when she finds Adam Wheeler, Lovie’s live-in nurse, occupying her old bedroom.
Elle and Adam's dynamic is delightfully entertaining, starting with their sharp-tongued banter and instant dislike, all the way to the slow, burning realization that there might be more between them than just playing pretend. When Lovie becomes convinced that they’re a couple, the two decide to humor her, playing along in what becomes an unexpectedly intimate and tension-filled fake relationship. As they care for Lovie together, their lives intertwine in a way that feels inevitable and real.
The romance between Elle and Adam feels authentic—it's not just a case of enemies becoming lovers for the sake of the trope. Instead, their relationship evolves naturally through shared moments of vulnerability, humor, and care. Murphy’s portrayal of Alzheimer’s is both compassionate and heartbreaking, making Lovie’s character a true anchor for the story. Her lucid moments and confusion are depicted with a tenderness that will resonate with anyone who has witnessed a loved one slip away to dementia.
Beyond the romance, the book explores the pain of watching someone you love fade away and the sense of loss that comes with it. Elle’s journey is not only about love but also about finding her own identity as she navigates grief, memory, and the weight of family responsibilities.
For fans of fake-dating and slow-burn romances, this book is an absolute gem. It offers all the light-hearted moments you'd expect from a rom-com, but it also provides so much more with its emotional depth and relatable characters. Fake It Like You Mean It is a heartfelt story about love in all its forms—romantic, familial, and self-love—making it a must-read for anyone looking for a story that will make them laugh, cry, and fall in love all over again.
Many thanks to NetGalley and Alcove Press for sharing this entertaining romance' s digital reviewer copy with me in exchange of my honest thoughts I highly appreciate.
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Elle and Adam's dynamic is delightfully entertaining, starting with their sharp-tongued banter and instant dislike, all the way to the slow, burning realization that there might be more between them than just playing pretend. When Lovie becomes convinced that they’re a couple, the two decide to humor her, playing along in what becomes an unexpectedly intimate and tension-filled fake relationship. As they care for Lovie together, their lives intertwine in a way that feels inevitable and real.
The romance between Elle and Adam feels authentic—it's not just a case of enemies becoming lovers for the sake of the trope. Instead, their relationship evolves naturally through shared moments of vulnerability, humor, and care. Murphy’s portrayal of Alzheimer’s is both compassionate and heartbreaking, making Lovie’s character a true anchor for the story. Her lucid moments and confusion are depicted with a tenderness that will resonate with anyone who has witnessed a loved one slip away to dementia.
Beyond the romance, the book explores the pain of watching someone you love fade away and the sense of loss that comes with it. Elle’s journey is not only about love but also about finding her own identity as she navigates grief, memory, and the weight of family responsibilities.
For fans of fake-dating and slow-burn romances, this book is an absolute gem. It offers all the light-hearted moments you'd expect from a rom-com, but it also provides so much more with its emotional depth and relatable characters. Fake It Like You Mean It is a heartfelt story about love in all its forms—romantic, familial, and self-love—making it a must-read for anyone looking for a story that will make them laugh, cry, and fall in love all over again.
Many thanks to NetGalley and Alcove Press for sharing this entertaining romance' s digital reviewer copy with me in exchange of my honest thoughts I highly appreciate.
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January 14, 2025
"𝙒𝙚𝙖𝙧 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙡𝙞𝙥𝙨𝙩𝙞𝙘𝙠 💄,𝙠𝙞𝙨𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙜𝙪𝙮,𝙈𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙢𝙞𝙨𝙩𝙖𝙠𝙚𝙨 , 𝙀𝙨𝙥𝙚𝙘𝙞𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙛𝙪𝙣 𝙤𝙣𝙚𝙨 "
Elle is a podcaster girl moving to her grandpernts' house to stay with her alzheimer's grandmother -Lovie-finding a man in her bed that first night at lovie's house was the begining of her love story with Adam Wheeler .
𝘾𝙖𝙧𝙤𝙡𝙮𝙣 𝙈𝙞𝙘𝙝𝙚𝙡𝙡𝙚 𝙈𝙤𝙣𝙖𝙧𝙤𝙚 (𝙀𝙡𝙡𝙚):I could say she is a little bit a bad girl,she lived with Lovie and Bobby (the names of her grandpernts are so cutie ik)cuz her parents got died in an accident thus Elle fears driving ,her relationship get worse with Lovie,she always says that her grand-daughter has big thighs 😂.
𝘼𝙙𝙖𝙢 𝙒𝙝𝙚𝙚𝙡𝙚𝙧: a health nurse ,he works for AngelCare so he goes to give care to patients at their homes ,A caring person with two jobes ,He is weird when it comes to his realtionship with social media,I CHOKED WHEN HE SUGGESTED Netflix and chill in one of the best chapiters (chapiter 35).
"𝙎𝙬𝙚𝙚𝙥𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙪𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙧𝙪𝙜 𝙙𝙤𝙚𝙨 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙢𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙞𝙩 𝙜𝙤 𝙖𝙬𝙖𝙮 ,𝙞𝙩 𝙟𝙪𝙨𝙩 𝙥𝙪𝙩𝙨 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙙𝙞𝙧𝙩 𝙞𝙣 𝙖𝙣𝙤𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧 𝙥𝙡𝙖𝙘𝙚 "
The story was so fluffy,I really loved it,I never sensed the tension of animasity between the the MCs at all ,how could Adam be an enemy and he cooks everyday and prepares smoothie everymorning huuuh 😛.
"𝘽𝙚𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙩𝙚𝙙 𝙡𝙞𝙠𝙚 𝙖 𝙦𝙪𝙚𝙚𝙣 𝙨𝙤𝙪𝙣𝙙𝙨 𝙛𝙪𝙣 𝙪𝙣𝙩𝙞𝙡 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙧𝙚𝙢𝙚𝙢𝙗𝙚𝙧 𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙝𝙚𝙖𝙙𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙝𝙖𝙙 𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙩𝙤 𝙢𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙞𝙩 𝙝𝙖𝙥𝙥𝙚𝙣"
𝘿𝙖𝙠𝙤𝙩𝙖 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙡𝙞𝙨𝙨 are a good add to the story ,they are so funny even 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙣𝙞𝙚𝙘𝙚𝙨 𝙤𝙛 𝘼𝙙𝙖𝙢 ,they always hint that there is something between Adam and Elle who always lies to escape by the skin of her teeth the gossip of her best friends Dakota and liss.
𝙋𝙤𝙫:
"𝙄𝙛 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙬𝙖𝙣𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙩𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙨𝙘𝙚𝙣𝙞𝙘 𝙧𝙤𝙪𝙩𝙚 ,𝙢𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙨𝙪𝙧𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙙𝙚𝙨𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙨𝙩𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙗𝙚 𝙤𝙥𝙚𝙣 𝙬𝙝𝙚𝙣 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙜𝙚𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚."
The book is so powerful and moving ,ik the story will stay with me for a long time,I was particularly imprssed by the characters developement,the plot twists and the author's use of language but the order of certain chapiter's could benefit from some rearrangement (some chapiters could be grouped in one chapiter) cuz ones are too short.
*Gonna read this cuz of the cover just to imagine how a love story would be with a nurse 🙄
*Thanks 𝙉𝙚𝙩𝙂𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙚𝙮 for the 𝘼𝙍𝘾
Elle is a podcaster girl moving to her grandpernts' house to stay with her alzheimer's grandmother -Lovie-finding a man in her bed that first night at lovie's house was the begining of her love story with Adam Wheeler .
𝘾𝙖𝙧𝙤𝙡𝙮𝙣 𝙈𝙞𝙘𝙝𝙚𝙡𝙡𝙚 𝙈𝙤𝙣𝙖𝙧𝙤𝙚 (𝙀𝙡𝙡𝙚):I could say she is a little bit a bad girl,she lived with Lovie and Bobby (the names of her grandpernts are so cutie ik)cuz her parents got died in an accident thus Elle fears driving ,her relationship get worse with Lovie,she always says that her grand-daughter has big thighs 😂.
𝘼𝙙𝙖𝙢 𝙒𝙝𝙚𝙚𝙡𝙚𝙧: a health nurse ,he works for AngelCare so he goes to give care to patients at their homes ,A caring person with two jobes ,He is weird when it comes to his realtionship with social media,I CHOKED WHEN HE SUGGESTED Netflix and chill in one of the best chapiters (chapiter 35).
"𝙎𝙬𝙚𝙚𝙥𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙪𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙧𝙪𝙜 𝙙𝙤𝙚𝙨 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙢𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙞𝙩 𝙜𝙤 𝙖𝙬𝙖𝙮 ,𝙞𝙩 𝙟𝙪𝙨𝙩 𝙥𝙪𝙩𝙨 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙙𝙞𝙧𝙩 𝙞𝙣 𝙖𝙣𝙤𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧 𝙥𝙡𝙖𝙘𝙚 "
The story was so fluffy,I really loved it,I never sensed the tension of animasity between the the MCs at all ,how could Adam be an enemy and he cooks everyday and prepares smoothie everymorning huuuh 😛.
"𝘽𝙚𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙩𝙚𝙙 𝙡𝙞𝙠𝙚 𝙖 𝙦𝙪𝙚𝙚𝙣 𝙨𝙤𝙪𝙣𝙙𝙨 𝙛𝙪𝙣 𝙪𝙣𝙩𝙞𝙡 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙧𝙚𝙢𝙚𝙢𝙗𝙚𝙧 𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙝𝙚𝙖𝙙𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙝𝙖𝙙 𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙩𝙤 𝙢𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙞𝙩 𝙝𝙖𝙥𝙥𝙚𝙣"
𝘿𝙖𝙠𝙤𝙩𝙖 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙡𝙞𝙨𝙨 are a good add to the story ,they are so funny even 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙣𝙞𝙚𝙘𝙚𝙨 𝙤𝙛 𝘼𝙙𝙖𝙢 ,they always hint that there is something between Adam and Elle who always lies to escape by the skin of her teeth the gossip of her best friends Dakota and liss.
𝙋𝙤𝙫:
"𝙄𝙛 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙬𝙖𝙣𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙩𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙨𝙘𝙚𝙣𝙞𝙘 𝙧𝙤𝙪𝙩𝙚 ,𝙢𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙨𝙪𝙧𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙙𝙚𝙨𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙨𝙩𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙗𝙚 𝙤𝙥𝙚𝙣 𝙬𝙝𝙚𝙣 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙜𝙚𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚."
The book is so powerful and moving ,ik the story will stay with me for a long time,I was particularly imprssed by the characters developement,the plot twists and the author's use of language but the order of certain chapiter's could benefit from some rearrangement (some chapiters could be grouped in one chapiter) cuz ones are too short.
*Gonna read this cuz of the cover just to imagine how a love story would be with a nurse 🙄
*Thanks 𝙉𝙚𝙩𝙂𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙚𝙮 for the 𝘼𝙍𝘾
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June 16, 2025
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i've been craving a fake dating trope romance book and found that my request for this arc had been approved a while back so, here i am, super excited for this! the synopsis sounds promising and the cover is already calling out to me, can't wait~! 🤭💞
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Many thanks to NetGalley, the publisher and author for giving me a copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.
i've been craving a fake dating trope romance book and found that my request for this arc had been approved a while back so, here i am, super excited for this! the synopsis sounds promising and the cover is already calling out to me, can't wait~! 🤭💞
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Many thanks to NetGalley, the publisher and author for giving me a copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.
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December 4, 2025I wrote this. It's very cute. Would recommend. Adam and Elle have been mine for so long, and I'm tickled blue that they're finally yours, too. Keep them safe for me.
March 23, 2025
Happy Release Day!
3,5 stars
There were a lot of things in this book that worked well. Unfortunately the romance was not one of them.
Elle moves back to her childhood home to care for her grandmother, who has Alzheimer. As it turns out, there’s a hot nurse living in her bedroom.
I couldn’t understand why Elle was so hostile towards Adam. Especially since she kept on objectifying him and dropping her vibrator in his presence, (which was a little cringe tbh). He was also a little rude and it was all so unnecessary, I hate forced enemies to lovers! They did have some chemistry, and I liked them, but I didn’t love them together.
What I really appreciated in this book was the part about caring for Elle’s grandmother Lovie. Elle’s struggles with accepting her situation were the most interesting, even if heartbreaking parts of this book. I liked Adam’s part in it too, he was supportive, understanding and very book-boyfriendy. They could have been friends all along, there was no need to create a fake conflict at the beginning.
There were a few plot holes and some not quite thought through bits, but overall it’s a solid debut and I might give this author another chance one day.
I received a complimentary copy of this book. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own.
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Approved for the arc 🥳 🎉🎊
Love me a fake dating romance 😍 thanks NetGalley and Alcove Press 💜
3,5 stars
There were a lot of things in this book that worked well. Unfortunately the romance was not one of them.
Elle moves back to her childhood home to care for her grandmother, who has Alzheimer. As it turns out, there’s a hot nurse living in her bedroom.
I couldn’t understand why Elle was so hostile towards Adam. Especially since she kept on objectifying him and dropping her vibrator in his presence, (which was a little cringe tbh). He was also a little rude and it was all so unnecessary, I hate forced enemies to lovers! They did have some chemistry, and I liked them, but I didn’t love them together.
What I really appreciated in this book was the part about caring for Elle’s grandmother Lovie. Elle’s struggles with accepting her situation were the most interesting, even if heartbreaking parts of this book. I liked Adam’s part in it too, he was supportive, understanding and very book-boyfriendy. They could have been friends all along, there was no need to create a fake conflict at the beginning.
There were a few plot holes and some not quite thought through bits, but overall it’s a solid debut and I might give this author another chance one day.
I received a complimentary copy of this book. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own.
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Approved for the arc 🥳 🎉🎊
Love me a fake dating romance 😍 thanks NetGalley and Alcove Press 💜
May 11, 2025
apologies to my romance book club if anyone cried
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December 19, 2024dnf @ 23%
why does she come in so hot and hate him SO MUCH within the first meeting. there’s no tension here just forced hatred and “banter” that is making this kinda annoying to read. maybe it’ll get better but so far not a book for me :/
why does she come in so hot and hate him SO MUCH within the first meeting. there’s no tension here just forced hatred and “banter” that is making this kinda annoying to read. maybe it’ll get better but so far not a book for me :/
January 22, 2025
I have had the absolute delight of connecting with Megan and after reading her debut novel, it’s no wonder it was picked up!
Fake It Like You Mean It feels like a warm hug tinged with sadness. Leaving you unsure of whether you should laugh or cry as you journey through this beautiful love story.
Elle and Adam’s chemistry jumps off the page, but more than that, their banter mixed with the vulnerability they share is *chefs kiss*
And I can’t forget my favorite part of this story—Elle’s grandmother, Lovie. You will need boxes of tissue for just her character alone. The amount of love and care Megan put into not only writing her character but exploring this particular topic of grief as you watch someone fade away from Alzheimer’s was beautifully done.
Overall, this was such a wonderful debut and I am so excited for all that’s to come from Megan. Fake It Like You Mean It releases March 18th and I can’t wait to get my hands on a physical copy!
Thank you NetGalley and Alcove Press for giving me an arc of this book. All opinions are my own.
Fake It Like You Mean It feels like a warm hug tinged with sadness. Leaving you unsure of whether you should laugh or cry as you journey through this beautiful love story.
Elle and Adam’s chemistry jumps off the page, but more than that, their banter mixed with the vulnerability they share is *chefs kiss*
And I can’t forget my favorite part of this story—Elle’s grandmother, Lovie. You will need boxes of tissue for just her character alone. The amount of love and care Megan put into not only writing her character but exploring this particular topic of grief as you watch someone fade away from Alzheimer’s was beautifully done.
Overall, this was such a wonderful debut and I am so excited for all that’s to come from Megan. Fake It Like You Mean It releases March 18th and I can’t wait to get my hands on a physical copy!
Thank you NetGalley and Alcove Press for giving me an arc of this book. All opinions are my own.
January 20, 2025
absolutely perfect
September 1, 2024
I have had the absolute pleasure of getting to read this book early and I wish that I could unread it so that I could go back to the beginning and witness Elle’s journey for the first time all over again. Elle is messy and stubborn and strong and it’s so easy to relate to her, to apply her story of growth and closure and grief and yearning to your own life. I read the very last sentence with tears in my eyes because there was a part of me that felt like I was given a piece of this happily ever after to carry with me.
I genuinely love Megan’s writing style. As someone who never annotates—ADHD simultaneously makes me want to do it all in, and prevents me from remembering to do it at all—I somehow ended up with hundreds of highlights of lines that just hit exactly the right way, or spoke to me in a way that made me as a reader feel very seen.
Fake It Like You Mean It is soft, and spicy, funny and heartbreaking, and just full of so much love.
I say this completely devoid of bias—everyone who’s looking for a love story that feels almost like a warm hug should read this as soon as it releases. I can’t wait to see what comes next. I’ve got my eyes on a couple of side characters whose love stories might get added to the top of my Christmas wish list 👀
I genuinely love Megan’s writing style. As someone who never annotates—ADHD simultaneously makes me want to do it all in, and prevents me from remembering to do it at all—I somehow ended up with hundreds of highlights of lines that just hit exactly the right way, or spoke to me in a way that made me as a reader feel very seen.
Fake It Like You Mean It is soft, and spicy, funny and heartbreaking, and just full of so much love.
I say this completely devoid of bias—everyone who’s looking for a love story that feels almost like a warm hug should read this as soon as it releases. I can’t wait to see what comes next. I’ve got my eyes on a couple of side characters whose love stories might get added to the top of my Christmas wish list 👀
June 22, 2025
Thank you NetGalley and Alcove Press for the ARC! This book was a 10/10 for me. Romantic comedies with spice are my jam right now and this hit all the marks. I love reading a book and it makes me giggle like a little girl and kick my feet in the air while reading. Elle was honestly my spirit animal with how much she crushed on Adam in the beginning. And Adam, sigh Adam. He was such a fluffy puppy with Elle and if you aren’t like that then I don’t want you.
This book also really hit in the feels with the topic of Alzheimer’s and how it fells to have a loved one go through this.
I honestly can’t wait for this book to come out and have more people love it the way I did!
Tropes
• fake dating
• enemies to lovers🥵
• witty banter
• hot nurse?
• laundry rooms😏
This book also really hit in the feels with the topic of Alzheimer’s and how it fells to have a loved one go through this.
I honestly can’t wait for this book to come out and have more people love it the way I did!
Tropes
• fake dating
• enemies to lovers🥵
• witty banter
• hot nurse?
• laundry rooms😏
October 10, 2024
4.5 stars
Uhmmm that was the sweetest thing ever?! I had randomly applied and got approved for the ARC but had put off reading it for about two weeks (idk why). I finally started a few days ago, and almost immediately fell in love with it!
It was a real, honest, and raw inside look at caring for someone with Alzheimer’s while also being an incredibly sweet romantic love story! I mean, they fake being in love when her grandma thinks they’re her husband and herself from 60 years ago?! And she doesn’t forget so they have to keep the bit going?! Perfection.
The slow burn was burningggggg and the forced proximity/one bed situation was too good🤭
Also the fact that this is Megan Murphy’s debut novel?? I’m an immediate fan and can’t wait to see what she comes out with next!! Huge thanks to NetGally for the early digital copy!
Uhmmm that was the sweetest thing ever?! I had randomly applied and got approved for the ARC but had put off reading it for about two weeks (idk why). I finally started a few days ago, and almost immediately fell in love with it!
It was a real, honest, and raw inside look at caring for someone with Alzheimer’s while also being an incredibly sweet romantic love story! I mean, they fake being in love when her grandma thinks they’re her husband and herself from 60 years ago?! And she doesn’t forget so they have to keep the bit going?! Perfection.
The slow burn was burningggggg and the forced proximity/one bed situation was too good🤭
Also the fact that this is Megan Murphy’s debut novel?? I’m an immediate fan and can’t wait to see what she comes out with next!! Huge thanks to NetGally for the early digital copy!
June 19, 2024
This book made me laugh, cry, giggle, and kick my feet. It’s the sort of book you want to re-read as soon as you finish it. The CHEMISTRY between Adam and Elle?!?! HELLO?!?! The plot line is so sweet, and it’s one you’ll never forget. Megan has a way of putting emotions on paper that feel so real, it’s like you’re right there with them. I absolutely love this book and could go on and on about how WORTH IT it is to pick this book up. Recommending this one, shouting from the rooftops my whole life!!!!!!!! 1000000/10 read🥹blue is now my favorite color💙
March 23, 2025
4.25 ⭐️
Megan Murphy wrote the most delightful swoon worthy debut! Fake It Like You Mean It was a sweet, fun, relatable, heartbreaking, and spicy story- it was the perfect mix of fake dating, forced proximity, and slow-burn romance, with a deep emotional pull. Having enjoyed this adorable tale immensely, I have officially added Murphy to my list of favorite rom-com authors.
There were many pieces of Murphy’s writing that appealed to me. When her novel popped up as a Goodreads recommendation, I was immediately intrigued by a few things. One-it was a debut novel. Two-it was a trope I hadn’t read before. And three- it was a romantic comedy with a few of the many themes I love. Above all, I had a penchant for the genuinely endearing plot and Murphy’s adept storytelling ability.
The main premise of Fake It Like You Mean It followed Elle, a podcaster, left Chicago to move back to her childhood home to care for her grandmother, Lovie, who had Alzheimer’s. Adam, a live in nurse, was assigned to care for Lovie. Both had to pretend to be in love to appease Lovie’s confused mind.
All the characters had the most likable and relatable personalities. It goes without saying, I adored the characters immensely, but I particularly connected to Elle the most. She was clever, independent and sweet. Adam was similar despite being portrayed as a ‘pain in the ass’ at the start of the story, however, as the story progressed, he quickly showed his true colors and was undeniably kind and supportive at heart. Nonetheless, together, Elle and Adam made for the perfect match.
Additionally, I loved Lovie’s Hard Love Rules that were sprinkled throughout the narrative. They served as the touchstones of wisdom which raised this story beyond romance into speculation on what it means to love and be loved.
I also appreciated Murphy’s authentic portrayal of Alzheimer’s. More specifically, I liked how she didn’t simplify the challenges of someone caring for someone with Alzheimer’s, rather she depicted the real frustration, guilt, and moments of connection Elle had with Lovie.
And lastly, I favored the skillfully integrated subplot of Elle’s “Forget Me Not” podcast. It provided a meaningful way for her to process her experience with Lovie while adding depth to the already well crafted narrative.
Altogether I devoured this sweet and spicy rom-com debut by Megan Murphy. This is one of those romance novels that has planted itself firmly into my heart and will not be forgotten. I am beyond excited to read what Megan writes up next! (Audio)
Megan Murphy wrote the most delightful swoon worthy debut! Fake It Like You Mean It was a sweet, fun, relatable, heartbreaking, and spicy story- it was the perfect mix of fake dating, forced proximity, and slow-burn romance, with a deep emotional pull. Having enjoyed this adorable tale immensely, I have officially added Murphy to my list of favorite rom-com authors.
There were many pieces of Murphy’s writing that appealed to me. When her novel popped up as a Goodreads recommendation, I was immediately intrigued by a few things. One-it was a debut novel. Two-it was a trope I hadn’t read before. And three- it was a romantic comedy with a few of the many themes I love. Above all, I had a penchant for the genuinely endearing plot and Murphy’s adept storytelling ability.
The main premise of Fake It Like You Mean It followed Elle, a podcaster, left Chicago to move back to her childhood home to care for her grandmother, Lovie, who had Alzheimer’s. Adam, a live in nurse, was assigned to care for Lovie. Both had to pretend to be in love to appease Lovie’s confused mind.
All the characters had the most likable and relatable personalities. It goes without saying, I adored the characters immensely, but I particularly connected to Elle the most. She was clever, independent and sweet. Adam was similar despite being portrayed as a ‘pain in the ass’ at the start of the story, however, as the story progressed, he quickly showed his true colors and was undeniably kind and supportive at heart. Nonetheless, together, Elle and Adam made for the perfect match.
Additionally, I loved Lovie’s Hard Love Rules that were sprinkled throughout the narrative. They served as the touchstones of wisdom which raised this story beyond romance into speculation on what it means to love and be loved.
I also appreciated Murphy’s authentic portrayal of Alzheimer’s. More specifically, I liked how she didn’t simplify the challenges of someone caring for someone with Alzheimer’s, rather she depicted the real frustration, guilt, and moments of connection Elle had with Lovie.
And lastly, I favored the skillfully integrated subplot of Elle’s “Forget Me Not” podcast. It provided a meaningful way for her to process her experience with Lovie while adding depth to the already well crafted narrative.
Altogether I devoured this sweet and spicy rom-com debut by Megan Murphy. This is one of those romance novels that has planted itself firmly into my heart and will not be forgotten. I am beyond excited to read what Megan writes up next! (Audio)
February 16, 2025
I fear I cannot fake loving this like I mean it... 🥁
This book sounded up my alley--I tend to prefer romance novels that have emotional subplots to get attached to. In this story, we get to see our FMC Elle supporting her grandmother in her fight with Alzheimer's, and I will say that that part of the story warmed my heart. I also (like everyone else) love a forced proximity and/or one bed trope and this had both, so that was fun.
I also thought that the podcast element was entertaining, and the opening podcast scene was so adorable (why was the mini-romance we get in the opening scene cuter to me than the romance taking place through the entire book?) I'd be interested in seeing what is done with this audiobook, because I feel like due to the podcast bits, this could've been a really fun listen.
Unfortunately however, there were many things that didn't work in this for me.
-Add this to the list of hate-to-love stories that didn't need to have that trope. I couldn't tell you why Elle hates our MMC Adam so bad. She is so hostile, and for what?
-This book really hinges on comedy, but the comedy just didn't work for me and gave me the ick. There were so many points in this that I was cringing away from my Kindle in second-hand embarrassment.
-I never did really feel like I understood our main characters the way I would like to. I especially struggled with Elle. She felt quirky for the sake of being quirky, and I feel like the goal was to make her relatable and funny but it kind of just felt annoying and off a lot of the time.
-I didn't feel any chemistry between our two main characters. Perhaps that's because I just wasn't vibing with the individual characters enough to vibe with them together, but it felt very forced to me.
All of that said, the writing was fun and easy to follow while not feeling too simple, unnatural, or clunky, so I would definitely give this author another try at some point if any books pique my interest. Sadly for this one: 2.75 stars rounded up
Thanks so much to Alcove Press and NetGalley for the ARC in exchange for an honest review!
This book sounded up my alley--I tend to prefer romance novels that have emotional subplots to get attached to. In this story, we get to see our FMC Elle supporting her grandmother in her fight with Alzheimer's, and I will say that that part of the story warmed my heart. I also (like everyone else) love a forced proximity and/or one bed trope and this had both, so that was fun.
I also thought that the podcast element was entertaining, and the opening podcast scene was so adorable (why was the mini-romance we get in the opening scene cuter to me than the romance taking place through the entire book?) I'd be interested in seeing what is done with this audiobook, because I feel like due to the podcast bits, this could've been a really fun listen.
Unfortunately however, there were many things that didn't work in this for me.
-Add this to the list of hate-to-love stories that didn't need to have that trope. I couldn't tell you why Elle hates our MMC Adam so bad. She is so hostile, and for what?
-This book really hinges on comedy, but the comedy just didn't work for me and gave me the ick. There were so many points in this that I was cringing away from my Kindle in second-hand embarrassment.
-I never did really feel like I understood our main characters the way I would like to. I especially struggled with Elle. She felt quirky for the sake of being quirky, and I feel like the goal was to make her relatable and funny but it kind of just felt annoying and off a lot of the time.
-I didn't feel any chemistry between our two main characters. Perhaps that's because I just wasn't vibing with the individual characters enough to vibe with them together, but it felt very forced to me.
All of that said, the writing was fun and easy to follow while not feeling too simple, unnatural, or clunky, so I would definitely give this author another try at some point if any books pique my interest. Sadly for this one: 2.75 stars rounded up
Thanks so much to Alcove Press and NetGalley for the ARC in exchange for an honest review!
March 15, 2025
This was a FANTASTIC debut slow burn, enemies to lovers romance about Elle, a podcaster from Chicago who moves into her grandmother's home to help with her care after an Alzheimer's diagnosis. Space is limited though and she has to learn to get along with her grandmother's live-in nurse, Adam. The two get off on the wrong foot immediately in a hilarious late night meet-cute involving a vibrator and the banter between them doesn't stop from start to finish.
I loved the emotional depth in this story and how well the author does writing about Alzheimer's from both the patient and caregiver perspectives. Great on audio narrated by Alex Picard and highly recommended for fans of books like Say you'll remember me by Abby Jimenez or Can't get enough by Kennedy Ryan (two other books with Alzheimer's rep releasing this year). Many thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for an early audio copy in exchange for my honest review!
Steam level: some open door scenes
I loved the emotional depth in this story and how well the author does writing about Alzheimer's from both the patient and caregiver perspectives. Great on audio narrated by Alex Picard and highly recommended for fans of books like Say you'll remember me by Abby Jimenez or Can't get enough by Kennedy Ryan (two other books with Alzheimer's rep releasing this year). Many thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for an early audio copy in exchange for my honest review!
Steam level: some open door scenes
March 18, 2025
In the landscape of contemporary romance novels, it's rare to find a debut that tackles heavy themes with such a deft balance of humor and heart. Megan Murphy's Fake It Like You Mean It manages this delicate tightrope walk with surprising grace, delivering a story that's equal parts romantic comedy and emotional journey.
When Elle Monroe returns to her childhood home in Elkhart, Indiana to care for her grandmother Lovie, who's battling Alzheimer's, she doesn't expect to find grumpy nurse Adam Wheeler sleeping in her bed. What begins as a classic enemies-to-lovers setup evolves into something more complex when Lovie, in her confused state, mistakes them for herself and her late husband Bobby. Rather than upset her, they play along—creating a fake relationship that feels increasingly real with each passing day.
Character Dynamics: Real People in Unreal Circumstances
Murphy excels at crafting authentic characters whose rough edges and vulnerabilities make them deeply relatable. Elle is a successful podcaster with a fear of driving stemming from childhood trauma, and a tendency to run when relationships get complicated. Adam is the definition of dependable—a nurse who works two jobs to support his sister Ruth and her three nieces, often at the expense of his own needs and desires.
What makes their developing relationship compelling is how they challenge each other. Adam calls Elle out on her tendency to flee difficult situations, while Elle pushes Adam to consider his own happiness alongside his family obligations. Their banter crackles with sexual tension, but it's the quieter moments—Adam making Elle green smoothies in the morning, Elle introducing him to her podcast world—that truly showcase their connection.
The supporting characters shine just as brightly:
- Lovie - Far from being merely a plot device, Lovie is a fully realized character whose lucid moments provide some of the novel's most poignant scenes
- Liss and Dakota - Elle's best friends offer comic relief and emotional support while feeling like real people with their own lives
- Ruth and her daughters - Adam's sister and nieces humanize him and illustrate his capacity for care beyond his professional obligations
Tackling Alzheimer's with Authenticity and Respect
What sets this romance apart is its unflinching look at the realities of caring for someone with Alzheimer's. Murphy doesn't shy away from the difficult aspects:
- Lovie's unpredictable mood swings and occasional cruelty toward Elle
- The bureaucratic nightmare of navigating insurance and healthcare systems
- The physical and emotional toll on caregivers
- The grief of watching someone you love slowly disappear
Yet the novel never feels exploitative or melodramatic. Instead, Murphy showcases the unexpected moments of connection that can happen even as memory fades. The scene where Lovie becomes lucid and recognizes Elle for the first time in months is genuinely moving without becoming saccharine.
Strengths: Where the Novel Truly Shines
- The unique premise differentiates this book from countless other contemporary romances. The fake dating trope takes on new dimensions when the person they're fooling isn't a nosy colleague or judgmental family member, but someone whose reality is already fragmented.
- Setting and sense of place are vividly realized. From Elle's Chicago apartment to Lovie's pink-tiled bathroom and the Dairy Queen that Elle declares "the best Dairy Queen in the world," the locations feel lived-in and specific.
- Dialogue that sparkles keeps the pages turning. Elle and Adam's verbal sparring evolves naturally as their relationship deepens, and every character has a distinct voice—from precocious nine-year-old twins to sassy best friends.
- Emotional intelligence permeates the story. Murphy understands that love isn't just about attraction; it's about seeing someone clearly and choosing them anyway. Adam and Elle's journey is as much about self-discovery as it is about finding each other.
Where the Story Stumbles: Room for Growth
Despite its many strengths, Fake It Like You Mean It isn't without flaws:
- Pacing issues occasionally arise, particularly in the middle section where the timeline becomes somewhat repetitive with the day-to-day routine of caring for Lovie
- The central conflict between Elle and Adam's geographic preferences feels slightly manufactured at times, especially given modern remote work possibilities
- Secondary storylines like Elle's podcast success sometimes feel underdeveloped compared to the central romance
- Some metaphors are hammered a bit too explicitly, such as Elle repeatedly referencing "missing stairs" as she falls in love
Heat Level: Sensuality with Substance
The physical relationship between Elle and Adam develops organically from tension-filled glances to steamy encounters in unexpected places (the laundry room scene is particularly memorable). Murphy writes these scenes with a refreshing focus on consent and communication, and they advance character development rather than serving merely as titillation.
What's particularly effective is how the physical intimacy parallels their emotional journey—from hesitant touches during forced proximity to the comfortable intimacy of lovers who've learned each other's bodies.
A Promise Fulfilled
For a debut novel, Fake It Like You Mean It displays remarkable assurance. Murphy has crafted a story that will appeal to romance readers seeking emotional depth alongside their happily-ever-afters. The novel joins the ranks of contemporary romances that aren't afraid to tackle serious issues while maintaining the warmth and optimism that define the genre.
What Sets It Apart:
- Alzheimer's representation that feels authentic and respectful
- Caregiving narrative rarely explored in romance novels
- Intergenerational relationships portrayed with nuance
- Dual-location romance that thoughtfully examines the compromises required in relationships
Who Should Read This Book:
- Fans of Emily Henry's emotional depth and banter
- Readers who enjoyed Christina Lauren's "Love and Other Words"
- Anyone who appreciates romance with genuine obstacles beyond miscommunication
- Those looking for realistic portrayals of caregiving within romance narratives
The Verdict
Fake It Like You Mean It delivers on its promise of being "the perfect blend of romance, laugh out loud comedy, and heartbreakingly beautiful moments." Its few shortcomings are easily forgiven in light of its emotionally resonant core and genuinely satisfying conclusion.
Murphy is a talent to watch in the romance genre. Her ability to balance humor with heartache, steamy scenes with soul-searching conversations, and classic tropes with fresh scenarios suggests a bright future. If this debut is any indication, readers can look forward to more stories that entertain while simultaneously exploring the complexities of modern relationships.
When Elle Monroe returns to her childhood home in Elkhart, Indiana to care for her grandmother Lovie, who's battling Alzheimer's, she doesn't expect to find grumpy nurse Adam Wheeler sleeping in her bed. What begins as a classic enemies-to-lovers setup evolves into something more complex when Lovie, in her confused state, mistakes them for herself and her late husband Bobby. Rather than upset her, they play along—creating a fake relationship that feels increasingly real with each passing day.
Character Dynamics: Real People in Unreal Circumstances
Murphy excels at crafting authentic characters whose rough edges and vulnerabilities make them deeply relatable. Elle is a successful podcaster with a fear of driving stemming from childhood trauma, and a tendency to run when relationships get complicated. Adam is the definition of dependable—a nurse who works two jobs to support his sister Ruth and her three nieces, often at the expense of his own needs and desires.
What makes their developing relationship compelling is how they challenge each other. Adam calls Elle out on her tendency to flee difficult situations, while Elle pushes Adam to consider his own happiness alongside his family obligations. Their banter crackles with sexual tension, but it's the quieter moments—Adam making Elle green smoothies in the morning, Elle introducing him to her podcast world—that truly showcase their connection.
The supporting characters shine just as brightly:
- Lovie - Far from being merely a plot device, Lovie is a fully realized character whose lucid moments provide some of the novel's most poignant scenes
- Liss and Dakota - Elle's best friends offer comic relief and emotional support while feeling like real people with their own lives
- Ruth and her daughters - Adam's sister and nieces humanize him and illustrate his capacity for care beyond his professional obligations
Tackling Alzheimer's with Authenticity and Respect
What sets this romance apart is its unflinching look at the realities of caring for someone with Alzheimer's. Murphy doesn't shy away from the difficult aspects:
- Lovie's unpredictable mood swings and occasional cruelty toward Elle
- The bureaucratic nightmare of navigating insurance and healthcare systems
- The physical and emotional toll on caregivers
- The grief of watching someone you love slowly disappear
Yet the novel never feels exploitative or melodramatic. Instead, Murphy showcases the unexpected moments of connection that can happen even as memory fades. The scene where Lovie becomes lucid and recognizes Elle for the first time in months is genuinely moving without becoming saccharine.
Strengths: Where the Novel Truly Shines
- The unique premise differentiates this book from countless other contemporary romances. The fake dating trope takes on new dimensions when the person they're fooling isn't a nosy colleague or judgmental family member, but someone whose reality is already fragmented.
- Setting and sense of place are vividly realized. From Elle's Chicago apartment to Lovie's pink-tiled bathroom and the Dairy Queen that Elle declares "the best Dairy Queen in the world," the locations feel lived-in and specific.
- Dialogue that sparkles keeps the pages turning. Elle and Adam's verbal sparring evolves naturally as their relationship deepens, and every character has a distinct voice—from precocious nine-year-old twins to sassy best friends.
- Emotional intelligence permeates the story. Murphy understands that love isn't just about attraction; it's about seeing someone clearly and choosing them anyway. Adam and Elle's journey is as much about self-discovery as it is about finding each other.
Where the Story Stumbles: Room for Growth
Despite its many strengths, Fake It Like You Mean It isn't without flaws:
- Pacing issues occasionally arise, particularly in the middle section where the timeline becomes somewhat repetitive with the day-to-day routine of caring for Lovie
- The central conflict between Elle and Adam's geographic preferences feels slightly manufactured at times, especially given modern remote work possibilities
- Secondary storylines like Elle's podcast success sometimes feel underdeveloped compared to the central romance
- Some metaphors are hammered a bit too explicitly, such as Elle repeatedly referencing "missing stairs" as she falls in love
Heat Level: Sensuality with Substance
The physical relationship between Elle and Adam develops organically from tension-filled glances to steamy encounters in unexpected places (the laundry room scene is particularly memorable). Murphy writes these scenes with a refreshing focus on consent and communication, and they advance character development rather than serving merely as titillation.
What's particularly effective is how the physical intimacy parallels their emotional journey—from hesitant touches during forced proximity to the comfortable intimacy of lovers who've learned each other's bodies.
A Promise Fulfilled
For a debut novel, Fake It Like You Mean It displays remarkable assurance. Murphy has crafted a story that will appeal to romance readers seeking emotional depth alongside their happily-ever-afters. The novel joins the ranks of contemporary romances that aren't afraid to tackle serious issues while maintaining the warmth and optimism that define the genre.
What Sets It Apart:
- Alzheimer's representation that feels authentic and respectful
- Caregiving narrative rarely explored in romance novels
- Intergenerational relationships portrayed with nuance
- Dual-location romance that thoughtfully examines the compromises required in relationships
Who Should Read This Book:
- Fans of Emily Henry's emotional depth and banter
- Readers who enjoyed Christina Lauren's "Love and Other Words"
- Anyone who appreciates romance with genuine obstacles beyond miscommunication
- Those looking for realistic portrayals of caregiving within romance narratives
The Verdict
Fake It Like You Mean It delivers on its promise of being "the perfect blend of romance, laugh out loud comedy, and heartbreakingly beautiful moments." Its few shortcomings are easily forgiven in light of its emotionally resonant core and genuinely satisfying conclusion.
Murphy is a talent to watch in the romance genre. Her ability to balance humor with heartache, steamy scenes with soul-searching conversations, and classic tropes with fresh scenarios suggests a bright future. If this debut is any indication, readers can look forward to more stories that entertain while simultaneously exploring the complexities of modern relationships.
October 25, 2024
4.25-4.5 rounded up.
This was a cute romance with a whole lot of emotions!!
I loved the grumpy sunshine.
The Alzheimer’s aspect was super emotional and definitely had me on a roller coaster. There were couple of parts on the romance side that I didn’t love towards the end but overall I really enjoyed it.
Thank you NetGalley and Alcove Press for the early copy!
This was a cute romance with a whole lot of emotions!!
I loved the grumpy sunshine.
The Alzheimer’s aspect was super emotional and definitely had me on a roller coaster. There were couple of parts on the romance side that I didn’t love towards the end but overall I really enjoyed it.
Thank you NetGalley and Alcove Press for the early copy!
June 30, 2025
3.25 / 5 Stars
I really enjoyed the last two-thirds of the book but the first third was confusing and felt disjointed. Elle’s grandmother, Lovie, raised her, but with Lovie’s Alzheimer’s progressing rapidly, Elle decides to move back in with her while they try to get her into a full time care facility. When Elle arrives, tired from her journey, he finds a strange man in her childhood bed. Neither is too pleased to see the other and they’re even more displeased when Lovie believes that they are a couple. In order to not upset Lovie more, they go along with the ruse. Soon they start to develop real feelings because duh, this is a romance novel.
You will probably like this book if you like:
🎙️ Fake dating
💐 Forced Proximity
🎙️ Oops, there’s only one bed
💐 Dislike to like
🎙️ Caregiver and acts of service
In the first third, the antagonism between Elle and Adam didn’t make sense to me. Elle makes a living talking to people (she’s a podcaster who interviews people) but she immediately rips into Adam when she meets him. He kind of works for her but also they are working together so the lack of professionalism from both of them was confusing. The book already had a fake dating and forced proximity trope so I don’t see what the dislike to love one added that the others didn’t already take care of in terms of creating tension in their relationship.
Also, the antagonism sometimes had an undercurrent of “you’re incompetent” which feels hard to overcome. I can get behind barbs or jabs if they underneath don’t have actual hate behind them but these were walking a fine line. The other two-thirds of the book finally transitioned into something more playful which was great.
In the first third, Elle also only really focused on how hot Adam was. It’s a little wild that we didn’t hear about how she thought he was patient and kind to her and her grandmother until later in the book. This man is literally making you green smoothies when he doesn’t have to (especially when they are verbally accosting each other) and she can only think about how good in bed he is? Wild to me.
If you get through the first third of the book, it does become a lovely love story. I also appreciated that the author didn’t shy away from showing all sides of taking care of someone with Alzheimer’s – the hard parts, the maddening parts (cough, insurance, cough), the days that are good. You also do get some really beautiful prose throughout.
I rated the two parts separately and then averaged my rating (it ended up being 3.31 if we are being technical) but why was this book making me do math?
__________________
Pre-Read Thoughts: One of my favorite authors recommended this book and I do as I am told.
Thank you to my local library. You're a real one!
I really enjoyed the last two-thirds of the book but the first third was confusing and felt disjointed. Elle’s grandmother, Lovie, raised her, but with Lovie’s Alzheimer’s progressing rapidly, Elle decides to move back in with her while they try to get her into a full time care facility. When Elle arrives, tired from her journey, he finds a strange man in her childhood bed. Neither is too pleased to see the other and they’re even more displeased when Lovie believes that they are a couple. In order to not upset Lovie more, they go along with the ruse. Soon they start to develop real feelings because duh, this is a romance novel.
You will probably like this book if you like:
🎙️ Fake dating
💐 Forced Proximity
🎙️ Oops, there’s only one bed
💐 Dislike to like
🎙️ Caregiver and acts of service
In the first third, the antagonism between Elle and Adam didn’t make sense to me. Elle makes a living talking to people (she’s a podcaster who interviews people) but she immediately rips into Adam when she meets him. He kind of works for her but also they are working together so the lack of professionalism from both of them was confusing. The book already had a fake dating and forced proximity trope so I don’t see what the dislike to love one added that the others didn’t already take care of in terms of creating tension in their relationship.
Also, the antagonism sometimes had an undercurrent of “you’re incompetent” which feels hard to overcome. I can get behind barbs or jabs if they underneath don’t have actual hate behind them but these were walking a fine line. The other two-thirds of the book finally transitioned into something more playful which was great.
In the first third, Elle also only really focused on how hot Adam was. It’s a little wild that we didn’t hear about how she thought he was patient and kind to her and her grandmother until later in the book. This man is literally making you green smoothies when he doesn’t have to (especially when they are verbally accosting each other) and she can only think about how good in bed he is? Wild to me.
If you get through the first third of the book, it does become a lovely love story. I also appreciated that the author didn’t shy away from showing all sides of taking care of someone with Alzheimer’s – the hard parts, the maddening parts (cough, insurance, cough), the days that are good. You also do get some really beautiful prose throughout.
I rated the two parts separately and then averaged my rating (it ended up being 3.31 if we are being technical) but why was this book making me do math?
__________________
Pre-Read Thoughts: One of my favorite authors recommended this book and I do as I am told.
Thank you to my local library. You're a real one!
September 21, 2024
Fake It Like You Mean It is the perfect balance of laugh-out-loud comedy, slow-burn romance, and raw emotional moments. It takes on the classic fake dating trope but with a refreshing twist that’s grounded in the deeply moving context of Alzheimer's and it’s done with care and compassion.
The story of Elle and Adam, two unlikely companions thrown together to care for Elle's grandmother Lovie, is equal parts heartwarming and heartbreaking. Lovie’s Alzheimer’s progression is portrayed with a sensitivity that truly resonated with me, as someone who has lost a loved one to dementia. Megan's depiction of Lovie's moments of clarity and confusion felt incredibly real and brought me to tears on more than one occasion and transported me back to my own experiences.
Elle and Adam’s relationship is everything I love about a good enemies-to-lovers dynamic. Their banter is sharp, their chemistry is undeniable, and the slow build to romance is so sweet and butterfly inducing that I found myself rooting for them the entire time. The fake dating scenario, brought on by Lovie's belief that they’re already in love, adds just the right amount of tension and humour.
Some of the quotes from the book will stick with me long after finishing - the line, “I don’t know who I am if Lovie doesn’t,” is a gut punch, expressing the raw vulnerability of loving someone who’s slipping away and having to face a world where they no longer recognise you.
Megan has an incredible skill for crafting likable, engaging characters that feel real and relatable. Her ability to handle difficult topics with such sensitivity and compassion is truly remarkable. The depth of emotion she brings to the story, while balancing it with humour and romance, speaks to her excellent writing skills.
Fake It Like You Mean It is much more than a romance - it is a beautifully written debut that tackles hard-hitting issues without losing the lightness and joy that make it such a delightful read. It’s a story about family, memory, and the complicated ways love shows up in our lives.
Thank you, Megan Murphy and NetGalley, for allowing me to experience this beautiful debut. This review is dedicated to my grandad and all those who have had to watch their loved ones disappear 💙
The story of Elle and Adam, two unlikely companions thrown together to care for Elle's grandmother Lovie, is equal parts heartwarming and heartbreaking. Lovie’s Alzheimer’s progression is portrayed with a sensitivity that truly resonated with me, as someone who has lost a loved one to dementia. Megan's depiction of Lovie's moments of clarity and confusion felt incredibly real and brought me to tears on more than one occasion and transported me back to my own experiences.
Elle and Adam’s relationship is everything I love about a good enemies-to-lovers dynamic. Their banter is sharp, their chemistry is undeniable, and the slow build to romance is so sweet and butterfly inducing that I found myself rooting for them the entire time. The fake dating scenario, brought on by Lovie's belief that they’re already in love, adds just the right amount of tension and humour.
Some of the quotes from the book will stick with me long after finishing - the line, “I don’t know who I am if Lovie doesn’t,” is a gut punch, expressing the raw vulnerability of loving someone who’s slipping away and having to face a world where they no longer recognise you.
Megan has an incredible skill for crafting likable, engaging characters that feel real and relatable. Her ability to handle difficult topics with such sensitivity and compassion is truly remarkable. The depth of emotion she brings to the story, while balancing it with humour and romance, speaks to her excellent writing skills.
Fake It Like You Mean It is much more than a romance - it is a beautifully written debut that tackles hard-hitting issues without losing the lightness and joy that make it such a delightful read. It’s a story about family, memory, and the complicated ways love shows up in our lives.
Thank you, Megan Murphy and NetGalley, for allowing me to experience this beautiful debut. This review is dedicated to my grandad and all those who have had to watch their loved ones disappear 💙
March 4, 2025
3*
Honestly this was a really cute down to earth and in many ways relatable rom com with a lot of heart.
Elle’s grandmother Lovie has always taken care of her. But now Lovie has Alzheimer and it is Elle’s turn to take care of her grandma.
She moves into her grandma’s house only to find out that an annoying yet handsome man named Adam is living there. He is a caregiver that has been assigned to assist Lovie and apparently to drive Elle insane.
Forced proximity romance with a lot of humour, very down to earth imperfect characters and a lot of heart.
The book also touches on Alzheimer and how the disease progresses but also how the family members are affected by it and the struggles they go through.
Elle’s grandma thinks that Adam and Elle are a couple and they will have to pretend in front of her. So we have fake dating and enemies to lovers which are two tropes I really enjoy.
This is a very slow paced book and I did find that it dragged for me and it did not excite me as much as I had hoped. However there are some cute moments, some good laughs and a clear message that life goes on for all of us and no matter what happens, we don’t have to forget to live and be happy. Tomorrow is never guaranteed.
So even though it was not quite as good as I had hoped and the romance chemistry was not quite there for me, it was still an enjoyable romcom with some more serious topics and family drama.
Honestly this was a really cute down to earth and in many ways relatable rom com with a lot of heart.
Elle’s grandmother Lovie has always taken care of her. But now Lovie has Alzheimer and it is Elle’s turn to take care of her grandma.
She moves into her grandma’s house only to find out that an annoying yet handsome man named Adam is living there. He is a caregiver that has been assigned to assist Lovie and apparently to drive Elle insane.
Forced proximity romance with a lot of humour, very down to earth imperfect characters and a lot of heart.
The book also touches on Alzheimer and how the disease progresses but also how the family members are affected by it and the struggles they go through.
Elle’s grandma thinks that Adam and Elle are a couple and they will have to pretend in front of her. So we have fake dating and enemies to lovers which are two tropes I really enjoy.
This is a very slow paced book and I did find that it dragged for me and it did not excite me as much as I had hoped. However there are some cute moments, some good laughs and a clear message that life goes on for all of us and no matter what happens, we don’t have to forget to live and be happy. Tomorrow is never guaranteed.
So even though it was not quite as good as I had hoped and the romance chemistry was not quite there for me, it was still an enjoyable romcom with some more serious topics and family drama.
June 25, 2024
I had the IMMENSE pleasure of reading this book in 2023, and it remains one of the most unique romcoms I have ever read, replete with the perfect mix of comedy, spice, and heartwarming sweetness.
Elle, a successful podcaster, returns to her hometown to care for her grandmother, Lovie. The issue is, Lovie quickly becomes convinced that Elle and Adam—her live-in nurse—are in love. Not wanting to confuse her, Elle and Adam play along, but soon their relationship starts to feel suspiciously real…
Do you SEE WHAT I MEAN?! I’ve never come across a romcom that utilizes the fake dating trope in such a fresh, nuanced way. By placing Lovie at the center of the story, the book raises awareness for Alzheimer’s while maintaining a fun, lighthearted tone that will have you kicking your feet. The banter between Elle and Adam is 10/10, and Elle and Lovie’s relationship highlights how special a grandmother’s love can be for her granddaughter. Honestly, I really have no notes. All I can say is you all are NOT ready for everything Megan Murphy has up her sleeve—in this book or in the many others that I have no doubt will follow.
Thank you again, Megan, for letting me read this so early on in the publishing process. I cannot WAIT to have it on my shelf.
Elle, a successful podcaster, returns to her hometown to care for her grandmother, Lovie. The issue is, Lovie quickly becomes convinced that Elle and Adam—her live-in nurse—are in love. Not wanting to confuse her, Elle and Adam play along, but soon their relationship starts to feel suspiciously real…
Do you SEE WHAT I MEAN?! I’ve never come across a romcom that utilizes the fake dating trope in such a fresh, nuanced way. By placing Lovie at the center of the story, the book raises awareness for Alzheimer’s while maintaining a fun, lighthearted tone that will have you kicking your feet. The banter between Elle and Adam is 10/10, and Elle and Lovie’s relationship highlights how special a grandmother’s love can be for her granddaughter. Honestly, I really have no notes. All I can say is you all are NOT ready for everything Megan Murphy has up her sleeve—in this book or in the many others that I have no doubt will follow.
Thank you again, Megan, for letting me read this so early on in the publishing process. I cannot WAIT to have it on my shelf.
February 26, 2025
I wanted to love this book because enemies to lovers is my favorite trope, and I have a soft spot for books that reference Alzheimer's. I knew this was going to be a heavier read, but I didn't feel this author handled this topic with care.
The mfc Elle was horrible! She was completely self-centered, clumsy, rude, and for being a people person, she lacked people skills. She kept telling the mmc he wasn't needed in the care of her Grandma, but when left alone, she would lose her. He ordered her a security system, and she scolded him for not using her influencer code even though she could have ordered it herself. She was so rude to the nurse(mmc) she hired(sparking what was suppose to be an enemies to lovers plot but instead felt extremely forced and unnecessary) when she came in late at night to find him in her grandma's home. Your grandma has Alzheimers you thought she was home alone??
I think because I didn't like the mfc, it made it hard for me to see the emotion for her grandmother and to feel a connection between the two main characters. Honestly, I dnf at 52% because the humor felt misplaced, the romance felt forced, the mfc was rude, and this whole situation felt off.
The mfc Elle was horrible! She was completely self-centered, clumsy, rude, and for being a people person, she lacked people skills. She kept telling the mmc he wasn't needed in the care of her Grandma, but when left alone, she would lose her. He ordered her a security system, and she scolded him for not using her influencer code even though she could have ordered it herself. She was so rude to the nurse(mmc) she hired(sparking what was suppose to be an enemies to lovers plot but instead felt extremely forced and unnecessary) when she came in late at night to find him in her grandma's home. Your grandma has Alzheimers you thought she was home alone??
I think because I didn't like the mfc, it made it hard for me to see the emotion for her grandmother and to feel a connection between the two main characters. Honestly, I dnf at 52% because the humor felt misplaced, the romance felt forced, the mfc was rude, and this whole situation felt off.
January 18, 2025
3.5 ⭐️
"Fake it like you mean it" est une romance contemporaine aux tropes accrocheurs : forced proximity & fake dating, mais qui s'inscrit dans un contexte émouvant voire difficile, puisque Elle, l'héroïne, retourne vivre chez sa grand-mère (Lovie) qui s'enfonce dans les limbes de la maladie d'Alzheimer.
Lovie est désormais dépendante et a besoin de soins 24h/24 tant la maladie a progressé. En attendant d'avoir une place dans un centre spécialisé (mais aussi que Lovie puisse être bénéficiaire de l'assurance santé de Elle), un infirmier est présent tous les jours au domicile, et vit même avec Lovie.
Adam et Elle vont donc être obligés de se côtoyer au quotidien dans l'intérêt de Lovie, et histoire de corser les choses, en plus de devoir partager la seule chambre disponible, faire semblant d'être en couple puisque Lovie les prend pour son défunt mari et elle-même du temps de leur jeunesse.
En toute honnêteté, j'ai mis plusieurs semaines à terminer ce livre, parce que le sujet traité est assez sensible pour moi, et Megan Murphy n'édulcore en rien les ravages de la maladie d'Alzheimer, l'ingratitude (parfois) et la difficulté du rôle d'aidant, la douleur de voir quelqu'un de proche perdre ainsi toute notion d'un passé et de liens communs. Elle souffre beaucoup de cette situation, et ça m'a fendu le cœur de la voir face à cette grand-mère qui ne la reconnaît plus et la traite comme une intruse.
Concernant la romance, je suis assez mitigée, car le trope "enemies-to-lovers" est déclenché de manière vraiment artificielle, je n'y ai pas cru du tout, et je n'ai pas du tout compris l'attitude des personnages à ce moment-là du récit. Ensuite, le développement est classique, avec un peu de slow burn.
Elle & Adam ne m'ont pas procuré beaucoup d'émotions, pour moi le sujet central est vraiment la maladie d'Alzheimer et l'impact qu'elle peut avoir sur les proches du malade. Une lecture assez rude au niveau émotionnel donc.
"Fake it like you mean it" est une romance contemporaine aux tropes accrocheurs : forced proximity & fake dating, mais qui s'inscrit dans un contexte émouvant voire difficile, puisque Elle, l'héroïne, retourne vivre chez sa grand-mère (Lovie) qui s'enfonce dans les limbes de la maladie d'Alzheimer.
Lovie est désormais dépendante et a besoin de soins 24h/24 tant la maladie a progressé. En attendant d'avoir une place dans un centre spécialisé (mais aussi que Lovie puisse être bénéficiaire de l'assurance santé de Elle), un infirmier est présent tous les jours au domicile, et vit même avec Lovie.
Adam et Elle vont donc être obligés de se côtoyer au quotidien dans l'intérêt de Lovie, et histoire de corser les choses, en plus de devoir partager la seule chambre disponible, faire semblant d'être en couple puisque Lovie les prend pour son défunt mari et elle-même du temps de leur jeunesse.
En toute honnêteté, j'ai mis plusieurs semaines à terminer ce livre, parce que le sujet traité est assez sensible pour moi, et Megan Murphy n'édulcore en rien les ravages de la maladie d'Alzheimer, l'ingratitude (parfois) et la difficulté du rôle d'aidant, la douleur de voir quelqu'un de proche perdre ainsi toute notion d'un passé et de liens communs. Elle souffre beaucoup de cette situation, et ça m'a fendu le cœur de la voir face à cette grand-mère qui ne la reconnaît plus et la traite comme une intruse.
Concernant la romance, je suis assez mitigée, car le trope "enemies-to-lovers" est déclenché de manière vraiment artificielle, je n'y ai pas cru du tout, et je n'ai pas du tout compris l'attitude des personnages à ce moment-là du récit. Ensuite, le développement est classique, avec un peu de slow burn.
Elle & Adam ne m'ont pas procuré beaucoup d'émotions, pour moi le sujet central est vraiment la maladie d'Alzheimer et l'impact qu'elle peut avoir sur les proches du malade. Une lecture assez rude au niveau émotionnel donc.
July 15, 2025
4.5 STARS This ebook caught my eye as I was scrolling on one of my public library's sites. I got a lot more out of this book than I had expected from - what I thought - was a light romcom.
The Gist: Elle has a successful podcast but moves home to care for her grandmother Lovie who has Alzheimer's. On her first night, she 'meets' Lovie's live-in nurse, Adam and the two don't hit it off - to say the least. But Elle and Adam decide to pretend to be together when Lovie seems comforted seeing them as a couple.
Fake dating, forced proximity (and an 'Insta-Enemies to Lovers), are the tropes in this book, but it was how the author sensitively relayed the personal impact of dementia on loved ones acting as caregivers that added an emotional and heartwarming feel. Murphy provides good banter to balance out the heavy emotions and potential tear-worthy moments for some readers.
As someone who lost both grandmothers to Alzheimer's, I appreciate the compassionate care the author took with this sensitive and emotional subject. Murphy shows how Alzheimer's affects the person with the disease as well as their family as they witness their loved one slip further away. It's also a powerful reminder for caregivers to be kind to themselves.
This was an impressive debut that balances poignancy, humour and romance. I eagerly look forward to reading more from Megan Murphy.
The Gist: Elle has a successful podcast but moves home to care for her grandmother Lovie who has Alzheimer's. On her first night, she 'meets' Lovie's live-in nurse, Adam and the two don't hit it off - to say the least. But Elle and Adam decide to pretend to be together when Lovie seems comforted seeing them as a couple.
Fake dating, forced proximity (and an 'Insta-Enemies to Lovers), are the tropes in this book, but it was how the author sensitively relayed the personal impact of dementia on loved ones acting as caregivers that added an emotional and heartwarming feel. Murphy provides good banter to balance out the heavy emotions and potential tear-worthy moments for some readers.
As someone who lost both grandmothers to Alzheimer's, I appreciate the compassionate care the author took with this sensitive and emotional subject. Murphy shows how Alzheimer's affects the person with the disease as well as their family as they witness their loved one slip further away. It's also a powerful reminder for caregivers to be kind to themselves.
This was an impressive debut that balances poignancy, humour and romance. I eagerly look forward to reading more from Megan Murphy.
January 24, 2025
"𝐌𝐚𝐲𝐛𝐞 𝐈 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 '𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐚 𝐰𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐬', 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮'𝐫𝐞 𝐦𝐲 '𝐨𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐚 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞'"
En pocas palabras: me ha encantado.
En 𝗙𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗜𝘁 𝗟𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗠𝗲𝗮𝗻 𝗜𝘁 nos encontramos con una historia adulta y madura, ambos protagonistas me han gustado mucho y he llegado a conectar bastante con ellos, sobretodo con Elle.
En el tercer capítulo sabía que ya me iba a detrozar por la temática del libro y no me he equivocaba, ha sido todo tan bonito, tan dulce y tan desgarrador que problablemente sea uno de mis libros de romance más top de este año.
Una de las cosas que más he disfrutado ha sido el desarrollo de la trama romántica, la he sentido real, me ha encantado ver como desde el principio son unos desconocidos que no tenían nada de ganas de encontrarse y con el paso del tiempo junto van surgiendo sentimientos y una sensación de camadería de ellos muy bonita.
Adam Wheeler es un amor y un crush bastante real, creo que hablo por todas cuando necesitamos un hombre así en nuestra vida 😛
Thanks NETGALLEY for the ARC.
En pocas palabras: me ha encantado.
En 𝗙𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗜𝘁 𝗟𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗠𝗲𝗮𝗻 𝗜𝘁 nos encontramos con una historia adulta y madura, ambos protagonistas me han gustado mucho y he llegado a conectar bastante con ellos, sobretodo con Elle.
En el tercer capítulo sabía que ya me iba a detrozar por la temática del libro y no me he equivocaba, ha sido todo tan bonito, tan dulce y tan desgarrador que problablemente sea uno de mis libros de romance más top de este año.
Una de las cosas que más he disfrutado ha sido el desarrollo de la trama romántica, la he sentido real, me ha encantado ver como desde el principio son unos desconocidos que no tenían nada de ganas de encontrarse y con el paso del tiempo junto van surgiendo sentimientos y una sensación de camadería de ellos muy bonita.
Adam Wheeler es un amor y un crush bastante real, creo que hablo por todas cuando necesitamos un hombre así en nuestra vida 😛
Thanks NETGALLEY for the ARC.
April 1, 2025
Megan Murphy… the emotional rollercoaster you sent me on… 😮💨 solid 3.75 ⭐️ rounded to 4. Such a good debut novel!
Elle and Adam… I had so much fun reading these two lol. I’m a big fan of banter and man did they deliver.
This book is slow burn and fake dating gold. I also really appreciated the authors representation of Alzheimer’s/dementia and how truly heartbreaking the lucid and the non lucid days are. Lovie’s character made me see so much of my own family members that it actually made it a bit hard to read at times. She truly stole the show! 😂
Thank you to NetGalley, for providing me with an ARC in exchange for a fair and honest review. All thoughts are my own and are in no way influenced by early access to this title. I actually finished this book a few weeks ago but apparently was so focused on recovering mentally from certain parts of this book I never posted my drafted review. My apologies!
Elle and Adam… I had so much fun reading these two lol. I’m a big fan of banter and man did they deliver.
This book is slow burn and fake dating gold. I also really appreciated the authors representation of Alzheimer’s/dementia and how truly heartbreaking the lucid and the non lucid days are. Lovie’s character made me see so much of my own family members that it actually made it a bit hard to read at times. She truly stole the show! 😂
Thank you to NetGalley, for providing me with an ARC in exchange for a fair and honest review. All thoughts are my own and are in no way influenced by early access to this title. I actually finished this book a few weeks ago but apparently was so focused on recovering mentally from certain parts of this book I never posted my drafted review. My apologies!
March 12, 2025
3.75 stars
Grab some tissues, this one may cause some tears.
Something I appreciated about Elle is that she felt like a very real and flawed character. Something I didn't love about Elle was that she was a very real and flawed character. 😂 yes I realize those are conflicting statements, but I feel Elle's entire character was effective in confronting some of the difficult and uncomfortable truths and feelings people experience when caring for someone with a disease like Alzheimer's. The frustration and resentment that ultimately lead to guilt felt accurately portrayed. There were moments where my empathy was put to the test with Elle's character because I was empathizing with what Lovey was experiencing, but Elle deserved that empathy too.
I adored Nurse Adam. The patience that man exuded not only with Lovey but also with Elle, let alone his own family. That man was burning the candle at both ends and continued to show up and be the life raft everyone was clinging to.
Alex Picard did a wonderful job bringing this story to life. She portrayed the emotion well through her narration.
Thank you to NetGalley and Dreamscape Media for the ALC.
Grab some tissues, this one may cause some tears.
Something I appreciated about Elle is that she felt like a very real and flawed character. Something I didn't love about Elle was that she was a very real and flawed character. 😂 yes I realize those are conflicting statements, but I feel Elle's entire character was effective in confronting some of the difficult and uncomfortable truths and feelings people experience when caring for someone with a disease like Alzheimer's. The frustration and resentment that ultimately lead to guilt felt accurately portrayed. There were moments where my empathy was put to the test with Elle's character because I was empathizing with what Lovey was experiencing, but Elle deserved that empathy too.
I adored Nurse Adam. The patience that man exuded not only with Lovey but also with Elle, let alone his own family. That man was burning the candle at both ends and continued to show up and be the life raft everyone was clinging to.
Alex Picard did a wonderful job bringing this story to life. She portrayed the emotion well through her narration.
Thank you to NetGalley and Dreamscape Media for the ALC.
August 28, 2025
What an emotional rollercoaster! Grandparents should be forever. I really liked Lovie, despite all her flaws stemming from her illness. Elle did everything she could for her and was always there, which is the best thing we can do. Adam is a sweetheart. I loved the plot and the characters. I totally recommend it!
March 15, 2025
This was such a cute and fun book! I loved the ease of it all. The premise was sweet and a fast and easy read. Lightheaded but a bit more spice than I prefer. I’m all for a good forced proximity romance!
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