How To Become a LILF: Leader I'd Like to Follow

by Dr. Candice Burney

"Let’s be the word MILF has been thrown around for years—usually with a wink, a smirk, and a hint of objectification. But what if we flipped that script? What if instead of being admired for looks alone, women (and leaders in general) were admired for the kind of influence, integrity, and impact they bring to the table? That’s where the LILF comes a Leader I'd Like to Follow.

This book isn’t about a corner office or a fancy title. It’s about something bigger. LILFs aren’t defined by authority; they’re defined by authenticity. They don’t just manage; they inspire. They don’t demand followers; they earn them. Think of this as your unapologetic, practical, and occasionally sassy guide to becoming the type of leader people willingly choose to stand behind. Along the way, we’ll laugh at the old leadership stereotypes, expose some painful truths about bad bosses, and celebrate the power of authentic leadership that makes people “Now THAT is a leader I’d like to follow.”

So, buckle up. It’s time to become a LILF. And trust me—once you are one, people won’t just notice. They’ll never forget it."

155 pages, Paperback

Published September 16, 2025