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Identity Beyond Roles: “Because who you are is bigger than what you do.”

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Not all grief comes from death. Sometimes it comes from losing yourself.

As a parent, partner, professional, or caregiver, it’s easy to give so much to others that you forget who you are. You become “Mom,” “Dad,” “Provider,” “Spouse”—and the person beneath the role quietly disappears. Society celebrates sacrifice, but it rarely acknowledges the hidden grief of self-loss.

In Identity Beyond Roles, writer and business owner Martha Ramirez explores what happens when identity becomes swallowed by duty, and how to find your way back.

Through moving vignettes, cross-cultural insights, and the wisdom of psychology, this book

Why roles and titles can become identity traps.

How cultural and religious scripts reinforce guilt and shame.

The psychology of self-loss, from attachment patterns to Jung’s shadow self.

Practical steps to grieve what you’ve lost, reclaim hidden parts of yourself, and sustain wholeness daily.

Exercises, journaling prompts, and rituals to create lasting change.

This is not a book about abandoning your roles. It’s about remembering you are more than them. With compassion and clarity, Martha guides you to honor your titles while reclaiming the deeper identity that endures when roles fade.

If you’ve ever felt invisible beneath the labels of life, this book is your invitation to come home to yourself.

228 pages, Kindle Edition

Published September 21, 2025

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