What should Erika San Ignacio be doing at her age of 41? The answer has always whatever she wants, actually. No matter what anyone else says. She's the only non-lawyer in her family's three generations of lawyers. She has a dating life of flings and non-exclusivity—happy and ready to be single and the favorite tita, for life. And she quit her senior-level corporate job in the middle of a national lockdown to help her best friend fulfill a dream to open a small cafe.
Turns out, the drastic career change might be a good idea after all. The cafe is thriving, she's enjoying being a cashier and business partner, and the handsome customer who works nearby is a daily highlight, a harmless crush she never speaks to. Life is steady all of a sudden, not demanding and complicated. She's into it.
What could disturb this peace? Just the favorite customer asking her out on a date, and wanting more. Just the corporate world trying to lure her away from the dream she helped build, with reminders of career goals from the past. When thinking about the life she wants for herself at this age, are these distractions she should say no to—or new challenges to take on?
Mina V. Esguerra writes contemporary romance and young adult novellas. She has a bachelor's degree in Communication and a master's degree in Development Communication, put to good use in her work as trainer and content management consultant. Mina lives in Metro Manila, Philippines, with her husband and daughter.
She finds inspiration in the lives and experiences of other people, so the answer to "Is this story based on you?" is always, always "No."
Let me start by saying that My Usual and You is my first romanceclass book and I found that it is a joy to read.
Erika is a force to be reckoned with. She knows what she wants and gets it. Very independent. For some reason, I am drawn to these characters, being an independent Tita myself. 😅
Erika and Daniel's chemistry is palpable, their interactions evokes the feeling of giddiness, their exchanges are witty. I like that they complement each other, being what the other needs in a given moment.
I like the narrative writing style because it helps me fully dip into the story. Especially with Erika's character, because I am a polar opposite with it comes to being assertive, it's like I'm living vicariously through her.
It is a smooth read, with hot and heavy bumps because of the spicy scenes. 🌶🌶🌶
Erika dates but never commits. Daniel’s recovering from a broken engagement. After a year of coffee runs at Yumi & Kit Café, Daniel is starting to realize he is not just hooked on the brew… And, on the other side of the counter, Erika admits to herself she’s crushing on this regular too!
Dating each other pushes them out of their comfort zones. Is this a fresh start for both, or will they stop things before they even begin?
I’m totally loving the vibe, the writing, the romance of My Usual and You. This is my fifth Mina Esguerra book, and she never disappoints. As someone with a CSR background, who used to work in Makati and is now in my 40s (and yes, a café regular!), every scene feels so real… like it could have happened to me or to someone I know 🥰
The conflicts feel honest, the chemistry is on point, the issues they navigate are recognizable, and their backstories are believable even when they are not mine (burnout, the weight of family reputation, swearing off romance among others). I genuinely enjoyed every page. The pacing is perfect and there was not a boring or dragging moment.
Mina’s writing gives me all the feels and it seemed I pondered with Erika and Daniel on every choice they made. The resolution and ending felt right and assuring. They truly found their person in each other. 🥹
Five things that make this book special to me plus quotes that hint about them 🥰
1. Strong independent FMC: A forty-something who has done the work and built a life on her own terms.
“I don’t know your situation but I’m sure everyone else thinks that you being forty and single is your choice. Just telling you that my situation is my choice, too.”
2. Yumi & Kit Cafe: A cafe that feels like my third place. I am a Cafè Tita through and through :)
“I like the coffee and the feeling I get from going here.”
3. The Idea of Pivoting: Fresh starts. New directions. Reinventions in your 40s. Mina nailed them!
“I know that café was your pandemic pivot and I totally understand because I had one too.”
4. Serendipity is my Jam: The universe makes sure you cross paths exactly when you are meant to.
“He could have been—all the things you said you’d never date. He could have been a politician. A lawyer.”
5. Lola Vicky Connection: That soft spot and deep admiration you’ll always have for your lola. Forever her little girl.
“What’s it like? To be Victoria San Ignacio’s granddaughter.”
Indeed, love stories know no age. You can be 40, and the best thing is yet to happen to you. ❤️❤️❤️
"But you are making me feel like I can care enough about someone again."
[e-arc provided in exchange of an honest review]
The second book on the Cafe Titas Duology, My Usual and You centers around Erika, a partner at the Yumi & Kit Cafe, who gets entangled in a "no-strings-attached" set-up with Daniel, who's a regular at the cafe. The catch? Well, none. They're both consenting adults. Adults in their 40s specifically. One is used to being alone and one got out of a very long-term relationship. With an invite to a wake to discovering family legacies, is this set-up leading to something else?
I signed up for this e-arc as First Time For Everything was my first @romanceclassbooks book, despite knowing that the main characters aren't my age range AT ALL. 🫣 To my surprise, loved that book, even got it signed at a bar (fact) 🍻🍸🍷 and was in the #RomanceClass hole ever since 💞 no regrets though.
SO TADAA🎉here we are.
One thing that was repeatedly drilled in my mind for the past 3 years was AGENCY, CONSENT, AND NO COERCION. 😩✊ And I freaking apply this rule to anything I write and read (and I kinda police myself sometimes as come on, be like this in historical fiction?) And of course, this book is filled with it💞
I think I am an Erika in the making (I hope I'm joking, but nope). An independent woman who has shifted her career (as I have done something with my current full-time job, I see this more clearly)😶🤡 And Daniel, seemed to be the perfect fit for her. (Where's my Daniel tho? Jk)
The steamy scenes are definitely steamy🔥♨️🥵 They were of course very filled with consent. I love that Erika's wants and needs were prioritized in this book. Both in her life and in 🛏️.
I also appreciate that Daniel is so in touch with emotions? It lifts off the weight from Erika to be "too emotional". They're both in-touch with feelings and reality. The Atty Victoria subplot was a highlight for me. It was raw, and felt real.
Honest to goodness I didn't get the three months ago reference at first😭 but eventually did. Also, love how much of a quick read this is with capters being less than 10 pages each.
Hence, justifying that review saying tat this book has no miscommunication trope at all.
There’s something about Mina Esguerra’s writing that always feels so familiar — like coming home to a voice that understands exactly what it’s like to be a woman navigating love, work, and life in your thirties or forties. Her prose is soft, reflective, and effortlessly grounded. I loved how My Usual and You explores romance not as a dramatic whirlwind, but as something tender, mature, and deeply human.
That said, I found myself wanting more time with Erika and her love interest. Everything happened so fast — emotionally intense in a way that almost felt like lovebombing, and there were hints of rebound vibes here and there. Maybe it’s the skeptic in me, or maybe it’s because I wanted to see more of that gradual unfolding — the quiet moments where two people learn to trust again, to open up slowly, to heal. I just wanted to savor that emotional progress a bit longer before the big feelings hit.
But even with that pacing, I still found the story incredibly relatable. Mina captured so well that weird mix of excitement and hesitation when you start something new — especially love — after convincing yourself you’ve moved past that stage in life. Erika’s story resonated with me because it’s about choosing joy even when you think it’s too late, taking risks even when you’ve been hurt, and learning that you can want peace and passion at the same time.
If you love mature, grounded romances set in familiar spaces, this book is for you. Perfect for those who crave stories about second chances, slow mornings, and the bravery it takes to fall again — even when you swore you wouldn’t.
Erika, 41 and content with her single life, helps her best friend run a cozy café until a certain “usual” customer starts making her days a lot more interesting. What begins as harmless admiration slowly brews into something deeper, and definitely hotter.
A quick, steamy, and very Filipino read! It’s giving "it’s getting hot in here" energy. The chemistry between Erika and Daniel is undeniable. But what really made me fall for this story is the serendipity vibe — that feeling that their paths were meant to cross at just the right time.
Erika’s confidence really stood out; even when faced with new challenges, she knows what she wants in romance and work, and she claims it unapologetically. A fun, heart-fluttering read that feels warm, real, and delightfully spicy— perfect to enjoy with your favorite cup of coffee!
Erika San Ignacio comes from a long line of lawyers, a path she did not take. Quitting her job in the corporate scene, she now manages with her best friend a small coffeeshop. One of their regulars, Daniel Zoleta, caught her eye. And apparently, she caught his too. Now in her 40s, Erika knows what she wants in life, and while Daniel ticks many of the boxes, he also checks out the one thing she didn’t wanna tangle with.
MUaY is pretty low-stakes and, compared to a lot of romance novels I’ve read, is relatively low-drama. I think this is a given when the characters act their age and know how to communicate. While it’s not the kind of tension I’m used to (what do you mean you’re not gonna start a fight over an easily resolvable issue?), it’s the kind that I actually like and appreciate. You’re 40, use your words.
Erika is a risk taker but knows her limits. Daniel is careful but not unyielding. These differences are where the tension is centered rather than in outside forces, which is interesting to see unfold, because at this stage in one’s life, change is one of the biggest challenges. This theme also plays into Erika’s story, when the corporate world comes knocking on her door, asking to have her back.
As usual, Mina captures the Filipino work and family culture accurately, so much that I laughed, winced, and screeched in kilig in extra doses, my reactions amplified by the unique understanding of a universal situation but with a Filipino flavor.
Because of the structure of the story, the spice distribution is even throughout the book (yes, including the very start). I know the comment may sound very clinical, but that’s how you know it’s hot (if you know me at all).
My Usual and You is a pretty relaxed story that takes playful jabs at family and societal expectations, challenges the accepted norm of what’s the prime of someone’s life, the meaning of our careers to ourselves and to others, and that love’s voice may finally speak when one’s heart is open to listening.
Thank you to Mina for the ARC! It’s out in stores now, perfect for a quick weekend read. Also available on Kindle!
Title: My Usual and You by Mina Esguerra Genre: Romance Rating: 4 stars ⭐️
"People on the apps were often set in their ways, or they claimed to be. And fair, they were also looking for their own satisfaction. She's learned to compromise and just get a good meal after. Learn from mistakes. Manage expectations."
Welcome to my stop for the My Usual and You Book tour! ☕️
The story is about Erika San Ignacio, a 41 yr old woman who works as a cashier at Yumi and Kit cafe situated at the Makati business district. One day, a gorgeous guy named Daniel Zoleta, a regular customer at the cafe, asks her out on a date and sparks fly.
Erika is a single woman who loves to go on random dates with men but all changed when she met Daniel and they fall in love.
This story is the one I relate the most. 😁 As a 41 year old woman myself, I instantly relate to Erika being a single and independent woman who knows what she wants. I also relate how she dated men from dating apps as I did the same thing esp this year. 😅 I do hope to find a guy like Daniel and settle down someday.
This is my 2nd Mina Esguerra book and I was surprised how steamy the story is. 😆 So brace yourself for several steamy scenes as you read this book. Literally it would set you on fire. 🔥🤣
Rating this book 4 stars and I want more of the Cafe Titas series. Reading the book in the cafe is the perfect way to chill out and get cozy after work.
Thank you to my friends from Booklovertitas for the buddy read and Mina Esguerra and @romanceclassbooks for the ARC copy! I hope to have a physical copy of the book and get the book signed by Mina. 😊
My Usual and You hits bookstores on November 7! Grab a copy now!
I received an ARC of this book in exchange for an honest review.
Longtime Mina Esguerra fan here! I practically grew up reading her work and can still remember using My Imaginary Ex (one of her earlier novels) as a topic for one of my school papers back in 2008–2009, so yes, I’ve been around since the early days!
Her new novella, My Usual and You, follows Erika, one half of the Café Titas duo. (You can read about the other half, Sabrina, in a previous book, but this one absolutely works as a standalone.) For such a short novella, it’s a refreshing and empowering read. Mina, as always, has this beautiful ability to breathe life into her characters and give each of them a distinct voice. Her writing is fluid, her dialogue crisp, and I especially loved the dual POV as it really lets you get into both lead characters’ heads 💭.
It’s also clear how much she’s grown as a writer. She makes some bold choices here in terms of narrative topics and character direction. Even if I can’t personally relate to the main female lead, I found her so well-written and empowering. Just the kind of modern Filipina you’d be proud to know in real life 🌸. She has agency, she knows what she wants, and she isn’t boxed in by societal expectations.
The story immerses you in the world of a lawyer family and high-profile corporate professionals, characters that may be far from my own experience, but that’s part of what made it so interesting. Props to Mina for bringing stories like this to the forefront of contemporary Philippine romance.
Overall, a solid and satisfying read! I finished it in just 3 sittings, and for such a short book, it was definitely time well spent ✨.
(Was given a free copy in exchange for an honest review)
Disclaimers: This is my first time reading Mina V. Esguerra's works with older characters & 🌶. The first-ever books of Ms. Mina's which I read in 2023 were from the Interim Goddess of Love series (with college-age characters and no spice). I read other Romanceclass novels with varying levels of spice between then and now too, thinking it was enough preparation. Frankly, it wasn't 😂
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Is it a crime to confess that I love this Cafe Titas sequel than its pilot book? “My Usual and You” has the stuff that I was looking for in its predecessor: solid enough backstories and generous inner thoughts for both main characters, banter, more scenes outside of their comfort zones, and supporting characters helping the story along.
I love that the main characters are a go-getter who isn't afraid to march to the beat of her own drum and an open-minded, try-everything guy who learns from his past hurts. And gah the lawyer thing got me HOOKED! YES! (Former corporate girlie is happy) “My Usual and You” is definitely living up to its title and a breath of fresh air with Erika’s zero frills attitude and outlook on life and the dating scene.
It was also difficult not to ask for Erika and Daniel's scenes to go longer. The time skips between some chapters are torturous. Like what do you mean we have to fade in black when their rapport is about to be solidified and they’re on the verge of agreeing that they ain’t going back to the way things were before??? But alas, it is a novella-length work. I cry inside. Maybe when I have the time, I will write my way into those time skips and give this book the fanfic treatment I need to satiate myself.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
At age 41, Erika San Ignacio knows what she wants in life. She is the only non-lawyer in a family of lawyers for generations. She left the corporate world to partner with her best friend run a cafe as a cashier and business partner. Life is quiet and steady, and the highlight of her day is being visited by her usual handsome customer ordering his usual coffee. But how long can she hold this peaceful life with so many temptations around.
I like how Erika knows what she wants and knows how to get it. She doesn’t care much of what society thinks of her. Most of us will probably be able to relate or will aspire to be like her. And even if we can’t, it would be easy to understand and emphatize with her. The strong female lead, the modern Filipina is always a breath of fresh air. I admire those who don’t get affected by the norms imposed by the society on women. I used to be in the corporate world gazillion years ago and reading this somehow makes me reminisce my time working in Makati and gives me a glimpse to that life that I somehow never regret leaving behind.
I read this book within the day. It’s an easy read, no non-sense book. It’s straightforward, simple story, simple conflict and simple resolution which is something we all need to calm our mind in this chaotic times. The chemistry of Erika and Daniel is something to look out for, titas! I like their friendship and romance, no strings attached and no pressure. I like that love find them naturally and stay indefinitely.
At 41, Erika has a no-nonsense attitude when it comes to relationships. So when Daniel, her Favorite Customer at Yumi & Kit Café asked her out, one of her conditions is that Daniel will still continue supporting the café regardless of how their date will turn out. Will Daniel continue to be fine with what Erika has little to offer?
The story is mostly set in the corporate district of Makati. I can imagine Yumi & Kit being a charming but unassuming café known to laidback employees of Makati, with Erika behind the cashier—watching them all and seeing herself years ago when she was a sharp corporate girlie attending high-profile meetings.
I was hooked since page 1. I am a fan of strong female characters who take charge of their life and relationship choices. I am just so smitten that this strong lady was forced to adjust because she did not know that she might be in too deep with a person whose career is on the top of her “No way” list.😁
As a lawyer, I’m mildly amused that Erika avoids dating those in our profession. I do get her, though.🤭
On the other hand, Daniel could be one of those few old romantics that made him still a bachelor for his age. I am simply infatuated with this fictional character, whose habit of taking a walk every day (during the sleepy working hours in the afternoon) in search of his favorite coffee (and cashier), is just so kilig. There’s just no word to describe it. Of course he is more than that.🔥 Prepare yourself for some steam, as this Tito and Tita MCs are not conservatives.🌶️🌶️🌶️
Overall, the reading experience with this book transported me to the tentative days of dating, weighing in career stability vs. career shift, and letting your guard down. It’s a more adult take on making choices about commitment and your calling.
What should Erika San Ignacio be doing at her age of 41? The answer has always whatever she wants, actually. No matter what anyone else says. She's the only non-lawyer in her family's three generations of lawyers. She has a dating life of flings and non-exclusivity—happy and ready to be single and the favorite tita, for life. And she quit her senior-level corporate job in the middle of a national lockdown to help her best friend fulfill a dream to open a small cafe.
Turns out, the drastic career change might be a good idea after all. The cafe is thriving, she's enjoying being a cashier and business partner, and the handsome customer who works nearby is a daily highlight, a harmless crush she never speaks to. Life is steady all of a sudden, not demanding and complicated. She's into it.
What could disturb this peace? Just the favorite customer asking her out on a date, and wanting more. Just the corporate world trying to lure her away from the dream she helped build, with reminders of career goals from the past. When thinking about the life she wants for herself at this age, are these distractions she should say no to—or new challenges to take on?
REVIEW:
M-ain characters are matured already. For some reasons, I found myself enjoying stories having "titas/titos" as main characters.
Y- earning is evident. If you are looking for a character who will do everything (ehem, walkathon) just to see his favorite cashier then this is it.
U-nderstands easily the situation. No complicated scenarios.
S-etting is good. Who doesn't like a coffee shop romance?!
U-plifts the spirit. If it is for you then it's for you even if you are in your 40's.
A-ppreciates the love of a friend. Cafe titas will not be possible without the support of friends to each other.
L-earned to find the real you without thinking what others will say about you.
Erika San Ignacio is 41, co-owner of a cozy café, and navigating a hot new romance with a handsome "usual" customer. This book beautifully explores: What does the life you want for yourself at 41 really look like? I absolutely adored watching this mature heroine redefine her life, find true joy, and get her happily-ever-after. It's so easy to fall in love with her story!
This novel is an absolute treat for anyone who loves: ✨ Mid-life career changes and new beginnings ✨ Flirtation over coffee (the best kind!) ✨ Real-life, grown-up love stories 🔥 A romance with truly spicy moments!
This is my first time reading a Romance Class book, and I am utterly obsessed! The writing is witty, the story is incredibly relatable, and it completely converted me—consider me a fan for life!