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GUIDED: Why We All Need a Guide in the Bedroom

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Transform Your Relationship From Routine to Electric—Using the Hidden Power of Guided Intimacy

After eight years of marriage and three kids, we'd fallen into "maintenance mode." Our sex life was predictable, our connection felt distant, and intimacy had become another item on our to-do list. Then one Tuesday night, we discovered something that changed the transformative power of guided intimacy.

What if the secret to extraordinary connection isn't passion, but presence?

Guided reveals a science-backed approach that's helping thousands of couples rediscover excitement, deepen trust, and create the kind of intimacy that gets stronger over time—not weaker. Drawing on cutting-edge neuroscience and real stories from couples who've transformed their relationships, this book shows you how external guidance can quiet mental chatter, reduce performance anxiety, and unlock levels of connection you never thought possible.

Inside, you'll

The neuroscience behind why guidance works—and how it literally rewires your brain for better intimacyThe four categories of guided experiences: Slow & Sensual, Bold & Playful, Energy & Touch, and Role & FantasyStep-by-step session examples that show exactly what these experiences look like in practiceHow to become a skilled guide who creates safety while inspiring adventureThe language patterns that invite rather than pressure, opening up new possibilities for connectionTroubleshooting strategies for when things don't go as plannedHow guided intimacy principles transform your entire relationship—from conflict resolution to parenting to daily communicationThis isn't about learning new positions or techniques. It's about developing the skills for presence, attunement, and trust that allow two people to explore the furthest reaches of intimate connection together.

Whether you've been together for months or decades, whether your relationship feels stuck or simply ready for something more, Guided provides a proven framework for creating the kind of intimacy that feels both deeply safe and thrillingly alive.

Your transformation starts with a simple What would happen if you stopped trying to figure it all out yourself?

Perfect for readers of "Come As You Are," "Mating in Captivity," and "She Comes First."

218 pages, Kindle Edition

Published November 4, 2025

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Scott Schwertly

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