A five year old bride in rural Nepal struggles with poverty, male domination and illiteracy to become a successful landowner, micro lender and great grandmother. Based on the true story of Kharika Devkota, this book provides a rare insight into the inspiring and determining life of a Nepali woman.
How many women in history can say they were nursed by their mothers on their wedding day?
The only ones who opposed 5 year old Kharika's marriage in rural Nepal in the late 1920s were chiding strangers as the wedding convoy passed. The little girl didn't know she was getting married but she knew her life would never again be happy or carefree. What followed was decades of backbreaking labor, abuse at the hands of her cold unloving groom, and loneliness. There was no escape, nobody who cared, all encouraged and insisted she go back home to that brute of a man. I don't know how anyone could survive such a bleak existence but I will say that Kharika had an indomitable spirit rarely seen in modern times. The world is a much different place today than it was a century ago but stories of hardship are necessary to remind us especially women of how far we've come.
I never write reviews, but I really enjoyed this book (altho I hated at least one of the people in it). I read it in Bhutan after I had been in Nepal for two weeks, including trekking in the Annapurna area near Pokhara and then a stay at Chitwan, so I had some basis for understanding the story and the severity of life for people who live in these areas. This book offers a lot of insight into traditional Nepali culture. The book is long, but the authors have done a fine job of presenting an engagingly-written story that held my attention all the way through.
I found this book fascinating. Kharika's resilience and physical and emotional strength is extraordinary. This book kept my attention page after page. I commend the authors- they did an excellent job telling her story.
I read this book while visiting a prominently Hindu country, and I found the glimpse into their lives very fascinating. It is written so you feel you are being told the story by Kharika herself. I had a hard time not stopping every 5 minutes to tell Dave what was happening now!
Really interesting snapshot of a woman's life in Nepal not that long ago. A beautiful read that helped expand my understanding of women's experience in a place of the world much different from my home.
I really enjoyed reading the story of this woman's life in rural Nepal.
The beginning was difficult to read just because her life and what she endured was so painful. It is hard to believe and read about people that are forced to endure and live in such horrific circumstances. Yet, that is life. It is not always pleasant and fun.
This book gave me a good glimpse into the life of a woman living in rural Nepal. I've visited Nepal before and was simply overcome with the majestic beauty of the Himalayas. At the time I didn't think much about the actual lives people were living and how harsh they must be. I simply viewed them through my western eyes and romanticized them.
The story takes us into the life of a child bride, from her point of view. It is amazing the life of these people, but ow look at her go. Goid education of others in the world.
Five Sons and a 100 Muri of Rice: The story of a five year old bride in rural Nepal by Sharon Steel and Zoe Dryden "A five year old bride in rural Nepal struggles with poverty, male domination and illiteracy to become a successful landowner, micro lender and great grandmother. Based on the true story of Kharika Devkota, this book provides a rare insight into the inspiring and determining life of a Nepali woman." If the title appeals to you then think you will enjoy. 4.5
Absolutely loved this book! Edits are needed but.. It is a beautiful description of a type of life most of us will never know in the modernized western world. And it behooves us all to be aware of these cultures, views, societies and people that exist elsewhere. Women are capable of immense strength as daughters, sisters, wives and most of all as mothers. This book proves that point, without a doubt. Highly recommend it!
I thoroughly loved this book and felt I was there with Kharika. I loved her dedication to her family her whole life. I loved how she expected her sons to take care of her and not the other way around. She was frugal and was a successful business woman even without much education. You feel sorry for how her life started at such a tender age of five. However, that didn't stop her from having a life .
This is a remarkable true story of a 5 year old bride in rural Nepali, who struggles with poverty and male domination and illiteracy to become a landowner, micro leader and great grandmother. It is such a well written book that I felt like I was listening to Kharika Devkota herself telling her story. Great book by Sharyn Steel.
What can you say about this book, it is so powerful. What a remarkable woman Kharkiv is. Married at 5 years old, not having a childhood and the struggles that she went through. Highly recommend this book, such an uplifting read.
The story was riveting, although the writing had some punctuation errors . I enjoyed reading it and would recommend it to others. I like to read stories of strong women who thrives despite the odds.
Each person has to face obstacles in their life. The story is found in how that person faces and overcomes those obstacles. A true glimpse into a way of life and living few can imagine.
Never have we known a life so dependent on the gender of a child’s birth, and the shame and condemnation of not producing a male. The strength and determination of a small person with fire is something to be reckoned with!
I thoroughly enjoyed this book. It is very well written and an easy read. The authors brought me into the lives of Nepalese inhabitants and described the daily drudgery and thrills of these wonderful folks. Thank you for writing this book!
Kharika...a beautiful soul...who has given everything of herself with very little in return...I love this book and I love dear Kharika...she deserves the world at her feet. Linda Crisp
What an amazing life. Hooray for women. How many could have done what she did. A must read. Too bad women were treated s inferior. She proves that assumption wrong.
The book "Five Sons and a Hundred Muri Rice" is a deeply captivating tale set in a rural village of western Nepal. Through its pages, it skillfully portrays the formation of Nepalese society in bygone times and delves into the dynamics of a family ruled by a single man. Reading this story evokes memories of my own mother's struggles while raising my two siblings and me, making it incredibly touching and relatable.
Moreover, the narrative beautifully illustrates how an ordinary Nepali woman manages to navigate the complexities of family life with grace, even in the absence of formal education.
If you happen to be a beginner in English, I must say that this book is an ideal addition to your collection. Its accessible language and engaging storytelling make it a perfect choice for those looking to improve their English skills while immersing themselves in a compelling narrative.