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Science-Based Social Skills: Using Psychological Data to Beat Awkwardness, Survive Small Talk, and Win People Over
100% scientific and proven ways to stop freezing, survive small talk, and finally feel confident in any social setting.
Forget vague advice like “just be yourself.” This book turns decades of psychological research into practical, no-fluff strategies that anyone can use to become instantly more confident, approachable, and socially skilled.
In Science-Based Social Skills, internationally bestselling author Patrick King distills over 25 studies on social perception, likability, and charisma into step-by-step tools you can apply right away. Learn how to avoid awkward silences, build effortless rapport, and make people want to keep talking to you—without being fake or overthinking every move.
Discover the hidden science behind first impressions, bonding, and group dynamics—so you can finally stop guessing and start connecting.
Why we underestimate how much people like us (“the liking gap”)
The tiny signals that instantly build trust and warmth
How moods spread—and how to use this to your advantage
Why reciprocity matters more than being perfect
The surprisingly powerful effect of doing small things together
Surprising psychological tips → huge Master first impressions and stop sabotaging yourself
Avoid the “comparison trap” while still looking confident and put-together
Use facial expressivity to be more charismatic—even if you’re introverted
Turn awkward small talk into effortless conversation with proven prompts
The chemistry why some people just click and how you can, too
How to bond quickly through shared experiences (no, screen time doesn’t count)
If you’ve ever wished socializing came with an instruction manual, this book is it. Every page is grounded in peer-reviewed science, and every tactic is practical enough to use at your next conversation, date, or networking event.
Stop dreading social situations and start thriving in them—with Science-Based Social Skills.
Forget vague advice like “just be yourself.” This book turns decades of psychological research into practical, no-fluff strategies that anyone can use to become instantly more confident, approachable, and socially skilled.
In Science-Based Social Skills, internationally bestselling author Patrick King distills over 25 studies on social perception, likability, and charisma into step-by-step tools you can apply right away. Learn how to avoid awkward silences, build effortless rapport, and make people want to keep talking to you—without being fake or overthinking every move.
Discover the hidden science behind first impressions, bonding, and group dynamics—so you can finally stop guessing and start connecting.
Why we underestimate how much people like us (“the liking gap”)
The tiny signals that instantly build trust and warmth
How moods spread—and how to use this to your advantage
Why reciprocity matters more than being perfect
The surprisingly powerful effect of doing small things together
Surprising psychological tips → huge Master first impressions and stop sabotaging yourself
Avoid the “comparison trap” while still looking confident and put-together
Use facial expressivity to be more charismatic—even if you’re introverted
Turn awkward small talk into effortless conversation with proven prompts
The chemistry why some people just click and how you can, too
How to bond quickly through shared experiences (no, screen time doesn’t count)
If you’ve ever wished socializing came with an instruction manual, this book is it. Every page is grounded in peer-reviewed science, and every tactic is practical enough to use at your next conversation, date, or networking event.
Stop dreading social situations and start thriving in them—with Science-Based Social Skills.
198 pages, Kindle Edition
Published October 1, 2025
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About the author
Patrick King
203 books332 followersPatrick King is a Social Interaction Specialist, in other words, a dating, online dating, image, and communication and social skills coach based in San Francisco, California, and has been featured on numerous national publications such as Inc.com. He’s also a #1 Amazon best-selling dating and relationships author with the most popular online dating book on the market, and writes frequently on dating, love, sex, and relationships.
He focuses on using his emotional intelligence and understanding of human interaction to break down emotional barriers, instill confidence, and equip people with the tools they need for success. No pickup artistry and no gimmicks, simply a thorough mastery of human psychology delivered with a dose of real talk, perfected and honed through three years of law school.
He focuses on using his emotional intelligence and understanding of human interaction to break down emotional barriers, instill confidence, and equip people with the tools they need for success. No pickup artistry and no gimmicks, simply a thorough mastery of human psychology delivered with a dose of real talk, perfected and honed through three years of law school.
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