What do you do when comfort starts to feel more like a cage than a choice?
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Ingrid, a 29-year-old librarian, has been with her boyfriend Cory for over a decade. When her younger sister suddenly gets engaged after just a couple of years, Ingrid starts questioning why her own relationship has never moved forward. One VERY uncomfortable conversation later, she and Cory agree to something unexpected: a month apart, living separately, with permission to explore dating other people to make sure they’re actually the right fit for each other. (I’m gonna be honest this whole idea threw me off. Like is that normal??? who does that???)
But what’s supposed to be thirty days of freedom slowly stretches into months of experiment that forces Ingrid to confront what she really wants from love, life, and herself.
At first, Ingrid’s attention shifts to Macon, her 39-year-old grumpy coworker at the library. Their friendship has always carried a flicker of something more, and though Ingrid tests those boundaries with an impulsive kiss, it backfires and creates an awkward distance between them. (I cringed so hard reading this part 😭 poor Ingrid) To cope, she throws herself into dating apps and new experiences, but Macon lingers in the background… bristling, jealous, and yet unwilling to act. (he annoyed me gosh. just GO FOR HER) Over the course of the year, Ingrid wrestles with heartbreak, self-discovery, and the messy in-between of letting go and stepping into something new.
The strongest element of the story is Ingrid’s growth. Watching her evolve from someone clinging to a long-term relationship out of comfort to someone brave enough to face change felt rewarding. The book highlights how endings can open doors to new beginnings, often in ways that aren’t immediately clear.
That said, the pacing left A LOT to be desired. The story covers an entire year of Ingrid’s life, but much of it felt unnecessarily drawn out. Chapters dragged, and while a slow burn can be powerful, this one was stretched to the point where the effect was dulled. A sharper focus or even alternating perspectives might have kept the story more engaging. The book just seemed unnecessarily long. 🥲
Overall, this story shines in the way it explores change, self-discovery, and the realization that not every long-term plan is meant to last forever. Ingrid’s journey feels genuine and her growth is satisfying to follow, but the drawn-out pacing made the book lose some of its strength. It’s a solid read with meaningful themes, just not one that left a lasting impression.
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"Second of all—his face softened as he took
me in—"you are everything. You're literal sunshine. You light up my life and bring color into my world, and all I've wanted since the day we met is to bask in the warmth of your glow."
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things to know about the book ↓
📚 single pov (hers)
🐈⬛ grumpy x sunshine
📚 slow-burn (EXTREME)
🐈⬛ friends-to-lovers
📚 found family
A huge thank you to Netgalley, St. Martin's Press, and Stephanie Perkins for allowing me to read this arc. These are all my honest opinions in this review.