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Kuidas sulle öelda
Kuidas oma elu uuesti üles ehitada, kui see ühe hetkega igaveseks muutub? Kolmekümne viie aastane Victoria Sharpe töötab illustraatorina, tal on suurepärased sõbrad ja igati kena, ehkki pisut liiga etteaimatav kaaslane. Ometi tunneb Victoria juba mõnda aega, et midagi on puudu … Soovides pingetest vabaneda, läheb ta koos parimate sõpradega välja. Järgmisel hommikul, pärast üht hooletut tegu, otsustab naine lõpuks, et on valmis kuulama oma südame häält ja asuma tegudele. Ent peagi saab ta laastava uudise, mis näib hävitavat igasuguse lootuse helgeks tulevikuks. Või vähemalt nii ta arvab … sest kui sõbrad ja pere teda toetama asuvad ning ootamatu uus armusuhe ta südame kiiremini põksuma paneb, avastab Victoria, et mõnikord võib kõige süngemast pimedusest läbi murda kõige kirkam valgus. Aga kas ta suudab pärast kõike läbielatut selle oma ellu lasta? Palavalt armastatud ajaviitekirjaniku Nicola May sulest on seni lugejateni jõudnud ülimenukad sarjad „Väike nurgapood“ ja „Väike külaturg“ ning eraldiseisev romaan „Tööpesa“. Oma uues romaanis „Kuidas sulle öelda“ käsitleb ta tõsiseid elulisi teemasid just talle omasel elujaataval ja kirkal toonil, edastades selge sõnumi: armastus muudab tõepoolest kõike.
304 pages, Paperback
First published December 24, 2024
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Nicola May
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January 29, 2025
3.5⭐️
Genre ~ women's fiction
Setting ~ England, 2005 -2006
Publication date ~ January 20, 2025
Publisher ~ Storm Publishing
Est Page Count ~ 298 (35 titled chapters +e)
Audio length ~ 9 hours 40 minutes
Narrator ~ Alison Campbell
POV ~ single 3rd
Featuring ~ cheating, navigating a HIV diagnosis, alcoholic parent, family drama, old secrets, slow burn, no steamage
Victoria (35) has been with her boyfriend, Nate, for 6 years. She calls him while drunk one night and another woman answers his phone. She doesn't think too much of it, but she does end up sleeping with another man named Danny. No one could have ever predicted that that one night would forever change Victoria's life.
This is my first time reading fiction with a HIV character. I felt it was well done as Victoria goes through all of the motions. Why her? What did she do to deserve this? How will everyone react when she tells them? Will anyone ever love her again? It was interesting how each character reacted to the news. I wish that maybe some were handled differently, but I guess that made it more realistic on how people will react. It's obvious the author is well versed on the topic.
Not only is she navigating her diagnosis, but there are side plots of family drama which added an extra layer to her journey. Cheating goes beyond just the main characters, so be aware of that.
Overall, this is straight women's fiction with just a touch of slow burn romance. It wasn't hard to figure out who she'd end up with, and I was pleased with that outcome.
Narration notes:
I did not listen to this one. Just giving the info above for reference,
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Genre ~ women's fiction
Setting ~ England, 2005 -2006
Publication date ~ January 20, 2025
Publisher ~ Storm Publishing
Est Page Count ~ 298 (35 titled chapters +e)
Audio length ~ 9 hours 40 minutes
Narrator ~ Alison Campbell
POV ~ single 3rd
Featuring ~ cheating, navigating a HIV diagnosis, alcoholic parent, family drama, old secrets, slow burn, no steamage
Victoria (35) has been with her boyfriend, Nate, for 6 years. She calls him while drunk one night and another woman answers his phone. She doesn't think too much of it, but she does end up sleeping with another man named Danny. No one could have ever predicted that that one night would forever change Victoria's life.
This is my first time reading fiction with a HIV character. I felt it was well done as Victoria goes through all of the motions. Why her? What did she do to deserve this? How will everyone react when she tells them? Will anyone ever love her again? It was interesting how each character reacted to the news. I wish that maybe some were handled differently, but I guess that made it more realistic on how people will react. It's obvious the author is well versed on the topic.
Not only is she navigating her diagnosis, but there are side plots of family drama which added an extra layer to her journey. Cheating goes beyond just the main characters, so be aware of that.
Overall, this is straight women's fiction with just a touch of slow burn romance. It wasn't hard to figure out who she'd end up with, and I was pleased with that outcome.
Narration notes:
I did not listen to this one. Just giving the info above for reference,
Connect with me ➡ Blog ~ Facebook ~ X
January 12, 2025
This was such a heavy book, but done so well it didn't feel as heavy as it could. I felt like I learned a lot more about HIV. I loved all of Vic's family and friends. Vic was amazing, she's like alot of us. Living life in a cycle and comfortable. But what could happen if we truly go after our dreams? I absolutely loved the author, he was my favorite character. So unique and interesting. The twist was a lovely addition as well as the ending. All around a wonderful read! Side note and completely irrelevant: The author truly enjoys using the terms "sounds omnious", I felt like I heard it 10 times minimum, but I didn't count (looking back now, I wish I did). Lol
I received this ARC from NetGalley and Storm Publishing to read/review. All of the statements above are my true opinions after fully reading this book.
I received this ARC from NetGalley and Storm Publishing to read/review. All of the statements above are my true opinions after fully reading this book.
February 14, 2025
A fun, quick read!
I really liked the side characters and even the MMC! They were a whole lot of fun, and I found myself drawn to them from beginning to end. The humor was also pretty good, and I laughed quite a bit!
However, I didn’t like our FMC, Victoria, most of the time. I was constantly frustrated with her, her actions, and her unaccountability to them. The hypocrisy was actually maddening.
I very much dislike books that promote cheating, and unfortunately this was one of those—whether I liked the main couple or not is irrelevant when their relationship started out the way it did. Two wrongs don’t make a right, and it really bugged me how Victoria couldn’t muster up the courage to tell Nate (her longtime boyfriend before the MMC) even when he told her about his own infidelity.
Had the main couple's relationship started out on better ground, I would’ve rated this higher because I did really love the two together, but my morals have me giving this book a lower rating.
The writing was kind of iffy at times, but regardless, I liked this enough. It had mostly likable characters, and I loved the journey it took me on, even if it was annoying at times. This was fun overall, and I did like the main couple a lot; I just hated that it had to start out the way it did.
3.5 ★
𝙏𝙝𝙖𝙣𝙠 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙩𝙤 𝙉𝙚𝙩𝙂𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙚𝙮 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙥𝙪𝙗𝙡𝙞𝙨𝙝𝙚𝙧 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝘼𝙍𝘾!
I really liked the side characters and even the MMC! They were a whole lot of fun, and I found myself drawn to them from beginning to end. The humor was also pretty good, and I laughed quite a bit!
However, I didn’t like our FMC, Victoria, most of the time. I was constantly frustrated with her, her actions, and her unaccountability to them. The hypocrisy was actually maddening.
I very much dislike books that promote cheating, and unfortunately this was one of those—whether I liked the main couple or not is irrelevant when their relationship started out the way it did. Two wrongs don’t make a right, and it really bugged me how Victoria couldn’t muster up the courage to tell Nate (her longtime boyfriend before the MMC) even when he told her about his own infidelity.
Had the main couple's relationship started out on better ground, I would’ve rated this higher because I did really love the two together, but my morals have me giving this book a lower rating.
The writing was kind of iffy at times, but regardless, I liked this enough. It had mostly likable characters, and I loved the journey it took me on, even if it was annoying at times. This was fun overall, and I did like the main couple a lot; I just hated that it had to start out the way it did.
3.5 ★
𝙏𝙝𝙖𝙣𝙠 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙩𝙤 𝙉𝙚𝙩𝙂𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙚𝙮 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙥𝙪𝙗𝙡𝙞𝙨𝙝𝙚𝙧 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝘼𝙍𝘾!
February 17, 2025
This is a well written story about life, and
nobody gets out unscathed. The conclusion
is absolutely special.
My thanks to Storm Publisher via NetGalley
for the download copy for review purposes.
nobody gets out unscathed. The conclusion
is absolutely special.
My thanks to Storm Publisher via NetGalley
for the download copy for review purposes.
December 23, 2024
Thank you to Netgalley and the publisher for the ARC in exchange for my honest opinion.
*3.5 stars*
TW: cheating, sexually transmitted disease
Despite having a good job and a steady boyfriend, Victoria Sharpe feels something is missing from her life. After a rash decision leaves her with devastating news, Victoria must come to terms with what she wants out of life. Using this as a catalyst to make changes in her life, Victoria embarks on an emotional journey to redesign the life she’s been living and follow the dreams she’d previously cast aside.
There were a lot of elements I enjoyed in the novel and also some that I could have done without.
First the pros:
Ms. May writes about dealing with an HIV diagnosis beautifully and sensitively. I appreciate the care she took with dealing with such a topic. She doesn’t sugarcoat it. And while Vic received a ton of support from family and friends she does have to deal with the feelings and fallout when she shares this information. I think it was handle truthfully and what I imagine those who have been diagnosed have had to deal with. She provides a lot of information about the realities of living with HIV and what that means in regard to starting a new relationship and conversations that need to be had.
I loved Vic’s support system. Her family and friends treated her compassionately and really rooted for her. Vic has a major character arc as she navigates what her new normal is and as she chases after her dreams. It was lovely to watch her find joy through her art and come to terms with her diagnosis. I loved that Vic got the happy ending she deserved with a kind and compassionate man. There’s a very clear message of “we are so much more than our circumstances” which was very profound.
The cons:
There is so much cheating in this book from multiple characters, and I felt like it was handled so cavalierly. I understand it’s a part of life and that people make mistakes, but it just felt like it ran rampant throughout the novel. I can definitely see it being potentially triggering for some audiences. My other issue was with the random subplot where secrets are revealed that is thrown in towards the end. I won’t give anything away, but it just felt unnecessary, and I’m not quite sure why it was included.
I will say this definitely falls under the women’s fiction genre as there isn’t much romance in the novel. So do bear that in mind if you pick it up as I believe romance was one of the categories it was listed under. Overall, I thought it was very well written, and I’m definitely in interested more of this author’s work.
*3.5 stars*
TW: cheating, sexually transmitted disease
Despite having a good job and a steady boyfriend, Victoria Sharpe feels something is missing from her life. After a rash decision leaves her with devastating news, Victoria must come to terms with what she wants out of life. Using this as a catalyst to make changes in her life, Victoria embarks on an emotional journey to redesign the life she’s been living and follow the dreams she’d previously cast aside.
There were a lot of elements I enjoyed in the novel and also some that I could have done without.
First the pros:
Ms. May writes about dealing with an HIV diagnosis beautifully and sensitively. I appreciate the care she took with dealing with such a topic. She doesn’t sugarcoat it. And while Vic received a ton of support from family and friends she does have to deal with the feelings and fallout when she shares this information. I think it was handle truthfully and what I imagine those who have been diagnosed have had to deal with. She provides a lot of information about the realities of living with HIV and what that means in regard to starting a new relationship and conversations that need to be had.
I loved Vic’s support system. Her family and friends treated her compassionately and really rooted for her. Vic has a major character arc as she navigates what her new normal is and as she chases after her dreams. It was lovely to watch her find joy through her art and come to terms with her diagnosis. I loved that Vic got the happy ending she deserved with a kind and compassionate man. There’s a very clear message of “we are so much more than our circumstances” which was very profound.
The cons:
There is so much cheating in this book from multiple characters, and I felt like it was handled so cavalierly. I understand it’s a part of life and that people make mistakes, but it just felt like it ran rampant throughout the novel. I can definitely see it being potentially triggering for some audiences. My other issue was with the random subplot where secrets are revealed that is thrown in towards the end. I won’t give anything away, but it just felt unnecessary, and I’m not quite sure why it was included.
I will say this definitely falls under the women’s fiction genre as there isn’t much romance in the novel. So do bear that in mind if you pick it up as I believe romance was one of the categories it was listed under. Overall, I thought it was very well written, and I’m definitely in interested more of this author’s work.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
February 8, 2025
How Do I Tell You? by Nicola May is my first book by this author who has written lots of books - I love it when I discover a new author with a huge back catalogue! I listened to this on BookBeat and the narrator was very talented with a huge range of voices.
Victoria Sharpe is in her 30s, stuck in a bit of a rut with her work and her boyfriend. Her mum us an alcoholic and she feels there is something missing in life. Then something does happen and it is huge and she has to re-evaluate everything - her friendships, her family and her future. I asked the author if I should mention in this review what this thing is but I went in not knowing and I literally gasped out loud as it was revealed so feel it should be discovered by the reader.
I loved the characters in this book - I especially loved how wonderful Victoria’s friends were in supporting her. I thought everyone’s reactions to the situation were very realistic and Victoria’s emotions could be felt acutely felt. The story is well paced and raises lots of issues. I haven’t read about a character facing this issue in a book before (sorry to be so cryptic!) and thought it was handled so well with sensitivity.
More than a light-hearted romance, How Do I Tell You? raises important issues and is an emotional read. Highly recommended.
Victoria Sharpe is in her 30s, stuck in a bit of a rut with her work and her boyfriend. Her mum us an alcoholic and she feels there is something missing in life. Then something does happen and it is huge and she has to re-evaluate everything - her friendships, her family and her future. I asked the author if I should mention in this review what this thing is but I went in not knowing and I literally gasped out loud as it was revealed so feel it should be discovered by the reader.
I loved the characters in this book - I especially loved how wonderful Victoria’s friends were in supporting her. I thought everyone’s reactions to the situation were very realistic and Victoria’s emotions could be felt acutely felt. The story is well paced and raises lots of issues. I haven’t read about a character facing this issue in a book before (sorry to be so cryptic!) and thought it was handled so well with sensitivity.
More than a light-hearted romance, How Do I Tell You? raises important issues and is an emotional read. Highly recommended.
February 5, 2025
I am a BIG fan of Nicola's writing, but did not realize how different this story would be when I started it. I am really happy that I did not check the reviews for it before reading it, as many contain spoilers.
This is a really moving and heartwarming story about love, family and making the best of the cards you are dealt. I know from personal experience how life as you knew it could suddenly change and thought Nicola did a brilliant job of showing how it affects not just the one person who gets the news but all around. This story deals with some very difficult topics but does so beautifully and the way different people respond is realistic, heartbreaking and also heartwarming.
This is definitely a story I will remember!
This is a really moving and heartwarming story about love, family and making the best of the cards you are dealt. I know from personal experience how life as you knew it could suddenly change and thought Nicola did a brilliant job of showing how it affects not just the one person who gets the news but all around. This story deals with some very difficult topics but does so beautifully and the way different people respond is realistic, heartbreaking and also heartwarming.
This is definitely a story I will remember!
January 17, 2025
This book is amazing. It is a story of heartbreak and hope and a romantic relationship that beats the odds. Victoria is complicated and feeling lost when we meet her but she grows as a person and in her career and relationships as the book progresses. I don’t want to give much away but I will say the ending was very satisfying and I couldn’t stop smiling for Victoria and the way things turned out. Thank you to author Nicola May, Storm Publishing and NetGalley for giving me a chance to read it early.
January 18, 2025
3⭐️ Thank you to NetGalley and Storm Publishing for an advanced copy of How Do I Tell You?
Victoria is an artist who is dealing with an alcoholic mother, a brother with a gambling addiction, and a long term boyfriend who has no direction and drive. Her best friend is getting married and it makes her question if she is where she wants to be in life. But one night and once choice will change her life forever.
I did not enjoy the first half of this book. I could not connect with the characters or the storyline. But the second half really dives into serious topics that should be discussed.
Victoria is an artist who is dealing with an alcoholic mother, a brother with a gambling addiction, and a long term boyfriend who has no direction and drive. Her best friend is getting married and it makes her question if she is where she wants to be in life. But one night and once choice will change her life forever.
I did not enjoy the first half of this book. I could not connect with the characters or the storyline. But the second half really dives into serious topics that should be discussed.
January 27, 2025
I think I can say without a shadow of a doubt that May has written my absolute favourite book ever! A book that conjured a plethora of emotions that hit me in the feels and had me immediately invested into the wonderful characters she's created.
Life as she knows it is about to change irrevocably for our main character Vic, but with the love and support of her friends and family behind her she shows us that the impossible is possible. She was one of those characters that I immediately took to heart and wanted to protect her from any more hurt.
I devoured the book across two sittings with only sleep getting in my way.
How Do I Tell You is an uplifting and enjoyable page turner.
Life as she knows it is about to change irrevocably for our main character Vic, but with the love and support of her friends and family behind her she shows us that the impossible is possible. She was one of those characters that I immediately took to heart and wanted to protect her from any more hurt.
I devoured the book across two sittings with only sleep getting in my way.
How Do I Tell You is an uplifting and enjoyable page turner.
February 20, 2026
I have never read a book about this topic or really thought much about it, actually. It was a very sad book at times, but well written - I could imagine Vic’s anguish and all of her conflicting feelings. Overall, there was more language and references to casual sex than I prefer, but I did appreciate expanding my thoughts about this subject. I also really wasn’t sure which direction this would go - a sign of great writing. Sad but hopeful. Painful but real. And thankfully, a mostly HEA.
January 19, 2025
Interesting story and a little heartbreaking. The characters were throughout enough to give a general emotion however I just didn’t connect well with the story as a whole. I appreciate the opportunity to read this but it just wasn’t the type of story that I normally enjoy.
January 8, 2025
This was a heartwarming story with Vic the main character, she’s going through a rough patch, she doesn’t know if she still wants to with her boyfriend Nate. After a hen weekend in Brighton, she sleeps with another guy which will have a lasting effect. This was a well written book with a very important subject and I’m so glad the author dealt with it so well. It is something that is not talked about, but should. I really enjoy reading this authors books, they are an easy read with great subjects. A 4 star read.
Thanks to Netgalley and the publishers for a copy.
Thanks to Netgalley and the publishers for a copy.
January 4, 2025
To be honest, after I requested this ARC, I hesitated a bit about reading it. The story I somehow was expecting was not AT ALL the story I got. This was funny, thoughtful, insightful, and full of interesting facts about a topic that we are unfortunately so uneducated even now. I love the story, the main characters and its supporting characters.
This is one of those cases where the description doesn’t give the book enough credit, but any further information would become an unappreciated spoiler and I personally love spoilers. So believe when I tell you to trust and read it blindly.
I can be grateful enough for being able to read this story. I thank the author, publisher and NetGalley for this book.
This is my honest and voluntary review.
This is one of those cases where the description doesn’t give the book enough credit, but any further information would become an unappreciated spoiler and I personally love spoilers. So believe when I tell you to trust and read it blindly.
I can be grateful enough for being able to read this story. I thank the author, publisher and NetGalley for this book.
This is my honest and voluntary review.
January 1, 2025
Excellent although it wasn't quite what I was expecting and took me by surprise! Victoria is in cruise control in her life. Comfortable in her relationship and job but not really fulfilled. It takes a night out and devastating news to shake her out of her rut. Along the way she has to face and deal with her fears, decide what she really wants from life, and she finds out how much her friends and family love and support her. My only criticism is that the ending felt a little rushed. But this is a very well told story filled with empathy, understanding and compassion, as well as a huge amount of twists and revelations!.
Thanks to Netgalley, Storm Publishing, and Nicola May for the free ARC. All opinions are my own.
Thanks to Netgalley, Storm Publishing, and Nicola May for the free ARC. All opinions are my own.
January 26, 2025
What great story 😊
December 29, 2024
Thank you to NetGalley, Storm Publishing and author Nicola May for this eARC.
How Do I Tell You? Well, let me start of by telling you I loved this book!
I could not put this down and read it in 2 days.
It's at times heartbreaking, sad and frustrating while also warm, funny and hopeful. It's about family, friendship, happiness, love, social stigmas, prejudice and perseverance.
While there is a cute love story, I don't think I'd categorise this as a romance because Victorias journey is so much more than just that small aspect of it.
How Do I Tell You? Well, let me start of by telling you I loved this book!
I could not put this down and read it in 2 days.
It's at times heartbreaking, sad and frustrating while also warm, funny and hopeful. It's about family, friendship, happiness, love, social stigmas, prejudice and perseverance.
While there is a cute love story, I don't think I'd categorise this as a romance because Victorias journey is so much more than just that small aspect of it.
December 23, 2024
Thank you for allowing me to review this book. This is the first book by Nicola May I have read. I felt that she wrote about a difficult subject it a sensitive manner. The story follows Victoria, as she reviews her life and friendships, after receiving unexpected news. I felt that the characters are particularly well written and I could perhaps see myself viewing things in a similar way. A story of ignorance and misinformation.
The story develops at a good pace and the changes for the better in some characters are heartwarming. The truths that come to light were unexpected but added to the interest level. It also shows that we don't always get things right first time.
The story develops at a good pace and the changes for the better in some characters are heartwarming. The truths that come to light were unexpected but added to the interest level. It also shows that we don't always get things right first time.
January 28, 2025
What a good book!!
What I thought was just going to be just another romance book turned into something completely different. It’s a well written story covering a life changing situation. You won’t be able to put this one down
What I thought was just going to be just another romance book turned into something completely different. It’s a well written story covering a life changing situation. You won’t be able to put this one down
January 11, 2025
This book is messy but I kind of here for it. The main character, Victoria, can’t seem to get herself straight. She’s trying to figure out what she wants for her life, career and in love, but she keeps sabotaging herself with every move she makes. On a night out she makes a rash decision that changes everything. Forced to deal with the consequences, she finally begins to reassess who she really wants to be. The author, Nikola May, explores sensitive topics thoughtfully as the main character Victoria pushes through adversity to take ownership of her life and find her happiness. Thank you to NetGalley and Storm Publishing for this opportunity to review this arc copy and provide my honest review.
January 29, 2025
BLOG TOUR REVIEW
Review for 'How Do I Tell You?' by Nicola May.
'How Do I Tell You?' discusses some topics that may upset some readers or may not be suitable for others. I like to point this out ahead of time in my reviews so you can judge if this book is for you or not. In this book Nicola discusses/includes HIV, alcohol addiction and AIDS. All these topics are covered as sensitively as possible.
What an absolutely beautiful, heart warming, educational, eye opening and stunning must read!!! Absolutely love, love, loved it!!! This book has fantastic descriptions that set you straight in the scenes. The cover, title and synopsis suit the storyline perfectly.
The storyline itself was absolutely unputdownable so make sure you clear your schedules before starting to read it!!
If you are looking for an absolutely addictive read then this is the book for you!! Nicola's evocative writing skills sucks the reader deep into the pages bringing the absolutely beautiful storyline to life along with all the amazing characters. While reading this book you will be swept away and left feeling the emotions of Victoria, seeing everybody and everything come to life in front of you and keep you hooked!!! In this absolutely beautiful and unique storyline Nicola May transports us to Windsor and takes us back to the year 2005. It is here that we meet Victoria Sharpe who is an illustrator, has a boyfriend called Nate and is off on a hen party with her best friends Orla and Mandy. Things are not going great in her relationship with Nate and after a few drinks on Mandy's hen party she ends up having a one night stand with Danny in Brighton. When she comes down with the flu and Orla discusses getting a health check at the sexual health clinic Victoria's life completely changes when she is diagnosed with being HIV positive. Victoria has no idea who to turn to and when she does start to tell people the reactions are surprising. Will Victoria find a rainbow at the end of this storm? Will Nate or her friends stand by her and support her? Grab your copy of this absolutely gorgeous one of a kind page turner to find out more for yourselves and I promise that you will not regret it!!! This book genuinely is a must read for anyone and everybody!! Not only is it jut an absolutely stunning storyline but it is also extremely informative and eye opening giving readers an insider perspective on how it feels and what it is like to be told you have HIV. I want to congratulate and thank Nicola May on using this extremely important, yet what is still even in these days somewhat taboo, illness creating an absolutely amazing storyline and putting them together to spread much needed awareness. I have never come across a book that covers HIV in a story and considering I have read thousands of books that really does say a lot!! the fact that you creates this brilliant storyline, spread awareness and put this unique book in this world is just fantastic!!! I must admit that I had very limited knowledge of HIV and had never met anyone who actually had it until I spoke to a gentleman I knew and whilst talking he just came out with the fact that he had it in an everyday conversation. My immediate reaction was actually worry for him that he was going to die from it but he explained it wasn't like that anymore and there are medications. I had known him a while but was still so pleased that he felt he could just come out with it in conversation as it is sad that we still live in a world where people will make remarks and assumptions on a person who has it. Anyway I wont say anymore about that topic apart from another Thank You to Nicola for using the media of storytelling to spread awareness. The storyline is not just about HIV but so much more!! It is ram packed with romance, friendship, books, art, second chances, cute dogs, determination, memorable characters, secrets, surprises and everything you could ever ask for in a book and much much more!! So what are you waiting for??? Grab your copy of this beauty today!! It is a stunning and emotive escapism read and it genuinely felt like I was dropped into the middle of this storyline seeing the locations and characters come to life in front of me that I absolutely loved exploring and learning about. I was absolutely devastated when I came to the end and had to pack my mental suitcase to return to rainy Wales. I cannot wait to delve into more books from this extremely talented author!!! This book is an absolutely stunning read that is perfect to lift your spirits!! I felt like I was next to each of the characters throughout!!
The characters were all an eclectic mix and each one of them were realistic and strong. I was completely in them all and I already miss them even though I have just closed the pages. I loved meeting every single character and they all had their own individual and unique personalities, strengths, flaws, quirks and weaknesses. They truly are an absolutely amazing gang of characters who will stay with me for a long time and I would love to meet them all again. I devoured this book in a few hours as it is one of those that I just could not put down. there were so many times that I told myself that I would just finish the one chapter and then go back to it but that chapter ended in a way that I could not put it down and then the next one did and then the next and so on until I came to very last page. I would absolutely love to see this beauty turned into a movie and I will be at the front of the queue to go and see it!! Nicola's writing skills will absolutely absorb you into the book and no matter where you are in the world you will be sucked into Victoria's life in the blink of an eye.
What are you waiting for?!? Pick up one of my favourite, unique, educational must read page turners today!
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Overall an unputdownable, unforgettable, educational and unique romance that will have you staying up late at night to finish it.
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Review for 'How Do I Tell You?' by Nicola May.
'How Do I Tell You?' discusses some topics that may upset some readers or may not be suitable for others. I like to point this out ahead of time in my reviews so you can judge if this book is for you or not. In this book Nicola discusses/includes HIV, alcohol addiction and AIDS. All these topics are covered as sensitively as possible.
What an absolutely beautiful, heart warming, educational, eye opening and stunning must read!!! Absolutely love, love, loved it!!! This book has fantastic descriptions that set you straight in the scenes. The cover, title and synopsis suit the storyline perfectly.
The storyline itself was absolutely unputdownable so make sure you clear your schedules before starting to read it!!
If you are looking for an absolutely addictive read then this is the book for you!! Nicola's evocative writing skills sucks the reader deep into the pages bringing the absolutely beautiful storyline to life along with all the amazing characters. While reading this book you will be swept away and left feeling the emotions of Victoria, seeing everybody and everything come to life in front of you and keep you hooked!!! In this absolutely beautiful and unique storyline Nicola May transports us to Windsor and takes us back to the year 2005. It is here that we meet Victoria Sharpe who is an illustrator, has a boyfriend called Nate and is off on a hen party with her best friends Orla and Mandy. Things are not going great in her relationship with Nate and after a few drinks on Mandy's hen party she ends up having a one night stand with Danny in Brighton. When she comes down with the flu and Orla discusses getting a health check at the sexual health clinic Victoria's life completely changes when she is diagnosed with being HIV positive. Victoria has no idea who to turn to and when she does start to tell people the reactions are surprising. Will Victoria find a rainbow at the end of this storm? Will Nate or her friends stand by her and support her? Grab your copy of this absolutely gorgeous one of a kind page turner to find out more for yourselves and I promise that you will not regret it!!! This book genuinely is a must read for anyone and everybody!! Not only is it jut an absolutely stunning storyline but it is also extremely informative and eye opening giving readers an insider perspective on how it feels and what it is like to be told you have HIV. I want to congratulate and thank Nicola May on using this extremely important, yet what is still even in these days somewhat taboo, illness creating an absolutely amazing storyline and putting them together to spread much needed awareness. I have never come across a book that covers HIV in a story and considering I have read thousands of books that really does say a lot!! the fact that you creates this brilliant storyline, spread awareness and put this unique book in this world is just fantastic!!! I must admit that I had very limited knowledge of HIV and had never met anyone who actually had it until I spoke to a gentleman I knew and whilst talking he just came out with the fact that he had it in an everyday conversation. My immediate reaction was actually worry for him that he was going to die from it but he explained it wasn't like that anymore and there are medications. I had known him a while but was still so pleased that he felt he could just come out with it in conversation as it is sad that we still live in a world where people will make remarks and assumptions on a person who has it. Anyway I wont say anymore about that topic apart from another Thank You to Nicola for using the media of storytelling to spread awareness. The storyline is not just about HIV but so much more!! It is ram packed with romance, friendship, books, art, second chances, cute dogs, determination, memorable characters, secrets, surprises and everything you could ever ask for in a book and much much more!! So what are you waiting for??? Grab your copy of this beauty today!! It is a stunning and emotive escapism read and it genuinely felt like I was dropped into the middle of this storyline seeing the locations and characters come to life in front of me that I absolutely loved exploring and learning about. I was absolutely devastated when I came to the end and had to pack my mental suitcase to return to rainy Wales. I cannot wait to delve into more books from this extremely talented author!!! This book is an absolutely stunning read that is perfect to lift your spirits!! I felt like I was next to each of the characters throughout!!
The characters were all an eclectic mix and each one of them were realistic and strong. I was completely in them all and I already miss them even though I have just closed the pages. I loved meeting every single character and they all had their own individual and unique personalities, strengths, flaws, quirks and weaknesses. They truly are an absolutely amazing gang of characters who will stay with me for a long time and I would love to meet them all again. I devoured this book in a few hours as it is one of those that I just could not put down. there were so many times that I told myself that I would just finish the one chapter and then go back to it but that chapter ended in a way that I could not put it down and then the next one did and then the next and so on until I came to very last page. I would absolutely love to see this beauty turned into a movie and I will be at the front of the queue to go and see it!! Nicola's writing skills will absolutely absorb you into the book and no matter where you are in the world you will be sucked into Victoria's life in the blink of an eye.
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Overall an unputdownable, unforgettable, educational and unique romance that will have you staying up late at night to finish it.
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November 17, 2025
The story centres on Victoria, A gifted young illustrator whose creativity is matched only by her gentle, observant nature. She is dating a chef called Nate, while also navigating the complicated and often emotionally draining dynamics within her family, particularly her strained relationship with her mother and the distant bond she shares with her brother. Everything seems relatively manageable until one pivotal night shatters the rhythm of her world and alters her future in ways she could never have anticipated. As her loved ones rally around her during this turbulent period, Victoria finds herself confronting a new and unexpected dilemma: Whether to guard her wounded heart or take a chance on a mysterious, charming stranger whose presence promises healing, hope, and possibly the kind of love she has always dreamed of.
The opening chapter immediately drew me in with its raw, unfiltered portrayal of addiction and the emotional toll it takes not just on the person struggling, but on the entire family orbiting around them. Because addiction impacts so many households in real life, seeing it depicted with such honesty, vulnerability, and compassion made the narrative feel incredibly powerful. The scene showing Victoria’s mum grappling with her alcoholism was especially striking; it was written with such vivid detail that I could almost feel the exhaustion in her voice and see the pain hiding behind forced smiles. I felt an instant connection to her, as well as deep empathy for the protagonist as she watched the woman she loved deteriorate. The author’s skill in crafting layered, believable characters made it easy for me to imagine each of them clearly, their gestures, their fears, their unspoken frustrations, and as the story unfolded, it felt almost as if I had personally known them for years. Then came the twist, which was absolutely gut wrenching. I found myself nearly in tears at the revelation, stunned by how abruptly everything shifted. The characters’ reactions to the news were heartbreakingly authentic and reflected the complex, messy way people respond to grief and shock in today’s world.
Structurally, the story was strong, with a clear sense of direction and pacing that kept me fully invested from the first page to the last. The emotional highs and lows were balanced well, and each chapter seemed to build naturally on the one before it. My only critique, though it is a relatively small one, is that the narrative felt somewhat rushed towards the end. Some of the later plot twists were revealed so quickly that they lacked the emotional buildup they deserved, and a few significant moments felt like they were skipped over or resolved too abruptly. I found myself wanting more insight into how Victoria’s family processed her news, and I especially wished the author had taken more time to explore the reasons behind her mother’s eventual transformation and recovery. Those latter developments were so compelling and full of potential that they could have easily formed the foundation of another book or at least an extended arc within this one.
Overall, this was a deeply engaging and emotionally resonant read, heartbreaking, hopeful, and suspenseful all at once. It is the kind of story that lingers with you long after you finish it, not because of its dramatic twists, but because of the very human characters at its core. I’m genuinely excited to see what this talented author creates next, and I look forward to diving into her beautifully crafted, emotionally charged story telling.
The opening chapter immediately drew me in with its raw, unfiltered portrayal of addiction and the emotional toll it takes not just on the person struggling, but on the entire family orbiting around them. Because addiction impacts so many households in real life, seeing it depicted with such honesty, vulnerability, and compassion made the narrative feel incredibly powerful. The scene showing Victoria’s mum grappling with her alcoholism was especially striking; it was written with such vivid detail that I could almost feel the exhaustion in her voice and see the pain hiding behind forced smiles. I felt an instant connection to her, as well as deep empathy for the protagonist as she watched the woman she loved deteriorate. The author’s skill in crafting layered, believable characters made it easy for me to imagine each of them clearly, their gestures, their fears, their unspoken frustrations, and as the story unfolded, it felt almost as if I had personally known them for years. Then came the twist, which was absolutely gut wrenching. I found myself nearly in tears at the revelation, stunned by how abruptly everything shifted. The characters’ reactions to the news were heartbreakingly authentic and reflected the complex, messy way people respond to grief and shock in today’s world.
Structurally, the story was strong, with a clear sense of direction and pacing that kept me fully invested from the first page to the last. The emotional highs and lows were balanced well, and each chapter seemed to build naturally on the one before it. My only critique, though it is a relatively small one, is that the narrative felt somewhat rushed towards the end. Some of the later plot twists were revealed so quickly that they lacked the emotional buildup they deserved, and a few significant moments felt like they were skipped over or resolved too abruptly. I found myself wanting more insight into how Victoria’s family processed her news, and I especially wished the author had taken more time to explore the reasons behind her mother’s eventual transformation and recovery. Those latter developments were so compelling and full of potential that they could have easily formed the foundation of another book or at least an extended arc within this one.
Overall, this was a deeply engaging and emotionally resonant read, heartbreaking, hopeful, and suspenseful all at once. It is the kind of story that lingers with you long after you finish it, not because of its dramatic twists, but because of the very human characters at its core. I’m genuinely excited to see what this talented author creates next, and I look forward to diving into her beautifully crafted, emotionally charged story telling.
January 18, 2025
Nicola May brings in How Do I Tell You? an interesting topic: how to deal with an HIV diagnosis.
Set in the early 2000’s, as you can clearly pick up by the characters throwing their cigarette butts into the Brighton sea (my heart dies a little each time an author writes this not-so-far-along reality). The book follows Victoria’s journey as she experiences her mid-thirties crisis, which means asking yourself how you ended up in this rut and what you are going to change to be happy for the next 30 years of your life. Vic’s situation is not easy as her family can be described as dysfunctional: her mum is an alcoholic, her dad can’t keep it in his pants, and her little brother loves gambling more than he should. Add to that a relationship with a Peter Pan-like man.
In this turbulent period, when she has to decide where she wants to go with her life, our FMC receives life-changing news. And here the plot begins: how to deal, as a woman, with an HIV diagnosis and how to rebuild your life.
I really enjoyed how the bomb was dropped and how she deals with it, but there were a few too many things in the plot. The new father discovery, the revelation of a new sister, and the auntie twist felt a bit unnecessary. Even if Nicola May had been dropping hints through the chapters, it distracts from what I believe she was originally trying to achieve.
I also must mention when Jerico entered that room in Slough, disappointment rushed to me in the form of a lost opportunity. Nicola May had been building up Victoria’s journey since the beginning, setting the stress of an alcoholic mother, an unreliable brother, and an absent father against the routine and mundanity that traps most relationships. The decision to leave her partner was well placed and balanced with Vic’s current situation; the mature way they both said their goodbyes reflected that in some relationships, even under the biggest struggles, you can leave your old love with respect and appreciation for the tenderness once shared. Her handling of the diagnosis, all the self-redefinition, and the questions and fears of starting a new relationship deserved a good conversation with Jerico. However, making him a therapist seems implausible in the real world. I would have loved to see how she delivered this without taking the easy way out. A conversation that never occurred and that I had been waiting for throughout half the book.
Broaching this topic was an interesting turn in a romantic book, but it fell flat at the end. Nonetheless, it was an agreeable read that made me think outside my comfort zone.
Thanks to Storm Publishing, Nicola May and NetGalley for this ARC.
In this turbulent period, when she has to decide where she wants to go with her life, our FMC receives life-changing news. And here the plot begins: how to deal, as a woman, with an HIV diagnosis and how to rebuild your life.
I really enjoyed how the bomb was dropped and how she deals with it, but there were a few too many things in the plot. The new father discovery, the revelation of a new sister, and the auntie twist felt a bit unnecessary. Even if Nicola May had been dropping hints through the chapters, it distracts from what I believe she was originally trying to achieve.
I also must mention when Jerico entered that room in Slough, disappointment rushed to me in the form of a lost opportunity. Nicola May had been building up Victoria’s journey since the beginning, setting the stress of an alcoholic mother, an unreliable brother, and an absent father against the routine and mundanity that traps most relationships. The decision to leave her partner was well placed and balanced with Vic’s current situation; the mature way they both said their goodbyes reflected that in some relationships, even under the biggest struggles, you can leave your old love with respect and appreciation for the tenderness once shared. Her handling of the diagnosis, all the self-redefinition, and the questions and fears of starting a new relationship deserved a good conversation with Jerico. However, making him a therapist seems implausible in the real world. I would have loved to see how she delivered this without taking the easy way out. A conversation that never occurred and that I had been waiting for throughout half the book.
Broaching this topic was an interesting turn in a romantic book, but it fell flat at the end. Nonetheless, it was an agreeable read that made me think outside my comfort zone.
Thanks to Storm Publishing, Nicola May and NetGalley for this ARC.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
January 11, 2025
A story of bonds being tested and strengthened while finding yourself along the way after being diagnosed unexpectedly. Thank you to NetGalley, Nicola + Storm Publishing for the eARC.
What to Expect:
⭐ Single story POV
⭐ Discussions of long term immune disease
⭐ Best Friends bonded together through life
⭐ A story of dysfunctional families, decades long secrets tied with new ones & a journey of finding yourself when given an unexpected diagnosis
My Thoughts:
WHEW.... deep. I thought I had selected a laid back easy going romance that wasn't winter based, but something comedic for a lighter start to the year. There is some of that but this is a DEEPLY emotional book. The main character is unexpectedly given a diagnosis that will change the complete trajectory of her life. From friendships, to family and even partners her life is flipped upside down.
What I love about the trajectory of her journey is that she is faced having to make some really tough decisions. Some that a lot of us would never take. That she takes the chance to jump at committing to her dreams chasing her art & allowing herself to fully become herself. More than that is the ending! I loved that it was all tied up beautifully.
The main characters are all well developed. The sub characters will have you laughing and loving them. I will say there is A LOT going on in this. So make sure you pay close attention to the story as it unfolds!
More than that make sure to read the authors notes. It will give you a lot more perspective on why Nicola decided to take the direction with this book.
Synopsis:
Thirty-five-year-old Victoria Sharpe has a decent job as an illustrator, a perfectly good if predictable relationship, and great friends. So why can’t she shake the feeling that something is missing?
Keen to let off steam, she sets off on a night out with her best friends. Next morning – one reckless decision later – she resolves to make some seriously overdue changes to achieve the fulfilment she craves.
Then she gets devastating news that shatters everything she ever wanted for her future.
Or so she thinks. Because as friends and family rally around to support her, and an unexpected new romance causes her heart to skip a beat, Victoria discovers that sometimes in the deepest darkness the brightest light can shine through. But, after all she’s been through, can she let it in?
What to Expect:
⭐ Single story POV
⭐ Discussions of long term immune disease
⭐ Best Friends bonded together through life
⭐ A story of dysfunctional families, decades long secrets tied with new ones & a journey of finding yourself when given an unexpected diagnosis
My Thoughts:
WHEW.... deep. I thought I had selected a laid back easy going romance that wasn't winter based, but something comedic for a lighter start to the year. There is some of that but this is a DEEPLY emotional book. The main character is unexpectedly given a diagnosis that will change the complete trajectory of her life. From friendships, to family and even partners her life is flipped upside down.
What I love about the trajectory of her journey is that she is faced having to make some really tough decisions. Some that a lot of us would never take. That she takes the chance to jump at committing to her dreams chasing her art & allowing herself to fully become herself. More than that is the ending! I loved that it was all tied up beautifully.
The main characters are all well developed. The sub characters will have you laughing and loving them. I will say there is A LOT going on in this. So make sure you pay close attention to the story as it unfolds!
More than that make sure to read the authors notes. It will give you a lot more perspective on why Nicola decided to take the direction with this book.
Synopsis:
Thirty-five-year-old Victoria Sharpe has a decent job as an illustrator, a perfectly good if predictable relationship, and great friends. So why can’t she shake the feeling that something is missing?
Keen to let off steam, she sets off on a night out with her best friends. Next morning – one reckless decision later – she resolves to make some seriously overdue changes to achieve the fulfilment she craves.
Then she gets devastating news that shatters everything she ever wanted for her future.
Or so she thinks. Because as friends and family rally around to support her, and an unexpected new romance causes her heart to skip a beat, Victoria discovers that sometimes in the deepest darkness the brightest light can shine through. But, after all she’s been through, can she let it in?
January 19, 2025
Thirty-five year old Victoria Sharpe has a decent job as an illustrator, a perfectly good if predictable relationship, and great friends, but is in a rut. Her dream was to be an artist, but no longer makes time to paint. She has two amazing friends and they used to party a lot in the past. When one makes the decision to get married, they plan a hen weekend away. Drinking, dancing, and laughing lead Victoria to make a bad decision, one she might not have made if she had been truly happy. When she returns home, she finds out that her partner had slept with someone he worked with, so decides they need to take some time away from one another. When she shares some information with him about her infidelity during her weekend away, he leaves heading home where his father has gotten him a job. Now Victoria needs to determine what her next steps will be.
This is a book with some very heavy topics. Victoria's mother is an alcoholic, her brother is addicted to gambling, she has a medical issue and she is unhappy in her job. I don't want to say anymore than this about the story, but will tell you how I felt. Although there are some heavy issues, Nicola May does an exceptional job with the story. She doesn't make it tragic, but shows how anyone could know someone or be someone in these situations. I enjoyed how she incorporates recovery and care within the story. There are some excellent characters such as her mom's neighbour and the older man who lives on his boat near her mom's home. Her BFFs react in ways that would probably be initial reactions, but come around and support one another. There is humor throughout the book, often in unexpected places. Vic's boss is definitely one I wish I had along in my career. He was caring, put his employees feelings ahead of profit and actually helped Vic decide to follow her dreams. She had one client she worked with, an author she illustrated covers for and I loved him. He has such a great sense of humor and every time he appeared, he made Vic laugh. There is a twist along the way that made me smile and I loved the way this all wrapped up. Although some issues are difficult, the overall feel of this book is uplifting and hopeful. One I am glad to have read.
This is a book with some very heavy topics. Victoria's mother is an alcoholic, her brother is addicted to gambling, she has a medical issue and she is unhappy in her job. I don't want to say anymore than this about the story, but will tell you how I felt. Although there are some heavy issues, Nicola May does an exceptional job with the story. She doesn't make it tragic, but shows how anyone could know someone or be someone in these situations. I enjoyed how she incorporates recovery and care within the story. There are some excellent characters such as her mom's neighbour and the older man who lives on his boat near her mom's home. Her BFFs react in ways that would probably be initial reactions, but come around and support one another. There is humor throughout the book, often in unexpected places. Vic's boss is definitely one I wish I had along in my career. He was caring, put his employees feelings ahead of profit and actually helped Vic decide to follow her dreams. She had one client she worked with, an author she illustrated covers for and I loved him. He has such a great sense of humor and every time he appeared, he made Vic laugh. There is a twist along the way that made me smile and I loved the way this all wrapped up. Although some issues are difficult, the overall feel of this book is uplifting and hopeful. One I am glad to have read.
January 28, 2025
Don’t be fooled by the girly, romance-y cover of Nicola May’s "How Do I Tell You?" Victoria’s story is far from being all rainbows and butterflies. When we first meet her, she’s navigating a stable, if uninspiring, job, a serious boyfriend, and heading to her best friend’s hen night. Beneath the surface, however, she’s questioning everything about her life: is this what she truly wants? Is it enough? One careless decision during a night out sets off a chain of events that turns her world upside down. The life-altering news she receives forces her to confront her reality and embark on a transformative journey, supported by her close friends.
I have to admit, I wasn’t prepared for the direction this book took. It was a challenging read for me—one I had to put down and pick up again multiple times. Had I gone in with more awareness of the themes, I believe my experience might have been different. I initially expected an uplifting, funny rom-com, and it most certainly was not that. While the story’s depth and emotional intensity are commendable, I struggled with certain elements, particularly how cheating seemed normalised and even encouraged. While I wasn’t a fan of Victoria’s boyfriend, I found it difficult to reconcile how her friends supported her decision to cheat, and how hypocritical it felt when she later confronted her boyfriend about his infidelity. These early impressions of the characters were hard for me to shake as the story progressed, despite my efforts to remain open-minded.
That said, the book addresses heavy topics with remarkable sensitivity and beautiful writing. The portrayal of resilience, love, and friendship amidst adversity is powerful, but the weight of these themes demands mental preparation from readers. I strongly feel the book should include a trigger warning for HIV, as this could be distressing for some readers.
Overall, "How Do I Tell You?" is an emotional, thought-provoking read, but it’s essential to approach it with an understanding of the serious themes it tackles. If you’re looking for a lighthearted rom-com, this isn’t it. However, for those ready to explore a story of self-discovery, resilience, and the complexities of human relationships, it’s worth the journey.
I have to admit, I wasn’t prepared for the direction this book took. It was a challenging read for me—one I had to put down and pick up again multiple times. Had I gone in with more awareness of the themes, I believe my experience might have been different. I initially expected an uplifting, funny rom-com, and it most certainly was not that. While the story’s depth and emotional intensity are commendable, I struggled with certain elements, particularly how cheating seemed normalised and even encouraged. While I wasn’t a fan of Victoria’s boyfriend, I found it difficult to reconcile how her friends supported her decision to cheat, and how hypocritical it felt when she later confronted her boyfriend about his infidelity. These early impressions of the characters were hard for me to shake as the story progressed, despite my efforts to remain open-minded.
That said, the book addresses heavy topics with remarkable sensitivity and beautiful writing. The portrayal of resilience, love, and friendship amidst adversity is powerful, but the weight of these themes demands mental preparation from readers. I strongly feel the book should include a trigger warning for HIV, as this could be distressing for some readers.
Overall, "How Do I Tell You?" is an emotional, thought-provoking read, but it’s essential to approach it with an understanding of the serious themes it tackles. If you’re looking for a lighthearted rom-com, this isn’t it. However, for those ready to explore a story of self-discovery, resilience, and the complexities of human relationships, it’s worth the journey.
July 24, 2025
Wowzers, what a story. This is easily one of the best books I’ve read, though I would class it more as women’s fiction than romance due to the issues it deals with.
It’s not an easy read. Vic has an alcoholic mother, an absent father, and a brother who gambles. She’s in a relationship, but they both cheat. Her with devastating consequences – the guy she has a one-nighter with recently had sex with a HIV positive woman, though he does not know this when he sleeps with Vic. He wears a condom but it splits… and the both end up with the disease.
May writes a story that is gentle on the heroine but still no-holes-barred. The characters talk like actual people, swearing included, with the result that they come to life on the page. It’s honest, raw, heart-breaking and uplifting. And it tackles a very thorny subject with kindness and realism, without being preachy. Even if “it’s not a death sentence any more” was said once too often.
Vic doesn’t really get any of the pushback I suspect still happens to people diagnosed with HIV. I’m 51 and lived through the “AIDS epidemic”. I remember the riots with police wearing gloves. Princess Di attempting to reduce the stigma. How AIDS exacerbated the awful moral panic surrounding gay men in particular. On one hand, I was glad not to read this – I’ve avoided watching It’s A Sin for the same reason – but I suppose it would have been more realistic.
We do have Orla behaving pretty badly, though. As one of Vic’s friends, this hits harder than ignorance from a stranger might. And Vic’s boyfriend does walk out on her, although he comes crawling back. What I did love was her family’s reaction to the news – her mum going sober and her brother settling down. Contracting HIV isn’t just a wake-up call for Vic to stop coasting through life.
In the end (and despite a missing paragraph that threw me) How Do I Tell You? is an incredible story that highlights the rarely-talked about taboo of women with HIV. And despite that subject matter, one that remains uplifting and life-affirming.
It’s not an easy read. Vic has an alcoholic mother, an absent father, and a brother who gambles. She’s in a relationship, but they both cheat. Her with devastating consequences – the guy she has a one-nighter with recently had sex with a HIV positive woman, though he does not know this when he sleeps with Vic. He wears a condom but it splits… and the both end up with the disease.
May writes a story that is gentle on the heroine but still no-holes-barred. The characters talk like actual people, swearing included, with the result that they come to life on the page. It’s honest, raw, heart-breaking and uplifting. And it tackles a very thorny subject with kindness and realism, without being preachy. Even if “it’s not a death sentence any more” was said once too often.
Vic doesn’t really get any of the pushback I suspect still happens to people diagnosed with HIV. I’m 51 and lived through the “AIDS epidemic”. I remember the riots with police wearing gloves. Princess Di attempting to reduce the stigma. How AIDS exacerbated the awful moral panic surrounding gay men in particular. On one hand, I was glad not to read this – I’ve avoided watching It’s A Sin for the same reason – but I suppose it would have been more realistic.
We do have Orla behaving pretty badly, though. As one of Vic’s friends, this hits harder than ignorance from a stranger might. And Vic’s boyfriend does walk out on her, although he comes crawling back. What I did love was her family’s reaction to the news – her mum going sober and her brother settling down. Contracting HIV isn’t just a wake-up call for Vic to stop coasting through life.
In the end (and despite a missing paragraph that threw me) How Do I Tell You? is an incredible story that highlights the rarely-talked about taboo of women with HIV. And despite that subject matter, one that remains uplifting and life-affirming.
January 29, 2025
This book was intense and really started off with one of my least favorite tropes of all - cheating/infidelity. It says a lot about the author's writing style as to why I continued to read as usually that is a non-negotiable DNF for me. However the writing kept me coming back - the dry humor of the writing, and just the twists and turns and British nonsense kept me reading and I ended up loving this one more than I thought I ever would given the trope.
Victoria is going through it - her long term boyfriends infidelity, her own infidelity... a sickness.... a journey to the health center and then finally a true life altering diagnosis. I've read a few books with HIV characters - but it's usually much later after diagnosis, and really there isn't enough representation, but in general, this is the first I've ever read at the beginning. Victoria goes through the motions, and all of the emotion felt real and appropriate. The haze, the fog, the questioning, the fear... it all was vivid and so well written. I especially truly love when she called the hotline and spoke with Brian - I LOVED seeing that included in a book, and just the in general representation of going through a crisis and actually calling someone for help - so well done and I feel like either the author has personal experience, or her research was just phenomenal. I also truly loved how the stigma of HIV was really touched on and discussed as I feel like I've never read one that so honestly discussed this fact.
I also loved just watching Viv continue to live her life - she has set backs and struggles, but she still thrives. The ups and downs never deter her. There's family drama, and just a lot of other things that come into play which really makes the story even more poignant and rich. The conclusion of this one is so special and I just adored it all so much.
Victoria is going through it - her long term boyfriends infidelity, her own infidelity... a sickness.... a journey to the health center and then finally a true life altering diagnosis. I've read a few books with HIV characters - but it's usually much later after diagnosis, and really there isn't enough representation, but in general, this is the first I've ever read at the beginning. Victoria goes through the motions, and all of the emotion felt real and appropriate. The haze, the fog, the questioning, the fear... it all was vivid and so well written. I especially truly love when she called the hotline and spoke with Brian - I LOVED seeing that included in a book, and just the in general representation of going through a crisis and actually calling someone for help - so well done and I feel like either the author has personal experience, or her research was just phenomenal. I also truly loved how the stigma of HIV was really touched on and discussed as I feel like I've never read one that so honestly discussed this fact.
I also loved just watching Viv continue to live her life - she has set backs and struggles, but she still thrives. The ups and downs never deter her. There's family drama, and just a lot of other things that come into play which really makes the story even more poignant and rich. The conclusion of this one is so special and I just adored it all so much.
February 2, 2025
Nicola May’s writing shines in her tender, touching and uplifting new novel, How Do I Tell You?
At thirty-five years of age, Victoria Sharpe has no reason to complain. She has a good job as an illustrator, a decent relationship, great friends and a busy social life. Yet, she cannot shake off this feeling that there’s something missing in her life. Going out with her friends on a night out, Victoria is looking forward to letting her hair down – until one reckless decision forces her to reassess her life and to make some much-needed changes. But just when the satisfaction and fulfillment which she has craved for so long is finally within her reach, the rug is well and truly pulled out from under her feet and everything she has always wanted is cruelly snatched away from her.
Just when she thinks that all is lost and that the only thing she has to look forward to in her life is disappointment and regret, her family and friends begin to rally round her. Victoria soon begins to find her way out of the dark tunnel she had been trapped in and as she begins to put her life back together, she begins to feel hopeful about the future – and about the possibility of falling in love again.
Will Victoria grasp this second chance at happiness with both hands? Or will she let it slip through her fingers?
Nicola May effortlessly juggles humour and drama with style and aplomb in How Do I Tell You?, a poignant, feel-good and inspirational tale about never giving up, forgiveness, belonging and the power of love that brings a tear to the eye and tickles the funny bone.
Warm, witty and wise, How Do I Tell You? by Nicola May is a terrific read perfect for Dani Atkins and Beth Moran fans.
I voluntarily read and reviewed an Advanced Reader Copy of this book. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
At thirty-five years of age, Victoria Sharpe has no reason to complain. She has a good job as an illustrator, a decent relationship, great friends and a busy social life. Yet, she cannot shake off this feeling that there’s something missing in her life. Going out with her friends on a night out, Victoria is looking forward to letting her hair down – until one reckless decision forces her to reassess her life and to make some much-needed changes. But just when the satisfaction and fulfillment which she has craved for so long is finally within her reach, the rug is well and truly pulled out from under her feet and everything she has always wanted is cruelly snatched away from her.
Just when she thinks that all is lost and that the only thing she has to look forward to in her life is disappointment and regret, her family and friends begin to rally round her. Victoria soon begins to find her way out of the dark tunnel she had been trapped in and as she begins to put her life back together, she begins to feel hopeful about the future – and about the possibility of falling in love again.
Will Victoria grasp this second chance at happiness with both hands? Or will she let it slip through her fingers?
Nicola May effortlessly juggles humour and drama with style and aplomb in How Do I Tell You?, a poignant, feel-good and inspirational tale about never giving up, forgiveness, belonging and the power of love that brings a tear to the eye and tickles the funny bone.
Warm, witty and wise, How Do I Tell You? by Nicola May is a terrific read perfect for Dani Atkins and Beth Moran fans.
I voluntarily read and reviewed an Advanced Reader Copy of this book. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
January 20, 2025
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Title: How do I tell you?
Author: @author_nicola
I'm not known for reviewing romance novels on this page, but I fear that's about to change!
"How do I tell you?" is the 18th novel by Nicola which is already making waves on Amazon's hot new releases, taking the number one spot.
It center's around a character called Victoria, Vic, or my favourite out of them all Queen V, who after her best friend gets engaged realises maybe her life is just a smidge on the monotonous side.
With a besotted boyfriend, a great job, and a support network of girlies, on her best friends hen night she makes a choice that will change her life for ever.
This story completely surprised me, I wasn't expecting the storyline to go down the rabbit hole of HIV and the story of prejudice and fear that Queen V faces whilst also dealing with losing her hopes and dreams.
However with every cloud there is always a glimpse of sun, and Queen V always seeing the positive in everything makes the big decision to change her life, follow her passions, and realize she should not settle for less when it comes to love.
Where is the romance I hear you shout, it's in the form of a very charming author, who is eccentric, and incredibly taken both with Queen V's illustrations but also with her.
This is a novel that is so beautifully written, it takes you with it on the emotional rollercoaster ride where you are left hoping Queen V has her happy ending. It's been a while since I've read a novel where it's left me feeling warm and satisfied when it's ended.
A fantastic novel and I will be looking at other books by this author. The book is now available on Amazon and I would massively recommend it.
Thank you to @peptalkpr for reaching out and asking me to review this novel.
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Title: How do I tell you?
Author: @author_nicola
I'm not known for reviewing romance novels on this page, but I fear that's about to change!
"How do I tell you?" is the 18th novel by Nicola which is already making waves on Amazon's hot new releases, taking the number one spot.
It center's around a character called Victoria, Vic, or my favourite out of them all Queen V, who after her best friend gets engaged realises maybe her life is just a smidge on the monotonous side.
With a besotted boyfriend, a great job, and a support network of girlies, on her best friends hen night she makes a choice that will change her life for ever.
This story completely surprised me, I wasn't expecting the storyline to go down the rabbit hole of HIV and the story of prejudice and fear that Queen V faces whilst also dealing with losing her hopes and dreams.
However with every cloud there is always a glimpse of sun, and Queen V always seeing the positive in everything makes the big decision to change her life, follow her passions, and realize she should not settle for less when it comes to love.
Where is the romance I hear you shout, it's in the form of a very charming author, who is eccentric, and incredibly taken both with Queen V's illustrations but also with her.
This is a novel that is so beautifully written, it takes you with it on the emotional rollercoaster ride where you are left hoping Queen V has her happy ending. It's been a while since I've read a novel where it's left me feeling warm and satisfied when it's ended.
A fantastic novel and I will be looking at other books by this author. The book is now available on Amazon and I would massively recommend it.
Thank you to @peptalkpr for reaching out and asking me to review this novel.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
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