What happens when the armor that once protected you starts to suffocate you?
In Embracing the S.U.C.K., licensed therapist and retired Navy servicemember Francisco Castillo redefines what it means to be strong in a world that still tells men to “tough it out.”
Drawing on two decades of military discipline and years of clinical work with men, Castillo introduces the S.U.C.K. Framework — Self-Awareness, Understanding, Compassion, and Knowledge — a tactical roadmap for emotional clarity, resilience, and genuine connection.
This isn’t a textbook for clinicians or a lecture on self-help. It’s a field manual for men who are done with surface-level advice and ready to face what’s real.
Inside, you’ll learn how
• Recognize the emotional armor that’s costing you connection • Understand the roots of your reactions and triggers • Build compassion for yourself and others • Apply practical tools to love, parenting, friendship, and leadership
If you’ve ever felt alone in your struggle, this book is your you’re not weak for feeling — you’re courageous for facing it.
Whether you’re a father, husband, leader, or brother, Embracing the S.U.C.K. gives you the mission plan to become an emotional warrior — strong, grounded, and fully alive.