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Jess and Norma: A lifetime of laughter and our unbreakable bond

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The hilarious and heartwarming autobiography from social media's favourite grandma and granddaughter

Hi! I'm Jess, and if you follow us on social media, you’ll already know my Nan, Norma.

In this book, we want to open up about the personal events that have shaped our unbreakable bond – from the adventures we’ve been on to the great loves and losses we’ve experienced. We receive so many questions about Nan’s earliest memories, her childhood and her marriage to my granddad Michael, and it has been incredibly special to record these cherished stories together.

Through the highs and the lows, Nan’s candid reflections on the world have ensured we’ve shared enough laughter for a lifetime. You can expect to find plenty of them here, including her hilarious thoughts on me (‘a tiresome little monkey’ ), my partner Jake (‘Somebody must be paying him’), dating (‘Can’t we get through a blurb without you bringing the tone down?’) self-care (‘Astral cream, you can’t beat it’) and more.

We’ve written this for everyone who has found comfort in our videos. We hope it brings a smile to your face and warmth to your heart.

With love,

Jess and Norma xx

139 pages, Paperback

Published October 5, 2025

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19 reviews
September 2, 2025
What a beautiful book. Showcasing a wonderful relationship between Jess and her lovely Nan Norma. Just a joy to read. The letters to each other at the end were so poignant, not knowing that Dear Norma would have passed when the book was published. Tears streaming down my face . What wonderful memories Jess now has written down forever.
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232 reviews12 followers
August 17, 2025
Wow. This takes the crown for the most beautiful memoir ever published. I knew this book would be packed with heart and it did not disappoint in any way.

What interestingly sets this books format apart from others biographies/memoirs is that it’s written in an interview and conversational format. Each chapter focuses on different areas of their lives - upbringing, family dynamics, work, fame, technology etc - where Jess begins a question and they both have a transcribed conversation about the subject.

I loved the conversational tone throughout and often found myself nodding along in agreement with their observations on subjects like relationships, life today and society now.

My goodness, this book is packed full of wisdom from both Norma and Jess. I lost count of the sentimental quotes and beautiful thoughts Norma came out with; Real sentimental thoughts that made my eyes fill with tears and gave me such food for thought.

We really learn so much more about Norma, who took TikTok by storm and earned herself over 2.7million followers and seeing the beauty of the world through Norma’s eyes was adorable. I throughly enjoyed learning all about her life, and expanding on how her relationship with Jess became as strong as it was.

Jess is the most considerate and loving granddaughter and I have such admiration for her devotion to Norma. It’s nothing short of inspiring.

Poignantly, there is sadness in part since Norma passed away just weeks before the publication date. It felt dreadfully sad and one of life’s cruelties for her to not experience this final hurrah.

Thank you Jess for sharing Norma with the world and for beginning this important conversation for us to spend time with our elders.
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574 reviews7 followers
September 30, 2025
This is amazing book so glad I had the opportunity to meet Jess and Jake! Thank you so much for the chance to understand the special relationship you both had !!


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The hilarious and heartwarming autobiography from social media's favourite grandma and granddaughter

Hi! I'm Jess, and if you follow us on social media, you’ll already know my Nan, Norma.

In this book, we want to open up about the personal events that have shaped our unbreakable bond – from the adventures we’ve been on to the great loves and losses we’ve experienced. We receive so many questions about Nan’s earliest memories, her childhood and her marriage to my granddad Michael, and it has been incredibly special to record these cherished stories together.

Through the highs and the lows, Nan’s candid reflections on the world have ensured we’ve shared enough laughter for a lifetime. You can expect to find plenty of them here, including her hilarious thoughts on me (‘a tiresome little monkey’ ), my partner Jake (‘Somebody must be paying him’), dating (‘Can’t we get through a blurb without you bringing the tone down?’) self-care (‘Astral cream, you can’t beat it’) and more.

We’ve written this for everyone who has found comfort in our videos. We hope it brings a smile to your face and warmth to your heart.

With love,

Jess and Norma xx
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363 reviews2 followers
October 5, 2025
This was such a beautiful book, full of heart, warmth, and laughter. Jess's relationship with Norma really mirrors my own relationship with my grandma (RIP), and now with my grandad, with Jess having the same crude but innocent banter that I share. I would have loved this even more if it had been an audiobook, as it would have felt like we really were sitting down in a Morrisons café or Costa Coffee with them - although I appreciate that might have been taxing on Norma, and after her passing, it would have been very strange to have another person read her words.

Overall, a very good book and a really insightful look into Norma and Jess’s life and relationship outside of the social media bubble.
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324 reviews14 followers
November 1, 2025
This book was such a wonderful read as you felt like you were with Jess and Norma in the lounge room chatting with a cup of tea in hand.

The sharing of the bond held between Granddaughter and Nan was just so beautiful.

I have followed your tiktok videos, and it would always bring smiles to my face and laugh out loud moments.

I'm so glad you shared your story with us ❤️
Profile Image for Ava Lewis.
15 reviews
October 17, 2025
This book was lovely and it was so interesting to hear some older tales from war time.The only reason it’s a three star is because it’s very different,genre wise, to my normal books but I still enjoyed it and would recommend to a friend. We love you Norma ❤️🕊️
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51 reviews1 follower
July 28, 2025
the grandma everyone needs (and misses). rest in peace, norma. such a beautiful, heartwarming book.
11 reviews
November 15, 2025
Just lovely. Tried not to cry so many times when reading this book thinking of my lovely momma 🤍
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258 reviews
July 18, 2025
I am not on social media much anymore, but one account I follow is Jess and Norma's on Instagram and Facebook. Or was, as very sadly, one month ago, Norma passed away. What struck me about their short videos were not only the elements in their relationship which reminded me of my own grandmother and parents but also how important communication is between different generations. At a time when there is a degree of intolerance between older and younger people, Jess and Norma have always shown that by listening, respecting, communicating, and having fun, precious memories can be made and lessons can be learned inter-generationally. This book is an extension of this and is, I believe, an important one to read.

Presented in an engaging way, almost like a conversation between Jess and Norma (with interludes between each chapter containing some contributions from other family members, or random recipes, fun fillers), this is an easy but poignant read. The format within each chapter shows well how times have changed between the 1930s (when Norma was born) until now. My father was born the year before Norma, so most of her general memories of the 30s are relatively familiar to me, but I finish this book wishing I had spoken more to my own grandparents (the last of whom died when I was 18) and made a permanent record of their lives as Jess and Norma have done. What also stands out is their steadfast devotion to each other; Jess is not only Norma's granddaughter but her carer and this book hints at the complexities she has to negotiate, unselfishly, to "give back" to her grandmother in order to keep her comfortably at home. It is heartwarming. It serves as a reminder to cherish every moment with family or friends, as through these lasting memories are made.

I also enjoyed the family photos in the middle of the book, which brought many of the other people to life to whom Norma referred. The letters at the end are also a lovely finishing touch and one that seems particularly poignant with Norma's very recent passing.

I do not tend to buy books by social media content creators, but this one was an exception. And I am glad to have read it. I will be thinking of it for a long time to come.
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209 reviews4 followers
September 14, 2025
Wow! What a roller coaster! This book was incredible, heart warming and all round beautiful!

I didn’t know who Jess and Norma were not having TikTok or being a huge social media fan. I saw this book on bookstagram and from there watched some of their videos and was hooked! They connected with me instantly as my nan was my close person too!

This story is written like a conversation and that worked well, it had me laughing out loud many times throughout and sobbing in places, my gosh when Jess described her nan and her home as the safe place she returned to at tough times, I was in bits as have always described my nan and her home the same. Also the crinkle cut chip comment was a belter 🤣 Norma had the best sense of humour that I think passed onto Jess!

If you are looking for a heart warming hug in book form then look no further! This book will make you feel like the pages have wrapped you up in the warmest embrace, with heart warming moments and humour weaved into every chapter! It will tug at your heart strings and make you want to cherish those you love that little bit tighter!

I rarely read a book twice, in fact I don’t think I ever have but this book, this book I would re read whenever I want to feel better! To be up lifted! Absolutely beautiful, five stars and beyond. Worth every penny! Well done Jess and Norma 🩷💙
Profile Image for ItzHayley Beanie.
69 reviews1 follower
July 23, 2025
After watching a lot of Jess and Norma on TikTok I decided I wanted to try something new and read their autobiography. S since we lost Norma in June 2025, I felt like I wanted to read their story in tribute but also to learn more about both Jess and Norma. I found the tiktoks enjoyable to watch. Norma was a real inspiration and will always be missed, I bet she will be looking down smiling at their latest book release.

There were lots of moments within the book that made me laugh, one favourite had to be Norma saying about Jess fanning her face and peeling grapes. There were also many areas of the book that were relatable for me including watching Tracy beaker, talking about the Argos catalogue and circling the toys you want for Christmas, games such as hungry hippos, buckeroo, Jenga and operation what all board games I grew up with. TV programmes such as Brum, tweenies, Teletubbies and Rosie and Jim were all watched by me. Finally, the mention of casualty which is one of my favourite programmes was a particular highlight for me.

I find the book relatable, there were lots of moments where I felt I could relate to how they were both feeling, and I feel this book gives a great insight into Jess and Normas bond. Highly recommend this to other readers.
Profile Image for Diane E. Pries.
3 reviews
July 28, 2025
A very good read

The writing style, of them having a conversation was a really lovely method. I have watched all their videos and so I could hear their voices as I read.

I got the digital copy but now I will buy the actual book. This was a good read, one I will revisit often.

When Jess announced Norma’s passing my heart broke for her. I felt like a very dear friend had gone. I will miss Norma but am so thankful for the time she was in my life. She brought sunshine and laughter to many days.

I hope Jess keeps on doing social media. She is as important to the world as Norma was. I follow her and Jake and enjoy their content so much.

I have glimpses of my grandmother but she passed when I was young.

This book has shown how important it is to share stories and keep family close.

Thank you so much for sharing.
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80 reviews1 follower
October 4, 2025
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

I am a huge fan of Jess & Norma (🤍), and I just knew this autobiography would not dissapoint!

I have giggled but sobbed throughout and it literally feels like you're in Norma's living room right there listening to their conversation.

It brought me so many happy tears because the magic of their stories, made me think back to my own childhood / adulthood with my own Nanna, and how very similar they were.
Also with that tinge of sadness that I never got to have quite so in depth topics discussed.
But ultimately, it such a beautiful, poignant and special read.
I'm just so devastated for Jess that Norma never got to see the book once it was published 😔.

Whether you've watched them on social media or not, you need to pick this book up and enjoy with a good brew as I can assure you you will binge it in one of day like I did ❤️
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96 reviews
December 9, 2025
Reading this book felt unexpectedly personal for me. As I moved through their stories — the playful teasing, the honest conversations, the moments of grief wrapped in humour — I found myself thinking about my own Nan, whose loss I’m still learning to carry. Jess and Norma’s gentle, everyday love reminded me of the small rituals and inside jokes I miss most, and somehow made the weight of that absence feel a little softer. What struck me most was the book’s warmth: nothing dramatic, just real life made meaningful through connection. And when I reached the acknowledgements page, its sweetness caught me off guard. The genuine gratitude, the way Jess writes about Norma and the community around them, felt like a final, tender hug. This book doesn’t just tell a story; it offers comfort to anyone grieving someone they adored.
Profile Image for Jamie Banks.
20 reviews
July 24, 2025
I am a recent follower of Jess and Norma and was deeply saddened that Norma recently passed away.

Jess and Norma’s book is like their relationship, a warm embrace, a love letter to their relationship and a testament to the power of laughter through every stage of life. From the first page, Jess and Norma invite us into their world with humour, honesty, and grace. What shines most is the genuine affection they have for each other.

This book doesn’t just chronicle their close-knit relationship, it reminds us of the people who hold us up, and make us laugh until we cry.

A beautiful, heartfelt tribute to Norma in all its forms. You’ll laugh, you might cry, and you’ll absolutely want to call and visit your own loved ones after reading this book.
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1,281 reviews77 followers
August 13, 2025
Everyone already feels like they know Jess and Norma from social media, and loves them. To dig a little deeper and learn more about their background, their relationship, and thoughts on difficult subject matters was just a joy to read. I liked how it read like a conversation between the 2 of them, and felt that the banter between them was as rich as ever.

I also liked that they talked, grief, mental health, community etc as its brings these subjects to the forefront.

Of course this is all so bittersweet with Norma's recent passing. But this book is a great tribute to an outstanding lady, the nation's nana. The letters that they write each other had me in tears, but there's a lot of laughs along the way too.
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411 reviews2 followers
August 1, 2025
A short and sweet story about the relationship between granddaughter and grandmother, and their rise to fame through social media. I stumbled upon the account a couple years back and immediately fell in love with them, noting how many similarities Norma had with my own grandmother. Norma passed in June of this year, so this book felt fitting to read in her memory. The book felt more like a chronological timeline, as opposed to the heartwarming clips they shared online, so it was a fine read but not mind blowing. I still go back and watch their videos frequently, though, and those bring me much joy. (Ebook)
Profile Image for Carrie Quayle.
5 reviews
August 16, 2025
I don't normally write reviews because I never know what to say, but this book I just had too.

Jess and Norma the internet sensation with their hilarious videos on most social media platform. On reading the book it is clear to say that they have an unbreakable bond, I found I laughed and got emotional through the whole book, it talks about early life, careers, grief, becoming Internet royalty and how Jess came to care for Norma.

The letters at the end nearly broke me and I think more so as Norma has passed away since the books release.

If you are looking for a book that will make you laugh and cry, this is definately the one to go for
1 review
August 4, 2025
I have been a follower of Jess and Normas TikTok page for quite some time now, and iv always enjoyed their fun and hilarious TikTok videos. When I heard that they were writing a biography I pre ordered it as soon as it came available. I was SO sad to hear that Norma had passed away before the book had been published and released. I have absolutely enjoyed reading this book and getting to know Jess and Norma on a deeper and more personal level. This book made me laugh and cry and everything in between! If you’re into these types of books I highly recommend!
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43 reviews
September 2, 2025
This book really shows how much of a loving and amazing relationship Jess and Norma had. From page 1, it was very emotional to read as I knew that Norma recently only passed away 🥺From watching their funny videos on TikTok, you could tell that Jess and Norma had so many fond and happy memories together. It really makes you appreciate your own family connections and bonds. I enjoyed learning about both their pasts and the amount of laughs they had. I absolutely treasured reading this book and finding out all about their lives. Such a special book to read ❤️
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17 reviews1 follower
October 26, 2025
Honestly this book had me feeling all the emotions possible, the bond they had was amazing and only one I wish I could have had with my nan or any of my family in all honesty! Absolutely heart warming read! It odd while reading the book I could hear Jess and Norma voices lol. I work in care and I fully understand what you mean with what you said about care homes. Although I live working in a care home and hearing all the lovely life stories by the people we care for we don’t have the time to do all the thing you managed to give Norma. Ahh I just love the bond you both had xxx
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24 reviews1 follower
July 26, 2025
Beautiful

I never had a relationship like this but I truly hope to grow up to be like Norma. My family is my life and I am a caregiver to my husband who is a disabled combat veteran. I related to both Jess and Norma as a result. I have a grandbaby due soon and I can only hope we have a relationship as loving as the the one in this book. A fantastic read that I will find encouragement and comfort in for years to come.
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37 reviews
August 20, 2025
The most beautiful book from a beautiful pair of humans. I’ve followed their journey in social media from the start. And I absolutely adore their relationship.

Jessica is a beautiful, kind and incredible young woman for dedicating her time to her grandmother.

Norma is the most funniest and genuine woman. Kind, loving and adores her family.

I’m so so sad that Norma didn’t get to see the finished book.

I cried reading this book, I laughed, I cried some more. I just love them.
1 review
July 20, 2025
I read this over a couple of days and really enjoyed it. I loved the conversational style. There were many reflective moments, which too made me pause and brought back memories. This book is a wonderful reminder of the importance of family and treasuring the time we have together.
Norma has left a legacy which shall continue to live on.
3 reviews
July 31, 2025
It's a fantastic book, all written from the heart, and you can really hear their voices as read read and feel like you are actually there listening to them. Well done for giving more insite into your lives. keep smiling, Jess. I know it's hard, but remember Norma is always with you, and you're both in all our hearts xx
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2 reviews
August 1, 2025
The internets Nan. Much loved and much misted Norma. Jess and Norma remind me of the relationship me and my Nan had. I only wish TikTok came around a few years earlier so I could have the memories Jess has of Norma. Fantastic book well worth the read. I could not put it down. You’re a credit to Norma Jess
3 reviews
August 3, 2025
Reality book at its finest!

I have watched the Jess & Norma videos since they started and love them. I so looked forward to this book. I never got to spend time with my grandparents and actually didn’t know them at all. I have loved sharing Jess’s Nan with her and this book was the icing on the cake. Thank you for sharing.
12 reviews
August 7, 2025
I absolutely adored this book.
I laughed throughout.
I absolutely sobbed at the end reading Jess and Norma’s letters to each other.
Jess, if you’re reading this, what you did for your Nan is just wonderful. She had a lovely life and she truly appreciated you supporting her and allowing her to live out her days in her own home.
Sending so much love to you xx
4 reviews
August 12, 2025
Thank you Jess and Norma

Just finished reading your book Jess and Norma, it was amazing 😊 it was a privilege to read. It was like I was there with you listening to you talk about your family and feeling I was part of the family just like when I watch your videos .
Thank you xx from Doreen xx
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