Eat, Drink, and Be Merry: A Gospel Call to Bold Enjoyment

by Raymond C. Ortlund Jr.

Surprising Wisdom for Living Well in a Broken World

Enjoying the human journey through this world can seem impossible. So much is going wrong in these dark days. And the daily personal demands never let up. Who has the time—much less the freedom of heart—to play, to laugh, to delight? What's more, those following Christ can also feel duty-bound to live in sacrificial austerity.

But God's strategy for wise living includes bold enjoyment. In fact, any "Christianity" that feels embarrassed about enjoying God's good gifts dishonors him and leaves Christians with less to give their suffering world.

With a pastor's heart, Ray Ortlund invites listeners to embrace God's strategy for facing reality and living well. Meditating on Ecclesiastes 11:9-10, Ortlund explains how following Christ here in this world is a nuanced mix of both suffering and happiness. Ecclesiastes is a gospel call to accept the suffering and to savor the happiness—and savor it boldly.

Delivers a Gospel Call to Pastor Ray Ortlund reminds listeners that God not only allows us enjoyment but even commands it Wise Offers an extended meditation on Ecclesiastes 11:9–10, enriched with personal anecdotes and wisdom from Christians of the past Affirms the actual joys God has placed in everyday life, defying today's cynical and sometimes hyperspiritual culture

Genres: Christian Living, Christian, Nonfiction, Theology, Audiobook, Christianity, Christian Non Fiction

160 pages, Paperback

Published April 21, 2026

About the author

Pastor Ray Ortlund received a B.A. from Wheaton College, Th.M. from Dallas Theological Seminary, M.A. from The University of California, Berkeley, and Ph.D. from the University of Aberdeen, Scotland. Pastor Ortlund served as Associate Professor of Old Testament and Semitic Languages, Trinity Evangelical Divinity School, Deerfield, Illinois, from 1989-1998. He was ordained by Lake Avenue Congregational Church, Pasadena, California, in 1975

In addition to a number of essays and articles, he has published several books. Ray also participated in The New Living Translation and the English Standard Version of the Bible. He contributed the introduction and study notes to the book of Isaiah in The ESV Study Bible.

Ray is the President of Renewal Ministries, a regional director in the Acts29 Network and serves on the council of The Gospel Coalition.

Ray and his wife Jani have been married for forty-one happy years, and they have four delightful children. Ray says, "I have the most wonderful wife, I love my kids and grandkids, and I love Immanuel Church. My dream is that God would use us for true revival in our city."

Reviews

[Maggie Burton]

Thoroughly enjoyed this book! I wish I had it when I was in my early 20s. “The prosperity gospel cannot face the futility of this life, the severity gospel cannot accept the pleasures of this life. But if you have settled into the joyous wisdom of Ecclesiastes, you are now following Christ into freedom, gratitude, contentment, adventures, and bold enjoyment-all by His grace.”

[Whitney Newby]

I loved this book, and it felt like sitting under Ray's (my former pastor) teaching again, hearing his voice in every chapter. His insights on the book of Ecclesiastes are both encouraging and compelling, and it stirred a desire in me to live with greater joy and courage. Highly recommend!

[Sheridan Chandler]

So wholesome! Felt like sitting at a coffee shop with a wise old man. It was hard to read a book about joy while in a season marked acutely by grief and burden but very thankful for it. I think I would love to reread it in a few months to really soak in the sweetness of the wisdom in Ecclesiastes 11:9-10!

[Alfred van de Weg]

Tijdens vakantieritten geluisterd. Wat een vrolijk stemmend boek! Theologie uitlopend op praktische levensheiliging. Prediker 11 als uitgangspunt. Hier en daar Van Ruleriaans aandoend. Wat een feest! Het voedt de binnenpretjes van mijn ziel. Hopelijk komt er een Nederlandse vertaling. Christenen in Nederland zouden er hun winst mee kunnen doen. Ik ga het boek nog een keer luisteren.

[Makenna Dickey]

This book was incredible. I don’t often hand out 5 stars because they feel meaningful but I loved this book and ir is worthy of 5 stars. Will be coming back to this book again bc I listen to it as an audiobook and felt like I couldn’t quite take it all in that way. Quick and easy read, FULL of good Gospel truth. Ray felt like he was a grandpa and pastor all beautifully wrapped in one.
Less about food and drink than I thought it would be! Which was totally okay because the call to rejoice was SO good. But it did surprise me in that way.
My one worry is that young people will take this book’s call to make the most of their youth as a call to be reckless and unwise. Which is 0% Ray’s intention and 100% user error. But I could foresee that happening. But I guess the risk of misinterpretation is age-old and any book could have that. Overall, SO SO good and will be talking about this for a while.

[Maddie Pawlik]

I enjoyed this! A beautifully written book by Ray Ortlund that tackles Christian freedom! I appreciate the way he breaks down Ecclesiastes 11:9-10. He takes what can be a confusing or overlooked verse, and draws out a deep encouragement for the believer to enjoy the things God has created and gifted us for His glory!

“Because of God, everything created is good. Because of us, everything created is marred, including our responses to everything created. Because of Christ, everything created can be redeemed.”

Everything God has given us to enjoy is good, marred, and redeemable.

“Our grateful enjoyment is wise, and our picky austerity is waste!”

Here, he addresses severity teaching (asceticism). Living with a severity toward the earthy body and things of the earth that is not Biblical. Are we trying to be more spiritual than Jesus, who as fully God and fully man, set the example for how we are to live? I was super encouraged by this, and it’s short! Give it a read!

[Ben Moser]

For everything created by God is good, and nothing is to be rejected if it is received with thanksgiving

1 Timothy 4:4

[Jonathan Kidd]

Such a wholesome book

[Ian Tully]

Audiobook. Probably should have waited to get a physical copy because I’ll want to reference it later.

Ortlund gently, yet firmly rebuked my embrace of the “severity gospel” mentality. Since beginning to listen to the book, I’ve eaten more ice cream with my family and prayed thanksgivings a lot more doing it.

[Brandon Hill]

Good thoughts and tips just about life in light of the gospel in general.
Would've been nice if it was released before I preached a sermon on joy last week.

[Crosby Cobb]

Sweet Ray 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

[Dr. David Steele]

Some books educate; others inspire. Ray Ortlund’s book, Eat, Drink, and Be Merry, does both. Drawing from decades of pastoral wisdom, Dr. Ortlund leads readers down the joy-filled path of Ecclesiastes. His hope is that each traveler will discover that life is both short and good—not either/or. Life is but a radar blip on the map of history, yet it is also an enthralling ride.

The author urges readers to take Solomon’s words in Ecclesiastes 11:9–10 seriously. Therefore, we must rejoice. We must set aside trivial concerns and enjoy each day as a marvelous gift from God. “Let your heart cheer you in the days of your youth,” writes Solomon. Our task, then, is to savor the small things and delight in ordinary blessings, knowing that God has given them to us for our enjoyment and his glory. Amidst the joy, however, stands the sobering reality that “God will bring you into judgment.” This truth should steady us and remind us that life is fleeting and eternity is near.

One of the great strengths of this book is its emphasis on the goodness of God’s creation (1 Tim. 4:4). Because God created all things good, we are free to enjoy his gifts with gratitude. Ortlund delights in this reality while also warning against the dangers of excess and indulgence. The principle of balance and moderation is central here—something many Christians would do well to consider carefully.

Enjoying God’s good gifts is a foretaste of what believers will experience on the New Earth. Accordingly, the author continually directs the reader’s gaze heavenward. Enjoyment. Delight. Joy in Christ. These themes, which we taste now and will experience fully in the age to come, are woven throughout this excellent little book. Eat, Drink, and Be Merry is a joyful reminder of our rich inheritance in Christ. Our task is to recognize it, revel in it, and ensure that the gospel shapes every attitude and action.

I received this book free from the publisher. I was not required to write a positive review.

[Connor Moore]

A great book for any Christian who needs the reminder to enjoy the enjoyable to the glory of God.

This book observes, exegetes, and applies, with great emphasis, Ecclesiastes 11:9-10,

[9] [q]Rejoice, O young man, in your youth, and let your heart cheer you in the days of your youth. [r]Walk in the ways of your heart and [s]the sight of your eyes. But know that for all these things [t]God will bring you into judgment.

[10] Remove vexation from your heart, and [u]put away pain(3) from your body, for youth and the dawn of life are vanity.

Ray beautiful and rightly notes that life is like a freshly picked flower; beautiful, but dying. He rides a good balance of addressing the solemness of death and the end of this life, yet strongly implores Christians to enjoy life to the fullest, richly delighting in God and the pouring of his graces and gifts on this side of eternity.


1 Timothy 4:4-5

[4] For [f]everything created by God is good, and [g]nothing is to be rejected if it is [e]received with thanksgiving, [5] for it is made holy [h]by the word of God and prayer.


Yes this life is marred/tainted by sin, but because of the gospel, it is also redeemable and enjoyable.

[Debbie Channell]

“If you have settled into the joyous wisdom of Ecclesiastes, you are now following Christ into freedom, gratitude, contentment, adventure and life enjoyment- all by his grace. You are now repositioned to walk through this tragic world into his radiant presence. You will walk in surrender to him offering everything you have, and you will walk in openness to him receiving everything he gives. You will deepen in humility, and you will soar in wonder. You will long for Heaven, and you will savor earth. You will weep more, and you will laugh more. You will suffer nobly, and you will dance joyously. You will live by faith, and you will die with hope. And a lot more.

As you enjoy some great times in your way to Heaven, you will also love brokenhearted people in this world. You will point them to Jesus. And his joyous wisdom, now yours, will become theirs too. Not a bad life, right? Yes, it’s short, but it’s also good. Really good. Enjoy.”

[Saron Girma]

LOVE this book!! Truly a breath of fresh air! And liberating for anyone who’s grown up in spaces where stuffy religious duty is exalted and true enjoyment & desire seen as carnal & selfish. Let’s take God at His word and REJOICE!

“Rejoice, o young man in your youth, and let your heart cheer you in the days of your youth…” Ecclesiastes 11:9

[Haley Hoggle]

This fantastic book was very much compelling! There was profound wisdom to be gleaned from the pages of this book. When reading this book, I just couldn’t stop smiling. It’s been a long time since I couldn’t put a book down. We have much to be joyous about! Life is short, but life truly is sooooo good! May we take risks and remember the prize!

[Katy Scott]

What a refreshing, refreshing read. A breath of fresh air. God is pleased when we enjoy the gifts that he has given us. I AM not what I DO unto the Lord. If you need a reminder of your image-bearing ness and of a God who creates those he LOVES And creates ice cream, forests, warm embraces, rest - for his glory AND FOR those he loves, I recommend this book to you. We can enjoy life, amen!

[Paytron Ward]

This is the book I wish I had when I graduated college and I’m glad I have rn. Highly recommend to anyone who is struggling to see the joy or delight in the season God has them or is coming out of a season of discouragement or sorrow.

[Coley Mangano]

Great, biblical, refreshing perspective on the gift and freedom of Christian enjoyment of life in light of eternity. Highly recommend!

[Isa Gueno]

I loved this perspective and loved the way this was based on the incarnation! It made me have the desire to be more grateful for God’s grace and his gifts on this earth!

[Shannon]

3.5 ⭐️
Listened as audiobook
Maybe felt fluffy at times but was challenged to remember that a gospel outlook on life is joyful and receives good gifts with thankfulness rather than austerity.

[Carly Weems]

wow so beautiful and so good!!! Such a good blend of practicality and doctrine. Ortland does such a good job of using Ecclesiastes to show how the Lord is parceling us joy in the midst of a hard world. EVERYONE READDDD

[Maddy De Smit]

Found the first part of the book hard to resonate with but really appreciated the second part especially!

“Because of God, everything created is good. Because of us, everything created is marred. Because of Christ, everything created can be redeemed.”

[Meg Warner]

Such a delightful invitation into true gospel enjoyment! Love love love our God & the delightful freedom He gives!!!!

[Emma LeBouef]

fantastic and fascinating book! posed some interesting questions about gratitude, purpose, and enjoying what we have without idolizing nor discounting. would suggest :)

[Jacob Lovett]

Audiobook

[Ryan Cross]

Excellent little read on Ecclesiastes 11:9-10. I like Ray Ortland's writing style, it's very conversational and friendly. That doesn't stop him from really digging into the heart of this passage and the good news it gives to us. I feel like this is a great book to lend or recommend to a friend, it's short and easily readable. Enjoyed, might re-read again

[Brenden Wentworth]

What a joy to read!

Ortlund powerfully points out all the contours of the gracious and joyful life we not have only in Christ now but also in the world to come

If you struggle with how to reconcile holiness while also enjoying the gifts of this world that God has given, as you anticipate the life to come, this book is for you

[Sophia Jesson]

A well-timed read! Short, encouraging, challenging - everything you want in a book 😆

I haven't read anything from the Ortlund family, but this has convinced me to start exploring other things they have written.

[Kasie Anderson]

SO. GOOD. Such a refreshing perspective on living in the joy of Christ. Being raised fairly legalistically in the SBC, this challenged my heart in a few ways. But it was such a beautiful reminder that we are called into the FULLNESS of joy and that God created us with intention—even our hobbies and interests. Ugh. Just read it, it’s such a sweetness to the soul.