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Whistler

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The acclaimed, prize-winning #1 New York Times bestselling writer returns with a moving, luminous novel that reminds us of the sweetness and impermanence of life and the power of connection to defy time.

When Daphne Fuller and her husband Jonathan visit the Metropolitan Museum of Art, they notice an older, white-haired gentleman following them. The man turns out to be Eddie Triplett, her former stepfather, who had been married to her mother for a little more than year when Daphne was nine. Now fifty-three, Daphne hasn’t seen Eddie for many years, not since the fateful event that changed the direction of both their lives. Meeting again, time falls away; while their relationship was brief, it had a profound impact on them both, and now that they are reunited, they have no intention of ever being separated again.

Whistler is a story about two adults looking back over the choices they made, and the choices that were made for them. It’s a story about bravery, memory, the often small yet consequential moments that define our lives, and the endless stream of loss that in time comes for us all. Beautiful in its simplicity, it is ultimately about how love endures, and how the feeling of being known by one other person, even for a short period of time, can change everything.

384 pages, Paperback

First published June 2, 2026

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Ann Patchett

76 books30.9k followers
Patchett was born in Los Angeles, California. Her mother is the novelist Jeanne Ray.

She moved to Nashville, Tennessee when she was six, where she continues to live. Patchett said she loves her home in Nashville with her doctor husband and dog. If asked if she could go any place, that place would always be home. "Home is ...the stable window that opens out into the imagination."

Patchett attended high school at St. Bernard Academy, a private, non-parochial Catholic school for girls run by the Sisters of Mercy. Following graduation, she attended Sarah Lawrence College and took fiction writing classes with Allan Gurganus, Russell Banks, and Grace Paley. She later attended the Iowa Writers' Workshop at the University of Iowa and the Fine Arts Work Center in Provincetown, Massachusetts, where she met longtime friend Elizabeth McCracken. It was also there that she wrote her first novel, The Patron Saint of Liars.

In 2010, when she found that her hometown of Nashville no longer had a good book store, she co-founded Parnassus Books with Karen Hayes; the store opened in November 2011. In 2012, Patchett was on the Time 100 list of most influential people in the world by TIME magazine.

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2,647 reviews98.5k followers
June 4, 2026
i have a reason to live.

or i did, until i finished reading this book.

i did not want it to end.

i've enjoyed just about everything ann patchett has ever written, but she's been especially on one of late.

her novels are like a fantasy to me, a world nearly like our own, where people are imperfect and their actions can hurt but they are always, invariably, comprehensible to those who care to consider. they are unyieldingly trying their best.

these are worlds full of well-spoken, well-read, well-loved people, who carry their pasts with them but move forever forward. they live in cozy homes in interesting places. they have open hearts. to me, that is everything.

patchett writes with a skill and thoughtfulness essentially unparalleled. she brings kindness to literary fiction and literary quality to pleasurable reading.

this story of a woman's childhood returning to her adulthood, of paths greatly desired and unknown, of even regrets in their bitterness containing sweetness, of the unexpected loves of one's life...

i couldn't have appreciated it more.

bottom line: i am grateful for this book.

(thanks to libro.fm for the alc)
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296 reviews134k followers
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June 18, 2026
i genuinely have no idea how i feel about this book! i enjoyed the story and even more so, listening to Ann Patchett's narration of it, but something was... missing for me? i agree with every 5 star review i have read, although it doesn't feel like a 5 star for me personally. 3.5? that feels too low.. 4? easy way out.. maybe i'll just leave it un-starred!
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523 reviews544 followers
November 26, 2025
I woke my husband up from a deep sleep to make him read the last paragraph of this. So here’s, a quick little personal review of Whistler…I’ll write a full and real review closer to its June publication.

Sometimes a book comes to you at the perfect time. I was sitting at the airport with my mom and husband last night, waiting to fly to our family in Texas for Thanksgiving. We ALWAYS host at my parents house; it’s my mom’s very favorite holiday. But we lost dad this year, and can’t fathom our normal routine without him. I had no idea Whistler was a father/daughter story, but I knew I loved Ann Patchett and something told me to just log into netgalley to see if maybe it had popped up, despite having tried to find it literally that morning and it wasn’t there.

I devoured this. The father daughter story isn’t like mine in most ways, but was exactly like mine in the ways I didn’t know I needed it to be. This book is so special to me for so many reasons, and again, I’ll share more later. For now, what I think you should know is that this book is nice and lovely in the ways Tom Lake was nice and lovely. And this book healed me in small ways I won’t forget.
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704 reviews3,456 followers
June 10, 2026
Reading Patchett is like being tucked into a big comfy blanket on a cold day.
Her characters are authentic. Her stories hypnotic. An endearing quality that puts me into the Patchett trance.

Daphne randomly meets up with her once stepdad, Eddie, 40 years later. A chance encounter. He was briefly in that role for only 2 years but the memories of him she holds near and dear.
Whistler is the story of a horse. The story told during a precarious time for the two of them but a story that brought a mountain of emotions back. Fear of loss; of dying; of love. Whistler being a fierce connection to a tragic event that held as much fear as joy for those brief hours. A story that went untold for 40 years.

This is a quiet story of revelations. A reflection of familial relationships, messy ones, dotted line ones, and their complexities. It also speaks of the love that can be found when unburied.

A beautiful Patchett style story.
5⭐️

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1,498 reviews2,103 followers
December 1, 2025
“There were things I remembered now, including that particular longing that life could stay as it had been. How strange that such a pointless wish could resurface after all these years.” Still, Daphne Fuller at fifty three, imagines at times what life would have been like these last forty four years, had her mother not divorced her step-father Eddie and separated her from this man who she loves deeply. Reconnecting with Eddie after all those years turns out to be a beautiful thing for both of them as they relive the past, their indelible bond of love and shared trauma, and now can bask in the joy of finding each other again. Patchett reminds us, though that life is complicated, relationships are complex and families are messy.

In this novel marriages are made based on love, but unrealistic expectations make promises of good intentions impossible to keep in spite of the fact that the love remains. Ann Patchett does an extraordinary job at getting to the very heart of broken families and the effect on lives as time passes. She reminds us that things are not always as they seem and the whole story needs to be revealed. And so the story of this family unfolds, reflecting on the past, accepting the present and moving forward each day with the light of the revelations that tell of so much love.

I’ve read all of Ann Patchett’s novels and two memoirs and loved them all. Whistler is reminiscent of her more recent novels The Dutch House, Commonwealth, and Tom Lake , all of which focus on families . If you loved any of those, I think you’ll find that she once again establishes herself as a literary treasure.

I received a copy of this book from HarperCollins through Edelweiss.
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1,179 reviews51.5k followers
June 2, 2026
Ann Patchett’s new novel, Whistler, is that loveliest of summer gifts, a story of reconciliation, of old affections renewed, of a family’s circumference enlarged. Fans of the author’s previous work will open these pages like an old shoebox of family photos. Newcomers — how I envy them those first moments — will discover a writer of gentle wit and quiet grace.

Whistler, Patchett’s 10th novel, may be her most essayistic and in that sense her most confident. This is a reflection on fatherhood largely unruffled by the exigencies of plot. You’ll wait in vain for the terror of Bel Canto or the thrills of State of Wonder. Yes, it contains a moment of real peril, but the sting of fear has been mellowed over time like onions caramelized by heat.

Whistler begins in the Metropolitan Museum of Art, but unlike Donna Tartt’s novel The Goldfinch, the explosion that takes place is merely a chance encounter that blows away four decades of separation. One day while strolling through Modern and Contemporary Paintings, Daphne and her husband become aware that an older gentleman is following her. She’s not particularly....

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787 reviews2,124 followers
June 6, 2026
An amazingly beautiful story!
Daphne Fuller is a married English Teacher who runs into Eddie Triplett, her favorite ex stepfather while she and her husband are at the Metropolitan Museum of Art in New York… she has not seen him in 40 years.
They have a past together that includes a serious car wreck… she was only 9 yrs old at the time and soon afterward her mother divorced Eddie.
Seeing him again brings forth the feelings she had buried… of Eddie being the happiest part of her childhood, though his marriage to her mother was very brief.
She realizes that.. “Somewhere deep inside myself, in a place inaccessible to me since I was nine,” Daphne tells us, “I had missed him every day of my life.”
The story tells us more of the family’s story and the accident, and the recent reconciliation.
Just lovely… my very favorite Patchett novel that I have read so far!
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241 reviews15.5k followers
June 19, 2026
i just love meandering family stories like this - i absolutely adored the last book i read by this author, and this one was no different. there’s something about her writing that just makes these characters feel so real. adored this!
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267 reviews759 followers
June 21, 2026

Ann Patchett’s Whistler is a slim novel of roughly 300 pages, but boy, does it pack a wallop.

SO good.

Fifty-three-year-old Daphne Fuller spots an elderly stranger following her and her husband through the Metropolitan Museum of Art.

The man turns out to be Eddie Triplett, her mother’s second husband, who vanished from Daphne's life when she was nine years old.

The story unfolds like a carefully preserved memory. Patchett cleverly employs a non-linear structure that mirrors the workings of memory itself.

The reader experiences Daphne and Eddie's reunion much as she does: fragments surface, contexts shift, and what seemed simple in childhood reveals itself as devastatingly complex from an adult perspective.

Eddie’s marriage to Daphne’s mother lasted barely 18 months, yet the bond he formed with his young stepdaughter proved more enduring than the legal ties that briefly made them family.

Patchett has created a moving story about how we carry those who mattered even after they’re gone. Proof that love and memory can traverse vast distances.

Love, even in its briefest iterations, endures.
661 reviews361 followers
June 2, 2026
In September 2020, as the number of Covid fatalities climbed around the world, Ann Patchett published an article in The New Yorker with the title “My Three Fathers.” The autobiographical piece was about the three men her mother married over the course of her life and Ms Patchett’s very different relationships with each of them. Near the end of the article she wrote, “What’s so easy for me to see now that all of them are gone, what was so impossible for me to see at the time, was that they were only occasionally thinking of me, and I was only occasionally thinking of them. From each of the fathers I took the things I needed, and then I turned them into stories.”

Which is what she has done — at least as a framework and a starting point * — in her newest novel, “Whistler.” It’s a touching, insightful, revelatory story about the connections we form in our lives with others and what, despite everything, stays in our hearts through the passing years. It’s also about how difficult and complex our relationships with others can be and how little we understand of our own pasts.

The book’s protagonist is Daphne Fuller. She’s a writing teacher at a private girl's school to whom, inexplicably and interestingly, older men are drawn (“Old guys love me”). Her mother, like Ann Patchett’s, married three times. One day, Daphne and her retired hospital administrator husband Jonathan are spending a quiet afternoon walking through the Metropolitan Museum of Art in Manhattan when Jonathan leans in toward Daphne to tell her they’re being followed. Daphne thinks he's being ridiculous, but as it happens, they are being followed. Or more accurately, she is. The “old guy” following her is no stranger, he's her former stepfather Eddie Triplett, whom she hasn’t seen for almost 45 years. To her great surprise, Daphne begins to sob uncontrollably. “I hadn’t known there was something in me to break, but there was and break it did. I stepped into an open crack in time and fell backwards.” Fell backwards into a place she had put away somewhere in the back of her mind and forgotten: “For me, the past was a sinkhole. Not that it was terrible, but there was nothing for me there.”

Over the course of the novel, Daphne and Eddie renew their old relationship, which is a very different thing now that the bond is between two adults rather than between a child and an adult. As a young girl, Daphne had adored Eddie, shared a harrowing experience with him. The two of them had a very special bond. Then something happened and Eddie was gone.

“In the way of all children,” Daphne believed that the divorce was her fault. It wasn’t her fault, of course. Nor is her long-held belief that she had ruined Eddie’s life. As she and Eddie spend more time together she will learn that the memories she formed as a child and that shaped so much of her adult life were completely wrong. The dramatic events she remembers so vividly did not happen as she remembered them. It’s a difficult and emotionally draining process (“I’m too old to be nine again”) that forces her to feel things she hadn't felt before, reappraise a great many things about herself and others close to her, particularly because Eddie is dying.

As she gets to know the real Eddie — as he was and is — she is forced to face a lot of things about herself and those she is close to. One day she has a conversation with her sister Leda — a psychologist who writes a column called “Your Therapist” — in which the two of them discuss their childhood. Their mother, Leda says, “decided the past was happy and so she has no reason to think about it.” When Daphne asks where the two of them fit into that narrative, her sister’s response is direct: “ ‘We don’t,” she said.’"

(Daphne's relationship with her mother is a fascinating thread to follow in the book. Daphne will wonder,“Why did my mother always make me feel like a telemarketer calling to rope her into a time-share?” and make this observation: "I couldn't say exactly where childhood ends, but dealing with your pregnant mother at the age of thirteen was as good a place as any to wrap it up.")

I found “Whistler” to be a quietly powerful look at how memory works, how little we know about what makes others — and ourselves — act the way they do, the things that bind us to one another, and looking honestly into our past. In other hands it might have been maudlin or manipulative, but Patchett is at her best here. Truthfully, I want to say as little as possible about “Whistler” because inside Daphne's head as she learns about herself and her past is such a joy. Patchett rolls out the story with honesty, tenderness, and insight. I have to say, I identified with a lot in the book, not always comfortably. I believe others will too.

My deepest thanks to Harper Publishers and Edelweis+ for providing a free digital ARC in return for an honest review.


* In an interview with Publisher’s Weekly,” Ms Patchett spoke about her discomfort writing a novel about a character who had three fathers just as she did: “I thought, oh, I can’t do that, because people will think it’s me. But I decided, I don’t care what people think. It’s right for the book.”
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1,025 reviews278 followers
May 18, 2026
we ride at dawn for Eddie
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689 reviews308 followers
June 14, 2026
4 ⭐️

I listened to this wonderful audiobook, such a beautiful and heartfelt story. Written by Ann Patchett and narrated by Ann Patchett.
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1,699 reviews446 followers
June 21, 2026
I'm not even going to try to review this. I'll just say it's a damn good book with relatable characters that you'll love, interlaced with a few little nuggets of wisdom along the way. Isn't that why we love Ann Patchett in the first place?

She's done it again.
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491 reviews170 followers
June 24, 2026
4.5 stars. I devoured this in a day. Ann Patchett has written a wonderful exploration of family, memories, and changes through the decades. A beautifully written character driven story about Daphne and her stepfather from 50 years ago, that she reunites with after a chance encounter at the Met in NYC.

Every main character was memorable, funny, and carried much depth. If Patchett decides to write a follow up of Eddie in his publishing days, I will be the first to read it.

I might change this to five stars ⭐️ later on.
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753 reviews221 followers
June 5, 2026
4.5 stars, rounded up! "Whistler" is a WINNER! Despite the horse cover, this book is really about a mid-life, married teacher who reunites with one of her step-fathers with whom she shared a traumatic event, barely remembered, both by her & her family. It's again all about the human condition - love, loss, and self-worth - and with a hard look at how we grown up and stories both told & untold. The author has a background of having a stepfather or two herself, but how much of this is personal, she doesn't share, but I always really enjoy Patchett - a good author and a bookseller too. The novel was also quite quick & easy to read - always a bonus. Really grateful too that my library was able to provide me a copy on pub. day and highly recommend.
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130 reviews6 followers
May 4, 2026
Daphne Fuller is a middle-aged woman whose career revolves around books. She has had three fathers, she never had children of her own, and she married someone who works in healthcare. In other words, Daphne Fuller is Ann Patchett.

I genuinely just could not get these parallels and the autobiographical elements out of my head while I was reading - it felt like I was just reading her life story, like in These Precious Days.

I also generally love Ann Patchett (which is why i'm sad about this 🥲) but in this book her writing style really struck me as if she were trying too hard to be understanding with all of the characters. Daphne states that she has negative feelings towards some of the characters, but I didn't feel that come through in the writing. Her writing style is soft and comforting, and I just don't know if that fully conveys the message of this story in the most impactful way.
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548 reviews
May 30, 2026
I am an Ann Patchett completist. I have read everything she has written at least once; some of her books, three or more times. I flew to Nashville for the release of Tom Lake and to visit her bookstore, Parnassus Books. Suffice it to say, I am a fan.

This may be her best. I am gutted, the tear tracks on my face not yet dry. I'll leave a more detailed review when I've collected myself a bit, but for now, know this one is a real beauty.
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459 reviews80 followers
January 28, 2026
Thank you to Harper for the ARC. This was an incredibly character-driven story about a woman in her 50s connecting with her ex-step father after 44 years apart. The story is basically a bunch of recollections of the past and the main character randomly remembering events that she had blocked out from when she was 9. Nothing really happened so I didn’t like this at all. Also, why do authors insist on writing stories where queer people only know how to lie and cheat? It’s getting so old.
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2,695 reviews1,365 followers
June 25, 2026
the setup…
Daphne Fuller is a fifty-three year old private school English teacher. She and husband Jonathan are in the American Wing of the Metropolitan Museum of Art when they notice an older gentleman who appears to be following her. It’s Eddie Triplett, her former stepfather who she hasn’t seen since she was nine years old. While their time together was brief, Daphne and Eddie formed a deep connection that was abruptly severed following a harrowing accident. This happenstance meeting leads to the most lovely reunion that neither wants to end, opening up the past and setting a new course for the future.

the heart of the story…
There is a quiet eloquence in the writing and the journey of Daphne and Eddie’s past and new connection. The event that separated them is slowly revealed throughout the story in such a way that had me feel the depths of their relationship palpably. There’s a significance to the title, the story of a woman called Mary and her horse Whistler that Eddie shared with Daphne and defined the most significant experience of their lives. I loved how that connection, so many years later, was never lost and resumed so effortlessly.

the narration…
The author narrated the story and in my mind, she was Daphne. I’m not sure anyone else could have managed the storytelling with such elegance. She knew how she wanted this performed.

the bottom line…
This is a quiet tale about the impermanence of life, the choices we make and the improbable connections that can be formed in a short period of time. It’s about family and all its messiness. There’s no high drama but its emotional punch is strong. I won’t soon be forgetting this story and it is already one of my highlights of the year.

Posted on my review

(Thanks to Libro.fm and Harper for my complimentary copy. All opinions are my own.)
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810 reviews98 followers
June 15, 2026
4.5 ⭐️ rounding down to 4!
A beautiful read as always.

This was one of my most anticipated reads this year. I do love me an Ann Patchett book.

As always, there are characters you fall in love with and the writing was beautiful. I think the thought that was most impressed upon me, is how a connection with someone can be lifelong. No matter the length of the relationship; whether you go in different paths. People can leave a handprint on your heart.

Sadly, I can not give this 5 stars. I found the ending abrupt and it did not match up to other books of her that I adore.

I still have not visited Parnassus books in Nashville….Ann’s bookstore. Perhaps one day…..
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1,284 reviews2,475 followers
June 18, 2026
This is a 6⭐️ read and a favorite of the year. I saw another reviewer describe it as a quiet story with big emotions and that sums it up perfectly. Full review to come. In the meantime, I’m off to read every book Ann Patchett has every written.

Thank you Harper Audio for the advanced copy.
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1,136 reviews69 followers
June 8, 2026
08/06/2026
“The only thing anyone can be sure of was that the horse came back to get her, then brought her back to the ranch. Whistler was real.”


29/10/2025
WHAAAAAAAAATTTT!!!! NEW ANN PATCHETT FINALLY, I'M GOING TO CRY!!!!

That cover?? J'adore!!

2026 is going to be great :)
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512 reviews415 followers
June 14, 2026
As an Ann Patchett fangirl, I will read anything she writes and while I’m not a completist of her works (yet), reading all her books is on my bucket list of life goals (alongside visiting her bookstore Parnassus someday). While I slowly work my way through Patchett’s backlist, I’m also making sure I don’t fall behind with her newer works, so I prioritized her newest release, the novel Whistler, which came out this month. I originally got approved for an ARC copy, but due to timing issues, I ended up reading the finished version, since I of course pre-ordered a copy that landed on my doorstep last week (just in time, if you ask me).

With Whistler , Patchett once again delivers a beautifully crafted, exquisite story that made me both laugh and cry in equal measure. This poignant and moving novel opens with our protagonist, 53-year-old Daphne Fuller, and her husband Jonathan visiting the Metropolitan Museum of Art in New York when they notice an “old guy” who appears to be following them. When they go to confront the guy, they discover that he is none other than Eddie Triplett, the former husband of her thrice-married mother Abigail, and the stepfather whom Daphne and her sister Leda loved more than their own biological father. Daphne last saw Eddie forty-four years ago, when she was nine years old – they were involved in a car crash together that year which ended up changing the course of their lives. Before they returned from the hospital, Abigail had divorced Eddie and sent him away without even allowing him to say goodbye to the stepdaughters whom he loved as though they were his own. Devastated, Daphne buries the memories of that brief period when Eddie was in her life and moves on to live a happy existence as a schoolteacher, eventually marrying Jonathan, a now-retired hospital administrator who is seventeen years her senior, but the age difference has not stopped them from having a deep and loving relationship. Now that they’ve been reunited, Eddie and Daphne resume their father/daughter relationship, catching each other up on their lives and meeting each other’s families and friends, determined this time to never be separated again.

Switching between first person and close third, Patchett skillfully layers in the events of the past – specifically, the incident that changed both Eddie’s and Daphne’s lives – while telling Daphne’s story in the present. This is done so masterfully that, to be honest, I didn’t even notice until I watched an interview that Patchett did where she mentioned it. As always, Patchett writes perceptively about the complexities of human relationships, capturing the messiness of complicated family dynamics in a way that is both resonant and relatable. The characters in this story were all so wonderfully rendered, I honestly loved them all, but Daphne and Eddie were definitely favorites – the way they interacted with each other was witty and fun and never failed to put a smile on my face. I especially loved how Patchett juxtaposed the interactions that the nine-year-old Daphne had with Eddie during the car crash scenes versus their interactions once reunited as adults to highlight both characters’ growth as well as the nuances of their relationship.

With this newest novel, Patchett continues to do what she does best – present an emotionally subtle story with endearing yet far from perfect characters who navigate the vicissitudes of life with grace and clarity. Reminiscent of Patchett’s previous two novels, Tom Lake and The Dutch House (both of which I loved), Whistler is written in a wistful yet hopeful tone – in addition, there are also similarities in its focus on characters who are perfectly content with basking in the quiet enjoyment of being in the company of people they love. There are not many authors out there who are able to take a simple premise such as this one and craft a narrative that is both incredibly rich (yet not overwhelming) as well as profoundly insightful. Ann Patchett is, without a doubt, a national treasure and I can’t wait to see what she has in store for us next!

Received ARC from Harper via NetGalley.
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541 reviews8 followers
May 27, 2026
A beautiful story where nothing happens. It’s great writing but definitely can be missed.
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757 reviews790 followers
January 4, 2026
4.5 stars

Wonderful characters make this story shine. A little slower paced (as most character driven stories are), but well worth the read.

Of the previous books I've read (Commonwealth, The Dutch House, Tom Lake) and now this one, this ranks up there with The Dutch House.

Thank you to Harper Books & Netgalley for the gifted egalley in exchange for an honest review.
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713 reviews1,166 followers
June 26, 2026
I finished this book last night, and I still don’t know how to rate it properly. I loved the beautiful watercolor painting of the horse on the cover. I loved the story. I loved our two main characters of Daphne and Eddie. The writing was exceptional and profound. And yet… I’m still not connecting with this.

This story starts out with an older gentleman following Daphne and her husband, Jonathan, around at the Metropolitan Museum of Art in New York City, NY. This older gentleman turns out to be Eddie Triplett, who was once her stepfather. Eddie was married to Daphne’s mother for about a year, and after a traumatic event, he left when Daphne was nine years old. They have not been in touch since, and Daphne can’t believe he even recognized her.

Daphne, now 53 years old, and Eddie 76 years old, realize they would love to keep in touch as they have lost so much time together. The two reconnect and become very close. Eddie told Daphne a very special story when she was nine years old, and that story is one that seems to have bonded them together all this time. Others, including Daphne’s sister and husband are just now learning of this story, and how it came to be.

As I mentioned above, the writing in this story was impeccable- to the point where I even began to get teary eyed. As much as I loved the characters, I just couldn’t quite connect. Maybe it’s because I would never be able to (or want) to have a relationship with any of my mother’s exes (that’s a whole other story we don’t want to get into). And also, I feel that if over forty years have gone by, then that person has probably forgotten about me, and I feel like it would be like meeting a stranger again- even if you have shared a traumatic event together.
There’s been people who I haven’t seen in years, and when I do happen to run into them we will exchange pleasantries, promise to call each other or “keep in touch”, but we never do, because well, time has moved on and changed us.

I know this is a much loved book, and I did like it. But if I’m being honest, I don’t think that it is one that I would recommend. Because of that, I think I’m going to settle on three stars for my rating.
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Author 62 books5,416 followers
June 4, 2026
This is a beautiful novel about soulmates, but not in the sense the word is commonly used. In this case, a woman named Daphne reunites with the stepfather (Eddie) she hasn't seen in decades after a chance encounter at the Metropolitan Museum of Art. Both are delighted to be in each other's company again, and as they catch up on the years they've missed, Daphne learns that Eddie is gay, and has never come out of the closet. Together, these two people who never stopped loving each other, revisit old memories and make new ones together. The book is full of small, tender moments between characters I felt I knew very well right from the beginning.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
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782 reviews29 followers
June 15, 2026
Relative to what I know Patchett is capable of, this felt lackluster. While she is better than most at crafting a story, and writes with a curated elegance that is noteworthy, it wasn't enough in this case to overcome the dominance of Telling over Showing.

Well over half of this book has the reader listening in on conversations between a small number of characters (usually two). Another sizeable chunk of narrative is devoted to descriptions of how they move from one location to another; mundane details of transportation by private car, car service, taxi, bus, subway, commuter rail, long-distance train, and boat.

My friends are tired of me ennumerating inaccuracies of medical diagnostics, healthcare operations, or presumably "professional" behavior as portrayed in much contemporary fiction, so I'll simply say that these exist in the story, too, and it was off-putting. It will likely not bother you, but I found it disappointing.

3.5 stars
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“I couldn't say exactly where childhood ends, but dealing with your pregnant mother at the age of 13 was as good a place as any to wrap it up."


That’s just the kind of line that makes me love Ann Patchett. Especially because it implies that this book is about coming of age, family dysfunction and even anger. And sure, all of those elements come into play, but this book is not “about” any of that. In fact, I would go as far as to say this is a book about love, reconciliation and the bonds that connect us forever. Oh, and also a back story that adds an element of suspense to the story.

“There were things I remembered now, including that particular longing that life could stay as it had been. How strange that such a pointless wish could resurface after all these years.”


Patchett toys with memory, with longing, with the definitions of family and it’s all brilliant. I read this novel in 2 sittings over 24 hours because I could not let it go. And I very much wish I weren’t done with it.

I loved how the story unfolded so slowly and earnestly. I believed the hearts of these slightly damaged people who managed to avoid anger at the world even though life is utterly unfair. There was certainly the friction I appreciate in good literary fiction, but there was also abundant light and love which feels like a real treat these days.

"I have found that when you start to wonder about who you've hurt in this life, you can easily lose your mind."
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