There’s a quiet pressure many dads carry—the belief that we’re supposed to fix every problem, smooth every rough patch, and protect our families from anything that might go wrong. It’s noble. It’s instinctive. And sometimes… it’s impossible.
In this deeply personal book, Jean Dubois shares his own journey as a father who tried to fix it all, only to learn that some things simply can’t be repaired. And that’s okay. With humility, humor, and hard-earned wisdom, Jean opens up about the shift from doing everything to being fully present—and how that change made him a better dad, partner, and man.
For fathers, husbands, and anyone who’s ever felt the weight of being “the strong one,” this is an honest reflection on letting go, showing up, and discovering the quiet strength in not having all the answers.
If you’ve ever wondered whether you're doing enough—or felt like you're carrying too much—this book will speak to you. It’s not a how-to manual. It’s a conversation, a companion, and a gentle reminder that you’re not alone.
I really enjoyed Jean’s book and his words of wisdom for dads in all stages of life.
I have worked with Jean for many years so I knew some of his stories, but it was fascinating and inspiring to hear more of his life story and the lessons gleaned from those experiences. As Jean points out- we all have our unique journey in life, but so many shared joys and sorrows. By sharing his stories, Jean helps us know that we’re not alone and not crazy. We all have something to contribute.